posted July 30, 2011 03:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Oh YUM!! I love hazelnut actually. I have hazelnut icecream, hazelnut chocolate, hazelnut spread lol
Darn it, why can't I teleport over there?

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Oo I love hazelnut...
Cant get enough...

posted July 30, 2011 06:41 AM            

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BM & others -

For the record - He is not an ego-maniac, he simply comes across in a way that is actually unlike his personality, once you get to know him... (Leo Merc square Scorpio Moon).

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He is heavily Leonine, yes, and it shows. No wonder I can't stand him.

At anyrate, I have to agree with blugrey or not. Over 18 or not, there is an age and social gap here, and this story does not cast him in a good light if he's looking for that heroic lap. All I read the whole post is someone retelling a tale to his buddies of how he "SCORED", not someone who is looking for some actual advice. And what's even funnier is that she probably IS playing him....maybe they deserve eachother.

posted July 30, 2011 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
FSOTT! It is surprising isn't it! Who said that it was distasteful though? You see, this was an interesting experience that happened to me and I wanted to get a better or objective point of view. If you find this distasteful,which I am not sure why, then it really is only your problem. She is 21, an adult. We kissed and touched each other. That is what people do sometimes. I even left out more of the graphic stuff that happened as to respect the pg rating of the forum. You should be thankful because it is my nature to reveal all hidden aspects of everything, including myself. If I would have written with my true and raw energy then it really would have........I should probably not....

Shes playing me? Dude. Someone posted my chart in the "Astrological Man Something blah blah" thread. Go look at it and if you know anything about astrology, tell me that the person in that chart could get played by anyone. Yes, I'm asking, anyone?

You see, The older that I become, the more transparent things are to me. This happens to most people to some degree but for me, my conscious development on the understanding of this place and its people is on a whole other level that you couldn't possibly comprehend.

So...no man. She isn't playing me. How can you play something that is beyond the games that are acted out here? Hell, even if she was using me, do you think that I would mind? It involves giving me pleasure :-)

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Yep, my point exactly.

And I understand perfectly well what "adults do", but what I don't understand is why someone would post about their sexual escapades with someone who is supposed to be sheltered and "innocent". Reeks of bathroom humor to me. And while we're on the subject, lets examine why I think someone is bullsh%tting here....

She's an "innocent" and "frightened" virgin, but quick to invite you back to her house to kiss and touch you in ONLY a day?! OMG, YOU MIRACLE WORKER, YOU!

Sorry, you're either trying out for an editor's spot in Penthouse or she's playing you. Alot doesn't add up here. The fact that you're too obtuse and self-absorbed to see it makes you look even worse because you think you're on your way to "deflower" an innocent damsel, but she may really have you eating out of the palm of her hand. But please, by all means, enjoy her "giving you pleasure" you misogynistic jerk.

posted July 30, 2011 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
ummm Anyone over 18 can sleep with whomever they please. If you have problems with this, take it up with the legal system.

I am getting a bit tired of people turning sex into this mind blowing psychologically unbelievable experience that can have all these interesting side-effects, good & bad.. (when in reality, it is not like this at all a great majority of the time)
You have a *p* and a *v*. The *p* goes into the *v* repeatedly.. best case scenario both have an orgasm and everyone's happy.

Please stop complicating things that are *not* complicated.

Animals have sex. Period.

He is doing nothing strange with this girl. He is not a paedofile. And he is not taking advantage.
SEVEN years is by far NOT a large age gap. Have you seen her chart? She may as well be 90 emotionally, with everything in transpersonal planets.

For an adult male homosapien who happens to be hetero to have sex with an adult female homosapien who is *horny* and hitting on him.... is the most typical, common, normal f-ing thing... besides eating and using the bathroom. It's been done since the beginning of time.

It is not a f-ing rocket launch. It's sex.

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posted July 30, 2011 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
ummm Anyone over 18 can sleep with whomever they please. If you have problems with this, take it up with the legal system.

I am getting a bit tired of people turning sex into this mind blowing psychologically unbelievable experience that can have all these interesting side-effects, good & bad.. (when in reality, it is not like this at all a great majority of the time)
You have a *p* and a *v*. The *p* goes into the *v* repeatedly.. best case scenario both have an orgasm and everyone's happy.

Please stop complicating things that are *not* complicated.

Animals have sex. Period.

He is doing nothing strange with this girl. He is not a paedofile. And he is not taking advantage.
SEVEN years is by far NOT a large age gap. Have you seen her chart? She may as well be 90 emotionally, with everything in transpersonal planets.

For an adult male homosapien who happens to be hetero to have sex with an adult female homosapien who is *horny* and hitting on him.... is the most typical, common, normal f-ing thing... besides eating and using the bathroom. It's been done since the beginning of time.

It is not a f-ing rocket launch. It's sex.

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With respect, I don't see a lot of people saying to AstrologicalMan "Don't have sex."

I think they are telling him "Don't kid yourself about having sex with this particular person." To me, this is a fair response. AstrologicalMan is the one who started the topic with the question "I am very confused by her behavior and somehow this is intriguing to me, I am kind of starting to like it. I did not anticipate this. Can anyone try to explain what is going on." People have given him honest answers that something seems off about the situation, and to me it seems like he's reacted sort of badly to hearing things he didn't want to hear.

I agree with you that sex doesn't need to be overcomplicated. Sometimes sex is just sex. But AstrologicalMan is the one carping about how innocent and sensitive this Pisces girl is and how he wants to help her through her issues. (As he says on Page 3 "Maybe I WANT to work out her issues? Maybe working out peoples issues is very natural for me, even if it is just by being in their presence.") It can't go both ways. Either he's some kind of savior or he's just there to get his penis touched. If it's getting his penis touched, that's fine with me, just don't pretend otherwise.

I mean, it's no skin off my nose what AstroMan chooses to do here. I'm not sure he fully has his eyes open in this situation. That doesn't mean it's an inherently bad or evil thing if they have sex, but it also means that people aren't necessarily against the sex itself if something doesn't smell right about the situation to them.

posted July 30, 2011 07:37 PM            

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it's no skin off my nose what AstroMan chooses to do here.

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Yes, I'm with you on that.

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I'm not sure he fully has his eyes open in this situation.

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No. I think they're open enough.

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people aren't necessarily against the sex itself if something doesn't smell right about the situation to them.

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Well - "people" - but not all people.
Some replies came across differently as far as I'm concerned.

For example to say that he would be taking advantage of her or whatever else... is putting a negative spin on things - purely because he is male (it seems like girls with broken hearts projecting things).

blugrey - Having a Scorpio Moon gives one an added emotional dimension to the way they approach sex. I interpret this as emotional 'maturity'.. If that is not how you see it, each to their own.
You can read this anywhere about Sco Moon.

BM - It's not a 'fun' story or an 'easy', 'nice' story... But neither are many other stories in Astrology. There are sad stories or strange or complicated stories.
I don't think particular story is such a big problem.. She has some issues and he has some issues.. and whatever.
If they sort it out - great for them. If they don't, they'll go on their separate ways.

posted July 30, 2011 08:34 PM            

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...or he's running off of a huge ego trip (the tone I honestly get from alot of his threads, actually).

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Yes! I read his posts and feel his ego everywhere! I honestly feel like insulting him, but that's not really a good thing to do...besides, he's too "big and powerful" (or something) for that. And yes, I can understand how you feel. All that Leo makes me hiss.

posted July 30, 2011 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Yes! I read his posts and feel his ego everywhere! I honestly feel like insulting him, but that's not really a good thing to do...besides, he's too "big and powerful" (or something) for that.

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Yep, it leaks into everything he does. Delusions of grandeur, story of life.

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blugrey - Having a Scorpio Moon gives one an added emotional dimension to the way they approach sex. I interpret this as emotional 'maturity'.. If that is not how you see it, each to their own.
You can read this anywhere about Sco Moon.

BM - It's not a 'fun' story or an 'easy', 'nice' story... But neither are many other stories in Astrology. There are sad stories or strange or complicated stories.
I don't think particular story is such a big problem.. She has some issues and he has some issues.. and whatever.
If they sort it out - great for them. If they don't, they'll go on their separate ways.

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Really, because the only thing I saw ever *approaching* the situation was his overinflated fire ego. Other than that, he needs to work on that conflict between his God Complex and his so-called "Scorpio" complexity or recheck his birthdata because the more he opens his mouth and you defend his bad behavior by blaming it on the moon, the more you BOTH give all the good scorpio moons I know a bad name.

posted July 30, 2011 09:04 PM            

I was saying that I like his Scorpio Moon.. and that actually he is not an ego maniac.
But he has MOON (which is Scorpio) square MERCURY (which is Leo).. and the way he expresses himself can be arrogant/pompous (Leo-like).. which also bothered me ages ago, when he first joined. I made an anti-sanchenuss thread.

But once you get to know him better he is a lot more like Scorpio actually and he is not at all egotistical.
So I think it's just a misunderstanding - because he does not come across - the way he actually is.

posted July 30, 2011 09:11 PM            

EDIT! - Hey AstrologicalMan, I remember you telling me in another thread about how weak and what not your sexual life is thanks to Mars in Libra. How you couldn't get a girl and when you pull out your "little white string", everyone is turned off.

posted July 30, 2011 11:24 PM            

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Well - "people" - but not all people.

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And... that would be why I didn't SAY "all people." I simply think it's wrong to paint with a broad brush and say that if someone has a problem with THIS situation, they have a problem with sex in general.

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For example to say that he would be taking advantage of her or whatever else... is putting a negative spin on things - purely because he is male (it seems like girls with broken hearts projecting things).

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Or it could be because AstrologicalMan is harping on and on about how innocent and sheltered she is, and how he's going to teach her things and help her work through her issues...

posted July 31, 2011 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
thank you guys!

thank you!!!!!!

you're too kind, we'll be here all night!

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