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Topic: Strange Relationship with A Pisces
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AstrologicalMan
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From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 10:47 PM
  
So I have been going to this girls house who is a Pisces. She is 21 and I am 28. This girl is very isolated. Very Strict parents. She is 21 but they won't let her have friends over without supervision. She doesn't like going many places and her parents don't let her go out with guys or that I am aware of. Okay, I initially met her through face book and she seemed EXTREMELY innocent. Like she hasn't really experienced what life is about
. She is VERY emotional. To the point of awkward. Like she is scared of lots of stuff and over reacts to almost anything. For example, there was a duck like 30 feet away from us and it just began approaching our direction and she took off running from it. Also, she got a sunburn and today she laid on the bed and began crying like she was going to die because of it. Like literally die because of the sun burn. I was very confused. Most people would be put off by her behavior. A lot of people are frightened by her eccentric nature. I approached her differently though and reserved judgement. Although she appeared innocent and Is in a lot of ways, she has a very sexual nature underneath. She began talking to me about how she is really attracted to buff guys and would go on and on about them. I didn't mind and was like okay. Eventually she began touching me and observing me. She would start feeling my body and then she began smelling me telling me that I smelt amazing. Then she would find like a random hair on my shirt and be turned off by it. A minute later she would rub my arm and tell me that I had smooth skin. This was very strange to me and I felt kind of awkward but I let her do her "tests" on me. She eventually told me to feel her legs and her bum. Then she told me that she wanted to kiss me but she was really nervous. I let her wait until she was comfortable and she did. Afterwards she told me. I like kissing my friends. She made sure that we were still friends and I was like, "yeah definitely". She went on to explain to me that she was a virgin and she is scared that it is going to hurt. She says that she wants to wait until 30 or 40. I was like, okay. She invited me back the next day and she got more comfortable with me. She made it evident that she was going to wear a skirt the day before and she did. She began Kissing me more, touching me and observing all parts of my body and critiquing it in an almost childlike way. Most parts she liked about me, some she didn't. I remained cool no matter what she would say. Today I went over and she had even more provocative clothing on. She was very sexual with me from the start. Grinding on me and feeling my pants, asking me if I am hard. Her behavior you must remember is very innocent and childlike, I am really confused by it. She is innocent but yet she seems so sexual. Today we started kissing and she really got into it and for the first time in a long time, I got into it as well. Her strange behavior was becoming very appealing to me. She was so into me but then after I left, she texted me like I was her best gay friend or something. I am very confused by her behavior and somehow this is intriguing to me, I am kind of starting to like it. I did not anticipate this. Can anyone try to explain what is going on. Her birth info is March 16,1990 Spartanburg, South Carolina. Time of Birth unknown. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 27, 2011 11:00 PM
Im really not sure how to explain how I see this... My first thought is to say if your really really not serious about her, then dont go there, if she has been that sheltered, she will fall and fall hard.... Be honest to her and your self.. Now about her, you said she was sheltered, Im thinking she wants to go out and experiment. She is "mentally" trying to break her parents ties to her.. Think of her "mind" wise as a young girl.. (because she has been sheltered from life) Why would a young girl do these things??? I think she wants to touch and feel, what she's never experienced (as we all do) What she wants and what she actually does could be two different things.. My suggestion is the thread slowly on this one.. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
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From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:04 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Im really not sure how to explain how I see this... My first thought is to say if your really really not serious about her, then dont go there, if she has been that sheltered, she will fall and fall hard.... Be honest to her and your self.. Now about her, you said she was sheltered, Im thinking she wants to go out and experiment. She is "mentally" trying to break her parents ties to her.. Think of her "mind" wise as a young girl.. (because she has been sheltered from life) Why would a young girl do these things??? I think she wants to touch and feel, what she's never experienced (as we all do) What she wants and what she actually does could be two different things.. My suggestion is the thread slowly on this one..
Yes. I felt exactly what you are saying. I didn't want her to fall too hard into me. I felt though that I needed to be responsible and not betray her like so many other people have. I developed a soft spot for her. What I didn't anticipate was that I actually got into her myself when we were going at each other. It became very passionate, which came out of nowhere to me. You think that she would be the type of girl to fall hard right but she seems to me like she is pretty distant as well. She makes sure that Im not into her and that we are just friends constantly but yet she is soo sexual. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 27, 2011 11:04 PM
Ok Ima take a stab in the dark and say this girl has something in Capricorn/Cancer (for over-protective parents) and Mars in Virgo.Pisces is quite brave.. and laid back. Now I'm gonna look at her chart and see whether I was wrong! IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
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From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:10 PM
I'm not sure why. But I get sort of a Lady Gaga vibe from her. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 27, 2011 11:10 PM
Well assuming Betty is correct the Cancer will retreat in a protective shell, and not say how she REALLY feels. (I never do.. lol) Im a freaking Leo, but with the venus in cancer.. so not gonna happen... I have the Pisces Asc.. I wanna do do do.. then Im gone bye see ya! Ok Im back.. Lets do do do do... We cool right???????? Ok bye... Hi again were good?? ok lets do do do do... Ok Ill call you later! LOL You get it? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 27, 2011 11:12 PM
Ok here goes nothing..Sun 25' 39' Pisces
Moon 21' 37' Scorpio
Mercury 23' 10' Pisces Venus 10' 01' Aquarius
Mars 03' 36' Aquarius Jupiter 01' 29' Cancer
Saturn 23' 19' Capricorn
Uranus 09' 15' Capricorn
Neptune 14' 20' Capricorn
Pluto 17' 26' Scorpio Ok so.. It does not surprise me that she has the generational stellium in Capricorn.. and one of these planets - Uranus in Cap is opposite Jupiter in Cancer.. If we get a time of birth and we find out that her AC/DC -- or her IC/MC is on the Cap-Cancer axis... it would make perfect sense for overprotective parents.
Nothing at ALL to do with her being a Pisces Sun sign (which is usually a VERY independent sun sign) It also does not surprise me that she is watery with Pisces/Scorpio happening.. since you also have a Scorpio Moon and it would be easy for you guys to get close. She's an emotional person and she probably likes your take on things. What does seriously SHOCK me.. is the fact that she has Venus conjunct Mars in Aquarius - and she has not had sex.
This is mind boggling astrologically. If you read up on "Venus conj Mars" aspects, you'll catch my drift.
It's very strange. I mean people with this conjunction are happy in their own skin and they enjoy relationships. They feel right at home with sex & love.
I guess - because it is an air sign.. maybe she studies sex more than she wants to actually do it.. I'm not sure..
But even so -- the vibe of Venus conj Mars in itself (regardless of the sign) should give one sex appeal and a desire to go there *quickly* - not later in life. She is young.. she might change her mind.. If she does - it will shock everyone.. Because she might go from "virgin" to the opposite extreme, unexpectedly. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
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posted July 27, 2011 11:12 PM
lolll I do get that Lioness!IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:13 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Well assuming Betty is correct the Cancer will retreat in a protective shell, and not say how she REALLY feels. (I never do.. lol) Im a freaking Leo, but with the venus in cancer.. so not gonna happen... I have the Pisces Asc.. I wanna do do do.. then Im gone bye see ya! Ok Im back.. Lets do do do do... We cool right???????? Ok bye... Hi again were good?? ok lets do do do do... Ok Ill call you later! LOL You get it?
yeah. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 27, 2011 11:14 PM
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Lady Gaga vibe from her.
She has a Scorpio Moon like Lady Gaga - and like yourself.
Plus she has Pisces Mercury like me, Lady Gaga.. and your mother. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:14 PM
Like I just tried to chat with her and shes like, "Well, I got to go to bed bro, later". Like she is blowing me off or something but earlier today she was REALLY into me. haha. It is confusing.IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
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From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
She has a Scorpio Moon like Lady Gaga - and like yourself.
Plus she has Pisces Mercury like me, Lady Gaga.. and your mother.
whoa.....really? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 27, 2011 11:18 PM
lol Yes it seems you like this Mercury for some reason heheI noticed something else. She lacks fire in her chart so she would be attracted to your own fire. The fact that she has not had sex could be related to the lack of fire. This is different from Lady Gaga who has Sun and Venus in Aries and some more stuff in Sag. OH actually it makes sense.. The fears can also be because of the lack of fire. Fire represents courage. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted July 27, 2011 11:18 PM
I doubt she is blowing you off. Maybe she was tired!IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 27, 2011 11:24 PM
The more I read this the more thoughts come into my head... Humm Some things dont fit..You met her on FB?
Her parents are strict
but you went to her house??????
Her parents wont let her be w/o supervision but she was with you unsupervised? she's sexually aggressive, but a virgin????
Not saying this is the case, BUT just wanted to throw a thought out there.. Is there a girl out there that would want revenge on you???? Or want to play a joke???
These things just dont fit.. Something is not right. I will tell you, we ladies can come up with some of the craziest things.. (me excluded..lol) IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:37 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
The more I read this the more thoughts come into my head... Humm Some things dont fit..You met her on FB?
Her parents are strict
but you went to her house??????
Her parents wont let her be w/o supervision but she was with you unsupervised? she's sexually aggressive, but a virgin????
Not saying this is the case, BUT just wanted to throw a thought out there.. Is there a girl out there that would want revenge on you???? Or want to play a joke???
These things just dont fit.. Something is not right. I will tell you, we ladies can come up with some of the craziest things.. (me excluded..lol)
Yes. I started chatting with her on Facebook. I forget who added who. After we chatted for awhile, I asked if I could come over to see her. She said "No, you can't come see me". She wouldn't explain why. So I was like okay...... Then we chatted a few days later maybe and I asked her again if I could come see her and this time she was like, "NO, I TOLD YOU THAT YOU CAN'T SEE ME, YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE ME CRY". This is the exact line she would use, every time I would ask if we could hang out. She said that she couldn't go anywhere with me or that I couldn't come over. It was so strange that I even thought that maybe this was a guy on face book pretending to be a girl. But later we spoke on the phone and it was in fact a agirl...... IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
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From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:39 PM
Eventually it reached a point where I stopped asking her. I felt like she would never let me come over, so I just stopped trying. Then, one day, out of absolutely nowhere, she sends me a message saying, " HEY CAN YOU COME OVER RIGHT NOW, I AM BORED". I was actually gone to Greenville on the day she wrote this. IP: Logged |
AstrologicalMan
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From: Brickenton
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 27, 2011 11:45 PM
I was completely taken back by this comment. It came from nowhere. We hadn't spoken in a long time and she explained that she really wanted me to come over. I got back home and this is what I read. It was night time and she had sent it during the day, so it was obviously past time. I asked if I could come tomorrow instead.I felt that she would probably say no because I got the vibe that this was like a one time deal. Like come over now or nothing. To my surprise, she was like, "Yes, please come tommorrow". IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted July 27, 2011 11:46 PM
So then how did you see her unsupervised? Im telling you it doesnt make sense to me... Sounds like a set up.. Go through your FB messages did she send you a message first? check her FB friends out, or are you the only friend? Or only 1 or 2 friends.. I personally would be suspicious. I cant say its the case... But For me it just doesnt fit.. But again I dont know the whole story either..
I say trust your first impression. Trust your instincts. Betty does she have anything in her chart showing growing up sheltered? Do they have hard Neptune aspects? Synastry/Composite.
HEY!!!! you should ask a hoary question about her!
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LanaofAugust
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posted July 28, 2011 02:25 AM
I feel something is not right here... She is playing with you, maybe not even aware of it... or... maybe she is...Anyway, I feel Neptune and Uranus here. Edited: Neptune as in confusion, Uranus as in something unexpected will happen (you are not in control although you think you are...). IP: Logged |
Archaea
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posted July 28, 2011 04:41 AM
Hey astro man, are you by any chance a Taurus? :0 just a random guess. Maybe she has some mental problem? IP: Logged |
Taineberry
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posted July 28, 2011 05:12 AM
Be careful AstroMan. Sounds like you are dealing with someone who is emotionally immature. but sexually ripe. This can turn on you in a very nasty way if you take the bait.IP: Logged |
Venia
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posted July 28, 2011 05:51 AM
I also sense that there is something wrong there...
It seems that this girl may well have some mental issues.
So just be careful... IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted July 28, 2011 05:58 AM
It's ok. He also has mental issues  IP: Logged |
Venia
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posted July 28, 2011 06:04 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop: It's ok. He also has mental issues
Lol... That was funny!
I know you two are friends and you like teasing him!
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