posted August 12, 2011 05:20 AM            

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Originally posted by DepTaurus:
wow i am loving that mars and venus conjunction in your synastry.

sexually that brings heat passion unbridled lust and just the feeling of intense sexual energy.
from your posts i can tell you really find this person attractive and want to be with them sexually so badly.

i just wish i knew where her venus fell in your chart. but without the correct birthtime i dont know.

sometimes i find that if someone is really aggressive in some way its offputting. maybe she feels like your coming on too strong especially with that pisces mars.she might prefer a really emotonal shy tender person.

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well, they wanted to start off by 'being friends'... til i blocked them because they weren't responding in a timely manner..

i blame it on their aquarian south node.

i feel like they won't engage!!!!!!!

posted August 12, 2011 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by DepTaurus:
ahh ok 12th sometimes venus in the 12th could mean that you secretly want this relationship to happen. you want to be the protector and keep thisperson close. thats why your having such a great feeling of that pull and pull back. i want them so much but if they doesnt put any effort then i dont need this.

alot of times when a persons venus is the 12th house their could be thought of having love affairs secret love affairs. so maybe they could be thinking of you secretly but fear that they dont want to get hurt or lose their selfs in the intensity of the relationship.

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i thought about that n then thought about it if it was in the relationship setting and i'd be pis$ed if any twelfth house sh!t went down without me knowing.. even if i did know, i don't do that, n i won't stand for it! that's the only thing i'm not game for.. period! i demand monogamy!

don't know if u saw, but i posted the synastry after i posted that thing..

i guess we'll see in the morning what they do or say because yeah, ur right.. if they don't act on it, i really will move on and 'i don't need it', will b my train of thought..

i know im a great catch

they better get a move on
or i will
and someone else will scoop me up
n then they'll be sorry

posted August 12, 2011 05:26 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
well, they wanted to start off by 'being friends'... til i blocked them because they weren't responding in a timely manner..

i blame it on their aquarian south node.

i feel like they won't engage!!!!!!!

anyway, that friends thing feels like such b.s. because they were naked on day 1, come on!

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yes that south node could be why this person is not engaging much the sign itself aquarius is known for acting aloof and detached especially motionally it could be fear of getting hurt as well.

posted August 12, 2011 05:32 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
i thought about that n then thought about it if it was in the relationship setting and i'd be pis$ed if any twelfth house sh!t went down without me knowing.. even if i did know, i don't do that, n i won't stand for it! that's the only thing i'm not game for.. period! i demand monogamy!

don't know if u saw, but i posted the synastry after i posted that thing..

i guess we'll see in the morning what they do or say because yeah, ur right.. if they don't act on it, i really will move on and 'i don't need it', will b my train of thought..

i know im a great catch

they better get a move on
or i will
and someone else will scoop me up
n then they'll be sorry

i don't like it when that happens always though so i think i'm holding out til i finally decide no more because i have that pisces north node.. makes me so sensitive that i would be in my happy relationship and feel sorry for the other person for not being able to have me LOLLLLLLLLL

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posted August 12, 2011 05:37 AM            

Pleasing Venus in Aries involves fueling their need for action. Be direct, open, and honest with them—they won't much like game-playing or evasiveness, unless it is in the complete spirit of fun. Feed their need for spontaneity, and appreciate their playfulness. Understand their desire for the relationship to remain young and fresh. Aries likes to take the lead in love (even if their Sun Sign is gentle Pisces) —let them, at least most of the time. Indulge them their many whims, and understand that they thrive on competition, even when they're competing with you!

posted August 12, 2011 05:39 AM            

i thought about that..

i thought they'd enjoy being chased..

i enjoy quite the good chanse from time to time it's just that they have mercury opposing pluto so already, they've said some pretty mean things before, never told me to just stop or anything so i know they like it.. they just do that venus sh!t.. where they flirt.. "call me, call me", blah blah but they don't call me.. but once i go away, they go about finding a way to make themselves noticeable to me n i tire of that game.. ok, they wanna fcku, i do too..

but i want something written on paper, something solid or no deal, i won't sell myself short n i def won't share and leave things up in the air.. i don't fling and i definitely am not up for being flung!

i've chased someone before for 3 years!

they enjoyed the being chased, too..

honestly, i dont know anyone that wouldn't/ usually, i'm the one being chased after.

posted August 12, 2011 05:48 AM            

im gunna give you venus in the 3rd house because thats where the persons natal venus is it might give you some clues.

posted August 12, 2011 05:57 AM            

but i've been working with a lot of music..

i had this blog, where all of everything that i posted, i did it through videos or songs n i've got a hell of a long message going with everything that i've posted or said.. for some reason poetry finds itself thrown into there but in a very odd way that people don't understand.. but it's ok cuz i've been dubbed eccentric more than a few times already, don't too much care..

but yeah, with that mercury in pisces that they have, one of the reasons i'm so into them is because they tell me everything that i like to hear.. really pleases my venus in third... they talk dirty to me and make no apologies about it.. it conjunct jupiter so they've got brains (which is another BIG plus) i've seen the opposition to pluto though, reared it's ugly head a few times.. i've had to deal with that growing up which is why i think i have the mars opposition; needed it to defend myself.

i don't wanna go off on a rant but i think you're right.. eventually, i will have to make the decision because they won't..

don't know if in the meantime i'm just enjoying it or wasting time,.

don't know if you noticed my pluto but once i move on, i move on and it's for good.. there is no turning back.

that's what pains me; i know myself..

and because i know myself, i know them.

and through exploring them, i go deeper into me.. i don't know how they see it.. but i've been pretty open about how i feel..

posted August 12, 2011 06:06 AM            

i am betting you that if you do make your decsion right now to not see this person anymore they are gunna be all over the place popping up wherever you go. that uranus is unpredictable it signifies a chaotic love that sems too linger. never fully taking full flight but getting off the ground just a little bit.

next summer june july youll start feling it both of you will. also uranus on mars or venus tells of a relationship that will start and you could both lose yourselfs in eachother.

posted August 12, 2011 06:13 AM            

While you have a strong need for emotional security, you are also a person who is drawn to pushing your own limits, and many lifestyle changes can be the result of this need to challenge, or reinvent, yourself emotionally. You are always fascinated with how people work, taboos, secrets, and all that is forbidden or hidden. Sexual unrest, or an apparent need to constantly change sexual partners or to challenge yourself sexually, may be a symptom of emotional insecurity. Connecting with another person intimately is an emotional need, but your changeable emotions might often get in the way of your goal. Jealousy and possessiveness might also be qualities you struggle with. At your best, however, you are a person who is intimate, deep, and intensely loyal to a partner.

*Though you want closeness very much, you often close yourself off and do not really trust others who may wish to get to know you. You are very wholehearted in your feelings and responses to people, and you want all or nothing from the people you care for.

Uranus is quite at home in the eighth house of resurrections. You are naturally open and support change. "Change is good," is your constant motto. Re-inventing yourself from time to time sounds like a good idea to you. You couldn't possibly have it otherwise. Life would be boring without change. Your style and pace of bringing about change though may leave others dazed and breathless. The style of change that you prefer can be destructive to those around you. Your good intentions are never at doubt though. It's just that you are addicted to your ideas and you sometimes overlook human emotions. Your natural impatience with status quo drives you to move fast leaving the staid behind.

posted August 12, 2011 06:22 AM            

what i found at the beginning of the transit, was that the potential mates i was meeting, had significant uranus things happening in their chart, or they had it in synastry with mine.. for some reason transits work that way where the person experiences them through the influence of someone else but nothing with uranus is stable..

if i do see that person, i think i'd have an idea as to why because the person does have history working in a prominent position, so maybe that's why but other than that, i'm not fond of much uranus especially with my ascendant because uranus doesn't play by the rules.. i know how to break out of ruts myself because i have it stationary direct in my natal chart and that pluto REALLY makes me be able to perform some kind of exorcism on myself (not to mention other people; figured out it may have taken place once during sex, but i'd have to bring up another thread to talk about it)

sexual? them? yes, mars opposing pluto, venus in aries, and moon conjunct pluto.

that's one of the things that kind of puts me off is because i'm under the impression that they may be a little more than promiscuous.. really sucks...

the plus is that their sun trines my moon and venus and their moon, more or less conjuncts my sun (astrologers give like 10 degree orbs for sun and moon) so we blend quite well, except that when i want to be a wh0re, i'm quite exclusive about it rather than just prancing it around town..

good thing is that they're open about it..

just don't know how open they are with eeveryone else about it and how cautious they're being...

posted August 12, 2011 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
and i have mars squaring neptune.. natally.. i lived for a while with someone who had some kind of porn addiction, let me tell u, that becomes draining to EVERYONE involved, or related to them!!!! i'm well aware already of what it's a little about, i'd just much prefer to have an enjoyable relationship, i'd enjoy the kinky sex, just not the sexual compulsiveness..

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posted August 12, 2011 06:33 AM            

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Originally posted by DepTaurus:
ah ok got yeah sorry for the misinformation their.

whats weriod is i had a crush on someone a long time ago they had a similar chart as yours except their moon was in aries and was conjunct their mars on my venus.

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i think that sounds like something more than a crush.. that's personal.. moon conjunct venus? i have that natally so i know what that's about and i had that in synastry with someone once along with their mars.. that 3 year chase, i talked about.. their mars and venus were on my moon and venus.. the sex, eh.. i'm pretty sure they kind of sucked at it

we never bed, the tension was there though.

me being the venus though, i did become quite the maiden in that relationship.

posted August 12, 2011 06:35 AM            

Emotional satisfaction for you runs deep and is very complex. You yearn for intensity, but at the same time you may fear your own emotional nature, leading you to take great pains to keep it under wraps. Compulsiveness is a byproduct, and you find yourself easily swayed by your emotional yearnings and desires. The desire to merge with another human being is strong, yet can also be a fear at the same time.

You are a born psychologist, understanding the inner workings of those with whom you come into contact. It's as if you have emotional feelers, and this trait can be used for and against yourself. When used constructively, you are able to heal others by helping them come to terms with what motivates them, what they fear, and what they may be doing that is self-destructive. This process, of course, can occur only after you have begun work on the very same issues within yourself. On a more negative note, if you are overcome with insecurity, you may size others up with a negative slant. You may imagine more sinister motivations than may actually be the case. This possibility stems from your own fears of loss and betrayal. If you expect to be wronged, you could easily "see" traits in others that may not even exist.

It is very possible that you were especially sensitive to your maternal figure's emotions, and picked up on her feelings of being overpowered, overwhelmed, resentful, or mistrustful. A strong love-hate attachment to her, or crises surrounding your experience of her, may be something that you live with and it could be undermining you in some manner. Some people with this aspect feel the need for early independence from their mother or families in order to feel released from the intense and conflicting emotions they attach to them. However, removing themselves entirely from the problem may not be a healthy, long-term answer on a psychological level. At some point, confronting early childhood conditioning is a necessary process. You may find that you can use music as a means by which you can express and release the emotional drama inside of you.

Fear of loss and rejection can lead you to hold on very tightly to the people you love. It will be important for you to learn to loosen the reins you have on those you hold dear so that they don't feel smothered or trapped. If it goes too far, it can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you find yourself trying to control your emotions and the emotions of those around you, you might ask yourself what it is that you fear within yourself. Obsessive-compulsive behavior can be a serious by-product of your own fears of abandonment.