posted August 20, 2011 01:02 AM            

Thank you, though .

posted August 23, 2011 11:59 PM            

and one time he didn't say bye to me, and i started pouting "aw hey you didnt say bye to me" ...this was a few days after meeting him btw, and he came up to me with this expression like he was going to do something really daring and embarassing and gave me this really nice hug. aw .

He texted me his schedule this morning. It's like even though we have nothing to talk about....he has to say anything because we HAVE to talk. I'm currently mad at him because he'll take 15 to 20 minutes to respond to each text and will usually leave me hanging and not reply after we've been talking for a while. He could at least say "okay, ttyl." Even though he was the one who initiated the texting the last time we talked, I'm not contacting him again until he texts me again and then I'll make it obvious through short, rude text repsonses that I'm mad at him, lol, until he asks "is something wrong?" I don't want to be naggy and ask him why he leaves me hanging and takes so long to reply inbetween texts, so I figure that way will be better.

posted September 03, 2011 02:26 PM            

Fast forward 4 days later to yesterday. Party at our university. He was there, and all our friends. I knew he would be, and when it came time that i'd have to say hi to him i said hi to his friends but just said a brusque "hey." to him. When i first walked up to where he and his friends were he was looking at me with this really shy smile, eyes really lit up. And when i said hi to him like that he looked so hurt..i felt sooo bad. I didnt know if i could keep it up. But i felt i had to drive home the message somehow. So as the night went on i just kept ignoring him, and i noticed as he would ditch his friends and sit somewhere by himself looking depressed, and he would try to start conversation with me but he looked oh so hurt i just couldnt take it. It was hard, but i managed to keep it going. he was even desperately trying to get my attention by being loud and obnoxious at a certain point. It was horrible having to see that. :/ At the end i hugged him goodbye as if nothing had happened and when i made a joke he laughed in the shy way he usually does with me and i noticed he started following me like he usually does. But then i abandoned him again. I felt soooo bad. But at least it seemed like we ended the night on a good note, you know, with a hug.

posted September 04, 2011 06:39 PM            

lollllllllllllllll it really is sometimes funny to see if but oh, such a turn off, isnt it? kind of.. i enjoy it sometimes when i know that they're trying to get my attention but MAN, u really drove that pluto home, didn't u? poor guy....

i'm kinda doing the same thing though, to someone lollllllllllll.. not a romantic inclination, but someone i consider a friend.. it's just that three times already, they've been more focused on tv than on me..

we tried watching a movie, and when i'd talk, they just nod to get me to hush asap to get back to the movie..

first time we hung out, same thing..

til i eventually just got up and said that i was going to be going..

the last time, i texted after we hung out (next day) and they told me to stop and that they'll talk to me the next day because they were at their friends' watching a movie and i was 'interrupting'......

they've called and texted a few times (they're out of town) and i've not replied..

the last time, i really just didn't even call or text to tell em bye before their trip.

i don't even really see myself bothering to reach out to them in return after that.

i have venus in Cancer..

Venus in Cancer does NOT appreciate slights and neither does Moon in Leo or North Node in Pisces!

in synastry, my pluto opposes their moon.

posted September 05, 2011 12:09 AM            

Maybe you should tell him it hurts you when he does that while u two are watching a movie. Sometimes i do that to someone if they're talking too much while we're watching a movie. But he sounds rude, though. I would say it in a nice way. Saying you're "interrupting" the movie is rude. Saying "Hey is it okay if i get back to u later? Watching a movie" is polite.

Some people are rude, some have rude moments. If there's anything i learned from this it's that you should speak up when you feel hurt about something someone did . So hopefully you'll decide of he wa ls just having a rude moment or if he's just a nasty rude person period. And if he might really actually appreciate you.

Let me know what happens

posted September 05, 2011 03:52 AM            

it's very immature. but who cares i'm a leo moon anyway and never sed i was hehehe!

posted September 05, 2011 12:22 PM            

Oh, sand. Always your crazy random self haha

posted September 06, 2011 12:33 PM            

we don't do it out of spite, but it's just more of a 'uh... you're not even worth the time i have to bask on things that actually MATTER, so uh, away with you!' lolllllllll!

as far as movie person, haven't talked to them..

i think they get back into town today because they were out on a trip for labor day, but yes, i thought that 'interrupting' bit was rude, too.

wasn't sure if it was just me but i haven't gotten to them because of it.. yes, i agree, there is a little thing known as tact and they totally failed in that dept.

they're a Sun in Cancer, btw...

posted September 06, 2011 11:48 PM            

I agree it is immature but I really was ready to cut off all contact with him, because I would never take that long to reply to someone who i actually was interested in being friends with, and i would never ever leave them hanging for fear that they get mad. But he says it's a bad habit and he does it to everyone and everyone complains. He leaves his phone lying around away from him and comes back to it much later, puts it in his pocket and doesnt feel it vibrate, etc. I guess maybe i believe him because he *does* initiate texts, and he was even the first one to text me when we met. Plus he looked like he was going to cry when he saw i was ignoring him, so. Lol. It just doesnt make any sense though. When i'm excited to talk to someone i always check my phone constantly to see if they replied.

Lol I like what you said, sand, about him possibly posting on another forum. Haha.

posted September 07, 2011 12:55 AM            

wow... so they text me and ask if i'm ignoring and i told em pretty much that im just avoiding the eggshells they have me walking on every time i say something or text while there's something similar to a tv around or playing in the background..

told me to call em, i said no that i was in traffic.. (i was but i could've called)

told me to call em after i got out of traffic and then they said that they're sorry for hurting my feelings and blah blah blah... i told em that they're damn right that it hurts and it's the third time they've done it and i don't like it when i'm not getting attention and i'm vying for it with the tv or that stupid show The Voice (which sucks, btw!) i won't do it! i told them that i wont and then i let em know that i was gonna go to the store and then the gym and in the gym, they have TONS of television and i was gonna watch the whoooooooooole lot of em!!!!!!!!!!!!

then i later called...

we talked...

i hated it that i got teary eyed
and then we agreed to see each other once i left the gym *this was 7 almost 8*..

get out of the gym and look at the clock it says 10.. reasonable work out, plus shower and a quick shave.

look at my texts,

posted September 07, 2011 02:59 AM            

durr.. i edited! to lazy to edit out teh part where i sed i 4got tho.

I agree it is immature but I really was ready to cut off all contact with him, because I would never take that long to reply to someone who i actually was interested in being friends with, and i would never ever leave them hanging for fear that they get mad. But he says it's a bad habit and he does it to everyone and everyone complains. He leaves his phone lying around away from him and comes back to it much later, puts it in his pocket and doesnt feel it vibrate, etc. I guess maybe i believe him because he *does* initiate texts, and he was even the first one to text me when we met. Plus he looked like he was going to cry when he saw i was ignoring him, so. Lol. It just doesnt make any sense though. When i'm excited to talk to someone i always check my phone constantly to see if they replied.

ooh i'm a flighty taurus. i go missing every few months or so. i wouldn't cry over a friend tho so i betcha grinding his planets LOL! thefriendzoneforum.com

And leo moons are immature. He has sag moon.

i do like sag moons also taurus moons coz they're not batschitt crazy IME.

happy birthday btw tux!

posted September 07, 2011 03:51 AM            

but well, that person i do care about, i think.. i feel really good around them/with them.. their venus just falls in my twelfth and i don't know what the hell it's all about!!!!!!!!! we've been communicating in the strangest ways!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to the point where if anyone else were to read what we were doing, they would think we're looking wayyy too much into things!

ARGH!!!!!!!! i don't wanna think about it or go into detail. im feeling peaceful after going through this emotional ride earlier today.

but the Cancer Sun person, i don't quite care much for them.. they're just 'nice'.. they're the neptune in this case and i'm the venus and moon and the neptune is super nice, i guess, just somewhat jerky and i just kind of don't care much for them so i could only see us probably being very good friends but nothing past it even though it gave the impression that it'd seem nice..

the tv thing, the texting thing, the metting up plan to the just going to sleep at 10 pm..... really puts a damper on things, ykno?

besides, i'm getting SIGNS just about every friggin way possible about that other person such as seeing their name or seeing one letter different, in front of stores, or randomly through a complete ironic conversation, etc..

posted September 07, 2011 04:48 AM            

yep wuz talkin to both of you's...

has anyone seen that 90's movie ONLY YOU with robert downey jr?

DAMON BRADLEYYYY!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOL!

wait so you'd totally create a soulmate for someone you've liked since you were a kid and get her to italy and pretend helping her look for her guy but in actuality you want her to fall in love with u? hmm.. i guess i've seen people use that technique in more simplified terms. u wouldn't happen to have venus in scorpio would you?

ARGH!!!!!!!! i don't wanna think about it or go into detail. im feeling peaceful after going through this emotional ride earlier today.

daz cool me just find it hard to understand strong emotions with friendships i guess. but i'm abit retarded in that area anyway.

posted September 07, 2011 06:17 AM            

lol exactly!!