posted September 07, 2011 06:44 AM            

I think when something as stupid as a movie, texting on ur phone, the internet, facebook, etc becomes more important than your friend, that's a strong sign that you're being very bored by this person and need another friend who doesnt frustrate you. From the sounds of it, the frustration is mutual. What's ur birth data? Just curious to see what's up.

posted September 08, 2011 01:45 PM            

o, man! im so glad someone knows!

i had a similar experience whilst texting the lover of the person i used to be interested in loooong ago when they texted me in an attempt to figure out who i was?

they joked around and asked me what about [insert letter of person's firs name here] and i didn't get it... later i realized i had a magazine cut out on my wall since i've moved here with that same letter on it and lo and behold, soon as i take it down, i met the person and now......... i don't understand why my damon bradley is being weird...

i swear, nothing else seems to be working.

i've tried other dates, not so hawt.. and every sign tells me this person is my soulmate.. we've got their moon conjunct my sun and my venus and moon are trine their sun and they've got a BOATLOAD of stuff in my eleventh house conjunct my northnode..

ah, but i digress.. back to reading.. brb.

posted September 08, 2011 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

I think when something as stupid as a movie, texting on ur phone, the internet, facebook, etc becomes more important than your friend, that's a strong sign that you're being very bored by this person and need another friend who doesnt frustrate you. From the sounds of it, the frustration is mutual. What's ur birth data? Just curious to see what's up.

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yeah, ur right,..

composite mars square saturn.
they wanna sleep,
i don't.
i wanna go out,
they're tired.
i wanna go out and make art that'll make me famous
they go off on a rant and say it's not easy.
i wanna remain distant and chillout
and they wanna force me to hear their terrible poetry...

i'm in a bit of a fog today,

sorry if im not making any sense but i've been well drunk the fcuk out!

solar return mercury opposite neptune
and solar return moon square saturn...

i'll prob start a thread to see what that's about

but right now,

i think i'm prob too hung over
without the hungover mess
just the disoriented feeling.

i'm always a good cook when im drunk..

made chicken and potatoes for breakfast this morning.

posted September 12, 2011 02:55 AM            

well, i'm not sure of what's happened with runaroundscreamind's libra, but, this Cancer... boy, can they play just about ALL the wrong cards!!!!!!!

i petitioned them today and asked them to send me slutty pix.. they did.. it was not a good angle but whatever, i didn't care.. they told me they were with a friend and i asked if that pic was taken in front of the friend, they said yes... it was...

the pic was a nude.
i didn't like the pic.
i didn't like the fact that their friend was there either...

they proceeded to dig an even DEEPER hole by syaing that they bathe naked with their friends and have layed in bed naked with a friend while their significant other made dinner............................ .......... ........ ..........

PEOPLE,

like,

i DO NOT play that sh!t

AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THEN!!!!!!!!! (BECAUSE IT GETS WORSE!~)

they proceeded to tell me that i was insecure because i fessed up to being POSSESIVE!!!

nothing like a good insult to turn someone on, eh? well, it kind of did but it only did so because i wanted to use my sex to teach em a lesson because i felt that they needed to be punished.

they kept goin on and on and on letting me know how unattractive they found the whole thing and how 'immature' it was..

i wasn't fazed, not one bit!

by the time we finished our conversation, i think i somewhat came around because i have mercury in libra see, so if it works that way for them and they're ok with cuddling naked with a friend while they're partnered and can keep things 'platonic', then it means that i will be able to do the same thing, too!

only that the person i have in mind for doing all of that with, is not at all someone i'd keep things platonic with and would not mind at all being with them right under the other person's nose for being such a friggin communal philanthropist, and i smile and giggle my motherf*ckin ass off and enjoy it because i would hope that eventually, said person would financially support me and as they support me, i'd of course put in a good word for my friends

f*cked up? not at all.
not from where i'm standing.

i don't care how friendly,
we had a nice talk
it was liberating and free
still,
my pluto opposes their moon.

posted September 12, 2011 01:52 PM            

Hey, I just realized...i'm a midtwenties ditzy girl! Lol. That's really cool though that you're a guy cuz i love people who dont fit any stereotypes. Wish we had more of those.

No idea how they would get old man from your posts though...lmao. Wha?

Libra guy ...hmm.. I'm trying to decide whether to stay friends with him or not. In person i can see all his emotions and he seems to really care about me, but then in texting he takes long to respond, and even though he's been trying to stop doing that i can see it's still hard for him. That makes me think that he doesnt want to talk to me as much as it would seem he does in real life. He does initiate texts and the last time we hung out he seemed really worried about confirming that we would hang out again.....so thats pretty confusing. But, still, I'm not sure whether he's worth it. I shall wait and see if he texts me again. It's all up to him. It's been 2 days since i last texted him so far.
I dont like being pushy. So we're gonna take it at his pace.

As for the Cancer....omg!!! Wowww...this guy is such a jerk. I really think he is playing around with you so you'll get freaked out and stop talking to him. I have both had that done to me and I've also done it to people. He's probably with a friend on the computer chatting with you and theyre both having the time of their lives laughing at your reactions. No guy in their right mind who wants to attract a girl would say that. I'm just saying...he probably wants to see how much fun he can have with you and see if you'll want to join him in his supposed orgies with his friends or whatever (which are not true, but he wants to see how slutty u really are underneath and he wants to see if he can get some). I'm saying this only cuz it's been done to me and i had a guy help me drive away two guys who were always chatting with me. I would've never thought to do that by myself if it hadnt been for my crazy guy friend who's really brave and likes to make trouble. He was the one typing everything and i was just sitting there wondering what would happen next and kinf of feeling bad for the guy. Usually it's someone who doesnt know these people at all who can come and sit next to your friend while he's on the computer, ask him what he's doing, and then since he doesnt know the person in real life he can play around with their head like that since he doesnt feel as bad for them bc he's never talked to them.

posted September 18, 2011 02:31 AM            

Sigh.

It's pretty sad. He said he forgives me and that he understands and not to worry about it and was really sweet about it, but his actions show different. Since he was the last one to make plans to hang out, i made the plans this time, and it was raining hard and i felt kinda sick, so i asked him if it was cool that we cancel. He said sure no problem, but i felt from the way he was texting me that something was wrong. Actually ever since i ignored him something has been wrong. When i asked him when we could hang out he said he was busy and then i texted him back "okay well let me know " and he hasnt texted me in a week.

I'm trying to decide what i should do. He used to take long to reply to my texts and sometimes would leave me hanging. But he would also text me first and call me first. He says he does that to everyone that he's add while texting, but that's hard for me to believe. After i ignored him i called him twice since i was tired of texting and how long he takes, and all he said was sorry that he missed my call...but he didnt call me back. I guess he's mad at me for ignoring him. I dunno.

I'd like to believe the following statement and just forget about it and move on:

We never had anything.

But if I actually were to believe that.

Then what would your shy smiles and shy eye contact or your shy laugh do to me, or your way of treating me and standing around me. How would they make me feel te bext time i have to see you? If i actually made myself believe that statement, I would be so confused…because if we never had anything…if our friendship was never very deep. Then why are you being so clingy, i would think the next time i saw u in perso. “Ugh! Get out of my personal space! Don’t stand so close to me. Stop being so clingy!” I’d scream. “Don’t laugh at my every joke, or my every word for that matter. And take that stupid STUPID smile off your face. And STOP //following// me!” I’d shout. “Oh! And stop talking to me like i’m a baby. Or treating me like I’m made out of rose petals…so delicate I might break, and talking to me in that whispery girly voice. And stop being so shy around me! What is wrong with you dammit! Ugh! We were never friends —-I’d yell.

posted September 18, 2011 03:00 AM            

sorry about that, the thing seems that it might be Saturn transiting through libra putting somewhat of a damper on u guys.. both of u are being squared by saturn, no? not to mention squared by pluto/opposed(you) and squared/opposed(him) by uranus.......

today venus is squaring pluto and opposing uranus. don't know what it really means but def it's bound to cause a ruckus, i think.

it really sucks but sometimes, when stuff like that happens, even i try to tell myself the same thing and even if it isn't real, ( i just heard this in a movie today ) a lie might work to give u what you need if you want to move on from that because yeah, it sounds like a push/pull thing and slowly eating your brain!

there was someone i was chatting with that i was very into and they'd pull a stunt where they'd delete their profile every time they didn't wanna be contacted by me and then would make another one later to talk to me again and they repeated that over and over and over again... in our synastry, my uranus squares their sun but so does my saturn (weird) and even if i remained constant, they were a piscean magician!

it destroyed the bond, completely.. there's really little to no trust there and i could care less about them disappearing again as i can't possibly lose something that i never had. so i don't cry over refrigerated milk.

if you tried meeting him halfway, try pulling back.. it may suck now, but maybe later, you guys would meet again when u both are in a better place and can go the extra mile for each other. rather than going for it over and over again probably doing more harm than good... sounds like chiron, what are you guys' aspects with chiron?

u ever lose a beachball in the ocean? have u tried going for it?... well, in the ocean, i guess u HAVE to go for it because otherwise you'd lose it in the tide but in the pool, for instance, what happens when u swim for it like a fierce? it goes further and further away... til the ripples settle and things calm down and then u can easily just go to it without any fear and ta-da, u got ur ball... or two lol!

posted September 18, 2011 03:09 AM            

i saw them again tonight.
same thing
movie
this time, they we re just a flat out jerk
(i really wasn't gonna write about it but that comment i read reminded me of thae whoooole thing!)
i told em they were a jerk
i was being my leo moon self
and they were just pulling away
and told me to stop
that they were watching a movie
and that i was the jerk fo not letting them watch it
they said
"you can play with my hand, you can tickle my arm, but i'm going to sleep at 10pm and i'm going to watch this"...

i didn't play with their hand
or tickle their arm
i just detached
i looked at their chart while they said that
they have moon squaring uranus
funnily,
as i pulled away,
they then sought me out
talk about mixed messages!
eventually i left just as i did the first time we met
and didn't hug em
didn't give a kiss on the cheek goodbye
i just got on the elevator and said bye
i could tell they felt uncomfortable
...they have sun opposing saturn, as well.

i grew up around someone with sun square saturn
ugh!
they restrict themselves
and they restrict everyone else~

posted September 18, 2011 03:30 AM            

You may not know it, but it feels really great that someone actually replied at this time. Lately i feel like nobody is there for me. Even the people who text me and are the first ones to reach out to me (and i almost always wait for the other person to make the first move just to make sure they care) and tell me they miss me ...we'll make plans and then they just cancel or completely forget we made plans. People are so confusing you know? Why tell me u miss me, if u really dont?

Anyway, it feels really nice that i get to talk to someone right away about how i feel about this and that u thought the part where i was talking to myself was cute! Haha! That is exactly how i feel about it, though. As you can see, my feelings about him are pretty strong.

So little do u know but u kind of made my day...by being here when i needed someone to talk to.

I'm hanging out with a friend tomorrow, but it feels like we dont really connect..even though i think he's hilarious. He's a pisces, and so sweet and perfect and very dedicated to the friendship, But we just dont connect emotionally. There's a sense of boredom when we're together. I miss my little libra.

Um. I totally get you though. The beachball thing---that was a great analogy ---haha! Wow. Pretty ingenious if i do say so myself.

but sigh...i guess...u know when?....

I dunno....when u just FEEL something?

Sometimes it's hard to show someone how much you care. I've treated him brusquely in the past just because i felt uncomofortable. And even though he seemed really hurt he tried to make things better and u could tell he was trying to figure out what was wrong and why i had treated him that way. Sometimes in text messages i'm kind of brusque too--like if he doesnt respond in a way that i find ideal...i'll be brusque right back at him, then he'll try to smooth over things by being nice and saying something like "no, i cant leave it like that...must keep the harmony and be friends."

And last time i didnt text him for a week, i was mad and actually wanted him to text me and be like "what's wrong, you mad at me?" he didnt, but when iran into him in school he looked so happy to see me and like he had been really worried. Kind of like i am now.

I totally get what you mean about the beachball thing. But i think sometimes u need someone to try to harmonize things over and over again with u so u can finally give in to the friendship and trust them.

I think my ignoring him and me getting to see how much i can affect him has really made him feel embarrassed and hurt. If i let go...then that'll just destroy our bond. See what i mean?

I have this feeling that that's what he wants me to do. Ever since the ignoring thing i kind of withdrew from him and find it easier to be nonchalant towards him since i guess now i see that he cares i can take him more for granted, so i feel that he is also reacting to that.

posted September 18, 2011 03:45 AM            

that fits perfectly . Really does.

How old are you btw? i'm 22

oh and hilary duff looks so much like someone i used to be bff's with...she was a leo with aries moon and libra rising.

posted September 18, 2011 03:21 PM            

I didn't do anything to make him mad. w/e his loss.

=)