posted March 03, 2015 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
She is out of her mind. This is how our first conversation (yelling match on her part) went today:
Mother: Brittany!
Me: Yes.
Mother: What do you mean "yes?" What is the matter with you?
Me: What? Look can you just tell me what you need i am busy,
Mother: What is wrong with you! Why every time I try to talk to you, you speak to me like I am the enemy
(i truly dont understand where shes getting this..)
Me: Ok what did you need?
Mother: (starts screaming) You do not respect me! I am trying to ask you something and you are yelling at me!
Me: I was not yelling at you.
Mother: Starts blabbing about herself and doesn't even ask what she needed to ask, wasting 5 minutes of my time.

Maybe I will just stay very far away from Women with more than 2 Aries in their personal planets...

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posted March 03, 2015 04:07 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Here is my mothers chart
Sun - aries
Moon - Leo
Venus - aries
Mercury - Aries
Jupiter - Pisces

That's all I can remember
here's mine
sun - Aquarius
moon - Pisces
mercury - Aquarius
Venus - Pisces
Mars cancer
saturn - Aquarius
Jupiter - libra

We always clash... she is very dramatic and always has to start some kind of fight. I will pass her a receipt when she asks "How much was (insert item)" and than she will instigate a fight, "Why are you throwing that to me? how dare you!" I will say "I didn't throw it.. I slid it over to you.."

I find that I constantly have to either tune her out and ignore her whenever she tries to instigate a fight for no apparent reason. She will take the smallest insignificant things and explode them into some dramatic soap opera... She is very loud, gossips way too much and she always like to spin her stories as if she is the victim and we are all trying to attack her.. she can do no wrong in her eyes. She also thinks she's right about everything and if you challenge her with cold hard facts she will get in your face and act like a big Bully.

I rarely speak to my mother I've had to form a massive detachment towards her growing up and it's still there. whenever she speaks I ignore her because it is always drama based on something trivial. I hate that she gossips about everyone and tries to start problems even with other people. She also talks to others about family problems . so yeah I do not get along with her I mostly ignore her and of course that sets her off too..

There are other Aries sun women I cannot get along with.. they behave very similarly to my mother. I want to meet an Aries women that I can get on well with. Is there a reason why our relationship is bad? Based on the chart..

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posted March 03, 2015 05:56 AM            

I am a Sag Sun and Mercury, Scorpio venus/Pluto and Virgo Mars. Aries moon. Definitely always stood up for myself though it caused hell every time and I hated arguing unnecessarily. What finally helped was moving out (for college), now we are actually the best of friends. No joke. Ever since I was 14 i thought i would never talk to her again after moving out. I would always be comforted by the thought of cutting her out of my life. But moving out changed me and the way I reacted to her, and for some reason she stopped playing the game that I was inferior and undeserving of respect (for the most part). When i visit, it's me who decides when we talk or when we don't (if she starts treating me with disrespect) and she knows this, I think she's just happy I stuck around. And frankly I am too.

posted March 03, 2015 06:58 AM            

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LOL!!! My fiancé is like this! He takes everything personal and will analyze every little detail and then turn it all around and make it into my fault. He is m ore sensitive than I, and I am a Cancer :-/ he needs tip-toeing so to not make him feel as if his ego has been stepped on. He also has Aries Mercury. He likes to victimize himself but when HE says or does something one better listen or he will throw a tantrum. Preferably, one has to ACCEPT what was said and done as well...

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posted March 03, 2015 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by sword lily:
then why is he still your fiance?...

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posted March 03, 2015 12:02 PM            

I just do the typical Aqua thing: drop it and leave.