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Topic: How do you react to heartbreak?-Post ya sun, moon, venus and asc
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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 06:18 AM
  
Aw I miss mintgirl.Hmm...go out, socialize, distract myself, party, get sh!tfaced with a bunch of people I don't know...just go wild and have a good time.  I've always been the dumper, but I was rejected once by someone I think I really loved. Someone I think I still love.  We're best friends though, so it's all good. I just needed to accept that it was all good. There's something comforting and fun in being all alone,  IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1329
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 01:26 PM
Sun-Cancer
Moon-Cap
Venus-Cancer
Asc-Virgo/LeoI have only been heartbroken once and it took me 4 years to dig myself out of that hole, and it was a deep, deep one.. He left me. I knew all along that we were all kinds of "wrong" but I still wasn't ready when it happened.
I have weird stelliums, H11 and H9, and I am very "airy" and detached usually. When I am done with someone it's a mental switch that goes on and there is NOTHING that can make it go back to the way things were. I WILL leave him at that point and try my hardest to make him see it in a logical way. I also try to remain friendly/cordial, why burn bridges? Also, I can go from lover to friend in a heartbeat but never friend to lover.
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MyFavouriteName
Knowflake Posts: 188
From: London
Registered: May 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 01:34 PM
when they hurt me:Disappointment
Hatred at points
anger dispair and crying if they don't feel for me anymore, or love me, or want to leave. - only relevant to heartbreak , and being in love. Asc Leo
Sun Leo
Moon Aries
Venus Libra
i think none of those signs explain my feelings too much
i think its much more the aspects, particularly to my moon, asc, and venus. which makes most sense to me since they are more the relationship planets in my eyes.
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sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1608
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 01:45 PM
Despair. VERY unstable moods. Intense sense of self-loathing but also loneliness and obsession for the other person. I easily become attached when I finally find someone who meets my needs and sometimes it can be obsessive compulsive in how much I worry about our relationship or if they like me in return. When they mean a lot to me, and we separate, I am just... a wreck. A shell of myself, explosive, I was even suicidal once. I'm not ashamed to admit it but it still hurts knowing I have to work on this with love since for person B it actually is unfair.Sun in Libra, un-aspected, H10 Moon in Virgo, conjunct Chiron - this is where the abandonment/rejection issues in love stem from Venus in Scorpio, conjunct NN+Jupiter+Nessus+Talent, trine Saturn, sextile Moon ASC in Sagittarius, sq. Saturn and Moon Mars in Cancer, 29th degree, H8. I felt this was an important extra to add. I really struggle with this placement since I feel it makes me emotionally unstable and obsessive also, since it opposes Uranus-Mars too. IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
Knowflake Posts: 138
From: missouri
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 07, 2012 11:10 AM
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8234
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 12:20 PM
I cut contact all together and try to keep my mind on other things.IP: Logged |
7thGuardian
Knowflake Posts: 998
From: Transylvania
Registered: May 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 12:40 PM
...heartbreak (takes a deep breath)It's kinda like going to the doctor and realizing that - I'm gonna loose one of my hands, an eye or both... a part of me that's irreplaceable and from that point - I'll have to learn to live without it and cope with the idea that it's gone... it's a time when I'm drowning in pessimism - and I'm inclined to believe that "I'll never have something like this again, never fall in love again..." - the first reaction to that can be described as "despair"... even tho "on departure" i can give the false impression - that I'm ok with it - saying words like "if that's how you feel... what can i say..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qlDvmYQgjqE ... the truth is - i can't find my words in that moment, i can't think clearly... i just wanna leave.... but latter - when my mind gets clearer - i realize that I've given up to easily - and at that point i try to contact her "cause there's so much unsaid" - and because i still love her so much - I'm willing to do everything that's in my power to fix things...or even beyond my power - "I'm willing to stop the rain or make it snow..." ...but since we're talking about "heartbreak" - that didn't work... - second step - "seclusion" - i detach myself from people... i drink some wine in day time, i walk the lonely streets at night time - late into the night... earthly objects have no value to me at that point - but i can still find value in experiences - in the night sky and the colossal Universe that can be seen more clearly at that time... it helps with my detachment... - third step "entertainment" - i watch every movie that's on Cinemas, go to the theater - i go out for some drinks with every friend that's available...
- forth step "work and work hard" - at one point the money will be gone but it's not about the money - work can occupy your mind so it's easier to move on... Sun in Gemini/House 12
Moon in Aries/House 11
Venus in Leo/House 2
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