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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009	posted November 03, 2011 02:17 AM Ok so I've had alot of experiences in the past, but in terms of true heartbreak, it has only happened with one guy. He was the only guy I ever loved. =/ (thus why it hurt so much lol) After the break up I completely shut down emotionally. Appeared unfazed on the surface but I used to sleep through the day. Analysed things. Went over things in my head. Beat myself up over it. I isolated and cut contact off from everyone for months. =/ I did alot of writing to vent out the emotions, alot of listening to songs. Alot of thinking =/ Cried alot. Didn't seek revenge though lol. Wished him well and acted the bigger person despite his betrayal. So I have: Aries asc Virgo sun Libra moon Libra venus Ok, what about you guys? IP: Logged
otterpus Knowflake Posts: 120 From: Registered: Sep 2011	posted November 03, 2011 06:39 AM I tend to be in panic attack mode when I am faced with that sort of situation because the virgo in me likes to over-analyze the situation and forces me to re-live all the scenarios and whatnot. I also have a hard time letting go (cancer/taurus), which does not help with obsessive analyzing. So I have to go find certain distractions (like shopping/cooking/hanging out with friends) to free myself from all the drama in my head. Taurus Sun Virgo Moon Cancer Asc Aries Venus IP: Logged
lindaGreg Knowflake Posts: 495 From: Bermuda Triangle Registered: Feb 2010	posted November 03, 2011 06:44 AM Wow mintgirl, We both share the same ASC and Sun. Sorry, it's off the topic. IP: Logged
lindaGreg Knowflake Posts: 495 From: Bermuda Triangle Registered: Feb 2010	posted November 03, 2011 06:48 AM I can almost relate to your sentiment. Aries ASC Virgo Sun Aries Moon Leo Venus I loved this guy so much; I invested nearly 10 years of my life into him, only to realize that he never loved me. Since then I have become commitment phobic. IP: Logged
lindaGreg Knowflake Posts: 495 From: Bermuda Triangle Registered: Feb 2010	posted November 03, 2011 06:49 AM By the way, he was a Cancer Sun, Cap Asc and Gemini Venus and Aries Moon IP: Logged
lechien Knowflake Posts: 1980 From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends Registered: May 2009	posted November 03, 2011 09:13 AM Sagittarius AC Sagittarius Sun Aries Moon Sagittarius Venus i just don't believe it and keep attacking. i got a few of the exes back this way, but of course it's never the long-term solution, just prolonging damaged relationships... however, as soon as someone new comes along, i stop insisting on the old and and move on rapidly. IP: Logged
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6625 From: Registered: Oct 2011	posted November 03, 2011 09:18 AM Its always totally devastating for me. My love is always deep and always profound. I crash hard. I cry inside, sometimes for a whole year or more. I can't sleep and I can't eat. I become a hermit and want zero social contact. I become borderline suicidal. Once, my girlfriend suddenly left me and married another guy who I wasn't aware of. I took to the bottle and began smoking, both of which I promptly quit, thankfully. I have a Venus in the 12th House, which makes it all the more sorrowful. Sun, Mars and Mercury: Capricorn Moon: Gemini Venus and Saturn: Aquarius Neptune: Scorpio Jupiter: Aries Ascendant: Pisces North Node: Cancer IP: Logged
hannarama Newflake Posts: From: Registered:	posted November 03, 2011 09:50 AM quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: After the break up I completely shut down emotionally. Appeared unfazed on the surface but I used to sleep through the day. Analysed things. Went over things in my head. Beat myself up over it. I isolated and cut contact off from everyone for months. =/ I did alot of writing to vent out the emotions, alot of listening to songs. Alot of thinking =/ Cried alot. Didn't seek revenge though lol. Wished him well and acted the bigger person despite his betrayal. This was totes me after my break up with my Leo ex (sorry I keep mentioning him, he's the only ex I have lol) I tried keeping it all to myself 'cause I'd exhausted people talking/venting about our problems leading up to the break up. I cried more during the relationship than I did after we broke up but I was still sad. I was happy for a month 'cause at the time breaking up with him felt like something on a grocery check list and now I could mark off that I'd done it. However, the loneliness crept in sure enough and I started going back and forth in my mind "Was that the right decision? Did you do everything you could've?" I also had a lot of guilt. A LOT. And a lot of unworthiness. I thought I did him a favor. It took me nearly a year to realize I wasn't the ONLY one in the relationship and what he had done would have a far greater impact on someone's self-esteem and worth than any of the shenanigans I had pulled. Gemini ASC Aries Sun Taurus Moon Aries Venus IP: Logged
malicefey Knowflake Posts: 275 From: NY Registered: Sep 2011	posted November 03, 2011 09:52 AM Sun Libra Moon Libra Venus Scorpio Asc Scorpio When I go through heartbreak, I do cry. However, I turn furious the more I think about it (how much effort I put into the relationship and all that) and the next time I see that person, he better run the other way. My very first real boyfriend, he broke up with me...AT A DURANE READE STORE. I cried alot, but after a month of sulking I killed that person (in my heart + mind). Over is Over. What was funny was that he had the nerve to come back to me two months later, telling me he misses me and wants me back. I laughed at his face and I gave him a real piece of my mind. Yes, I am very spiteful, very vengeful and a total b**** but hey, that's not my problem. It's their fault for crossing me in the first place and they deserve it. And I hardly ever talk to my ex's after I break up with them. No need to. IP: Logged
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 1192 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 03, 2011 10:08 AM When I was younger, in my early 20s, I used to get so torn up when relationships ended � even when I was the one who ended it. As I started to grow and learn more about myself, I have gotten better about it. However, if it ends awkwardly I do tend to dwell on how things could be different (thanks to that Moon conjunct Pluto) but I really don�t like to go backwards and even though I am thinking about it I am over it emotionally. I see relationships as learning experiences and if it doesn't work out, lesson learned. I am always aware that there is another intelligent, handsome man who pops up when I am ready to be snatched up! Sun � Leo Moon � Libra Asc � Aquarius Venus � Leo ETA: Oh yeah, and I usually write about it: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum23/HTML/000138-2.html IP: Logged
NativelyJoan unregistered	posted November 03, 2011 12:00 PM Break ups are tough but I try to view them objectively. For me it's not so much that I'm hurt or devastated that it's over, It's coming to grips with the truth and letting things go. The Air in me understands that things in life are passing, the Fire in me tries to stay positive but the 8th house in me wants to obsessively and compulsively hold on. It's no good. In general on the surface I'm completely composed, but I'm a raging basket case underneath because once again I have to let go which is hard. I've learned not to be so afraid of losing things and people and leaving the past behind. Libra Sun Aries Moon Venus Leo Aquarius ASC "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear." Ambrose Redmoon IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6543 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted November 03, 2011 12:28 PM Asc = pisces Sun/moon = Leo Venus = Cancer Idk I will be at home, and clean and distance my self from people.. I will think it all through.. Trying to figure out the lessons, what Ive learned and what went wrong.. Trying to understand what happen.. Then I will go through a party stage, going out as much as possible... Letting it all go, forgetting it all happen. IP: Logged
Anjellyfish Knowflake Posts: 159 From: AR, United States Registered: Sep 2011	posted November 03, 2011 12:36 PM Asc- Aquarius Sun- Aries Moon- Aries Venus- Gemini I take breakups freakishly well, I guess? I don't hold anything against them (I mean, sometimes I will analyze and compartmentalize) since it takes two to screw up a relationship...and I like to stay friends with them afterwards. I guess my biggest issue is some of my ex's aren't so nice about breaksups (didn't want to be friends afterwards...and the last one was really bitchy and nasty and told me off) so I would have to figure out how to forget about it, since they obviously aren't as nice about breakups. Yeah, idk. I'm just not a emotional person. IP: Logged
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009	posted November 03, 2011 03:55 PM quote: Originally posted by lindaGreg: By the way, he was a Cancer Sun, Cap Asc and Gemini Venus and Aries Moon LOL my one was a cancer sun and gem venus too =/ aries asc, scorp moon. IP: Logged
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1136 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011	posted November 03, 2011 04:01 PM Asc Pisces, Sun Libra Moon Leo Venus Sag Overdramatic, end of the world "how could you do this to ME? I mean, it's ME!!!!" Someone else walks by ....."see ya!" IP: Logged
northernlad Newflake Posts: From: Registered:	posted November 03, 2011 04:04 PM I circumvent heartbreak by ending things before I get to a place where I can get hurt. Cancer Sun Virgo Moon Taurus Venus Sag ASC Moon square Uranus Uranus conj ASC Saturn opposite Venus IP: Logged
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7642 From: Registered: Oct 2010	posted November 05, 2011 08:47 AM Hmm...I tend to think the best of them and forgive them totally, but I still think of them from time to time even years later. I'm not revengeful at all. I tend to fall in love as soon as I start liking them and the "crush" feeling never goes away. Sun trine pluto, Venus square pluto and venus conjunct mars It does hurt a lot. But I just think that they meant the best and that they were good people who didn't mean to hurt me. Thinking the best of them makes me hurt less and it makes me forgive them. I don't stop loving them, though. Never. I guess I'm a fool. I remember all the good moments between us and cherish them, and still think "Nah, they couldn't hate me. I'm awesome." (lol it's all the leo i guess) sun cancer moon leo venus, mars leo asc libra IP: Logged
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6625 From: Registered: Oct 2011	posted November 05, 2011 09:29 AM I seem to have the lifelong curse of love. If I were not married, I would have been on the verge of declaring permanent bachelorhood. The women who walk into my life seem to be able to be affectionate upfront and then turn ice cold. They seem to be able to walk away in absolute indifference. Leaves me in tearful sorrow for a super long time, unable to function properly as a human being. Even after I begin another relationship, I was still grieving about two relationships back. Didn't matter who ended the relationship. My Venus is the the 12th house, which makes it worse. IP: Logged
mir Knowflake Posts: 1267 From: Registered: May 2009	posted November 05, 2011 01:31 PM I take care I can't blame myself for anything (regarding our break-up) as any regret would definitely lead me back to him one day and that's ofcourse not what I want. So basically I want to feel THE END (of us) and part of that is working towards giving him the same awareness by fighting till death to keep us together whereupon (if the fruitlessness penetrates me) seemingly unexpected I will break ties drastically. And when I'm at that breakpoint I am ready to go on with my life and already went through the worst phase of heartbreak. The only one who may blame himself now is him. leo sun 12th virgo asc scorp moon cancer venus (in the last minutes of that sign) IP: Logged
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 1140 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011	posted November 05, 2011 01:36 PM AT FIRST, I unleash on the person all the hateful things I can think of...what I hate about them, their flaws, etc..rip them apart. THEN I wallow in my own misery but never let the other person know it. I tend to go do things to get my mind off the person and remind myself that he wasn't worth it anyway. eventually he doesn't even "exist" and I'm totally over it. So..I go from hateful revenge to total avoidance and aloofness. Sun - Capricorn Moon - Sagittarius Venus - Scorpio ASC - Scorpio IP: Logged
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011	posted November 05, 2011 01:55 PM sun capricorn moon leo venus pisces at first I cry but I completely shut off to my own world and work it out. I haven't spoken to the ex for a couple years now, saw him on the street the other day we were like strangers not a single hello, we were together for almost 6 years. what's next is better than the ex. IP: Logged
Capriquarius unregistered	posted November 05, 2011 05:28 PM When the guy's attention on me starts to wane or he starts annoying me, I start emotionally detaching myself from him and the relationship. Then I make myself physically unavailable for his sexual needs, which will make him break up with me. But I will have emotionally departed long before that point. Sun 10 Cap Moon 19 Aqua Merc 19 Sag Venus 24 Scorp Mars 15 Cap Jupiter 6 Leo Saturn 13 Virgo Uranus 19 Scorpio Neptune 21 Sag Pluto 19 Libra Juno 22 Aqua Chiron 5 Taurus "A wise girl kisses but does not love, listens but does not believe, and leaves before she is left." -Marilyn Monroe quote: Originally posted by northernlad: I circumvent heartbreak by ending things before I get to a place where I can get hurt. Cancer Sun Virgo Moon Taurus Venus Sag ASC Moon square Uranus Uranus conj ASC Saturn opposite Venus Hey, this sounds familiar. Must be a Moon-Uranus square thing. Great Moons think alike, eh? Haha! quote: Originally posted by Libreo: Asc Pisces, Sun Libra Moon Leo Venus Sag Overdramatic, end of the world "how could you do this to ME? I mean, it's ME!!!!" Someone else walks by ....."see ya!" LMAO! Claps IP: Logged
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011	posted November 05, 2011 05:34 PM I shut down pretty much. not a breakdown either. I shut down, or in other words completely forget about it. it's like my mind and ego will not deal with it right now - compartmentalizing. Or, I just right then and there decide the matter is trivial so it doesn't effect me.. but the compartmentalizing happens a lot. Without my control. That's how I deal with any pain of any kind most of the time. IP: Logged
lechien Knowflake Posts: 1980 From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends Registered: May 2009	posted November 05, 2011 05:37 PM quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: I shut down pretty much. not a breakdown either. I shut down, or in other words completely forget about it. it's like my mind and ego will not deal with it right now - compartmentalizing. Or, I just right then and there decide the matter is trivial so it doesn't effect me.. but the compartmentalizing happens a lot. Without my control. That's how I deal with any pain of any kind most of the time. not sure if that's really good for your health in a long run, but it is enviable... IP: Logged
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009	posted November 05, 2011 05:40 PM Lindisfarne you have some aquarius placements aye? No wonder, I think it's what they do. They just numb it out. IP: Logged

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