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Topic: Ideal Physical Traits of Love Interests
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featherlightly
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posted November 03, 2011 06:19 PM
  
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Originally posted by downtomars:
I read somewhere that green eyes are related to Mercury and are a sign of intelligence. Interestingly, my Mars is in Gemini in the 5th and Virgo rules my 8th house while Mercury is in my 7th…There must be something to that…I also like tall men (out of necessity, I’m 5’10”), light hair (especially kind of longish around the ears and nape of the neck) and I really like slender yet wiry as well (something else attributed to Mercury). Plus a nice Air hand (square palm, long fingers) is amazing…
I have some similar placements with you (Mars in Gemini [in the 8th house], Mercury in the 7th house) and I SO agree with the wiry slender wrist thing! I've never seen anyone else mention that before. Wrists are one of the first things I notice on guys, and hands. A slender, well-shaped wrist is so sexy... glad I'm not the only one who feels that way.  Intelligence is a HUGE turn on. I need a guy who can beat me at Scrabble at least once in a while. Guys who write well or have musical capabilities are also really hot. And I love medium/longish hair -- above the shoulders, maybe neck level. I could never be attracted to someone with a crew cut or shaved head. Prefer dark hair; really not attracted to blonds. I like intense eyes, no matter what color... hazels and greens are great though. IP: Logged |
downtomars
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posted November 03, 2011 06:40 PM
GLASSES!!! How could I forget about the glasses?! 90% of all of the guys I have gone out with have worn glasses! Featherlightly, somehow talking about the wrists reminded me of the glasses! I don't know, the same type of guys are always attracted to me...smart, green eyes, slender, glasses, sarcasm, straight man to my goofy girl... IP: Logged |
starzy54
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 06:49 PM
The eyes to me, have to have a very "Deep" and "Real" feel to them, can't explain it exactly, but if i can't see your soul through your eyes and they just look like little beads in your head with no substance or feeling behind them than we are in trouble.Most guys don't have that realness in their eyes to me,so its special when i do find it.Dark eyes preferred.I like brown hair,chestnut or dark brown.
Not big on muscles,but a little bit of it is nice.I like stubble and my partners mustache is my favorite,when he has to shave it for work i get sad :/ A nice back is sooo important to me! I love a guys back,and the back of his neck and his shoulders.Tallness is a must! 6 feet at least. oh and he has to have a youthful boyish look. Intelligence! and above all else a kind heart. cap sun,leo asc,aries moon,venus scorpio,mars pisces IP: Logged |
amelia28
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From: dumont, CO
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 06:55 PM
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Originally posted by downtomars:
GLASSES!!! How could I forget about the glasses?! 90% of all of the guys I have gone out with have worn glasses! Featherlightly, somehow talking about the wrists reminded me of the glasses! I don't know, the same type of guys are always attracted to me...smart, green eyes, slender, glasses, sarcasm, straight man to my goofy girl...
I have super slim wrists....my aqua friend has slim wrists too and is wiry/anxious but blue eyes, slim, blond hair and goes back and forth between long and short hair. What placements give someone a small wrist? this is something that always stuck out growing up to others, my wrists. IP: Logged |
starfox
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From: London England
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 07:07 PM
I really like long hair on a women, dark or fair is cool.I don't mind if they are slender or a little bit chubby, its all nice to me.
Intelligence is really a requirement too and a love of the arts.
GAH! where is this woman? as Al Green sang ''I'm so tired of being alone'' IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 04, 2011 01:33 AM
Aqua Merc in the 7th but I never go for the brainy type, I'm always the more learned of the two. I go for the overwhelmingly masculine men, and they make a bee line for me. That's about 70% of the time, the other 30% I attract v.sweet/caring guys.
The v.masculine ones I'm gonna point to my Mars/Saturn/Pluto conj. The v.sweet types I'm gonna point to my Pisces Sun in the 8th.
I don't really care about build as long as he looks like he likes v.earthy sex and is someone I like to talk with/travel/have fun road trips with. Intense eyes are a plus. Has to be nice and respectful otherwise he won't get the time of day. No-nos are disrespect, arrogance, slovenly stinky appearance, metrosexuals, pretty boys, long hair, tattoos, but I'm cursed with attracting tattoo artists for what seems like eternity. But have to say that they're v.cool, down to earth guys.My ideal, that I never attract, is short (same height as me), dark eyes/hair, thin, talkative/nervous type. Basically a Mercury type (in my 7th). But like I said I play that role. I attract a lot of Aries, so I'm throwing them into the 70% category. The other category, they're all Water Suns. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted November 04, 2011 02:08 AM
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slovenly stinky appearance, metrosexuals, pretty boys, long hair, tattoos
You just described everything I like. Right down to the "stink" (natural musk is so attractive, I hate it when guys Axe it away). I like dirty pretty boys with long hair and tattoos. My biggest crush is on a boy with long hair who wears black skinny jeans with cowboy boots (from the back he kind of looks like a girl). God I am sucker for cowboy boots. I sort of gasped the first time I saw him. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 04, 2011 02:26 AM
^ Sounds like a mix of your Venus/Mars. Venus Pisces for pretty, Mars Sadge for the other, the long hair like a horse's mane.Mine are in Libra/Capricorn and I like clean-looking decent respectful types. Short hair is a must. Hate cologne, love the 'freshly bathed' smell. I can stand a bit of sweat. Also forgot to mention I love gorgeous bone structure but that does not mean pretty (!) I like rough skin and a (young or old) Clint Eastwood sort of look to the face. IP: Logged |
Venus
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posted November 04, 2011 02:29 AM
what i like in a guy:height, im aroung 5'8 so he must be atleast 6' or i would be hesitant (if he's less than 5'8 => no way) now even if he's not much taller than me broad shoulders would make up for it  and i dont mean muscles or anything, just geneticly broad shoulders. eyes, the color doesnt matter (though i have to admit green eyes are pretty awesome) its just some eyes pop you know? they tell so much about the person, i love that!! last but not least, his voice! i like a deep voice that blows you away the first time you hear it!! i dont mind slightly overweight men, i might actualy prefer them over overly skinny dudes..
oh oh oh one more thing, HAIR MUST BE SHORT.
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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 04, 2011 02:31 AM
Not attracted to blondes - I would say 'at all', but there's been a few times I have been; although less than a handful.I prefer very very dark hair and very dark eyes. I figure that has something to do with Pluto. They have to be attractive, even pretty (lots of Libra in my chart). I like them tall and somewhat muscular. What's responsible for that astrologically, I have no clue. I like body hair too which is probably weird to some, but...I'm not talking Sasquatch-like, but I don't like it when a guy is hairless or nearly so. And...butts are important to me *hides*. If a dude has a flat and/or small butt, it's not a dealbreaker for me but I definitely prefer the opposite. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 04, 2011 02:41 AM
^ That's kinda like me with legs, I cannot trust a man with skinny legs, he has to have strength & mass there.
There aren't many men with junk in the trunk tho, are there..IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 04, 2011 03:33 AM
^^ LOL I was not going to jump in this thread until I saw your comment about man legs. I hate CHICKEN LEGS at all costs!! Men with chicken legs give me the creeps......! They need to have strong muscular legs or it's hopeless. Perhaps that's why I always loved watching baseball (even though I know very little about the game ROFLMAO)!!!IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake
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From: PA
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 04, 2011 04:00 AM
I usually prefer Tall, Dark and Handsome...
But, there have been a few blond guys who made me go week in the knees. It is all about the eyes for me. I have to love his eyes.
Hands also, I can't date a guy if I find his hands unattractive. I like manly hands, nice structure and long fingers. Intelligence and a sense of soul is also a must. I like Manly, take charge guys that are also in touch with their nurturing side. OKAY I get it, I want it all. lol IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted November 04, 2011 05:47 AM
What's with the disapproval of facial hair?? come on,it's so sweet,couple-of-days beard against supple,soft woman's skin...  omg,chicken legs...  IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 04, 2011 09:08 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
^ That's kinda like me with legs, I cannot trust a man with skinny legs, he has to have strength & mass there.
There aren't many men with junk in the trunk tho, are there..
You'd be surprised, there's way more guys with @$$ than you'd think. I've been stumbling across them like crazy in recent years. IP: Logged |
Venus
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posted November 04, 2011 09:17 AM
i second the big butt thing though i dont usualy admit to it, i like pinching nice round bums
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downtomars
Knowflake Posts: 772
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2011 10:38 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
[B]What's with the disapproval of facial hair?? come on,it's so sweet,couple-of-days beard against supple,soft woman's skin...
I know right! Nothing like some nice stubble...now I feel sad  IP: Logged |
downtomars
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2011 10:46 AM
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Originally posted by Venus:last but not least, his voice! i like a deep voice that blows you away the first time you hear it!!
I forgot about that Venus! That is very important, actually a make or break thing now that I think about it... I have found that Capricorn men have the best, deepest, sexiest voices, followed by Taurus men, especially during pillow talk... Sadly, I have found that Scorpio men have the worst voices. They have a whiny tinge that I don't like at all  IP: Logged |
downtomars
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2011 10:59 AM
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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
And...butts are important to me *hides*. If a dude has a flat and/or small butt, it's not a dealbreaker for me but I definitely prefer the opposite.[/B]
This might also be a Pluto/Scorpio thing too because I have noticed that a lot of my Scorpio guy friends and my Scorpio ex have had bubble butts. They are also a little “hippy” though and I am not into man hips, although the ex was “thick” he was not really my type physically. Skinny guys can have cute butts though. A Leo ex had cute butt side dimples and a gorgeous swimmers body (long legs, long lean muscles, wide shoulders)............
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Malena
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posted November 04, 2011 11:21 AM
Dark hair, dark eyes, pale skin, and nice hands REALLY do it for me. I wouldn't say "surgeon hands" but "pianist hands." I really go crazy for men with longer hair (say, around the chin/nape of the neck). Intelligence is important, but more important is the DESIRE to know things. Mental curiosity. Even if a guy is good looking, I am instantly turned off if he is ignorant and doesn't care (or worse, proud to be ignorant). Sun Scorpio
Moon Leo
Venus Scorpio
Mars Capricorn
Juno Capricorn
Eros Sagittarius
7th house Pisces IP: Logged |
downtomars
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posted November 04, 2011 07:01 PM
I forgot about Eros, Malena. Mine is in Pisces but I am not really attracted to Pisces traits maybe because it is quincunx Venus exact...IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 04, 2011 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by Venus:
i second the big butt thing though i dont usualy admit to it, i like pinching nice round bums
I know right? LOL But for some odd reason it's like it's not okay for women to admit that or anything. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 04, 2011 08:05 PM
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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
You'd be surprised, there's way more guys with @$$ than you'd think. I've been stumbling across them like crazy in recent years.
That's the difference right there, I don't go looking for big butts
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sand
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posted November 06, 2011 01:40 AM
i never get my type. i like frail, skinny, tiny girls. 5'4 below. pale skin, dark hair. pretty face. don't care about any other body parts. they're major cutie pies to me.
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freebrainstorms
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posted November 06, 2011 09:08 PM
"Give me a humanitarian with dark hair, (blue intense) eyes, originality, passion and a grin that could kill."YES, EXACTLY. I'm a sucker for blue eyes, they just do something to me. I like a little bit of muscles but only if they're the kind that develop naturally, gym muscles REALLY freak me out. Geneally I like middle weight guys, not heavy-set and not langy as hell. Also, yeah a bit of body hair is great, hairless men repulse me, they're so serpentine. Scruffiness is a major thing for me, I loove stubble and don't mind short beards, but moustaches alone don't do anything for me. i like guys who look like they'd be up for wrestling in a pile of leaves and mischievousness is a huge plus. I really like the combination of goofy and intense. They have to be taller than me, which isn't hard lol so i feel like it's a good rule of thumb. i agree with whoever discussed backs, i love a good back on a man, and long upper bodies are incredibly sexy, as are hip bones. I also like hands, particularly artist hands. Eyes are my favourite physical feature on both men and women, intense x-ray vision is amazing and they really are windows to the soul. IP: Logged |
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