posted February 27, 2012 04:55 PM            

What is the aqua/pisces energy. Just found out two people in my life have this combo.

The woman has pisces sun/Aqua venus whilst the guy has aqua sun/pisces venus and mars.

Whilst I adore the guy, the woman drives me a little crazy with her indecision and not wanting to make a decision (I blame my saggie sun or leo moon perhaps).

Is an aqua man with too much pisces too soft? But this Aqua is very action orientated, when I met him, I thought he was a male version of me!

Sparkling

posted February 27, 2012 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Hey

What is the aqua/pisces energy. Just found out two people in my life have this combo.

The woman has pisces sun/Aqua venus whilst the guy has aqua sun/pisces venus and mars.

Whilst I adore the guy, the woman drives me a little crazy with her indecision and not wanting to make a decision (I blame my saggie sun or leo moon perhaps).

Is an aqua man with too much pisces too soft? But this Aqua is very action orientated, when I met him, I thought he was a male version of me!

Sparkling

P.s I am double libra in mars and venus

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posted February 27, 2012 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Hey, what happened to the rest of your response? I thought it was kind of cute, lol. Did you edit it down? I'd like to read it again. Please re-post. Thanks!

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Oh, hey I'm just not in the mood for discussions today, need to finish my paper that is due in 12 hours. So I figured I would respond later.

posted February 27, 2012 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Oh, hey I'm just not in the mood for discussions today, need to finish my paper that is due in 12 hours. So I figured I would respond later.

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posted February 28, 2012 05:13 AM            

I guess I meant soft in relation to my fiery leo moon and saggie sun.The aqua has venus/mars in pisces, mercury in pisces and moon in pisces. But I have libra mars and venus so kind of like the romantic neptune energy.

posted February 29, 2012 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Someone asked to see a pick of a man with Venus in Pisces. I've got one of me. Keep in mind, Mars sextiles my Pisces Venus and Pisces ascendant, so any ruggedness will probably derive from that. Nevertheless, my Pisces Venus is on the 12th house side of my ascendant line, less than 3 degrees away. Copy and paste the link:
http://img32.imageshack.us/img32/3714/brianssunglasses.jpg

I hope any criticism isn't too harsh, lol!

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posted February 29, 2012 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
You look very earthy to me.
What are your other placements?

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posted February 29, 2012 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
love Mars in Cap - you have the Cappie charm

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posted February 29, 2012 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
love Mars in Cap - you have the Cappie charm

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posted March 02, 2012 01:18 AM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
12th houser, I wasn't doubting the fact that a woman could look like you described. But all those things combined (caring, beautiful, soft but strong, the vanilla scent, soft voice, sweet, sweet, sweet )sound a bit like a fantasy woman to me. It's probably just the lenghty describtion of what she's wearing that makes the thing so unrealistic for me. And I was wondering why you did spend so much time describing that but never mentioned her level of education, intelligence or character (Is she more of a happy-go-lucky type, or quiet and sober, etc...?). It just seems odd to me, that's all.

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Okay, in my opinion, what a woman wear doesn't strike me as being unrealistic. Did you click on my most recent link, the one that showed my inspiration for describing what she might look like? It was the imdb link in one of my last posts.

As far as describing her character, I thought I covered that in the "Internal" part. I'll re-post here:

"Internal: Compassionate and understanding. A woman who has “moral standards” and is empathetic. A good listener (who looks at you as you speak, even when you might occasionally look away) who also has good “listening eyes” and doesn’t have that look in her eye like she’s just waiting for you to finish so she can say what she wants to. She’d say what’s on her mind yet be discreet when she can sense something she might say could hurt her listener’s feelings. A gentle yet grounded and firm disposition who can be very nurturing yet turn on a dime when necessary and stand up for herself and those she loves and cares about. A woman of adventure, willing to try new things, conquer any fears she has, and encourages others to face their fears without beating them over the head to do so. A woman who enjoys the finer things in life without feeling consumed by them. Great maternal instincts, and can turn on “the woman” when it’s late, the kids have gone to bed, and she’s ready for great sex with the man of her dreams. Is respectful or other cultures, religions, spiritual beliefs and values. I;m sure there’s more in mind but everything in my mind is exhausted and indistinguishable so I’ll stop here. Let me know if you want to know more and I’ll see what I can do."

And of course I'd want to her be intelligent. Just because I didn't type that doesn't mean I want a less-than-intelligent woman with just a great face and body. I've come across women why are physically attractive, yet I couldn't hold a conversation of interest other than small talk (which felt forced), so no relationship would develop between she and I. To me, intelligent isn't just going to be "book smart," though. I would actually want someone who I'd consider very cultural. See, in my opinion, a person can be smart without being that cultural, but not cultural without being smart. So I'd want cultural--a woman who knows her culture, and is very interested in other cultures, too. Also, a woman who is easy-going. can laugh without it sounding forced (like forced laughter at a joke), can tell a joke, takes an active interest in her man, and welcomes his interest in her. She would also value some private time just for herself (without there being secrets), and would respect his need for his own private moments. After which, they'd share what they wanted to, and repect what each chose to keep for his and herself, without worrying that there are secrets being kept.

posted March 02, 2012 12:55 PM            

It would depend on the character faults. You asked for what I look for in a woman, so would you give examples of what you would deem both acceptable character faults and unacceptable character faults (deal breakers)?

I've already dated some girls with faults that ended up crossing the line. No longer dating them. And I wasn't looking for perfection. These girls simply behaved in a way that was unacceptable to me. So I split. I could be with someone who has flaws, since we're all human, but I find the need to "test" someone with their faults just to see if they'll stick around a little childish. (Not that you were speaking in terms of "testing" someone, necessarily. You didn't elaborate on the faults part much) I'd say let them surface naturally. But if she's got that much baggage, she's probably best off with someone other than me. You also have to understand, my Venus in Pisces influence is at the ascendant, which is the surface. I have a lot of 12th house energy underneath that. People sometimes argue that those with 12th house activity have a lot of faults themselves, which there could be, but in my opinion, all it means is that they sense a lot of what goes on beneath the surface. They can appear pensive, but they're simply sorting through the "beneath-the-surface" energy they're picking up. Not always the same as baggage. So I can usually sense when a woman won't "fit the bill" (so to speak). Things don't "shatter" with me that easily, at least not anymore. I find that kind of talk tends to come from youth. Not that there's anything wrong with young relationships. I've just found younger relationships tend to get more theatrical than as you get older. Not across the board, but there you have it.

As far as being idealistic because of my Piscean influence, I've actually been told by friends that I have a "world-weary" look (which is typical of Pisces rising). Pisces is really about paradox, and to put all of that together, having that "world-weary" appearance and outlook on life seems to be the ideal way of getting through life. A person is less likely to fall prey to another's ploys. They only look sweet and innocent, but they have what it takes to get where they're going. So when you meet someone with, say, a Venus in Pisces (since it's exalted), find out what part of their chart it's in. Not all houses of the natal chart are equal.

And I'm not trying to sound like a snob about all of this, it's just that when anyone has been around the block a number of times, they've learned the difference between being playful in a relationship, and "playing games" with someone.

posted March 02, 2012 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Hey Brian,
I see your point. What I was trying to say was that I find it (from experience) impossible to find someone that fits so many describtions. The more you expect the sooner you'll get disappointed.
The question is: could you love someone who does not fit your description entirely, who has faults (and I don't mean small cute ones) even in character. Because that's often what you get.
I've heard that Venus in Pisces is very idealistic when it comes to a partner so their dreams get shattered easily.

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Well, these descriptions aren't necessarily "expectations" per se. Life is mutable, but I have something of a ballpark in mind.

I realized in my last post I spoke of just character faults, but it seems you were speaking of any type of fault, large and small. What other kinds of faults did you have in mind, besides character faults? Detail is appreciated.

posted March 02, 2012 07:00 PM            

When an astrology sites, books, etc. talk about a planet in a sign, sometimes the description(s) can get carried away, and people might presume that the description of one planet in a particular sign may color that person's entire personality. This just isn't so. If that planet is highly aspected and prominently placed in their chart, it may highly affect the chart, but any description(s) won't give the full story.