posted March 03, 2012 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
whats one thought that makes men more afraid then the thought of dying? commitment! XD

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posted March 03, 2012 04:10 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
lol Not sure if that was aimed at me or in general. I'm not afraid of commitment.

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posted March 07, 2012 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
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I've met another Aquarius sun/moon in Virgo and Pisces venus and he "hates" my guts.(I suspect he has a crush that he is fighting off. He never looks at me straight in the eyes and talks on and on to his friends about how full of myself I am).lol.
He acts very akward around me, very quiet guy, but for those who know him-they say that he is full of s***.

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It could be his Virgo moon. As an Aquarian (and not to lump all Aquarians together), I know there's the saying that we can have a lot of aquaintances but very few close friends. If he has a Virgo moon, which can find fault too easily (even where none exists), that can really turn people off, so an Aquarius sun and Virgo moon, combined with that Venus in Pisces idealism, might might really turn some people off big time. Depends on the whole chart, though (aspects, angles, etc.).

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I think Pisces Venus is extremely idealistic-which appeals to me somewhat.And the "front" that they put on, I readily recognize.

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posted March 10, 2012 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:

The question is: could you love someone who does not fit your description entirely, who has faults (and I don't mean small cute ones) even in character. Because that's often what you get.
I've heard that Venus in Pisces is very idealistic when it comes to a partner so their dreams get shattered easily.

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Okay, to answer your question directly... it depends.

Now granted, Venus in Pisces is said to be "unconditional love"...but, in my experience that does not mean love another regardless of their behavior, etc.. If you read up on Venus in Pisces (and I've found this to be fairly accurate), the love is very calculating. People might see that as contradictory: how can unconditional love be calculating? Look at it this way, from my perspective (I can't speak for all men and women with Venus in Pisces, since I'm guessing there will be different house placements, aspects, etc.)... think of unconditional as a threshold (width, breadth, and depth) of love that is vast and voluminous. This threshold allows for different people of various energy vibrations, wants, and needs to be loved. The love expressed toward one individual might not be that which another individual needs or wants. So... to accommodate for the varying individual energies, love must broaden its scope to what might appear to others as "unconditional." But I can assure you, in order to adequately and effectively offer its love, Venus in Pisces must be very discriminate and calculating. Not everyone can be loved in the same way, in my opinion.

So... you ask if I could love someone who has faults. Depends on the fault(s). I didn't illustrate what I look for in a woman as "expectations," even if others will say, "that's what they are," because I would disagree. I'm adaptable, yet I'll also know what turns me off completely. I'm still waiting to read what these faults are you speak of. Let me know, I'm curious.

posted March 17, 2012 06:13 AM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
The question is: could you love someone who does not fit your description entirely, who has faults (and I don't mean small cute ones) even in character. Because that's often what you get. I've heard that Venus in Pisces is very idealistic when it comes to a partner so their dreams get shattered easily.[/B]

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Yes and no. Each ViP is different.

As a Pisces Venus/Ascendent (1st House), it depends at where I am in life and such. But overall there are a few deal breaks. This stems from my Scorpio Moon/Pluto (8th House). It's strong in convictions with the heart, more so with what c**p I'll put up with over time and let slide vs. what I won't. But I also have a Gemini Mars, so it makes me okay with certain faults in character with men (i.e. - those that give a mental workout in philosophical views)

I've found when I was younger I was a lot more timid and aloof when it came to guys. More so rose-colored-glasses with faults on the ones that I fell for a little too hard. When I was 18, I even had an ex (Leo/Virgo Cusp, Scorpio Moon, Cancer Venus, Leo Mars), that emotionally and mentally would abuse me; made me feel like I was beneath him at times. I was young and naive on how to get out of that situation and would constantly look past his faults and make excuses.

As I've gotten older, about ready to be a quarter of a century old haha, I'm more open about what I won't put up with. I think a deal breaker for me is constantly doing drugs, pre-meditative cheating, not having goals in life, or any psycho ex gf's (literal or metaphorical or both!).

posted March 17, 2012 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by ariscopisgrl87:
Yes and no. Each ViP is different.

As a Pisces Venus/Ascendent (1st House), it depends at where I am in life and such. But overall there are a few deal breaks. This stems from my Scorpio Moon/Pluto (8th House). It's strong in convictions with the heart, more so with what c**p I'll put up with over time and let slide vs. what I won't. But I also have a Gemini Mars, so it makes me okay with certain faults in character with men (i.e. - those that give a mental workout in philosophical views)

I've found when I was younger I was a lot more timid and aloof when it came to guys. More so rose-colored-glasses with faults on the ones that I fell for a little too hard. When I was 18, I even had an ex (Leo/Virgo Cusp, Scorpio Moon, Cancer Venus, Leo Mars), that emotionally and mentally would abuse me; made me feel like I was beneath him at times. I was young and naive on how to get out of that situation and would constantly look past his faults and make excuses.

As I've gotten older, about ready to be a quarter of a century old haha, I'm more open about what I won't put up with. I think a deal breaker for me is constantly doing drugs, pre-meditative cheating, not having goals in life, or any psycho ex gf's (literal or metaphorical or both!).

As for the "shattered dreams", that only happens when I learn of a BIG secret of a guy's past that is messed up towards another person (i.e. - cheated) or constantly tells me lies and then I find out the truth, constantly tells me very detailed information about their past relationships, etc.... stuff like that shatters my view of the person.

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Ah, another ViP, in the same house as mine, no less!

You put it more succinctly than I did, probably because of other placements of yours. But I'd agree with your initial answer--yes and no. In my opinion, with anything Pisces, the answers will rarely be absolute/cut-and-dried.

With my last girlfriend, there were several red flags regarding communication from her that I shrugged off. I wish I hadn't because it led to a few deal breakers, one of which I won't get into.

You said when you were in your 20's, it was more about what you wouldn't put up with....that's characteristic of someone in their mid to late 20's (as they approach their first Saturn return).

posted March 17, 2012 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Lol, mine is an Aqua Sun, too.
First I thought "what an average looking guy" and now I just wanna throw myself at him.
Why? Because he's sexy. 'nuff said. :P

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Ascendant signs describes the phsyical body and how sexy a person is and aspects to Asc. You are not looking at or experiencing their venus in any signs...

Mars aspected to venus would describe or explain some highly sexed as would venus/pluto aspects..

posted March 18, 2012 06:53 PM            

What a bit of information to withold.

Sparkling

posted March 18, 2012 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I want to marry a guy with venus in a water sign.

My mars is Scorpio, so we'd go good.

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you would 'do good' with someone's planets falling your 8th house, trust me...LOL

posted March 18, 2012 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Venus trine Pluto... sex appeal en masse

In the Pluto in Scorpio generation that is often the case with Venus in Pisces.

Oh and btw I have a first house Venus conj Asc and there's nothing sexy about me. So, I don't know about that one.

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posted March 18, 2012 07:15 PM            

I have Merc & Jup in Pisces.
My Venus is in Taurus
Mars conj Neptune in Capricorn..

posted March 18, 2012 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Venus trine Pluto... sex appeal en masse

In the Pluto in Scorpio generation that is often the case with Venus in Pisces.

Oh and btw I have a first house Venus conj Asc and there's nothing sexy about me. So, I don't know about that one.

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that's YOUR subjective self assessment. Prob others would not see you as you see YOU.

posted March 18, 2012 07:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Somehow, I think some Leo men are roaring in anger about that comment...

Though I know there are a lot of gay Leos and I've met a few myself.

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yep,, I agree.

One of my brothers has Libra rising and when he was a teenage, he could walk into a room and heads would turn, it was like bees around a honey pot. The charm the junoesque
was very apparent and attractive to women.

posted March 18, 2012 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Someone asked to see a pick of a man with Venus in Pisces. I've got one of me.

I hope any criticism isn't too harsh, lol!

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posted March 18, 2012 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
The thread that never dies. I really just don't like them. I don't find them attractive at all.

I have Merc & Jup in Pisces.
My Venus is in Taurus
Mars conj Neptune in Capricorn..

So technically I should like them ^ but yeah... they're just not attractive for me. Sometimes they are 'pretty' looking - beautiful in a feminine way with the long wavy hair.. That doesn't really do it for me. Also, their love nature is so wimpy. I like men who are a bit rougher.

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posted March 18, 2012 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
that's YOUR subjective self assessment. Prob others would not see you as you see YOU.

Do you like to dress nicely, colour co ordinated perhaps? do you take care of your appearance? hair, cloths, make up etc??
Of course if you male, similar things apply. LOL

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posted March 19, 2012 04:06 AM            

Some could say: duh! But have those folks really looked at their synastry with the other person? You don't have to have their birth time to do this. Birth time will just add knowing their house cusps and what areas of their life you'd affect. But you can still see how that person will affect you.

Example: I have not only Venus in Pisces, but also Mars in Capricorn (I think I mentioned this after someone asked about seeing a pic of me and said I had an earthy look). My Mars and Venus are in exact sextile. Someone on another site told me that would mean "you'll have no trouble getting dates"." Doesn't seem to happen that way. I know of a guy who has Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Libra (where it's in detriment). His wife has Venus in Gemini. So, nothing is domicile or exalted with either of them. Yet, he's great looking and his wife is constantly taking pics of him and saying how hot he is. His wife’s Venus in Gemini trines both his Venus in Aqua and Mars in Libra. So, it doesn’t seem to matter so much that their planets are in signs that astrology knowledge-at-large would not necessarily deem of the highest caliber. What appears to matter is that their aspects complement each other in a very attractive way. In a way, it’s almost enviable, imo, because in their synastry, her Venus and his Venus and Mars form a grand trine. There’s times I wish I had that and wonder if my Venus and Mars are really all they’re cracked up to be. Someone I meet might have a trine to either my Venus or Mars, but there will never be trines to both. Still, I try not to think too much about it, because it can depress me, lol.

posted March 19, 2012 06:31 AM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
Idk... I know an Aqua guy with Venus in Pisces and he gets numbers, tail, whatever.. without so much as having to wink. He seriously just has to be himself and he has moms offering their daughters to him, big girls giving them their number, small girls doing the hair toss... it amazes me. I'm like "OH if only you knew he's ACTUALLY a 5-year-old girl with a penis."

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posted March 19, 2012 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I know a Taurus with this Venus sign.. and I do find him too feminine. He looks like a girl.. everything about him is non-masculine. His muscle tone is virtually non-existent. And he has somehow managed to lose so much weight that he actually looks like an anorexic female model now.

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posted March 19, 2012 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
The thread that never dies. I really just don't like them. I don't find them attractive at all.

I have Merc & Jup in Pisces.
My Venus is in Taurus
Mars conj Neptune in Capricorn..

So technically I should like them ^ but yeah... they're just not attractive for me. Sometimes they are 'pretty' looking - beautiful in a feminine way with the long wavy hair.. That doesn't really do it for me. Also, their love nature is so wimpy. I like men who are a bit rougher.

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