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Topic: Dead Capricorn, this is why you get cheated on
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anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 1639 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 05:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfox: I must be a mutant capricorn..?  I care little for the trappings of wealth, I'd be quite happy to drive round in a 20 year old car instead of a Ferrari. Quite happy to eat home~made food & not go to a fancy restaurant. Happy to do little but tend my plants and sing to them all the day. 'Earth' is the thing. Earth doesn't have to be materialistic, it is a whole lot more than that.
So funny and cute. A Cappie ex of mine was just like you describe yourself, Starfox. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 716 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 24, 2011 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by anongrl10: So funny and cute. A Cappie ex of mine was just like you describe yourself, Starfox.
 True though.! I'm not money grubbing at all,if I have enough cash to get by, I am OK. It is nice to be rich I'm sure,but its not everything. The penny pinching miser; that image of Capricorn I don't like so much.. I'm careful with the things I have, yes. But I will give you my own shirt if you are feeling the cold.  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 06:42 PM
Been thinking about this thread all Thanksgiving Day because it hits smack at my heart.I think this song is appropriate, and I dedicate to you. Jessie J "Price Tag" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMxX-QOV9tI IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1000 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 24, 2011 06:46 PM
Jessie's J's new Domino song is fabulously catchy -_- lol I love it!IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 07:12 PM
Love to everybody. Life is too short to be upset. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 239 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 24, 2011 07:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Love to everybody. Life is too short to be upset.
Happy Tgiving to you & your family, fellow goatster. Your wifey is lucky to have a Cap guy, someone who understands that love is an action as well as a feeling.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 1000 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 24, 2011 07:18 PM
See, that's why I like earth sign guys, cos they know to show their feelings through actions. Gems just say things. And words are cheap! Lol.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 07:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE]Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: [b]Love to everybody. Life is too short to be upset.
Happy Tgiving to you & your family, fellow goatster. Your wifey is lucky to have a Cap guy, someone who understands that love is an action as well as a feeling.[/B][/QUOTE]And the very best of love and good tidings to all dear to you and your good self as well!! Today is a special day to give thanks to the most precious things in our life. These are only earned and bestowed upon lucky us. Hug all you love dearly today and everyday!!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 07:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: See, that's why I like earth sign guys, cos they know to show their feelings through actions. Gems just say things. And words are cheap! Lol.
And when our bodies finally quit and we check out of this hotel, we would all be remembered by all we love for all we've done, hopefully having made the world a better place. Love to you on this auspicious day, my sister.  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 08:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: Being a woman with Moon&Mars in Cap - I'll be completely honest -- Do you know what bothers me most? That they get away with it because they are men. They will always find a little wifey to take care of everything in the background while they focus on their career. Whereas as a woman you always have to do a million things and try to be all things to all people. Life doesn't really let you focus on your career even if you want to. Actually, Cap-influenced men have it pretty good in this patriarchal world.. But I can definitely understand that it would be frustrating and upsetting if they 'pick' you out to be the wifey figure.. and then emotionally neglect you.
I don't know why I always end up biting the bait, but I MUST address this.
My absolute dream job in all the world is to be a Stay-At-Home Dad.. otherwise known as a House Husband. I find no greater honor than to take care of those I love. I cook, clean, wash, garden, babysit, sew, knit, crochet, you name it.. I even do manicures and pedicures. I can put make up on girls and women. I can shop for women's attire without consulting the woman, yes even lingere. I can hair dress. Yes, I can wash, cut, color, blow dry, perm, you name it. I frequently buy my wife's clothes by myself. Short of breast feeding or breast pumping, there isn't a single thing that a woman can do that I don't know how to do well, and in my home, I'm still the chef of my house. My wife bakes better than myself, and that I would readily admit. The point is I would bend over backwards to stay at home and "do everything." But then, I would have to chase my wife out to work, and that would be just awful of me, wouldn't it? Anyway, if my wife could make more money than myself, then it would make more sense for her to go to work and have myself stay home. Taking care of my sons and cooking a great meal for my wife when she gets home from work would be the utmost pleasure and to me it would be the best possible job in the world! I didn't marry a "little wifey." She has a Masters degree and was a rising executive at her company. We made the joint decision that my career would generate the most income, and I think it was a wise decision. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 24, 2011 08:34 PM
My sisters, I understand that you don't like being taken advantage of as women, and I totally respect that. However, the path to respect and honor is not to cheap shots. Speak to me, but don't hate on me for being a man. Two wrongs do not make a right.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 303 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 03:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: My sisters, I understand that you don't like being taken advantage of as women, and I totally respect that. However, the path to respect and honor is not to cheap shots. Speak to me, but don't hate on me for being a man. Two wrongs do not make a right.
--First: a big "awwwwwwwwwww" with regards to your post about taking care of your wife and kids. Family life isn't for me, but I really respect and admire a man who treats his wife (or husband) well and loves his family. Again, so often we hear about the bad guys, so thank you for giving the guys out there a new model of how to be a good man. Men need positive male role models to look up to and to learn from; we need more people who treat their families like this. I definitely agree that a more negative/lower-evolved Capricorn could "take a wifey" and have her take care of everything, but no way are *all* Capricorn men that way. Plus, some women (not me, and not all women, but *some* other women) do enjoy taking care of children and the home. I've known women who went out and worked hard and got expensive degrees whose big ambition in life was to be a housewife rather than a career woman. Then again, some really are held back and stuck at home and do have the role forced on them. My point is that one can't automatically assume that a woman didn't choose to be at home. Some do choose that, some don't, some have it sort of forced on them. And, too, if women are deeply unhappy with their roles, talking to their partners about it and trying to reach a compromise could help--it won't help in all cases, in which case one would have to consider leaving or else a different approach, but in some cases, it might work. If you don't ever let the other person know that you're unhappy and miserable, he/she can't really work at all with you to come up with a solution that benefits everyone. Suffering in silence doesn't really change anything. So, if you're unhappy, and your partner is a decent person, talk to him or her about it. Lastly, I also agree with not hating men simply for being men. While I do have a lot of negative and angry feelings toward the men who street harass me as well as the man who assaulted me, I also have a lot of good men in my life in the forms of my father, brother, and people at church, among others. I am cold toward most men on the street out of a need to protect my own personal safety, but I do appreciate the GOOD guys in my life. ------------------ *I use the whole sign system* Personal Planets: Sun, Mercury: Libra Venus: Scorpio Moon: Cancer Mars: Capricorn See my profile for my complete chart. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 615 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 09:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: --First: a big "awwwwwwwwwww" with regards to your post about taking care of your wife and kids. Family life isn't for me, but I really respect and admire a man who treats his wife (or husband) well and loves his family. Again, so often we hear about the bad guys, so thank you for giving the guys out there a new model of how to be a good man. Men need positive male role models to look up to and to learn from; we need more people who treat their families like this.I definitely agree that a more negative/lower-evolved Capricorn could "take a wifey" and have her take care of everything, but no way are *all* Capricorn men that way. Plus, some women (not me, and not all women, but *some* other women) do enjoy taking care of children and the home. I've known women who went out and worked hard and got expensive degrees whose big ambition in life was to be a housewife rather than a career woman. Then again, some really are held back and stuck at home and do have the role forced on them. My point is that one can't automatically assume that a woman didn't choose to be at home. Some do choose that, some don't, some have it sort of forced on them. And, too, if women are deeply unhappy with their roles, talking to their partners about it and trying to reach a compromise could help--it won't help in all cases, in which case one would have to consider leaving or else a different approach, but in some cases, it might work. If you don't ever let the other person know that you're unhappy and miserable, he/she can't really work at all with you to come up with a solution that benefits everyone. Suffering in silence doesn't really change anything. So, if you're unhappy, and your partner is a decent person, talk to him or her about it. Lastly, I also agree with not hating men simply for being men. While I do have a lot of negative and angry feelings toward the men who street harass me as well as the man who assaulted me, I also have a lot of good men in my life in the forms of my father, brother, and people at church, among others. I am cold toward most men on the street out of a need to protect my own personal safety, but I do appreciate the GOOD guys in my life.
RegardesPlatero, Thank you very much for your very eloquent post. I highly appreciate what you mentioned and I have high regard (no pun) for you.  One of my friends is a stay-at-home mom. She has a Yale degree and both a Harvard MBA and a Harvard Law degree. Therefore, I understand what you said about a woman being held back by her career. Fortunately, her husband is highly successful and already came from a wealthy background, so the real need for a career was moot. Even then, I hear you loud and clear. Be assured that I have led a life disappointed by many women, so much that I am equally suspicious of women as you are about men. Before I met my wife, I had sworn off to a life of bachelorhood, albeit I had a childhood dream and life ambition of being a father. Still, I have taught myself not to cast negative blanket views on an entire group/class of people for the ills of some of them. We all fall short of the Glory of God, but there are still many good people in this world. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 458 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 11:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: Glad that my comment didn't pass you by. A decent partner breaks up with their boyfriend/girlfriend prior to having sex with another. That is called respect. If there is an open relationship, no need to break up. You have a lot to learn.
You're hilarious because you think I would cheat on my partner I don't know why I even have to clarify. I'm not sure if it's because you're illiterate or what?This isn't about me, did you not read the op? I said I know people with cap placements who neglect their partners emotional needs, and than they get cheated on. I don't condone cheating I never stood by it and I never will how many times do I have to repeat this or are you just not capable of comprehending all of this? I'm just saying from observation neglecting emotional needs of their partner will lead to them being unfaithful. I understand why thy feel neglected doesn't mean I agree with being unfaithful I'm saying I get why they would though. Is that simple or do I have to resort to preschool comprehension skills? Sure my bf cap rising saturn 1st and mars in cap first is a work-a-holic and at times I feel neglected but that goes away fairly quickly. It's normal to want to bond with your partner I don't always want to bond but I have my moments. I never once said I'm going to be unfaithful. That's completely idiotic. Your lack of reading comprehension annoys me since you still don't get the point. I know its wrong to cheat, I know communication is important, just because I'm younger than you doesn't mean I don't know things. 8) IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 6027 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 25, 2011 08:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: I said I know people with cap placements who neglect their partners emotional needs, and than they get cheated on.
If you're making this conclusion ON ANY LEVEL, then there are still things you have to learn about relationships.IP: Logged | |