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YellowGerbera
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posted November 16, 2014 05:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm not sure what you mean by this. Could you give a few examples? Thanks!


Hmm I feel like I get this but it's not that I have boundary issues.. My rules always change depending on my mood, people I'm with, the whole situation and events leading up to it...

Oh well.. That does sound like I got boundary issues... :S.. I don't like to say I got issues cuz issues are something I would have negative experience with...? I don't think I always end up in bad situation cuz of my flexible rules. If I feel danger coming tho, I'll be quick to realize and be ready to face it (I don't swim away like some Pisces do... It must be my Mars Aries!).

Btw, I'm Pisces Sun, Moon and Mercury!

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AmelieRose81
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posted November 16, 2014 06:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
am a pisces sun

do:
if you fall in love with me, say it, don't give me hints, make me guess.

don't:
disappear, that's my job. you cant give me a taste of my own medicine

doubt my intuition


ok firey fish but what is the woman supposed to do if the Pisces disappears? Keep at it....

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posted November 16, 2014 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:

DO:
- expect insane boundary issues. Like, Insane. Every Pisces sun or ascendant I have ever known has had issues with boundaries. They simply don't understand them. They will act like they do, then turn around and cross the line again


Boundary issues as in will they do or say something outrageous that will shock you and hen apologise and do it again later?

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posted November 16, 2014 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
ok firey fish but what is the woman supposed to do if the Pisces disappears? Keep at it....


don't chase, be persistence

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AmelieRose81
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posted November 16, 2014 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Double post

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AmelieRose81
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posted November 16, 2014 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:
don't chase, be persistence

What's the difference?

How do I be persistent without chasing? What sort of contact to make?

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charlie
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posted November 16, 2014 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces love drama.
Pisces don't love to talk when forced.

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SoStellarOne
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posted November 16, 2014 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoStellarOne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yeah, This is my topic:

Do's:
*Communicate. (Even if I don't talk back, just keep communicating because it'll give me something to think about while I'm in my current mood and then I'll give you feedback later.)
*Have Patience and Respect.
*Be understanding.
*Be supportive.

Don'ts:
*Be controlling.
*Be clingy.
*Be argumentive.
*Be jealous.
*Be negative.
*Force me to talk.
*Kill my dreams.
*Try to change me.

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posted November 16, 2014 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo rising!

- DO be amusing and lighthearted
- DON'T fence them in or push them to feel obligated, a lot of them will be too nice to say no

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posted November 17, 2014 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whaaat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
That just put a chill down my spine.

The Pisces guy I like really upset me by sending me inappropriate pictures of him with an ex thinking somehow that Id like it and my god does he try and push the boundaries of what he wants to try too.

God are they all so promiscuous & inappropriate with their behaviour?


I haven't dated a pisces (or anyone), but I've had many a classmate, friend of a friend and so on cross my path.

If Scorpio is capable of perversion and sadism out of the desire for power, Pisces seems to be a whole other breed of sociopath.

If Scorpio wants to consume, Pisces wants to BE consumed. Pisces longs to provoke that feeling in themselves and others. It's like by pushing our buttons, they encourage us to join them in their quest for self destruction.

Their God demands a sacrificial burning, so they'll handcuff you to them, and drench themselves in gasoline. They'll even try to communicate what a great honor and delight this is as they burn as you struggle in horror.

On a related note:

Pisces is difficult to pair up in my opinion. Water signs can understand their sensitivity, sure, but what Pisces needs is for someone to play the role of their 'abuser', or the buddy who they'll share the experience of being abused with (and who they themselves will harass).

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posted November 17, 2014 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whaaat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo AC

The one character I always think of in relation to Pisces:

I also keep thinking that Aleister Crowley must be a Pisces but all he's got in that sign is the Moon. :P

Zdzisław Beksiński though, I KNEW IT.
That man was so Neptune heavy. Painting his dreams and nightmares...

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posted November 17, 2014 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiery_fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by whaaat:
I haven't dated a pisces (or anyone), but I've had many a classmate, friend of a friend and so on cross my path.

If Scorpio is capable of perversion and sadism out of the desire for power, Pisces seems to be a whole other breed of sociopath.

If Scorpio wants to consume, Pisces wants to BE consumed. Pisces longs to provoke that feeling in themselves and others. It's like by pushing our buttons, they encourage us to join them in their quest for self destruction.

Their God demands a sacrificial burning, so they'll handcuff you to them, and drench themselves in gasoline. They'll even try to communicate what a great honor and delight this is as they burn as you struggle in horror.

On a related note:

Pisces is difficult to pair up in my opinion. Water signs can understand their sensitivity, sure, but what Pisces needs is for someone to play the role of their 'abuser', or the buddy who they'll share the experience of being abused with (and who they themselves will harass).



thats....abit too extreme

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whaaat
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posted November 17, 2014 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whaaat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiery_fish:

thats....abit too extreme

If that's what it takes to fully explore a prototype..

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posted November 17, 2014 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 17, 2014 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 17, 2014 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Did he have any personal planets in scorpio? This has been my experience with people that that. Every time. Even when you tell them to stop they stop for like. A second.

My SO is a Pisces Asc and he too has issues with boundaries. He can do things and I'll snap his head off. He apologizes but will do the same thing again. And again. Ummm...and again.

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posted November 17, 2014 10:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Did he have any personal planets in scorpio? This has been my experience with people that that. Every time. Even when you tell them to stop they stop for like. A second.

You know I ALWAYS got a Scorpio vibe from him, but nope. Nothing. Hardly any Pluto aspects even.

However I just found out he has his sun and two other planets on Scorpio in draconic astrology.

I do think his boundary issues have something to do with his Pisces rising though.

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posted November 17, 2014 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Do be open and receptive.
Do always be available for them.
Do show them you can be a little clingy and posessive every now and then.
Do be a little dramatic.
Do be patient.

Don't expect them to give you the same treatment.
Don't expect them to stay the same once they've won you.
Don't expect any answers out of them.
Don't be too intense.
Don't be sad or negative or pessimistic.
Don't expect them to talk.


So Pisces are take all, give nothing?

Worse if they have Aqua placements too?

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posted November 17, 2014 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ If the answer to your question is “yes”, would you stop chasing your Pisces guy ?

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posted November 17, 2014 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ If the answer to your question is “yes”, would you stop chasing your Pisces guy ?

I dont know.

The problem I have with them being passive and not chasing is that I dont know if the attention is wanted or not.

When someone is passive and doesnt give anything up, you feel like you're troubling them and it makes me uncomfortable.
If I knew he didnt mind me being in touch and it was welcome then ok.

but he's interested when we're together.

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posted November 17, 2014 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fishbull11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DON'T: Turn our music off

DO: Underestimate us

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posted November 17, 2014 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pisceskiwi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hippichick:
Dont date one if you are one

Scorp asc


Haha that's true for me- fine for a hook up but not long term relationship.
Do give me enough space and time to be alone.
Don't ask me what I'm doing in that time nor ask me what I'm thinking (chances are you won't want to know).
Leo asc

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posted November 17, 2014 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 17, 2014 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
I dont know.

The problem I have with them being passive and not chasing is that I dont know if the attention is wanted or not.

When someone is passive and doesnt give anything up, you feel like you're troubling them and it makes me uncomfortable.
If I knew he didnt mind me being in touch and it was welcome then ok.

but he's interested when we're together.


Yes a pisces-aqua guy will take more than they give I think. Still they give as much as they can, but with a mix of two of the most ethereal signs of the zodiac, there's gonna be a problem with getting any kind of proof of thier love or devotion or what they're even giving you. Wth both pisces and aqua. They buy into the idea of things but don't really have mu h to show for it.

They're passive becaue they want to be chased. I personally have a problem with this because I want to know if the other person wants me or not. I think thats the same case with pisces though. So for a woman of this sign it's pretty normal but it's uncommon for a man to want the women to be chasing them... it's different if he has fire in his chart though.

Also the biggest lesson I had to learn about pisces is that they exist totally in the moment. They love you in the moment. Only the moment exists for them. Of course they can love you forever but also they might not.

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posted November 17, 2014 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anongrl10:

Let me see....

1. Don't expect from fish to talk. They simply don't.
2. Fish loves deeply.
3. Appreciate their coolness and sense of humor.
4. Fish ppl are great socializers....
5. Fish ppl are very sexy but they keep it secret.
6. Fish can mix with all sorts of ppl.
7. You will never know your fish until he has opened up to you on his own accord.


I'm a pisces sun and I'm exactly like that, just exactly.

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