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Topic: Do's & Don't's: Pisces
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YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 710 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 05:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: I'm not sure what you mean by this. Could you give a few examples? Thanks!
Hmm I feel like I get this but it's not that I have boundary issues.. My rules always change depending on my mood, people I'm with, the whole situation and events leading up to it... Oh well.. That does sound like I got boundary issues... :S.. I don't like to say I got issues cuz issues are something I would have negative experience with...? I don't think I always end up in bad situation cuz of my flexible rules. If I feel danger coming tho, I'll be quick to realize and be ready to face it (I don't swim away like some Pisces do... It must be my Mars Aries!). Btw, I'm Pisces Sun, Moon and Mercury! IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 16, 2014 06:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by fiery_fish: am a pisces sundo: if you fall in love with me, say it, don't give me hints, make me guess. don't: disappear, that's my job. you cant give me a taste of my own medicine doubt my intuition
ok firey fish but what is the woman supposed to do if the Pisces disappears? Keep at it.... IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 16, 2014 06:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
DO: - expect insane boundary issues. Like, Insane. Every Pisces sun or ascendant I have ever known has had issues with boundaries. They simply don't understand them. They will act like they do, then turn around and cross the line again
Boundary issues as in will they do or say something outrageous that will shock you and hen apologise and do it again later?
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fiery_fish Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Seattle Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 06:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by AmelieRose81: ok firey fish but what is the woman supposed to do if the Pisces disappears? Keep at it....
don't chase, be persistence IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 16, 2014 07:00 AM
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AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 16, 2014 07:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by fiery_fish: don't chase, be persistence
What's the difference? How do I be persistent without chasing? What sort of contact to make? IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3417 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 16, 2014 09:46 AM
Pisces love drama. Pisces don't love to talk when forced. IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Charleston,SC, US Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 16, 2014 11:21 AM
Oh yeah, This is my topic:Do's: *Communicate. (Even if I don't talk back, just keep communicating because it'll give me something to think about while I'm in my current mood and then I'll give you feedback later.) *Have Patience and Respect. *Be understanding. *Be supportive. Don'ts: *Be controlling. *Be clingy. *Be argumentive. *Be jealous. *Be negative. *Force me to talk. *Kill my dreams. *Try to change me. IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2014 12:49 PM
Leo rising!- DO be amusing and lighthearted - DON'T fence them in or push them to feel obligated, a lot of them will be too nice to say no IP: Logged |
whaaat Knowflake Posts: 549 From: Portland, MA,U.S Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 17, 2014 06:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by AmelieRose81: That just put a chill down my spine.The Pisces guy I like really upset me by sending me inappropriate pictures of him with an ex thinking somehow that Id like it and my god does he try and push the boundaries of what he wants to try too. God are they all so promiscuous & inappropriate with their behaviour?
I haven't dated a pisces (or anyone), but I've had many a classmate, friend of a friend and so on cross my path. If Scorpio is capable of perversion and sadism out of the desire for power, Pisces seems to be a whole other breed of sociopath. If Scorpio wants to consume, Pisces wants to BE consumed. Pisces longs to provoke that feeling in themselves and others. It's like by pushing our buttons, they encourage us to join them in their quest for self destruction. Their God demands a sacrificial burning, so they'll handcuff you to them, and drench themselves in gasoline. They'll even try to communicate what a great honor and delight this is as they burn as you struggle in horror. On a related note: Pisces is difficult to pair up in my opinion. Water signs can understand their sensitivity, sure, but what Pisces needs is for someone to play the role of their 'abuser', or the buddy who they'll share the experience of being abused with (and who they themselves will harass).
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whaaat Knowflake Posts: 549 From: Portland, MA,U.S Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 17, 2014 06:24 AM
Leo ACThe one character I always think of in relation to Pisces: I also keep thinking that Aleister Crowley must be a Pisces but all he's got in that sign is the Moon. :P Zdzisław Beksiński though, I KNEW IT. That man was so Neptune heavy. Painting his dreams and nightmares...
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fiery_fish Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Seattle Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 17, 2014 06:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by whaaat: I haven't dated a pisces (or anyone), but I've had many a classmate, friend of a friend and so on cross my path. If Scorpio is capable of perversion and sadism out of the desire for power, Pisces seems to be a whole other breed of sociopath. If Scorpio wants to consume, Pisces wants to BE consumed. Pisces longs to provoke that feeling in themselves and others. It's like by pushing our buttons, they encourage us to join them in their quest for self destruction. Their God demands a sacrificial burning, so they'll handcuff you to them, and drench themselves in gasoline. They'll even try to communicate what a great honor and delight this is as they burn as you struggle in horror. On a related note: Pisces is difficult to pair up in my opinion. Water signs can understand their sensitivity, sure, but what Pisces needs is for someone to play the role of their 'abuser', or the buddy who they'll share the experience of being abused with (and who they themselves will harass).
thats....abit too extreme
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whaaat Knowflake Posts: 549 From: Portland, MA,U.S Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 17, 2014 06:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by fiery_fish: thats....abit too extreme
If that's what it takes to fully explore a prototype.. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1492 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 17, 2014 10:05 AM
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bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1492 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 17, 2014 10:14 AM
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 3417 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 17, 2014 10:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: Did he have any personal planets in scorpio? This has been my experience with people that that. Every time. Even when you tell them to stop they stop for like. A second.
My SO is a Pisces Asc and he too has issues with boundaries. He can do things and I'll snap his head off. He apologizes but will do the same thing again. And again. Ummm...and again. IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 749 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 17, 2014 10:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: Did he have any personal planets in scorpio? This has been my experience with people that that. Every time. Even when you tell them to stop they stop for like. A second.
You know I ALWAYS got a Scorpio vibe from him, but nope. Nothing. Hardly any Pluto aspects even. However I just found out he has his sun and two other planets on Scorpio in draconic astrology. I do think his boundary issues have something to do with his Pisces rising though. IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 17, 2014 11:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: Do be open and receptive. Do always be available for them. Do show them you can be a little clingy and posessive every now and then. Do be a little dramatic. Do be patient.Don't expect them to give you the same treatment. Don't expect them to stay the same once they've won you. Don't expect any answers out of them. Don't be too intense. Don't be sad or negative or pessimistic. Don't expect them to talk.
So Pisces are take all, give nothing? Worse if they have Aqua placements too?
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 5452 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 17, 2014 11:40 AM
^ If the answer to your question is “yes”, would you stop chasing your Pisces guy ?IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 17, 2014 12:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: ^ If the answer to your question is “yes”, would you stop chasing your Pisces guy ?
I dont know. The problem I have with them being passive and not chasing is that I dont know if the attention is wanted or not. When someone is passive and doesnt give anything up, you feel like you're troubling them and it makes me uncomfortable. If I knew he didnt mind me being in touch and it was welcome then ok. but he's interested when we're together.
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fishbull11 Knowflake Posts: 215 From: depths Registered: May 2014
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posted November 17, 2014 01:08 PM
DON'T: Turn our music offDO: Underestimate us IP: Logged |
pisceskiwi Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 17, 2014 01:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by hippichick: Dont date one if you are one  Scorp asc
Haha that's true for me- fine for a hook up but not long term relationship. Do give me enough space and time to be alone. Don't ask me what I'm doing in that time nor ask me what I'm thinking (chances are you won't want to know). Leo asc  IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1492 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 17, 2014 03:18 PM
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bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1492 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 17, 2014 03:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by AmelieRose81: I dont know. The problem I have with them being passive and not chasing is that I dont know if the attention is wanted or not. When someone is passive and doesnt give anything up, you feel like you're troubling them and it makes me uncomfortable. If I knew he didnt mind me being in touch and it was welcome then ok. but he's interested when we're together.
Yes a pisces-aqua guy will take more than they give I think. Still they give as much as they can, but with a mix of two of the most ethereal signs of the zodiac, there's gonna be a problem with getting any kind of proof of thier love or devotion or what they're even giving you. Wth both pisces and aqua. They buy into the idea of things but don't really have mu h to show for it. They're passive becaue they want to be chased. I personally have a problem with this because I want to know if the other person wants me or not. I think thats the same case with pisces though. So for a woman of this sign it's pretty normal but it's uncommon for a man to want the women to be chasing them... it's different if he has fire in his chart though. Also the biggest lesson I had to learn about pisces is that they exist totally in the moment. They love you in the moment. Only the moment exists for them. Of course they can love you forever but also they might not. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 235 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted November 17, 2014 05:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by anongrl10:
Let me see....1. Don't expect from fish to talk. They simply don't. 2. Fish loves deeply. 3. Appreciate their coolness and sense of humor. 4. Fish ppl are great socializers.... 5. Fish ppl are very sexy but they keep it secret.  6. Fish can mix with all sorts of ppl. 7. You will never know your fish until he has opened up to you on his own accord.
I'm a pisces sun and I'm exactly like that, just exactly. IP: Logged |