posted November 26, 2011 12:00 PM            

lessons that YOU learned after having been in a relationship or dated one; sun in PISCES.
--post your ascendant

GO!!!!!!!!

posted November 26, 2011 03:18 PM            

Show them understanding
Have tact

Don't

posted November 26, 2011 06:47 PM            

Don't associate with them.

LOL!

Just kidding. Sun in Pisces overall, they can be really nice people. I get along pretty well with those born in March/late Pisces, but that might have to do with other placements as well. On with it:

Do not always take what they say for face value.

posted November 27, 2011 10:54 PM            

I've been in serious relationships with three pisces.

One of them I threw ice at, I mean, that was our first meeting.

Another one I asked to help push my butt out the window, as I decided to leave my marketing class early while the teacher left the room.

And the third one was literally in the middle of a bar brawl which unfortunately involved me, since I worked there, and I actually landed in his lap.

Then once your dating, they say they hate drama, but if everything is going smooth they retreat and advance, retreat and advance.

I discovered (by observing my own Pisces daughter) that there is nothing to be done.
It's not like any other sigh, trust me!
You just have to wait, if you love them enough.
And vibe the hell out of them, I have one that still sends me FB messages asking me was I thinking of him that morning, and I WAS.
They KNOW that sort of stuff.

posted November 28, 2011 12:15 AM            

Dont: ever give them any form of advice or constructive criticism because they will cry and spin things around and act like you insulted their mother...
Do: enable their bad lifestyle
Do: keep your mouth closed when they want to go out and party, drink and steal
Do: smile and encourage them to live dangerously
Dont: tell them their dress is too short/outfit is too sl*tty
Don't: ask them how school is doing and if they attend regularly because they will cry and think you are judging them....
Do: have your phone ringer as loud as you can because they will call you late at night drunk ranting about how they have no true friends and how miserable they really are
and when that happens DONT tell them the friends they choose to be around are low life enablers, just pretend to listen and tell them how great they are at life and what winners they are

posted November 15, 2014 04:22 PM            

DO:
- expect them to have a bleeding heart one moment and be cold the next.
- expect them to be very kind to the underdog
- expect emotional selfishness...even though they are very kind people and will go out of their way for you, when it comes to their feelings, theirs are most important EVERY. TIME.
- expect insane boundary issues. Like, Insane. Every Pisces sun or ascendant I have ever known has had issues with boundaries. They simply don't understand them. They will act like they do, then turn around and cross the line again.

DON'T:
- expect them to stay calm
- tell them to calm down - they won't, and it will make matters worse
- tell them they are wrong about anything, they will take it very personally
- be mean to someone they feel pity for
- expect a clear answer, or for them to stay tuned into a conversation

posted November 15, 2014 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:

- expect insane boundary issues. Like, Insane. Every Pisces sun or ascendant I have ever known has had issues with boundaries. They simply don't understand them. They will act like they do, then turn around and cross the line again.

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I'm not sure what you mean by this. Could you give a few examples? Thanks!

posted November 15, 2014 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm not sure what you mean by this. Could you give a few examples? Thanks!

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I only have examples from my own life, but I'll share.

When I was fourteen, I started talking to a Pisces sun man, thinking it was safe because he would never be interested in someone my age (he was 27 at the time). Long story short he admitted he was interested in me and did a LOT of creepy things, including sending me a picture of a half naked girl and asking if it was me...under the guise of looking out for my well being of course. We talked as friends for awhile but he kept saying things that made me uncomfortable, so I finally told him he made me uncomfortable and I didn't want to talk to him anymore, at which point he got his feelings hurt. A year later I let him back into my life, missing his friendship, and it was the same. He would post video of himself looking at my FB profile, ask me to stay up extremely late talking to him, and a bunch of other things I've forgotten by now. This Is a more extreme example.

A Friend of mine is married to a guy who liked this Pisces sun girl a lot when he was in high school. She does really inappropriate things. Calls him special pet names, sends him mushy valentines day cards...her behavior would make any wife uncomfortable. I don't necessarily think she means anything by it, she just doesn't understand where the line is.

My mom is a Pisces sun and to be honest she is the most disrespectful person I've ever met. She loves setting boundaries for everyone else, but she can't respect other people's boundaries to save her life. She continually reminds me of deeply emotionally upsetting things from my past. If I ask her to stop talking to me about something, she simply will not. I am an adult woman with a child of my own, not a teenage girl - but it makes no difference to her. She can't understand what is her business and what isn't.

The Pisces rising I dated was also disrespectful. He didn't understand my sexual boundaries...everything could always be pushed just a little further than I wanted with him. We had many conversations about it, and he always acted like he understood. But he would just turn around and do it again.

A Pisces rising friend of mine was a brand new friend o mine when my daughter was born. We had just started hanging out around christmastime and my daughter was born in February. Well she told me multiple times to call her when I went into labor so she could be at the hospital while I was giving birth. Sweet thought, but NO WAY am I going to call someone I barely know when I go into labor!

posted November 15, 2014 09:25 PM              

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:

To anyone who has Pisces influence who reads this, please understand that I know Pisces has many wonderful qualities. Every sign has their little things. I'm an Aries, and of course at our worst we can be rage-a-holics. These are just my personal real-life experiences with Pisces.

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posted November 16, 2014 03:12 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Long story short he admitted he was interested in me and did a LOT of creepy things, including sending me a picture of a half naked girl ....

He didn't understand my sexual boundaries...everything could always be pushed just a little further than I wanted with him. We had many conversations about it, and he always acted like he understood. But he would just turn around and do it again.

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That just put a chill down my spine.

The Pisces guy I like really upset me by sending me inappropriate pictures of him with an ex thinking somehow that Id like it and my god does he try and push the boundaries of what he wants to try too.

God are they all so promiscuous & inappropriate with their behaviour?

posted November 16, 2014 05:06 AM            

do:
if you fall in love with me, say it, don't give me hints, make me guess.

don't:
disappear, that's my job. you cant give me a taste of my own medicine

doubt my intuition