posted November 17, 2014 07:48 PM            

Don't:
- Be loud and whimsical
- Pressure them into anything
- Be judgmental or close-minded
- Be "black and white", be open
- Criticize them
- Complain
- Get into their personal space, they like their freedom
- Be mean/cranky all the time
- Be jaded/pessimistic
- Break their "romantic" perspectives
- Argue with them, they prefer to solve disagreements in a diplomatic manner
- Be all up in their business (don't ask them where they've been, where they're going ...)

posted November 18, 2014 07:54 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:

Also the biggest lesson I had to learn about pisces is that they exist totally in the moment. They love you in the moment. Only the moment exists for them. Of course they can love you forever but also they might not.

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This could come from a combo with Aries placements.

Pisces are on the 6th/12th axis, the axis of devotion. Virgo/Pisces are devoted long-term, ONCE they choose you though. Both signs have a keen perception of choosing a mate - with Aqua placements, that's even more pronounced. If Pisces or Virgo behave undecided or evasive, it's because they haven't chosen you, they know you're just temporary.

Pisces are among the most devoted signs if they think yours is a romantic, fairytale love - they often stay in abusive relationships because of that. If the relationship doesn't have the dreamy, fated quality of Neptune, they swim away to find it someplace else. As a final sign, Pisces is connected to finding some otherworldly, final modus vivendi and they often look for it in love; if they can't find it and are stuck in a pragmatic relationship, they constantly fantasize about it; however most Pisces swim away to find true romance, they're not devoted out of duty as Virgo or Cap - that of course, would be pure Pisces energy (most people have Pisces plus something more pragmatic so they compromise) - a bit uncompromising when it comes to love and romance. They may even prefer an unrequited love to a relationship where the romantic flame is gone.

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posted November 18, 2014 07:56 AM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
I read somewhere else that they do like clingy people. They need to be needed....

Or maybe the aqua placements change the map with some of them.

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All Pisces I know are very clingy themselves

And just like Virgo, they do need to feel needed, yes. But they're also very needy themselves.

posted November 18, 2014 11:03 AM            

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posted November 18, 2014 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Makes sense. I have no idea what to make of them. I'm dating one. It's hard. And all of the pisces I've ever known just add to the confusion. I recently watched a devoted pisces leave his wife and family all of the sudden for another woman! If pisces is devoted only until the fairytale fades or someone else comes along with an even more magical fairy tale. I don't know if I could call that devotion. When I met my pisces it felt fated like I was supposed to meet him. Now I don't know. Cold what you described transfer from the pisces person to the other one? Or could it describe a pisces descendant? Because it kinds sounds a lot like me and not my boyfriend.

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From what I've seen of Pisces men....one cheating on his first gf of 7 years, next one involved in on/off hot/cold encounters. Push / pull don't know what they want ...they seem to take what they want and leave when they get something better.

far from being the whimsical devoted lover.

my Pisces female friend cheated on her long term bf.

posted November 18, 2014 02:28 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think it depends on the other planets really. I've never known one but I wonder how a pisces with cap and taurus mars and Venus would behave. Of course a lot of the Piscean people I talk about I only know thier sun sign. For the most part, I rarely see them partnered up. I feel like maybe the ones that are drawn to me have specific similar placements....

Also I've seen more virgo suns cheat than any other sign combined. So much for thier devotion. So. I dunno about the pisces virgo axis :/ and I'm a virgo rising....

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posted November 20, 2014 07:19 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think it depends on the other planets really. I've never known one but I wonder how a pisces with cap and taurus mars and Venus would behave. Of course a lot of the Piscean people I talk about I only know thier sun sign. For the most part, I rarely see them partnered up. I feel like maybe the ones that are drawn to me have specific similar placements.... theyre not wishy washy just like out of reach but very in your face.

Also I've seen more virgo suns cheat than any other sign combined. So much for thier devotion. So. I dunno about the pisces virgo axis :/ and I'm a virgo rising....

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My SO has a Pisces Venus 12H and Cap Mars. Pisces Asc. Taurus Moon. I don't know if he has ever cheated or if he is. I do know he left a woman for cheating on him. She was a Taurus Sun/Pisces Moon. I also do know that he can take or leave relationships as he is VERY secure with himself and likes to escape with his thoughts alot. I am the same and I know what can happen in one's thoughts and dreams and that is fine with me. He leaves me alone with my brain and I do the same.

Would he cheat? Hmmm.....For the sake of conversation: possibly yes, but I think he would regret it for the rest of his life and punish himself. I don't see him doing it for the hell of it but in a weak moment of passion or a Piscean dream, and then wake up.

There's a trick to Pisces, or the ones I have met and been with and that is to never let them feel that they "have you". Just as they swim, you need to swim. Be slippery. But firm when around. They feel entitled to their dreamworld so take the opportunity to create your own with access for only you.