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Topic: Are most Aries just not capable of communication without hitting you?
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Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 662 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 01, 2011 11:17 AM
Your mom sounds like she's got some issues.. If she behaves that way she has issues PERIOD. I don't think it has anything to do with her Aries Sun/Leo Moon combo. If anything, it's more likely how it's aspected..Also, my bro is an Aries Sun/Merc with a Leo AC. Very respectful of people's boundaries, doesn't hit anyone unless it's provoked. And you have to do a lot of provoking (he has Venus in Taurus). For example: When he was in grade school, there was a bully that kept saying racist things to him. He ignores it.. while he's walking home, the guy was walking not too far behind, making racist remarks and throwing rocks at my brother. My brother turns around suddenly, and SMACKS the crap out of the bully. He's never had problems letting someone finish their sentences, he's never thrown a tantrum if he doesn't agree, nor does he physically/verbally attack them. My mom was a psycho abusive Cap, but I like other Caps. My dad was a good Capricorn man, so is my brother. Actually, regarding your original post.. I KNOW someone just like that. They don't have anything in Aries though. But they do have harsh Mars aspects among other things.
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maira Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 01, 2011 11:17 AM
My good friend is a Taurus with a Scorpio moon and absolutely hates her mother (go figure with that moon ), an Aries. I'm starting to wonder if Aries females make poor(er) mothers in general, what do you think?IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Knowflake Posts: 599 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 02, 2011 08:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by lalalinda: well lindasfarm, I can see that no amount of niceness is going to get through to you no matter what we do you are still going to assume that all Aries are like your mom. (and for the record, I have a 5th house Moon, you know the Leo House)Personally I'd rather die than let you see me cry so the big fake Aries Sobs sound totally made up. An Alpha Female is not going to let you lead them around by the nose and rub their face in it, even if she did give birth to you. another thing, you're straight-up? no that's not true otherwise you would be communicating on the same level as your mother. We respect straight-forward. I think the real problem here is your poor pitiful me Pisces Moon. There is a reason that the Moon is unhappy here and it basically comes down to manipulation. For the sake of our beloved knowflakes, don't go there, besides our Patron Saint Linda Goodman was (and is in heaven) an [b]Alpha Female Aries. Out come on Misty, let's you and I go play Alpha Female [/B]
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Mysticknowflake Knowflake Posts: 599 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 02, 2011 08:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by maira: My good friend is a Taurus with a Scorpio moon and absolutely hates her mother (go figure with that moon ), an Aries. I'm starting to wonder if Aries females make poor(er) mothers in general, what do you think?
I hope you are kidding, because if not that is an absolute insult!~ IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 02, 2011 08:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mysticknowflake: I hope you are kidding, because if not that is an absolute insult!~
I'm a female Aries, as arien as they can get, lol. And I was just musing, I'm really sorry if it sounded offensive! IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Knowflake Posts: 599 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 02, 2011 08:55 AM
Apology accepted. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 02, 2011 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by maira: My good friend is a Taurus with a Scorpio moon and absolutely hates her mother (go figure with that moon ), an Aries. I'm starting to wonder if Aries females make poor(er) mothers in general, what do you think?
Because they can be very stubborn and selfish. everything is all about them. just like the mentality of new borns and children very egocentric.
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 02, 2011 12:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by lalalinda: well lindasfarm, I can see that no amount of niceness is going to get through to you no matter what we do you are still going to assume that all Aries are like your mom. (and for the record, I have a 5th house Moon, you know the Leo House)Personally I'd rather die than let you see me cry so the big fake Aries Sobs sound totally made up. An Alpha Female is not going to let you lead them around by the nose and rub their face in it, even if she did give birth to you. another thing, you're straight-up? no that's not true otherwise you would be communicating on the same level as your mother. We respect straight-forward. I think the real problem here is your poor pitiful me Pisces Moon. There is a reason that the Moon is unhappy here and it basically comes down to manipulation. For the sake of our beloved knowflakes, don't go there, besides our Patron Saint Linda Goodman was (and is in heaven) an [b]Alpha Female Aries. Out come on Misty, let's you and I go play Alpha Female [/B]
Real Alpha Aries? I dont even know why you're getting so offended, its not like anything I said relates to you. You getting offended shows me anything I've said relates to you. Because this is just my personal experience working with Mega aries influenced people. I don't think all Aries are bad people. Obviously you still cannot get that, which isn't my problem. Im not going to assume Aries is like my mom. Do you have poor reading comprehension? I've stated more than 4 times now. Im not going to repeat myself. You dont have to be nice to me, and I dont want your nicety, it's insincere. but at least bother to comprehend simple sentences that I've bothered to write out to you, especially. Get over yourself because this could have been avoided if you read carefully/ learned somewhere in life to absorb information properly i.e develop sound reading comprehension. I dont think all Aries suns are like my mother learn to read. i KNOW they are not like my mother, because I am best friends with one, but obviously you skipped out on that part typical mega aries to just skip out on important facts to aid in their irrational conclusions. People like you bother me, people who continue to ignore important facts that have been spilled out to you, if mega aries influenced people learned this life lesson, to actually LISTEN and comprehend things they can avoid a lot of this "people are attacking me i can't take it anymore" syndrome. Something you're kinds exhibiting. /done with you IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1821 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 02, 2011 03:02 PM
actually, I'm not offended at all. I see exactly where you're coming from and I think the majority of readers see it too.as for your Aries best friend, here's a quote quote: i clarified that i do actually have a best friend aries sun but the only reason why i tolerate her and like her a lot is because she has a lot of water in her chart
you can't even be nice without slipping in at least one nasty little gibe. IP: Logged |
Anjellyfish Knowflake Posts: 79 From: AR, United States Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 02, 2011 09:02 PM
Dude, what exactly is up with OP's obsession with Aries? It's obnoxious and just weird.Not to mention so very offensive and stereotypical. I do not know a single Aries, or Mars in Aries who has "communication issues" or is "in your face" I think you take the Astrology thing a little too seriously and use it to pass judgement on people, tbh. IP: Logged |
DayandNight21 Knowflake Posts: 368 From: Registered: May 2010
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posted December 03, 2011 12:46 PM
I don't have an Aries mother like lindisfarne. However I do know Aries influenced people and there are a couple in my life with very harsh aspects in their charts (such as sun square pluto tight = my grandma) (heavily afflicted cap moon and afflicted sun aries - square saturn and opp pluto and trine neptune) who are self obsessed ego centric people. So I understand where Lindisfarne is coming from but it is the combo of aspects and aries strong people that produces the horrible results. Example I had a tragedy in my family when I was 5 years old that affected my aries gran and I. Did she offer support? No. Did she do anything? No. Did she say anything to help no? What she did was cut us off. She lived on the other side of the country and my mother drove down to see her every year with us and she gave us nothing, only a pittance on birthdays. She came up to our area of the country and never told us, we bumped into her in the middle of the street! Talk about awkward. We stopped going down there as it was too much every year and when I went in my college days I left wanting to scream at her for being so cold and selfish. She provided no warmth, nothing. Then she went on expensive cruises and bragged about living it up knowing we were struggling financially. She spent her whole savings, her house was sold and she died recently leaving no will = talk about mean and selfish. My Aries boss is the same, i am full of cold/flu and she 'had me in her office' telling me to attend extra hours event for work this weekend or else (presumably that means being fired). I have never felt like this in a job before and have a really good work ethic. She is manipulative too, text messages were have a great weekend then have a good weekend then 'your hours are'. Plus others have picked up on things she is saying and doing that are really ego based and not based in reality at all. eg santa claus said to her 'are you X's mother' and a coworker pointed out (after this boss went on a rant about it to everyone) that she is old enough to be his mother so it was a valid question. This same co-worker has called her cliquey/elitist today and I can see why. So I understand what Lindisfarne is saying. sure there are aries strong people out there who wouldn't hurt a fly but the harsh aspects really do set them off down the wrong path. IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Knowflake Posts: 599 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 04, 2011 11:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: [QUOTE]Originally posted by maira: [b]My good friend is a Taurus with a Scorpio moon and absolutely hates her mother (go figure with that moon ), an Aries. I'm starting to wonder if Aries females make poor(er) mothers in general, what do you think?
Because they can be very stubborn and selfish. everything is all about them. just like the mentality of new borns and children very egocentric.[/B][/QUOTE]You may want to enlighten my 6 nieces and nephews whom I help to raise as my own and all 6 think of me as their mom and come to me whenever they have a problem, because they know that they will be given unconditional love. BTW my own two children and I have an amazing relationship and yes I will BRAG about that, as in a day and age when parents aren't there for their children because of busy work schedules etc. I am there everyday when my children come home from school, help with homework everynight am a member of my PTA and well respected at that!~ My children mean more to me then ANYTHING on this earth and there needs come first. The one thing that I know for a fact is that I'm an amazing parent and proud of it!~ I feel very bad that you were raised by such a self centered women because it seems to have made a bigot out of her daughter. I've had enough with the Aries insults. ENOUGH already. Please keep your biased opinions to yourself.
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1821 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 04, 2011 11:57 PM
and on that note Misty let's be done with this threadIP: Logged |