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Topic: I'm tired of being single: will I ever find love?
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:24 PM
  
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
There are no guarantees in life with anything, but for your sake, I hope that you find someone who is great for you and who will treat you with the kindness and love that you deserve.
Thank you!!!  I pray to GOD that it happens for me this year! *Dear God please hear my cries! :*(
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:25 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
This is so true. Maybe you will never find love until you die. Sometimes accepting facts make it easier. There are some lies people keep telling that "everybody will find eventually" etc.. Dont cling on the that!. Live your life and accept the facts.
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
At least you have your own life set up. That's a big part of being on the path to finding love. You'll have a lot to offer when it finds you - when you least expect it. "We pull into our lives, like magnets, our realities."
I wish I could find someone to share my life with. Maybe in order for me to find someone with a similar reality as mine, I have to move, because I haven't found it where I am yet. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
that's a very interesting perspective; thought-provoking
*Agreed!
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
It was inspired by the "grass is greener" syndrome: she and I seem to have opposite problems. I wish I had her life. Mine is hecka boring lol.
But at least you are not alone. It's a very depressing feeling to not have someone to hold, love, kiss and care for.... for almost 7 YEARS!!!! :*(
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
And also I wish I can remember where I got that quote from....drivin me crazy!!
Anyways....Katie, 'tis possible that Neptune entering your Pisces 9th House will bring about a new mindset which will attract romance into your life. You'll be romanticizing relationships and intimacy less and have a rosier outlook on life, and love will probably then strike because you won't be as focused on finding it - less active (Mars), more attractive (Venus).
I hope so, because I have been thinking about love for years... yearning to experience TRUE LOVE! quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
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A relationship can be a vehicle for personal transformation and the kissing might be nice and of course there are physical urges, but is it really worth all the compromising and questioning and analyzing and worrying? What if you don't like his friends, what if his mother never stops criticizing your every move, what if he has a zillion siblings you have to help pick out Christmas presents for, what if his psycho ex from high school never really let go of him and attempts to win him back whenever she hears he has someone new, what if he turns out to be a cheater and gives you an STD, what if you stop being attracted to him or vice versa, what if he has a sudden transiting Uranus square to his natal Venus causing him to break off with no warning, what if he deserts you if you accidentally get pregnant, what if he loses his job then runs off with your money, what if, what if....
I'm better off dead if that were the case. Some people can handle being alone all of their lives. I'm not one of those people! quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Too many possible complications to count. Vehicles for personal transformation can be found in other avenues, such as travel. So I hope Neptune in your 9th takes you on a dreamy romantic foreign journey and you can have a nice little fling (tell that 5th House Saturn to loosen up), say adios, and forget about all this overrated relationship/marriage crap that society convinces us is the end-all-be-all of human existence.
I've traveled to countless amounts of places and countries. I have enough (7 years worth) of personal transformation. I want to attract positive love relationships in my life now!!!! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Hey, btw, try going for a Capricorn. You have Saturn in the 5th so that can manifest as delays in romance -or- romance with a Cap/Saturnian type. You'll probably find them doing something super constructive (like posting on this forum here...hahahahaha j/k!).
lol okay thanks! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Maybe you should try a dating site
Thanks for the suggestion, but I have heard too many horror stories about that, so that really Isn't my thing. But, thanks again anyway!! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
^ one of these days I'm gonna create one based on astrological compatibility. They exist already but not enough members. You heard about it here first, on LL 
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
^ one of these days I'm gonna create one based on astrological compatibility. They exist already but not enough members. You heard about it here first, on LL
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Yes they only have sun signs.... not good enough!
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:55 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Yeah, and they don't have interactive features like forums or personality quizzes....need better marketing too. (Could use that LL banner space, aha!)
Let's hope Randall save's you some banner space for your idea! It's pretty cool! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 06, 2012 09:59 PM
GrupoVenus already does that BTWIP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:04 PM
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Originally posted by iliketurtles:
Do you have insanely high standards at all? that's why I'VE been single for almost 10 years now  I'm not lowering them either, never.
Honestly, no. I think my standards are pretty reasonable. I'm looking for a smoke free, drug free, and alcohol free guy who cares and loves me for me and Isn't just trying to get into my pants; a guy who loves me for my mind and good heart too. If I could find these qualities in a guy who is into me the same way I am into him then I'll be a happy camper! He doesn't even have to be cute, or wealthy. As long as he loves me, is trustworthy and compassionate that is all I ask for. I would even date a homeless man, if he had the qualities that I mentioned above.
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by bluegreyeyes:
My question is, how do you "accept the facts" if you don't know them? Like, who or where should the original poster look to find the facts, and who is to say she will or won't find love, and when?
Good question.
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Most people get married. Only a very small percentage end up alone so have no fears! Your time will come. The right guy will walk into your life when he's ready! In the mean time, better yourself in every way so you attract the kind of man YOU want lol.
Okay! Thanks for helping me to be optimistic! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
It is not natural to be alone. I firmly believe that because of my faith.
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:13 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
@IamLoved, maybe your nick has the answer. People choose nicknames depending on their circumstances, psychiology, life conditions, their likes. Sometimes we choose what we want most. psychologically speaking, you dont feel that you are loved or maybe in your childhood you had self-esteem or acceptance issues and this is why you came with it. Maybe you couldnt find inner-peace,self-love in your life, so you are not attracting anyone? This is a question you should answer.
You know, when I 1st joined this forum many years ago, my username was "INeedLove" and at that point in my life I was going through trials and tribulations in the love department and a member on this forum suggested that I change my name from "INeedLove" to "IamLoved" to kind of speak things into existence. But, I still feel needy in the love department.
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:15 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Did posts disappear from this thread? I responded, and there were two pages. Now there is only one?
lol no there are two different, yet similar ones with two different titles. One has a blue heart and the other has a blue sad face.IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:18 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Lol I was actually wondering about the incongruity between her Venus-Jupiter trine and this thread....sounds like you have something thar
lol no.... my standards are low. I would even date/marry a homeless man, if he didn't smoke, do drugs, or drink alcohol and loved me for my mind, not just my body.
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:19 PM
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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
IAmLoved, I live in your neck of the woods. Email me: jbrenner56@yahoo.com... crabby
Thanks!
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:25 PM
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Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Mert... wise words
"here are some lies people keep telling that "everybody will find eventually" etc.. Dont cling on the that!. Live your life and accept the facts "
I would say live your live and be happy
I am single too for a long time.
Only very recently i started to accept it and surprise.... I started to enjoy life more.
I understand, we (human beings) by nature are social. we want to have a witness to own life. and wanting to be in rel is very human.
I believe if you start being ok with yourself (read by yourself) somebody will come along and it will be up to you except him/her or not.But agan, I have somewhat fatalistic outlook on life -Russian upbringing
and we have a saying (I am big on sayings too)
"Person was born alone and die alone"
Thanks for your post.But I wasn't born alone.... my mother was right there pushing me out lol! There were doctors, nurses, friends and family members all present to witness the beginning of a new life. So no! I wasn't born alone. But again I thank you for your post and your empathy! And I hope you find love too! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
GrupoVenus already does that BTW
They do? I didn't know that! Since when? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 06, 2012 10:55 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
They do?I didn't know that! Since when?
I don't know since when. I signed up a few weeks ago on to get daily horoscopes, specifically entered that I'm married, but I'm nevertheless subjected to their astrological matchmaking service. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 07, 2012 12:29 AM
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But I wasn't born alone.... my mother was right there pushing me out lol! There were doctors, nurses, friends and family members all present to witness the beginning of a new life. So no! I wasn't born alone.
LOL! HEYY i'm just a day older than u! IP: Logged |
KeirraW
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posted January 07, 2012 08:36 AM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
Honestly, no. I think my standards are pretty reasonable.I'm looking for a smoke free, drug free, and alcohol free guy who cares and loves me for me and Isn't just trying to get into my pants; a guy who loves me for my mind and good heart too. If I could find these qualities in a guy who is into me the same way I am into him then I'll be a happy camper! He doesn't even have to be cute, or wealthy. As long as he loves me, is trustworthy and compassionate that is all I ask for. I would even date a homeless man, if he had the qualities that I mentioned above.
Perhaps you are looking in all the wrong places? Have you tried various Church groups, or social clubs that interest you that are in your neighbourhood, eg Bonsai Club, or Reading club. Join hobby classes, or dance studio's. You may meet a friend who has a cool brother, or meet a guy at these places. Smile and be friendly, but watch out for creeps who misread the friendliness. A friend once told me that when we actively seek a relationship, it's like we let off a smell and everyone runs away! Confidence is a great quality to attract friends and hopefully a trustworthy mate! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 07, 2012 02:01 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I don't know since when. I signed up a few weeks ago on to get daily horoscopes, specifically entered that I'm married, but I'm nevertheless subjected to their astrological matchmaking service.
Oh wow.  I hope your wife Isn't peeved!
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