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Topic: I'm tired of being single: will I ever find love?
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IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:16 PM
  
Hello everyone.It's been a while, but I'm back again. I hope everyone is well! Lately, I have been feeling very sad. I feel incomplete without a relationship. I have friends to spend time with, but I'm still sad. I'm 27 yrs old and I've been a single woman for 6 years now. What am I doing wrong? I go out, I socialize and nothing.... Can someone please give me some advice, insight, something that will inspire me and clarify the reason I'm going through this? Please help.... I was born May 8th 1984 Queens NY 9:48 am Thank you so much!!!! Many blessings to those who try to help me! <3 Katie IP: Logged |
Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 12, 2011 10:24 PM
Whoa, you live in NYC too...and I happen to know where Queens is! hahaYou should upload your natal birth chart. But, astrology aside, what is it that you want from a partner? I tend to feel "incomplete" without a relationship too...but I tend to not even know what I even want in a partner so I used to kinda just go with whatever guy came my way. I'll be so in need with the idea of love that I don't really even love. That's my Libra sun/moon/mars ^ IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted December 13, 2011 04:53 AM
Love always comes when it means to be. Dont do anything. Just be as you are.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 13, 2011 04:55 AM
There are no guarantees in life with anything, but for your sake, I hope that you find someone who is great for you and who will treat you with the kindness and love that you deserve.------------------
*I use the whole sign system* Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn See my profile for my complete chart. IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 835
From: where the fun is
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 06:30 AM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
There are no guarantees in life with anything
This is so true. Maybe you will never find love until you die. Sometimes accepting facts make it easier. There are some lies people keep telling that "everybody will find eventually" etc.. Dont cling on the that!. Live your life and accept the facts. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 1085
From: So. Cal
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 13, 2011 06:33 AM
At least you have your own life set up. That's a big part of being on the path to finding love. You'll have a lot to offer when it finds you - when you least expect it. "We pull into our lives, like magnets, our realities." IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 13, 2011 06:43 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
At least you have your own life set up. That's a big part of being on the path to finding love. You'll have a lot to offer when it finds you - when you least expect it. "We pull into our lives, like magnets, our realities."
that's a very interesting perspective; thought-provoking ------------------
*I use the whole sign system* Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn See my profile for my complete chart. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted December 13, 2011 06:48 AM
It was inspired by the "grass is greener" syndrome: she and I seem to have opposite problems. I wish I had her life. Mine is hecka boring lol.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted December 13, 2011 09:57 PM
Hey, btw, try going for a Capricorn. You have Saturn in the 5th so that can manifest as delays in romance -or- romance with a Cap/Saturnian type. You'll probably find them doing something super constructive (like posting on this forum here...hahahahaha j/k!).IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
Knowflake Posts: 1087
From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 10:33 PM
Maybe you should try a dating siteIP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 1085
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posted December 13, 2011 10:36 PM
^ one of these days I'm gonna create one based on astrological compatibility. They exist already but not enough members. You heard about it here first, on LL  IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 398
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 10:57 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
^ one of these days I'm gonna create one based on astrological compatibility. They exist already but not enough members. You heard about it here first, on LL
Yes they only have sun signs.... not good enough!
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Capriquarius
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From: So. Cal
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posted December 13, 2011 11:01 PM
Yeah, and they don't have interactive features like forums or personality quizzes....need better marketing too. (Could use that LL banner space, aha!)IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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From: 2099
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 14, 2011 03:16 PM
Do you have insanely high standards at all? that's why I'VE been single for almost 10 years now  I'm not lowering them either, never.IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes
Knowflake Posts: 70
From: NC
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 14, 2011 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
This is so true. Maybe you will never find love until you die. Sometimes accepting facts make it easier. There are some lies people keep telling that "everybody will find eventually" etc.. Dont cling on the that!. Live your life and accept the facts.
Mert, I like you're brutal but honest approach. I'm so sick of the "you'll find someone when you least expect it". My question is, how do you "accept the facts" if you don't know them? Like, who or where should the original poster look to find the facts, and who is to say she will or won't find love, and when? ------------------
Aqua Sun
Gem Moon
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mintgirl123
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posted December 14, 2011 03:42 PM
Most people get married. Only a very small percentage end up alone so have no fears! Your time will come. The right guy will walk into your life when he's ready! In the mean time, better yourself in every way so you attract the kind of man YOU want lol.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 14, 2011 03:44 PM
It is not natural to be alone. I firmly believe that because of my faith.IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
Knowflake Posts: 835
From: where the fun is
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by bluegreyeyes:
Mert, I like you're brutal but honest approach. I'm so sick of the "you'll find someone when you least expect it". My question is, how do you "accept the facts" if you don't know them?
This is the answer we can not answer sometimes even the native his/herself. Best method is following instincts and moving on. Also, trying developing coping mechanisms can be another way. I honestly don't know. This is the hardest part. Not finding the love you are looking for years is not that hard in regards to this. What is really facts about his/her life? This is hardest but also the concept that makes sense so we can enjoy without knowing what is coming. Time is the answer and some do not have patience .
@IamLoved, maybe your nick has the answer. People choose nicknames depending on their circumstances, psychiology, life conditions, their likes. Sometimes we choose what we want most. psychologically speaking, you dont feel that you are loved or maybe in your childhood you had self-esteem or acceptance issues and this is why you came with it. Maybe you couldnt find inner-peace,self-love in your life, so you are not attracting anyone? This is a question you should answer.
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teasel
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posted December 14, 2011 04:28 PM
Did posts disappear from this thread? I responded, and there were two pages. Now there is only one?IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 1085
From: So. Cal
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 14, 2011 05:38 PM
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Originally posted by iliketurtles:
Do you have insanely high standards at all? that's why I'VE been single for almost 10 years now I'm not lowering them either, never.
Lol I was actually wondering about the incongruity between her Venus-Jupiter trine and this thread....sounds like you have something thar IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 04, 2012 12:31 AM
Yay! I found this thread again!!!  Thank you everyone for responding to this thread! I will respond to everyone shortly! IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
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posted January 04, 2012 07:16 AM
IAmLoved, I live in your neck of the woods. Email me: jbrenner56@yahoo.com... crabbyIP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 04, 2012 10:01 AM
Mert... wise words
"here are some lies people keep telling that "everybody will find eventually" etc.. Dont cling on the that!. Live your life and accept the facts "
I would say live your live and be happy
I am single too for a long time.
Only very recently i started to accept it and surprise.... I started to enjoy life more.
I understand, we (human beings) by nature are social. we want to have a witness to own life. and wanting to be in rel is very human.
I believe if you start being ok with yourself (read by yourself) somebody will come along and it will be up to you except him/her or not.But agan, I have somewhat fatalistic outlook on life -Russian upbringing
and we have a saying (I am big on sayings too)
"Person was born alone and die alone"
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IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Whoa, you live in NYC too...and I happen to know where Queens is! hahaYou should upload your natal birth chart. But, astrology aside, what is it that you want from a partner? I tend to feel "incomplete" without a relationship too...but I tend to not even know what I even want in a partner so I used to kinda just go with whatever guy came my way. I'll be so in need with the idea of love that I don't really even love. That's my Libra sun/moon/mars ^
Oh yeah I'm sure you definitely feel my pain..... you have your Sun, Moon and Mars in Libra... the sign of partnerships? Wow you're lucky, I bet you hardly ever are without a relationship. here is my chart...  IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 06, 2012 09:23 PM
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Originally posted by popcorn:
Love always comes when it means to be. Dont do anything. Just be as you are.
Yeah but what if I'm old and on my death bed when it arrives??? 
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