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Topic: What's Up With This Woman?
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Capriquarius
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posted December 17, 2011 09:04 AM
 
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Out of control and me don't jive. I used to like going dancing, but once I got to the club, I would shake my head about the rowdiness and promiscuous behavior, even though I was lusting for all the hot girls. How messed up us that?
Strange considering your Moon and Venus are in compatible signs. I'd expect that madonna-***** complex in a guy with a Moon-Venus square.Speaking of dancing, were you always able to dance? I had no idea how to when I was a teen but in my 20's I suddenly got it. I wonder if that's that Capricorn thing...being able to kick up your heels with age, is how Linda Goodman kind of put it in "Sun Signs." quote:
Forget that. I'm at a crosswalk intersection and I lose my patience when people cross the street and the crossing light is still red. Asperger's autism and OCB in action!
I get super mad when the "walk" sign goes on and I start to cross and some driver thinks that means "go faster" and nearly runs me over. Not sure which part of my natal chart accounts for that. Probably all of it!
Ok, it's daybreak right now...I'm gonna go for a jog. Hopefully nobody will try to run me over this time. Have a good 'un, sir!
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 09:27 AM
I believe it is Moon Trine Venus, not square. What Madonna-like behavior? Lol. No. I'm not some exhibitionist. I don't have the looks to attract the girls, so I had to resort to personality and conversation. Some flash and misplaced arrogance helped as well. Remember I grew up in the 70s disco era. You danced even if you didn't know how to. Blame John Travolta and Saturday Night Fever. I sense a west coast geographic location for you. You have a good 'un IP: Logged |
Malena
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posted December 17, 2011 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
This Libra is not down with OPP (yeah you know me!) That's definitely not a Libra thing (and this comes from a Venus in Scorpio!) Yes, we want to be loved and seek validation, but not all of us do that in the way that she did. Perhaps she took this trait to a more negative extreme. If alcohol or drugs were involved, those too could alter judgment. As to the Libra in your situation, I think that maybe she might have just been drunk. What really shocked me were all of her Virgo placements. I know that not all Virgos/Virgo-influenced people are sweet and innocent, but the ones that I've known have always been a bit reserved on these things and never like to act sloppy or be embarrassed.
It's funny you say this, because one of the most pathological man-stealers I ever knew was a Libra Sun, Virgo Moon. She was quite a good friend and a great person in a lot of ways, but when a married/coupled man entered her sight it was like TARGET ACQUIRED. It was actually quite sad. In her case, the equation went something like: Virgo Moon (perfectionism and deep self-criticism) + Libra Sun (realizes "Self" through relationships) = if a man likes me more than his wife/girlfriend, she is more flawed/less perfect than me and I WIN. I want to stress that this was the equation *for her*, partially due to the rest of her chart and partially because she came out of an incredibly dysfunctional family. I'm not labeling all Libra Sun/Virgo Moon folks with these traits, just pointing out a negative way this individual manifested the traits of those placements. I remember once asking her point-blank, when she started an affair with a male friend of mine who already had a girlfriend, "OK, I'm your friend and all, but does it really not bother you at all that his girlfriend might be hurt by this?" She just looked at me with a COMPLETE blank expression, like this other girl's feelings were some abstract little nitpick. She said more or less, "No, because it feels so good, clearly this is the better relationship and we belong together." Of course she and the guy broke up like a month later. So I think the woman in the OP's behavior can be partially explained by her Libra placements, NOT in the sense that I think all Libras do this, but that I've seen Libran insecurity manifest in weird and competitive ways in the area of relationships. (For example, the same friend I mentioned above went through a stressful period and became convinced that I was trying to flirt/seduce her man... which... hell no for so many reasons, but paranoia that another woman was moving in on her man was how her stress came out.) quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Moon in Leo = finds comfort in attention/exhibition
I think it's sort of interesting that this woman has Moon in Leo while YoursTrulyAlways' wife has her Sun there. I also wonder if this Moon Leo lady isn't happy with herself and feels particularly threatened/resentful of another woman who very freely and confidently acts out her Leo energy. Just a theory. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 17, 2011 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I would shake my head about the rowdiness and promiscuous behavior, even though I was lusting for all the hot girls. How messed up us that?
Very messed up.This is Capricorn gone bad. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted December 17, 2011 11:45 AM
^ Yea the braggart doesn't look too good on him, either.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Very messed up.This is Capricorn gone bad.
I was 18 years old. I'm now almost 50 years old. Can we please put things in perspective? I haven't been a club in... like... 26 years... IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
^ Yea the braggart doesn't look too good on him, either.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I can't do anything to change your opinion. I am who I am, and I'm certainly not going to change my direct approach to things. If its offensive to you, being a Moderator, I'll just take help postings somewhere else and so you'll be devoid of a "braggart" here. I'm sorry, you just activated the aggressive side of me. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted December 17, 2011 12:59 PM
^ Not just you, I've seen it in other Capricorn men, not so much the women. It's their baseline, what they return to when feeling under the weather in some way, it helps them to shore up themselves.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 17, 2011 01:00 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I was 18 years old. I'm now almost 50 years old. Can we please put things in perspective?I haven't been a club in... like... 26 years...
You can get kid out of club...
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 01:00 PM
If that is your expert observation (I mean it in all sincerity, not in sacarsm), then I am nothing more than a Capricorn man.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 01:01 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
You can get kid out of club...
Yes, I am a kid at heart and I intend to remain that way, even if I live into my 80s. If you are calling me immature, then I respect your opinion. There is absolutely nothing I will do to change my personality, and certainly not to please you. The only person I please is my wife, and my behavior is judged by God, and not all of you. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted December 17, 2011 01:02 PM
YTA, As for your edit, if you want to take a comment in a personal manner, then that is your choice. You do act rather defensively, as a general rule, on this board.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
YTA, As for your edit, if you want to take a comment in a personal manner, then that is your choice. You do act rather defensively, as a general rule, on this board.
Yes, I do act defensively. You have the perrogatively to remove me from this forum, or request that I walk away, and it would be my perrogative to cooperate. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 17, 2011 01:06 PM
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Lonake
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posted December 17, 2011 01:07 PM
It is at Randall's discretion, and his only, if someone is banned. And even then, some do come back under other usernames.
Your overreaction really is something else.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 17, 2011 01:10 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Yes, I am a kid at heart and I intend to remain that way, even if I live into my 80s.If you are calling me immature, then I respect your opinion. There is absolutely nothing I will do to change my personality, and certainly not to please you. The only person I please is my wife, and my behavior is judged by God, and not all of you.
... but can you get the club out of kid? So,you missed my point. I deliberately left it unfinished,to see your response. Very defensive indeed! No one demands from you to please,you are certainly not judged,but you are commented on,since this is forum. You chose to interpret it as immature 
*no dancefloor was harmed during posting*
Bad joke... Couldn't resist 
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 17, 2011 01:13 PM
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 01:25 PM
As far as being defensive, it's quite simple really. You can kick a dog on it's side and step on it's tail. It's your choice. It's not alright, but life goes on. Just be prepared to deal with it's teeth. When criticism is lobbied against me and I believe it is absolutely unfounded, I may turn my other cheek once in a while, but I'm not going to sit and do nothing repeatedly. As long as it's not retaliatory in nature, I bear good conscience. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 17, 2011 01:30 PM
Criticism?
Commenting was not lobbied.IP: Logged |
Malena
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posted December 17, 2011 05:15 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
However, I could see how unhealthy Libras might become that way--attention-seeking, idealistic, thinking that the person cheating with her really loves her and will leave the "official" wife/girlfriend for her, etc.
Yep, that's exactly what I was getting at. It's definitely a matter of the individual acting out unhealthy behaviors, not a matter of unhealthy behaviors being true of every person who has that Sun sign. The Libra friend I had was one of those women who couldn't really handle being single. She needed a relationship to validate herself... in her mind, if she "stole" a man from another woman, it was like double validation. IP: Logged |
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posted December 17, 2011 05:40 PM
I have sun in virgo and if a guy is married I can't feel attracted to them, even more if he has children. There is too many single man in the world why bother with one that is married. I dont go for married men with children bc of the children. I care about the children. I dont go for married men who don't have children bc I dont like been anyone's second. I have venus and mars in leo trine 5th cusp in aries, I like been the number one and I am not going to compete for it as I rather invest my energy on other more constructive things. I like guys who are sure about me as my dad was always super sure about me and I wont settle for less. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 17, 2011 06:08 PM
She has no boundaries!!!What did your wife say? Women like this infuriate me. They actually don't think what they are doing is wrong.
They could have grown up around it, and find it normal to behave that way. How long have you known her? And did you unintentionally flirt with her? IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 17, 2011 06:08 PM
I ask because I know you love your wife but sometimes, men can unintentionally do certain things to make women like this take their attraction for them to the extreme. Maybe you gave her emotional support? Anything?IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 17, 2011 06:19 PM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
She has no boundaries!!!What did your wife say? Women like this infuriate me. They actually don't think what they are doing is wrong.
They could have grown up around it, and find it normal to behave that way. How long have you known her? And did you unintentionally flirt with her?
I told my wife after we got into the car. She was cracking up, obviously a tad drunk herself. I knew better than bring the issue up this morning. This woman's husband is a friend of my wife's friend. I've known the family for two years. Flirt? No. I've stayed clear. That's probably why I was the target. There'll be no excitement on her part if I were hot after her. I bet its the conquest that gives her the twisted satisfaction, but I don't know for sure. IP: Logged |
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posted December 17, 2011 06:31 PM
or maybe her husband doesn't pay her any attention LOL using you to peek his interest!!!!  You should tell her to bug off. Have you? IP: Logged |
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