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Topic: Question about Pluto and extreme need to control others
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dysfunctionalmystic Knowflake Posts: 1001 From: England Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 27, 2011 03:58 PM
I think it's highly inappropriate to post the chart of anyone when you're just looking to pick holes in their character. The chart was posted earlier and it belonged to someone who isn't much passed 16.... if I remember correctly. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 27, 2011 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: May I post my dog's natal chart? He is 10 years old but that is a senior by canine standards. I think it should be interesting to see how energies play out for a less conscious entity. 
LOL... You know my alaskan malamate is a libra with moon/venus/mars in scorpio and she is extremely talkative.......she talks more than she howls and she is extremely intense, every time she sees another animal dog or not, whether in person or on TV, she gets extremely intensely excited! its so cute....she also likes to check up a lot on things she cares about. We have ferrets and when we let them hang out together she becomes obsessed with checking up on the ferrets and following them around. Ofcourse we supervise them when they are together. This could all just be traits of alaskan malamutes or perhaps is her libra/scorpio influence.
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posted December 27, 2011 04:02 PM
Hehe sounds like her bark may be worse than her bite, eh. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 27, 2011 04:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: What does that signify for A Plutonian person?To consume someone entirely = love freedom of that person = a threat Maybe, what we were instilled at throughout these years isn't entirely true? I was taught, that not allowing someone freedom, restricting freedom, wanting to possess someone, and control them entirely was not a source of love but insecurity. Maybe throughout the years there is much more to this? Maybe confining someone, restricting them, the, "you're mine and only mine, I have to control you" is another form of love? I read in one of my astrology books, a huge chapter on Scorpio and this behavior of theirs.. They [b]have to consume their lover, It's not love if they don't. I was always fascinated by that because compared to other signs, scorpio seems to breathe this. It made me think maybe love sometimes means control? I don't know! But it was something I was taught to believe was wrong so when I meet anyone that wishes to consume someone etc, especially this girl I'm speaking about and she's so confident about it she's self aware and accepts Thats her style of loving. It terrified me, made me worry but at the same time I was impressed and intrigued. I never met anyone like this, I do think it's not insecurity I don't get that sense from her at all like I do with other controlling people..[/B]
That is one way to love yes but is not the best way to love, I see it as a more unevolved way of loving that does stem from insecurity deep down even if she is good at faking it really well that she is insecure. Edit: She is young and will soon learn that been this way will not get her far. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 27, 2011 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Hehe sounds like her bark may be worse than her bite, eh.
Well no she is an alaskan malamute so if you mess with her she will win......a boxer got aggressive with her the other day, boxer started it, and she defended herself really well and the boxer was losing, luckily husband and other person broke up the fight before it got out of hand. She is just not into howling or barking and likes talking more, like a libra and reserved scorpio lol. She is one and is big, 65 pounds right now, big paws and beautiful tale. Really smart, knows how to say I love you. IP: Logged |
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posted December 27, 2011 04:18 PM
Aww you make her sound like a cute lil b**ch. I'm sure she does love you because you're a heck of a nurturer. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 27, 2011 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Aww you make her sound like a cute lil b**ch. I'm sure she does love you because you're a heck of a nurturer.
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RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 27, 2011 06:04 PM
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RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 05:06 AM
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posted December 28, 2011 05:15 AM
That's all true. Pluto "love" is primal and animal-like. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 29, 2011 05:40 PM
quote: LOL. *rolls eyes* You're one of the most disrespectful users on this site. You're almost as bad as Belligerent Pygmy but not nearly as bright.Don't worry Juni. Trolls always crawl back into the hole they came from. 
Heh, I second that. I've seen her act like a troll/flamer numerous times IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 4817 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 06:57 PM
RunAroundScreaming, I just love your username. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1914 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 29, 2011 09:20 PM
Lindis is a bit abrasive, but she's young (she's like, what, 18?), her bluntness will mellow out in time. RAS when you started out here, you made MANY of the same kinds of posts that Lindis makes. I've never seen Lindis make personal attacks, she just argues her point in an aggressive way and doesn't sugar coat it. You can find her obnoxious without having to call her a troll.IP: Logged |
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posted December 30, 2011 02:08 AM
quote: she's like, what, 18?
I thought she was like 16 at first and then she gave me a chart that says she was born in 1983. Watevers, 18 then! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 03:02 AM
amowls...shrugs, I guess we agree to disagree. I'm not the only one who's observed that most of her comments are negative, critical, and outright mean/bullying. And she has acted like a flamer before, you just haven't seen it. But anyway, hopefully she will just tone it down a little instead of feeling attacked by those of us who have been offended and/or hurt by her comments.I think you are trying to be nice, amowls, and I appreciate that but I think there really is no excuse for some of the things she has written. Maybe you haven't seen all her posts. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5817 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 03:04 AM
Lol thanks, teasel =]IP: Logged |
MessyLilLeo Knowflake Posts: 190 From: the heart Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 30, 2011 03:54 AM
I have two Shih-Tzu Cappies, and they are never happier than in the midst of a routine.IP: Logged |
SpooL Knowflake Posts: 449 From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2011 06:43 PM
I didnt have a problem with her I hope she comes back.I figured she was just young and wanting some guidance. I didnt think that was to much to ask. Or maybe it was as linda goodman said the aquarious will feel judged and treated harshly by everyone but gemini. This is what happens when you have a fourm dominated with women. It annoys me sometimes to see users on lindaland go on at each other. With males they will settle the score quickly and thats it. When I was younger I challenged another coworker to duel. It ended right there thankfully managment wasnt informed.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2011 06:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by SpooL: This is what happens when you have a fourm dominated with women. It annoys me sometimes to see users on lindaland go on at each other.
Careful there, sweetie. Most, if not all, of the male LL members who've been given the boot are testaments to the contrary. Speak of an individual, if you must, but not of their born gender, of which they can't choose. They can choose to be tolerant or obnoxious, etc. And we all have our bad days.
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SpooL Knowflake Posts: 449 From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2011 07:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: Careful there, sweetie. Most, if not all, of the male LL members who've been given the boot are testaments to the contrary. Speak of an individual, if you must, but not of their born gender, of which they can't choose. They can choose to be tolerant or obnoxious, etc. And we all have our bad days.[/B]
fair enough. All admit gem males can say blunt and even regretable things when tempered. I just felt that she could have been delt a little diffrently. It doesnt matter at this point. I doubt she will comeback. At least she whould be mature enought to walk away. IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 506 From: Sunny Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 30, 2011 07:22 PM
I've said things regrettable in the past especially when I was younger. In some ways I can relate to OP's habits and know it's something you tone down overtime. If she is in fact 18? 19? Anyways, I dont agree with the approach of harshness but It took me a long time to understand IT'S NOT WHAT YOU SAY, but how you say it. Being contradictory and difficult comes natural for Aquarian influenced folk and it takes us awhile to integrate our true selves without constantly hurting others. Its definitely a balancing act.IP: Logged |
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posted December 30, 2011 07:31 PM
Spool. Why do you even bother with Astrology 2.0 board here then? There are other astrology boards with more gender parity. Personally I have a very harsh attitude toward males (got a Sun-Mars-Pluto-Nessus-Saturn configuration reflective of some sh*tty experiences with them) and wouldn't want to frequent a message board full of them.IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 30, 2011 07:44 PM
We don't even know if she is a he or old they are, etc. From what I've seen of her activities on other websites, Lindis not to be trusted. For example, on here she says she's 19 (going on 20) and has a Cancer boyfriend. In another website, she said that she was 17 a year ago, which would make her 18 going on 19 now... and in a post 5 days ago or so that she had a Capricorn boyfriend. Under the same account, they also posted as a male asking if they should break up with their girlfriend... It's all very odd if you manage to find her activities elsewhere. I posted all the information in another topic of "hers", but I'm too lazy to reiterate it all on here.Lindis clearly had no genuine interest in learning astrology or exploring herself through astrology. She was just here for attention, flattery, and out of sheer boredom, most likely. She loved to instigate for the sheer purpose of instigation - why else would she ignore or ridicule people who disagreed with her, but venerated those who supported her? If I were wrong, Lindis would've already called me out in her usual fashion. However, considering the evidence I presented in the other thread, she is probably gone now that she's been exposed. Either way, good riddance. It's one thing to deal with a young woman with lack of respect. It's an entirely different thing to deal with a troll acting like a young woman with lack of respect. I doubt Lindis will be coming back. IP: Logged |
SpooL Knowflake Posts: 449 From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2011 07:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Spool. Why do you even bother with Astrology 2.0 board here then? There are other astrology boards with more gender parity. Personally I have a very harsh attitude toward males (got a Sun-Mars-Pluto-Nessus-Saturn configuration reflective of some sh*tty experiences with them) and wouldn't want to frequent a message board full of them.
I'm sorry to here about your negative experience with males. I can understand you whould perfer Astro 2.0 to be dominated with females just for the comfort zone. I've seen some ass*ole male psychis, push females around. After watching 5 females ask for a reading from some male psychic and seeing all of them crying at the end, something must be wrong with that man. So I can understand how you feel. My complaint isn't exactly gender specific, I'm just upset with "user-user interactions". You will get pro/cons reagrdless of gender. There are times when having a forum dominated by females will produce a lot of warmth and welcoming. Woman build so much better support networks for themselves and other women. A lot better than the males can and thats a good thing. And there are negative times when they can go vary negativly at each other, this just happends to be one of those moments. On a side note I'm currious what your chart combo is my sister is a aqua/capricorn mix. I gather if your user name is Capriquarius you must be a cap/aqua mix. I had intresting debate with her over christmas. We use to argue a lot but we've learn to respect each others opinions, typical brother-sister development. ElizabethO, I've found her chart on other astro pages, it appears consistant with wanting some astro help. Do a google image search. ---------------------------------------- Capircorn Rising Gemini Sun, 5th House Aries Moon Mercury in Gemini Venus In Taurus Mars In Cancer IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 08:02 PM
quote: she gave me a chart that says she was born in 1983.
The only chart I have ever seen her post is one where she has Aquarius Sun - Pisces Moon - Aquarius Mercury - Pisces Venus - Cancer Mars.... and the generational Uranus/Neptune conjunction in Capricorn PLUS Pluto at 25 degrees in Scorpio. This means she was born in 1993 ... not '83. ElizabethO - I did actually look up her photobucket and all I got in my search was:
- why are boys afraid to date me? - why are guys afraid of me? - are guys intimidated by pretty girls? - why the f do people take advantage of me? - how can I attract white men? - how do I get this hair? Can someone please explain to me what exactly it is about these posts that does not sound like a teenage girl? Am I missing something? This search was run on google australia. IP: Logged |