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Topic: Will there be any contact between him and me in next 3 months?
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 08:29 AM
  
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hmmm ur right i didnt see that, Cella. It is possible but i wouldnt bet on it bc in that aspect the sun hates the moon (detriment). From what i've read, no mutual reception negates the positive aspect.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 03, 2012 08:32 AM
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 08:38 AM
lol...on the night of so called break up this guy kissed on my cheeks and a peck on the corner of my lips when he thought I was asleep and he asked me so many times to take him as my bf before we met and while explaining the reason for his decision he wrote to me in an email that he likes me from the bottom of his heart and I am a wonderful person. He confuses me so much. quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Heh, funny. I'm in that same situation. The crying ever night thing. I'm also in love. And when I asked an horary question about him for myself (among the 11 or so ones that i've asked in total in privacy) I had moon in the 7th house as well and he was in detriment to me as well. My best friend is a wise cappy. She says that it's obvious he does like me and that he just doesnt want to settle down. My other friend who is a guy with lots of experience and 27 years of playing with women's hearts thinks the same, but that on top of that, since i rejected him in a big way, he refuses to admit any weakness now (like obvious signs of being hurt such as looking like he was going to cry as a reaction to things i did) so he asks me if i want us to get to know each other but he will not admit he likes me. I dont want to deal with him unless he admits he likes me so we are not talking at all now. That's fine with me. He should chase me if he wants. I am not dealing with his games anymore. He even looked like he was going to kiss me once and he admitted being attracted to me, but wont admit he likes me! I find guys will not admit that they like you (even if everyone else around notices they have a crush on you, which they did with him) until they have gotten to know u better, unless they REALLY are desperate to settle down, or they are kind of an effeminate or sensitive guy who is always looking for a relationship. Bcuz once the guy admits he likes you, then u are boyfriend and girlfriend and that means zero freedom for him.
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 08:40 AM
RAS, are you a leo sign? I am a leo and he is cancer. I always used to tell him that a cancer and leo can't gel and he would say I don't believe in signs and he is going to marry a leo woman only. He was totally into me at that time.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 03, 2012 08:54 AM
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 09:04 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Nope, I'm a cancer. And he is a libra. Could I have both of your birth data I can see the synastry aspects and orbs etc? A chart doesnt do it for me, I need the info.Lol. I know about the bond between Leo and Cancer. Sigh. Major insecurity. Major lack of trust. Major problems admitting feelings and letting go of pride on both sides, but especially for leo. So, I am proud of you for taking so many chances on ur pride with him and being rejected so much but still having kept going! I always felt like the slave in a leo-cancer relationship or friendship. I always had to be the one catering to him/her, asking why they are so careless/insensitive etc. Lol. I hope maybe that sheds light to ur dynamics with him? Hopefully? I dunno. I wish i could help, sweetie. Like i said i cry every night too!! Wah!  lol. but yeah. I guess it's like u said b4: Time will tell. =]
And i dong regret having experienced him....he made me know what it was to feel love passionately for someone for the first time. The kind where you feel ur soul is being torn out of you if u'll never see them again.
It changed me.
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Tofu addict
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posted January 03, 2012 02:08 PM
The ascendant is in the first 3 degrees, so caution is necessary as the situation is not fully ripened and there will be developments. But we go ahead, just bear that in mind.
The main significators, you are the Moon, exalted in Taurus, he is Saturn, also exalted , and the Sun.
There is no applying opposition between the Moon and Saturn, that aspect was in the past and we don’t use it for now. It might tell you about what happened , but has no bearing on the future.
That leaves with a trine between the Moon and the Sun, which is a positive applying aspect.
His sun is on a critical degree , and that might indicate that there are some problems with him, or that he is in a crisis situation.
So far i think there will be a positive outcome for you in this matter and that you will hook up again. All the best.
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posted January 03, 2012 02:16 PM
Leo and Cancer can work - I know of 2 successful marriages (very long term). A lot of couples hook up with their next-door-neighbor sign, which I think is interesting. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 03, 2012 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by Cella:
He is 35 but a man is always 5 yrs old when it comes to relationships I guess 
I empathize fully with your plight and I wished I have something insightful to contribute with regard to your situation. Having said that, I would kindly request that you not make a sweeping generalization of an entire gender, as I myself strive to never generalized women. Such broad characterizations are never very productive and invariably lead to ill feelings among the genders. I myself never female bash because its unfair. I never fail to ensure that I correct all men who female bash. Not all men are emotionally immature and certainly not all men are afraid of relationship commitments. I send you my best wishes for love, joy, peace, hope and success for this New Year.  IP: Logged |
Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 05:03 PM
Really??? Thank you so much  quote:
Originally posted by Tofu addict:
The ascendant is in the first 3 degrees, so caution is necessary as the situation is not fully ripened and there will be developments. But we go ahead, just bear that in mind.
The main significators, you are the Moon, exalted in Taurus, he is Saturn, also exalted , and the Sun.
There is no applying opposition between the Moon and Saturn, that aspect was in the past and we don’t use it for now. It might tell you about what happened , but has no bearing on the future.
That leaves with a trine between the Moon and the Sun, which is a positive applying aspect.
His sun is on a critical degree , and that might indicate that there are some problems with him, or that he is in a crisis situation.
So far i think there will be a positive outcome for you in this matter and that you will hook up again. All the best.
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 05:06 PM
I agree. I think they make one of the best couples. I also know of two such couples and they are deeply in love and in both cases guy is cancer and the girl is leo . quote:
Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
Leo and Cancer can work - I know of 2 successful marriages (very long term). A lot of couples hook up with their next-door-neighbor sign, which I think is interesting.
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 05:13 PM
Hey YTA! I am sorry if I have hurt anyone's feelings. I want to state that I was just joking about the 5 yr old thing, infact I like him being a 5 yr old sometimes in a good way. In fact one relationship coach said in one of his videos that we are like 5 yrs old, give us a clue, say hi to us and we will follow you, initiate contact and smile at us and we will respond and brag about it that I attracted a girl BTW, I also don't like to generalize behaviour or anything and stop people from doing that. Like in this case most friends are generalizing my situation that long distance doesn't work, his acts show he is not good for you but I am not losing hope. Thanks for your wishes and I wish the same for you. quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I empathize fully with your plight and I wished I have something insightful to contribute with regard to your situation.Having said that, I would kindly request that you not make a sweeping generalization of an entire gender, as I myself strive to never generalized women. Such broad characterizations are never very productive and invariably lead to ill feelings among the genders. I myself never female bash because its unfair. I never fail to ensure that I correct all men who female bash. Not all men are emotionally immature and certainly not all men are afraid of relationship commitments. I send you my best wishes for love, joy, peace, hope and success for this New Year.
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Cella
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posted January 03, 2012 05:26 PM
All, I have a burning question and even after much thinking I haven't been able to reach to a solution. I am thinking whether I should invite invite him to my brother's wedding which is next month or not.Will it have a positive impact or I'll come across as a woman with no self respect.Wud a chart drawn for this make make sense?
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 03, 2012 06:24 PM
I think you should wait for him to contact you. He is ignoring your messages. Let him be for a while till he decides to come back. IP: Logged |
Cella
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posted January 04, 2012 01:55 AM
Thank you quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I think you should wait for him to contact you. He is ignoring your messages. Let him be for a while till he decides to come back.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 04, 2012 05:14 AM
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Originally posted by Cella:
I was born in New Delhi, India on 2nd August, 1980 between 2:00 to 2:30 pm and he was born in Seebach, Germany near Weimar on 21st July 1976 between 7:00 to 8:00 am.I am really sorry, I don't know the exact time of birth for both of us.
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Cella
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posted January 04, 2012 02:12 PM
Take your time quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hey i havent forgotten about this. I'll try to take a look as soon as I can
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 06, 2012 06:05 AM
Dearest, Cella, the composite chart does not look promising at all i am sorry
The synastry is pretty nice
but the the composite is terrible.
Tell me if these things don't sound familiar? Composite Sun Square Uranus
Sun square Uranus in the composite chart means that this relationship will be the source of many surprises for you, some of which will be quite difficult to deal with.
Most important is the problem of instability. Clearly this is not a relationship in which either of you can be possessive; you must give each other maximum freedom. And if this results in one of you drifting away to someone else, then that is the way it must be. This aspect is not especially good for any relationship, such as marriage, that involves traditional expectations. Marriage is possible, but it would require much more flexibility than most people have.
A persistent difficulty that you may have to face is the nervous, electric quality in your interaction with each other. This quality will make it difficult to relax and take it easy when you are together. On the other hand, at least you will never be bored with each other. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 06, 2012 06:06 AM
Composite Moon Opposite UranusThe two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected. For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 06, 2012 06:12 AM
And here is another description from astro.com of Conposite Moon Opp Uranus which I have found to be extremely true for every friendship I have had where this composite aspect was present. As the description states, it was impossible for us to stay in constant contact with each other. We would not talk for months at a time and then come back together as if nothing happened. And i could not tell you how much proof tere was that she really cared for me. She did tons of nice things for me, except she was a pretty unstable incomstant person. You had to show up at her house to hang out with her, which all her other friends would complain about as well. So it was nearly impossible for us to stay in touch. She would complain to me too that i never stayed in touch, but i felt it was all her fault. Haha.Composite Moon Opposition Uranus
With the opposition of composite Moon and Uranus, this relationship will be a constant challenge to both of you. It will be rather difficult and probably very unstable. You will not be able to count on having traditional role expectations fulfilled.
If longevity is one of your principal criteria, as in a marriage, it might be best not to enter into the relationship at all.
This aspect is actually positive in a relationship that has no expectations placed upon it; both of you are simply encountering each moment as a unique experience to be savored for itself. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 06, 2012 06:21 AM
Composite Venus Trine Uranus
The trine of Venus and Uranus can be very beneficial in the composite chart of any kind of personal relationship, as long as you both are willing to strike out against the conventional paths and find a path of your own. For this relationship has a flavor that others would consider unusual, even eccentric.
A sexual relationship with this aspect is likely to be very open. There are countless other ways of being unusual as a couple. The point is that if you don't want to follow the customary script for your relationship - love affair, friendship, marriage, or whatever - then you don't have to.
Uranus is the planet of freedom and unconventionality, but it can also mean instability if forced to follow conventional modes of expression, because it is the planet of rebellion.------- I am so sorry. But there indeed is the problem. As much as you may try. You can even try for 10 yrs and waste a lifetime on this, but there is no escaping the destiny of a relationship shown by the composite chart. If a composite chart has moon square saturn, for sure you will never be able to be there for each other in times when you really need understanding and someone who understands. If you have compisite moon square uranus, you will never ever be able to have a stable relationship. No matter how much you want it, how hard you try, how much you try to talk it out. Trust me! It's just something that is in destiny, and i didnt believe it could be like that before but i have tried to improve and change the negative dunamics present in my composites with people so many times but there is absolutely no fixing saturn and uranus negative aspects. That's just the destiny of the relationship and it's better you know now that that's the way the relationship is always *ALWAYS* gonna be. It's either accept that now, or walk away. Be happy with something unstable where you try to enjoy each moment as it happens whenever u happen to get together, or walk away and release yourself from torture. There is no way to make a uranian relationship stable or fit into the preconceived notions of what a normal, stable relationship is. It will always be just a spur of the moment thing. Always. So I'm sorry. But there we go. That is the reason for what is going on with this guy. Trust me. That's what it is. The composite tells all. But anyway, here are the main reasons why you were so drawn to each other IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 06, 2012 06:24 AM
Composite Sun Square Moon
The Sun-Moon square creates a rather strong mutual fascination. It is as if each of you sees in the other something you want very much, even though you cannot handle it very well. A Sun-Moon square is quite likely to be found in the composite chart of an intense love affair. *VERY TRUE-My experiences include intense mutual fascination to the point of obsession, but then it feels awkward when actually trying to have conversation in real life. Over texts or chatting it's great but in real life, we'd get nervous, jittery, we seemed not ourselves, uncomfortable. We had certain very different qualities about each other that even though they fascinated us, they also bothered us because they were so different from our own. We wanted those qualities ad we wnated to figure out how the other person worked so we could get those qualities. But our family backgrounds and values were pretty different. The aspect of sun square moon is there to teach us to appreciate qualities and lifestyles that are completely opposite from our own.
Anyway...continuing with the actual officialdescription for this aspect......
But this aspect also indicates a fundamental tension within the relationship.
There is a sense of tension on the psychological level, which prevents you from being really at ease with each other. However, this can also work in a positive way by making the relationship challenging and creative, so that it doesn't fall into stale patterns and behavioral ruts.
In any case, there will be considerable differences of opinion between you, which should be hashed out whenever they occur. In this relationship, repressed feelings are likely to cause potentially disastrous outbreaks of emotion when the pressures become too great.
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posted January 06, 2012 06:36 AM
of the nicest aspects someone could have in synastry is sun conjunct venus, and i believe the combination of that, comp sun square moon, and comp venus square pluto was the main reason for your attraction. Comp is very powerful. There is no underestemating the mutual obsesive feelings engendered by this composite aspect.You also had this one aspect, which makes things fliw between you despite not having much glue other than sun conjunct venus and venus sq pluto Compisite Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus conjunct Jupiter is one of the best aspects to have in a composite chart. No matter what the purpose of the relationship, this aspect will help fulfill it.
Both of you will feel that this relationship reinforces you and makes life easier to bear. You will feel happier and more optimistic, which will help make events go well for you.
In a personal relationship with this aspect, love and affection are abundant and easily expressed. You love each other for what you are. You are willing to give each other room to be whatever you want, and your experience of each other is not hindered by too-great expectations.
Things can go wrong even with this aspect. But its presence in a composite chart will help the relationship to grow in a positive way and will help both of you to grow within it.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 06, 2012 06:40 AM
Now your synastry was filled with nice aspects but rhey werent anything mindblowing either. It was nothing that made me stop and say "Wow! this is some amazing synastry! They must love each other sooo much."one of the nicest aspects u have second most important to sun conjunt venus is
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posted January 06, 2012 06:40 AM
Cellas guy's Sun Conjunct Cella's SunYou strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is IP: Logged |
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