posted January 06, 2012 06:44 AM            

Cella's guy moon square Cella's uranus
You spark each other's curiosity and imagination, and you have a great deal of fascination for each other. It is likely that your relationship developed suddenly and impulsively, for your feelings for each other change quickly and unexpectedly. At one moment you find each other sexually irresistible and not much later you may feel angry or indifferent to each other. Your feelings blow hot and cold in this relationship, and consequently there is a tone of instability and inconstancy. It is possible that one, or both, of you will tire of the constant fluctuations. You may feel that there is a lack of commitment, dedication, reliability, and stability, causing you to doubt the viability of the relationship. On the other hand, you may find the changes exciting and stimulating. Be grateful that there are always surprises and novelty around the corner - at least you don't have to worry about getting stuck in a rut or bored with your partner.

posted January 06, 2012 06:53 AM            

        Cella wants action and stimulation, and enjoys the challenge of a new environment, whereas what Cellas wants above all else is domestic tranquillity, stability, and security. Cellas puts down roots and gets emotionally attached to a familiar place, but Cella is much more eager to change and uproot when conditions feel stagnant or a new opportunity presents itself.

        Where Cella is volatile and expressive, Cellas tends to be calm, steady, and impassive. Cellas is usually understanding but unperturbed by Cella's occasional outbursts of indignation, impatience, frustration, etc. Sometimes Cella may long for 'a good fight' or a stronger emotional reaction from Cellas, but most of the time Cellas's even temper and calmness have a soothing, healing effect on Cella.

posted January 06, 2012 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Cella:
I was born in New Delhi, India on 2nd August, 1980 between 2:00 to 2:30 pm and he was born in Seebach, Germany near Weimar on 21st July 1976 between 7:00 to 8:00 am.

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hey, i didn't carefully read every post here and i didn't read the other thread you mentioned about this guy in the beginning, but i have a thing to say about German men in general.

German men have a hard time acting interested, to a degree. a lot of them do appear uninterested until certain love criteria is established. they have a degree of reservation that might appear awkward regarding love.

AND this is not to say every single German man is like this, but this is not my bias, it's considered as a cultural trait. it also applies to Dutch men. you head west and you get the complete opposite of this. when i first moved here i was about to turn 30 and suddenly attention from men ceased, like really, ceased. i thought "oh god, so this is really how it happens, you turn 30 and you are not a girl anymore!?" it was really hard. in big cities like Amsterdam or Berlin is a bit different, but then both German and Dutch women told me it's just them being German and Dutch, nothing to do with me. Even some German men are aware of this themselves. they say that's why Dutch and German women are more "aggressive" in this matter. indeed they respond better when women are aggressive, after the initial "thrown off" moment. but it might just as well scare them too, i never understand the balance...

i hope this doesn't sound like i'm categorising without any respect to individuality. i've known men from these regions who are more flirty and engaging, but it's definitely exceptional. i'm the one who always thought generalisation is a bad idea, but i'm becoming a bit more flexible that certain cultural differences do apply in some cases.

posted January 06, 2012 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
However, what irks me is that I do bot see any extremely loving aspects. I mean sun cjonjunct venus is nice, but it is not always romantic (usualy it is just platonic) and you dont have any major indicators of sexual attraction or even nurturing feelings towards each other. You dont have sun conjunct jupiter or aspect moon, jupiter or pluto. You dont even have the moon aspecting jupiter, venus or pluto. You dont have any of those aspects in synastry either.

It seems to me that it is more related to venus square pluto and the combination of your minor nice synasty aspects with sun conjunct venus and compisite sun square moon (mutual fascination). It doesnt even seem like something worth pursuing that much. I know synastry Sun conjunct Venus is awesome, but trust me, you will find much more soul consuming relationships....It's hard for me to believe this is the most important relationship you've had at your age? #confused.

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posted January 06, 2012 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by lechien:
hey, i didn't carefully read every post here and i didn't read the other thread you mentioned about this guy in the beginning, but i have a thing to say about German men in general.

German men have a hard time acting interested, to a degree. a lot of them do appear uninterested until certain love criteria is established. they have a degree of reservation that might appear awkward regarding love.

AND this is not to say every single German man is like this, but this is not my bias, it's considered as a cultural trait. it also applies to Dutch men. you head west and you get the complete opposite of this. when i first moved here i was about to turn 30 and suddenly attention from men ceased, like really, ceased. i thought "oh god, so this is really how it happens, you turn 30 and you are not a girl anymore!?" it was really hard. in big cities like Amsterdam or Berlin is a bit different, but then both German and Dutch women told me it's just them being German and Dutch, nothing to do with me. Even some German men are aware of this themselves. they say that's why Dutch and German women are more "aggressive" in this matter. indeed they respond better when women are aggressive, after the initial "thrown off" moment. but it might just as well scare them too, i never understand the balance...

i hope this doesn't sound like i'm categorising without any respect to individuality. i've known men from these regions who are more flirty and engaging, but it's definitely exceptional. i'm the one who always thought generalisation is a bad idea, but i'm becoming a bit more flexible that certain cultural differences do apply in some cases.

that said, your guy may not be like this. i don't know because i didn't read the other thread, so i might be totally off. if he's being more a jerk than unresponsive, then it's not about being German. just wanted to say being rather passive in love stuff is not so uncommon for them. BUT again, please don't think i'm saying they are all the same.

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posted January 06, 2012 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I did the gun milan matching thing with one of my longtime crushes, and it gave me 100% and said we were soulmates lol. I realized later he is a shallow douche who plays mind games and i didnt even miss him after i realized that. But if u read the descriptions i put, it even says if u plan on getting married or this being a stable relationship, it is best to not even get into the relation. So it points out what i'm saying, too. Sorry :/

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