posted January 04, 2012 06:05 PM            

Actually he is extremely responsive in texts and we got eachother's jokes and everything (which doesn't always happen for me lol)

I have always been told that I am a very beautiful/attractive person. I am not my ideal because I doubled in size the past two years to be honest, but I still always get complimented from overall looks to things like my rear, full lips, eyes, hands, hair, etc. lol (Aries rising and mars in taurus make me carry weight well) I am thick and voluptuous and curvy and all of those delicious adjectives lol. I do hope to lose some weight and tone up in my belly dancers-type way, though (and I lose weight quickly) :-)

haha i have finally stopped wearing those cupcaked vanilla scents but I do like lavanilla's coconut mixed with a bit of ck one shock haha. No, we have definitely been checking out eachother to see if we have common interests and it's been hit, hit, hit, hit so far.

What do you think about his juno in Sag and my whole blunt, spontaneous approach to things? We're definitely from different countries -and, oh GOD, no I am NOT thinking 'marriage' just attraction-wise lol (although it is said that if Taurus can;t see it long-term then they don't even bother..)

posted January 04, 2012 06:07 PM            

Sure double earth in venus and mars move slower and are alot more cautious than a fire venus and mars, but if they're into you, they'll still show it in little ways. He's an aries mercury, so he's not shy. And mars in cappy are really like 'move towards their goal in a determined kind of way'

posted January 04, 2012 06:20 PM            

Okay let him... let him l... -hold on a minute why I go and teach my aries rising patience please- jk LOL

posted January 04, 2012 06:27 PM            

This is from my experiences, people usually show their moon side when they get closer to you, so if he did have a virgo moon, it wouldn't matter too much.

I've had several experiences with guys where they seem pretty like light hearted, assertive and like chill on the surface (bc of their venus + mars), then later on they end up being really like emotional and like soft lol cos their moon started to act up haha. Or they actually end up being alot more serious and stable than I first expected. Just cos they start showing that moon side more.

posted January 04, 2012 06:51 PM            

But, yes either way it is slow earth with him lol

posted January 05, 2012 04:44 PM            

With venus and pluto though I am seeing some craziness in relationships? Maybe the love/hate thing with women. (I actually can swivel between those two like a revolving door with men) -I am imagining that this aspect having the planets in taurus and scorpio would lead to alot of, er, kinky stuff in a physical AND a psychological way?

posted January 05, 2012 05:07 PM            

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Sand I've been thinking about that Venus-Pluto Opposition.. how do you think that would play out?! I have taurus mars opposite scorp pluto and it is a very energy draining and passion/agression internalizing thing for me. I am never violent though -it all just kind of dissipates (taurus steams out after a while I guess)

With venus and pluto though I am seeing some craziness in relationships? Maybe the love/hate thing with women. (I actually can swivel between those two like a revolving door with men)

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hmm.. i have never hated women.

but at it's worst...

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Men with the aspect (Woody Allen, Harrison Ford, Rock Hudson, Sean Connery) identify more with the power and control issues of the aspect: they switch emotions on and off at will in order to maintain control of the object of their affections and then begin to complain that their partners are unstable and psychologically damaged. What they fail to see is that it is almost certainly their fault that the woman in their life who wants to be loved and cared for is bewildered and confused by the emotional amputation they are subjected to and eventually it takes its toll on their mental health and wellbeing.

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-I am imagining that this aspect having the planets in taurus and scorpio would lead to alot of, er, kinky stuff in a physical AND a psychological way

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heyy what are u saying lol?

personally, in the physical aspect venus trumps pluto and mars. i like the love connection way more than kinky shiet.. but i'm venus dominant.

posted January 05, 2012 07:40 PM            

**Do you want to know the truth? (lowering voice and waving you closer) I tend to look at men through my sun and mercury in the 12th house in Pisces glasses. Widens big Piscean eyes and nods assuredly. But -shhh!! Don't tell the 'Baddies'!! lol

Thank you for the link, it helped me look at pluto aspects in a more open-minded way (the way I look at venus/mars squares)!

posted January 05, 2012 07:42 PM            

Wait- of you don't mind my asking what year were you born?

posted January 06, 2012 10:22 AM            

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I didn't mean to infer you (or others) were(are) a woman hater(s)! And I misrep'd myself by not explaining: when push into 'fight' mode by very (toxically) Plutonic men I toss and turn in the revolving door thing.

**Do you want to know the truth? (lowering voice and waving you closer) I tend to look at men through my sun and mercury in the 12th house in Pisces glasses. Widens big Piscean eyes and nods assuredly. But -shhh!! Don't tell the 'Baddies'!! lol

Thank you for the link, it helped me look at pluto aspects in a more open-minded way (the way I look at venus/mars squares)!

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oh don't worry i don't take things personally.

sun in pisces and in h12? hmm.. that's really fishy!

http://astrofix.net/2010/09/03/venuspluto-aspects/
http://ezinearticles.com/?Love,-Passion-and-Transformation---Venus-Pluto-Aspects&id =2845583

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posted January 06, 2012 02:44 PM            

"IT'S NOBODY'S BUSINESS IF I DO." Venus-Pluto natives may be sexually active, but these highly private folks consider it nobody else's business. In fact, secrecy enhances the passion. For some of them, sexual intrigue, such as infidelity or the office affair, exerts a lure, the payoff being getting away with it or getting even with someone.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/2845583

That is what I'm afraid of! This is why I got away from ScorpMoon men! Ahh! The art/love intensity and passion all-or-nothing thing I can definitely relate too though. And in one of the articles it says that if you are very Neptunian that it can make the Plutonic energy work in covert martyr-saviour ways and I understand that. When I realised I was 'rescuing' a Sag who turned out to be very Plutonic I had to stop that. Not good. I do NOT like the Pluto-games thing!

Hmm this guy definitely has it more together tho, so it's not so scary. I guess the fact that I am attracted to him means that the Plutonic part of me is still seeking an outlet for expression and someone who can match my own intensity of feelings... Besides I am very upfront and honest and non-revengeful so I shouldn't 'energy judge' LOL If I saw a guy with my chart I'd RUN!! (from the moon/pluto thing)

Oh btw, his baby sister is a definite Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon -wonder if that would give him a Virg Moon too? His big Sis is a Libra but the Sun is the father anyway. Besides, he doesn't list the same father as his sisters do (on fb), actually he doesn't list any father only his mother and sisters. However, the fact that he is so chatty 'behind-the-seens' seems like he could actually have a Libra Moon?

I wish you guys could help me guess his rising.. I'll look for characteristics of rising. He definitely does not come off as a water sign. It's hard to guess the rising sign influence when the element of the Moon sign is debateable.

Oh and yes, I am very fishy LOL The original Little Mermaid!

Hey Sand, not to get into your biz lol, but how long do you take to actively pursue someone you're interested in? (or at least let them know that they are being considered as a part (however small) of your life?)

posted January 06, 2012 03:31 PM            

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However, the fact that he is so chatty 'behind-the-seens' seems like he could actually have a Libra Moon?

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if he's a libra moon then he'd have moon singleton, only planet in air. moon in virgo- air void.
http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/moon/moon.htm

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Hey Sand, not to get into your biz lol, but how long do you take to actively pursue someone you're interested in? (or at least let them know that they are being considered as a part (however small) of your life?)

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posted January 06, 2012 05:11 PM            

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hmm..half a year? let them know maybe right away or when i was younger maybe a couple of months. i miss cues tho so it's not all manipulation. sometimes it's obliviousness too.

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Oh I'm all in the 'obliviousness' bubble. Poor guys lol And 'missing cues'? I live in that alley.

Wow Sand.. again dropping new knowledge on me.. I love it!

"Issues around dependency or “co-dependency” and security are exaggerated with a Moon singleton. Umbilical relationships are common, perhaps inevitable. A man wants a secure job, a woman a secure marriage, or, these days, a secure job."

This will be really intense if he has it because the moon would have to be in Libra.

"There are other factors in the chart besides a singleton Moon that can correlate to the mother complex and the anima complex. Hard aspects between the Moon and Pluto or between Moon, not itself a singleton, and another singleton planet can produce behavior and attitudes similar to those associated with the Moon singleton. For example, a woman with a Saturn in Aries singleton opposed Moon in Libra had very ambivalent relationships with her daughters, yet she bound them to her with a tight psychological umbilical cord by belittling them and undermining their self-confidence (a negative Saturn trait). She was jealous of them because she had to compete with them for “Daddy’s” affection. Both girls had Moon in hard aspect to Pluto; so it was all too easy for them to fall victim to, or play into, the mother’s vicious games. The daughters felt Mother had nurtured them with psychic poison (their own Moon/Pluto myth of mother)."

I have this. Yes, I was thrown for some loops. I cannot find the original article but here is a partial cut and paste on a blog http://sexytattoobackwomen.blogspot.com/2010/11/mother-moon-astrology-scorpio-themes. html

"They respond acutely to Moon transits."
There was that lunar eclipse in Gemi that night we met. He was quiet (compared to us) He was, however, out making completely new connections (besides the mutual) and didn't have his 'crew' with him. I now see that he usually travels in his man packs lol So I guess that could have been a response to the moon in Gemi that night by going out and communicating with new people. That's why I did it. I am also very susceptible to moon transits with all of the cancer and moon dominance in my chart.

-You're really helping me understand the underlying attraction here, Sand! Hmmm.. if he had an earth moon but an air rising would it still work as a singleton? Is it just a planet thing, I mean?

And how would that work if he had no air with me having Venus and Juno in Air and Air on the 7thH Cusp? My 12H cusp is actually Aqua, too. Well I guess he has CUSPS of air lol just possibly not planets..

posted January 06, 2012 06:25 PM            

“ The overly “pre-occupied mother-the type who cannot relinquish her own fusion with the child - may be portrayed in the child’s birth chart by difficult configurations of the Moon with Neptune or Pluto, or with the Moon, Neptune, or Pluto located at the Midheaven and/or in the 10th house. This may sometimes reflect a mother whose own personality is unformed, and who finds meaning through merging with, and living through, her offspring.” By Liz Greene, The Astrological Neptune

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if he had an earth moon but an air rising would it still work as a singleton? Is it just a planet thing, I mean?

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nope. yes it's just planets..

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And how would that work if he had no air with me having Venus and Juno in Air and Air on the 7thH Cusp? My 12H cusp is actually Aqua, too. Well I guess he has CUSPS of air lol just possible not planets..

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i guess they might like air in other partners. that's ur only air too? venus?

yes of cors he has cusps of air but we dunno them.

posted January 06, 2012 06:32 PM            

“ The overly “pre-occupied mother-the type who cannot relinquish her own fusion with the child - may be portrayed in the child’s birth chart by difficult configurations of the Moon with Neptune or Pluto, or with the Moon, Neptune, or Pluto located at the Midheaven and/or in the 10th house. This may sometimes reflect a mother whose own personality is unformed, and who finds meaning through merging with, and living through, her offspring.” By Liz Greene, The Astrological Neptune [Quote]

Tenth house Neptune over here, too. Your mom having Pisces Moon means she was probably a lil manipulated and depended upon by her mother too...

"i guess they might like air in other partners. that's ur only air too? venus?"

Yes, only Venus :-)

posted January 07, 2012 12:33 AM            

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Yes, only Venus :-)

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posted January 07, 2012 04:22 AM            

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then i guess ur venus is a singleton too..

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How wonderful are you at pointing out the obvious?! Very! Hmm I was reading for the moon, now what does this mean for venus?..

posted January 10, 2012 05:07 PM            

The 'ScorpGuy Mutual' called me out of the blue on Friday and talked my ear off for HOURS! He's cool but exhausting lol Apparently, he is into me which is strange because up until now he's never really answered my texts or anything. I thought it was rude because we talked in school but didn't really care much because I didn't like hime like THAT. So, I've found out, he has tried to plan some outings (which I did not attend) with my Gemi friend and when I didn't go he canceled.

Anyways, I thought this was relevant because Scorpio is the opposite of Taurus and if this Scorp guy who I have talked to much more in school took that long to 'make a move' I can see a TAURUS taking his sweet time LOL

Another thing though. Are Taurus/ Venus in Taurus guys really closely affectionate with their female friends? I know that with Sag guys if you see them singling out a girl in public (fb) then they are definitely into her. I do not know if it is the same with taurus because she is also part of his 'crew' and so maybe that is just him being as affectionate as he is in all of his 'bromances'? lol

posted January 10, 2012 06:09 PM            

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maybe. i've dated a lot of my friends tho. but i can hang when i didn't have much to do back then. bromantic too sure lol! but then that's just stuff i do whether or not i'm with anyone. i mean if i wanna eat in a restaurant i don't need a date if i don't have one planned to do that so i'll bring anyone along willing to come male or female.

posted January 10, 2012 06:58 PM            

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maybe. i've dated a lot of my friends tho. but i can hang when i didn't have much to do back then. bromantic too sure lol! but then that's just stuff i do whether or not i'm with anyone. i mean if i wanna eat in a restaurant i don't need a date if i don't have one planned to do that so i'll bring anyone along willing to come male or female.

i dunno how u reached that conlusion tho with the scorpio sun. i'm more scorpio than taurus and my mars is there too. still slow lol! the diff might be he was manipulative about it and used ur friend to get to ya. plus the shadiness of not replying.

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He is SOOO bromantic LOL Actually, a new acquaintence that he made has alot of similar interests (i.e same obessions with the same foods lol) and everyone was teasing them about another Bromance developing. Taurus Guy replies "shhh... just let it happen.." LMBO SOO taurean of him!

Yeah I can't tell what the closeness is with this girl. I thought they seemed like friends but now she is warming up to him a bit. Like post a heart on his wall and he liked it and posted one back onto hers. Little thing but I want to know if it's pointless for me to like him! I'm sensitive, sheesh!

Yeah I don't get Scorp guy either! lol He also acted like he didn't remember who I was talking about when I brought up Taurus guy. When he knew that Taurus Guy had already got me on his facebook, Scorp Guy's like "the SWEDISH guy?! No, I haven't even added his as*" -really Scorp Guy I couldn't tell you're jealous at ALL lol- He was all complimentary and friendly to Taurus guy before.. This is all so STRANGE!I don't want an attraction triangle! *sad face* lol

posted January 10, 2012 07:01 PM            

I do this SAME thing! Art museums, movies, restaurants -if I wanna go I'm there and if someone wants to join great! My female friends always are like 'I don't know how you can just go to a restaurant ALONE" lol

posted January 10, 2012 08:54 PM            

If you wait for someone with that much Taurus to make a move, you'll be waiting forever.

posted January 10, 2012 09:57 PM            

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I know that it can be taurus nature to focus on all of that while it's at hand. Buut, I also think that it's easy to text someone really fast if you care about connecting with them.

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we're very routine.
if texting you becomes a part of his routine, he'll do it no matter what
however if it's not
then it's less likely he'll be spontanious and text you

you have to slowly (little by little) integrate yourself in his life.

ie. do you guys have a break at the same time
make it your time together by going out to eat, or getting together on campus etc
emphasis on the casual (you don't want to be seen as pushy..i repeat... you! don't! want! to! be! pushy!)
we'll protest as long as we feel we're being pushed into something...
like even if we want to do something, but feel we're being pushed into doing it
we'll refuse out of sheer stubborness....lol
trust me...just don't!!

thing is if you're wondering if a taurus likes you, it's likely that he does.
we'll rather die than admit it, but it doesn't mean we don't
we're also very subtle, so i'm sure he did little things (REALLY LITTLE THINGS)
as a way of saying he likes you, fully expecting you to catch on to them.. and take it from there. lol

just give it time :P
be his flirty friend first.
but pull out if you think you're in danger of being perminently placed in the friend zone.

the thing is we might be slow,
but we usually know what we want pretty early.
so if right now you feel he's not interested, he'll never be interesed, so just don't waste your time