posted January 10, 2012 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
I think you should be upfront with Taurus guy. Flat out ask him out on a date. Knowing Taurus, he's probably expecting it, and wondering what's taking you so long.

If you wait for someone with that much Taurus to make a move, you'll be waiting forever.

ETA: I've always had success with aggressive/bold pursuit of Taurus energy - mostly moons. I have Mars in the sign.

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I know he HAS put the ball in my court by telling me to let him know the next time I go to the art museum!!

I'm glad to hear that approach has worked for you!! ;-D

posted January 10, 2012 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
we're very routine.
if texting you becomes a part of his routine, he'll do it no matter what
however if it's not
then it's less likely he'll be spontanious and text you

you have to slowly (little by little) integrate yourself in his life.

ie. do you guys have a break at the same time
make it your time together by going out to eat, or getting together on campus etc
emphasis on the casual (you don't want to be seen as pushy..i repeat... you! don't! want! to! be! pushy!)
we'll protest as long as we feel we're being pushed into something...
like even if we want to do something, but feel we're being pushed into doing it
we'll refuse out of sheer stubborness....lol
trust me...just don't!!

thing is if you're wondering if a taurus likes you, it's likely that he does.
we'll rather die than admit it, but it doesn't mean we don't
we're also very subtle, so i'm sure he did little things (REALLY LITTLE THINGS)
as a way of saying he likes you, fully expecting you to catch on to them.. and take it from there. lol

just give it time :P
be his flirty friend first.
but pull out if you think you're in danger of being perminently placed in the friend zone.

the thing is we might be slow,
but we usually know what we want pretty early.
so if right now you feel he's not interested, he'll never be interesed, so
just don't waste your time

wow...
i think this is the longest post i have ever
written....need a breather now...

hope it helps...
lol

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Hmm you are just too cute lol I really just have some major taurus love going on lately!!

When we met I couldn't quite read him but I could tell he was amused and
intrigued by me at least, so I initiated everything. When we started texting then I thought he was interested because he iwas soo enthusuastic and happy I had texted him and HE made sure to tell me that I hadn't added him in fb (ahh sly guy put the ball in my court there too, didn't he? Reeal smooth Mr. Taurus lol) and so well yeah I thought he was very genuine and interested -and showing that interest pretty openly from what I hear about taurus men typically. it's just the sllloooowwwnnesss, the silence and the antiaction that are programmed to make me think he's not interested. And people and movies saying if he's not initiating things. I'm trying to be rational here -but the question is: WHAT IS RATIONAL BEHAVIOUR FOR A TAURUS MAN?! Lol

We do not have the same class together and I have yet to see him or bump into him on campus. I leave school and pretty much do straight to work. One of us would have to text the other for a 'spontaneous' lunch date. At this point I geel like he would probably think that was a bit much? Rather, *I* would think that's a bit much if he's not giving me some more encouragement first.. I need encoragement and validation too lol (ok I need MORE of it lol)

posted January 12, 2012 07:22 PM            

And theen.. I finally saw Taurus Guy at school! (Yay!) -across the hallway and with people inbetween so we couldn't talk.. BUT I got some good info...

When I had been texting TG before about classes he had told me what class he would take during the short winter semester and all the reasons why. It was a class that does not pertain to our major and he was already enrolled. I had gently opted for him to take the film class with me and said that he could crash and that my instructor would let him, etc. He had financial reasons (it is not a mandatory class and he is a foreign exchange student with high fees), he was already committed to another class, and he didn't think that he could get in. He sounded so very set about it (although very concerned that I understand that he also would love the film class just as much as I if he took it!!!) that I just gave him my schedule for the spring and we talked about that instead.

Sooo... he changed his schedule anyways!! He scrapped the class he was scheduled for and crashed my instructor's film class.. but the WRONG one! lol (the same instructor teaches back-to-back classes and I am in the morning course and he crashed the afternoon lol) This is a HUGE change considering that we had had the 'schedule conversation' only a week and a half or so before the semester started and he was soo set on his plan.. and now here he is! I haven't been seeing him because:
1. he's in the 'wrong' class lol
2. I usually leave the lab after my morning class and go to work -this day I hadn't and chanced upon him.

I saw him through my EXCELLENT peripheral vision and just as I thought I had a chance at eye contact people taller than him were in the way so I didn't notice if he saw me or not..

But after that class was over he was on fb 'liking' things I've said lol.. I did not start up a conversation about that and now today he is 'liking' pages of Art places that we had so enthusiastically discussed together about wanting to visit.

I also found out that my new friend (who I have known for a while but not been close to 'til recently) is acquainted with him and confirms that he is a really nice and down to earth guy. :-)

So, whattaya think? I have to go straight from school to work pretty much all next week :-(( but the week after I can, erm, stage a run in lol.

Man, I'm talking weeks in advance here.. I really am starting to go at that Taurus speed lol (more than my mars usually takes me)

At least I've seen a shiver in the 'Rock of Gibraltar' (as I've heard Taurus sign men referenced as in an astrology book)lol

posted January 12, 2012 07:43 PM            

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the WRONG one! lol
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BAHAHHAahahhaaahah. lol

honestly stop worrying about it.

sounds like he's made it a mission to get close to you
he won't give up until he succeeds
but he won't be in a rush to do it either.

from what you've said so far, it sounds like he's moving at tripple the uusal taurus speed,
so just be happy with that

have faith :P lol and stop worrying!!!!

apperantly taurus pisces relationships last the longest (not ness. the best, and sometimes with on and off senarios) but they tend to drag on for yeaaaarsssssss (decades)
idk why
i don't know if it's all good or bad

posted January 12, 2012 07:47 PM            

him

you

synastry

posted January 12, 2012 08:06 PM            

Aries-Cusper that's why lol ;-D

Thanks for the hand lol it's the thought and attempted link that counts lol

posted January 12, 2012 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Neptune'sDaughter:
the WRONG one!

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posted January 12, 2012 09:51 PM            

Haha -I have a Taurus phone, stubborn and slow lmbo jk Even TG handed it back to me and said it is too slow LOL Whatever, he's a speedy taurus psh! Haha

Yes, I agree we're in the perfect place. It'd be too intense for him to be in my same class 4hrs/day 4days/wk!! I need to get work done lol Plus my venus in aqua needs to know he CHOOSES to like me of his FREEWILL and that he's willing to make an effot as well :-)

posted January 13, 2012 02:27 AM            

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I have a Taurus phone, stubborn and slow lmbo

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posted January 13, 2012 10:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE] I have a Taurus phone, stubborn and slow [b]lmbo

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I was typing a smart mouthed retort and my phone's backspace button got stuck and erased the whole thing lol OKAAY Universe, point taken! It's just that I woke up to this comment lol

Sigh lmbo is when people mean butt instead of as* ...you know because I keep reading in other threads about how certain people on here are touchy/particular about how things are said ;-) jk

Sorry if the mistakes make it hard to understand me, Everyone! Hectic week and I've been accessing LL from difficult portholes while on the go..

posted January 13, 2012 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
fyi we don't really pay attention to whose court the ball is in lol!

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Hahahaha well that's nice to know! How frustratingly adorable is that?!

posted January 24, 2012 03:03 AM            

Annnndd here is our synastry:

Yay, FINALLY!! Lol

posted February 03, 2012 06:28 PM            

He finally got the hint that he should initiate convos and such (He asked me how I am, how am I doing, How are things going for me and how my project was coming along -all in the same school day LOL! -Not that he is inarticulate, he'll talk about other things a bit. But those seem to be the questions he's most concerned about lol). He is also starting the 'orbiting' thing around me too -although it is more a cresent than a complete circuit at this time lol SOO CUUTE this slow guy lol Oh yeah he stares at me too ha and he randomly showed up in my class -RIGHT behind me and just started talking to me lol. I also noticed he made a note of which darkroom was mine LOL

Yeah so, just a happy update. I'll try not to pisces sun scorp moon freak myself out and just let that taurus mars continue to driive lol *happy dance*