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Topic: Im addicted
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amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 1526
From: dumont, CO
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted January 05, 2012 12:13 PM
  
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
When you start out any relationship, whether it is a friendship or romantic thing, you don't know how long it's gonna last, though. Me, personally, I like to squeeze out however much I can from a friendship with someone. That is, get close to them, ask them for advice, have fun times with them, etc. I'm a passionate person. I don't regret the short-lived friendships and relationships I've had either
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That is true at the beginning I think you should just enjoy it but at some point you want to decide what kind of relationship you want with this person and for both people to be in the same page. That is my style....I meet someone, I enjoy the moment then after a reasonable amount of time I decide with the person what we want out of the relationship so we are both on the same page and then keep enjoying. IP: Logged |
LoVeLy
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 05, 2012 12:19 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Im addicted to fishman, he is like my drug.. I cant stop... IDK how to get a grip, how do I maintain control?? Im loosing myself in him.. Its feeding my brain, its in my bloodstream its deep inside my entire being.... I have no clue, how to handle these feelings.. I cant breathe.. I cant think.. I can only feel.... but its so deeply, I dont know how to express it or do anything about anything anymore... We cant stop talking... When we do,its like torture..
Ooooh this sounds HOT IP: Logged |
amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 1526
From: dumont, CO
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted January 05, 2012 12:33 PM
With me I dont mind having a relationship that is not committed but I don't like to play games either and want both people to be on the same page and know what is up bc otherwise I feel the other person is not seen me as a equal. I feel with mintgirl the need for commitment is more her libra stellium perhaps combined with a sun virgo. I am virgo but my strongest sign is sagitterious and have moon in pisces so I can go do the no strings attached as long as I feel like the other respects me, my intellect and sees me as an equal. Walla!  ...there I think I explained how I function well now. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: So. Cal
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 05, 2012 12:41 PM
Yeah, I have a lot of Sag/Virgo influence. Brutal honesty means a lot to me, it saves time even though it doesn't save feelings.A guy (Mercury & Venus in Sag) once told me straight out he just wanted sex and even though I had feelings for him, I wasn't offended and left on good terms. Another guy (liar who happens to have Mercury in Scorpio, afflicted) busted out with the "I love you"s just to string me along or to spy on me or whatever...but since it was so obvious he was lying, I was deeply hurt. IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 05, 2012 01:53 PM
Lioness, when I saw your topic I said out loud, "Oh my!"
I welcome you to my Pisces World! HahaWe have Mars conjunct Neptune and Jupiter conjunct Neptune in Synastry. He is the Neptune. I think that is why it drives me crazy because he "feels it", but will not "own it." Our composite chart has Moon conjunct Neptune! One time I told him I have never EMOTIONALLY relied on, needed someone as much as you. I expressed that I hated that feeling. He understood. There are times I try so hard not to contact him during the day, but I say to myself .. If you want to talk to him, then just do it! Live in today's moment. You never know what tomorrow will bring. Be happy! IP: Logged |
FireWire
Knowflake Posts: 189
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 05, 2012 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
Ohhh Firewire you are awesome!, you are so sweet.
Thanks! :-) IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
Knowflake Posts: 433
From: here and there
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 05, 2012 03:36 PM
Oooh! Poor Lioness! You're thinking too much. Savor it all slowly. Take it day-by-day. Enjoy the comfort. Try to do something that you enjoy to clear your mind every now and again. Even if it's only taking a walk around the block. Work a little on a hobby you enjoy, then as a reward, allow yourself to think about fishy.Good luck!! Have a lot of fun! 
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mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 1578
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted January 05, 2012 04:52 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
With me I dont mind having a relationship that is not committed but I don't like to play games either and want both people to be on the same page and know what is up bc otherwise I feel the other person is not seen me as a equal. I feel with mintgirl the need for commitment is more her libra stellium perhaps combined with a sun virgo. I am virgo but my strongest sign is sagitterious and have moon in pisces so I can go do the no strings attached as long as I feel like the other respects me, my intellect and sees me as an equal. Walla! ...there I think I explained how I function well now.
Actually no I can do casual too. I just need to know (like you said) what is going on. Like if it's casual, I'm fine with it, as long as I know what's up.
What I hate is being like confused.
I'm very uranian, think that makes me actually fear commitment (in a way) too. Esp if sb starts coming on strong (even if I were interested in them, it kinda makes me back off alittle). Have uranus exact conjunct MC, so it aspects alot of things. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 05, 2012 08:50 PM
I think he's really feeling the moon/pluto now... Geezz.. about time.. Ive been feeling it for 2 years.... I think he may be having a hard time with it.. Just like I did.... I couldnt really talk today.. I had alot of work, and was in one meeting after another... At the end of the day, I saw him and he looked so sad and really down. So I texted him, whats wrong.. you look sad...
He said maybe because I missed you... Ahhh this lioness cant handle all these compliments (YEAH RIGHT)  (prob a line, but hey Ill take it..lol) Then near the end of the day, we started talking again.. It was pretty intense..
Now he said he needs to mellow out, and he will call me later... That its all too much right now..
I remember feeling like that... It was pretty confusing..
Its like I cant talk to you right now....I have to get my self together and get a grip on myself... Thats the way he described it.. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 280
From: the 12th house
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2012 09:23 PM
"I'm addicted"yes, the 1st step is admitting that to oneself IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 1719
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 05, 2012 10:49 PM
Awwww ) this all sounds so amazing! Really happy for you.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 3988
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 05, 2012 11:55 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Awwww ) this all sounds so amazing! Really happy for you.
Thanks... but.. IDK it may be a bit to much...
Sometimes, you just have to stop and breathe, and clear your head.. When fear sets in, it can become over whelming and it takes an emotional toll.  I need sleep, so I can escape from all of this... IP: Logged |
woah cakes
Knowflake Posts: 745
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 06, 2012 01:37 AM
i had a relationship kind of like that (the first time we really talked after we figured out we liked eachother we talked 7 hours straight on the phone and from then on we were basically inseperable till his piscean pursuits started taking him elsewhere eventually, and other problems surfaced too). he was a pisces sun cj my pisces SN. it was.. uhh.. heaven for quite a while but then hell set in later. not saying that will happen to you; neptune can go either way, or both, probably even simultaneously! anyway, i relate and it ain't easy or breath-ey. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 1719
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 06, 2012 05:24 AM
Awww I'm sorry. I remember when i posted asking if it was okay to stop texting someone for two weeks when you were texting every two days all day long... I was addicted and needed a breather before I lost myself! We would text about the randomest ish....they werent even good or even funny conversations. We would tell each other what we were both doing, we would talk about deep stuff, about our feelings on things.....about things we have problems with we dont tell anyone else about....We would talk about anything, it didnt matter if it was funny or not, we just had to TALK. (!!) That much was for sure. He texted me once just to ask me for my schedule in university but it was pointless for him to know anyway bc we dont go to the same campus at all. But it's like, it didnt matter if the conversation had any substance or not.....we just wanted contact from that person, any kind of contact. I've never experienced that. Usually I get bored in conversations. Even with someone I really care about. But with him i was so addicted. You're right, it's heaven and hell at the same time. But it truly is magical and transforming, though. Having that much passion for someone, it changes your view on things. It makes you seek only what really makes you feel strongly fr then on, you never settle for mediocre experiences or mediocre feelings for people ever again..... IP: Logged |
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