posted January 13, 2012 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yes we aquarius men never forgot our first love,atleast that was what linda goodman said in her book,and i agree,because even now i still think of my libra girl everyday

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posted January 27, 2012 05:56 AM            

step 1: friend zone a girl (important: NOT the same as getting friend zoned)

2: alternate being cocky/funny and talking about serious things, astrology with her sober,

3: flirt with her friends when drunk

4: now the day will come in no time when she realizes she should take off her panties for you in a broomcloset while really drunk (or pretending to be drunk) at a party or something.

5: ???

6: PROFIT!!!

even easier if they're a year or two younger so you can be all coquettish (helloo sugarbuns, oh no sry i can't hang out tonite, gotta hit up THE BARS. HURRRR), and also if you dress well.

posted January 30, 2012 03:47 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am a double aquarius man (sun and ascendant) with a taurus moon, and an aquarius venus and gemini mars, and i have always had trouble getting along with women. I always feel uncomfortable and awkward around them and just feel that we are not on the same page at all,emotionally or mentally,i am 21 years old and single and dont even have a casual female friend,which bothers me greatly because i would like to have a good relationship with a woman,but i always feel misunderstood,my sense of humor especially is not popular with them. Is there any other aquarius guys out there who have strained relationships with women,or are there any women who have had experience with one of us aqua guys,tell me what your experiences have been.I would also like advice on how to get along better with women because frankly i am clueless

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posted January 30, 2012 03:47 AM            

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Originally posted by DOCTORaquaman:
cmon man, you're forgetting you're only 21 years old aka everyone around you is still retarded:

step 1: friend zone a girl (important: NOT the same as getting friend zoned)

2: alternate being cocky/funny and talking about serious things, astrology with her sober,

3: flirt with her friends when drunk

4: now the day will come in no time when she realizes she should take off her panties for you in a broomcloset while really drunk (or pretending to be drunk) at a party or something.

5: ???

6: PROFIT!!!

even easier if they're a year or two younger so you can be all coquettish (helloo sugarbuns, oh no sry i can't hang out tonite, gotta hit up THE BARS. HURRRR), and also if you dress well.

then when you find one you really like, do all of the above when trying to win her, only make it more creative and less emphasis on getting drunk = LOVE at 21

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posted January 30, 2012 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
My aqua friend feels similar to you...he would like to find an interesting chick like me LOL to get involve with but they are all taken JK...they are not but apparently they are not everywhere either...he likes girls that are smart and very open minded bc his thinking is out there and he can never be happy with a girl that doesn't get him intellectually and most girls in texas are not out there like him so he feels lonely and isolated and would love to meet a chick he will get him there even if is just on a friendship level or a guy for that matter. Do you have saturn in the 11th by any chance? and we both have pluto and uranus influence.....ruler of this 8th is the sun and his sun is in aqua and squares pluto and ruler of my 8th is the moon and have a lot of nice pluto aspects including moon biquintile pluto and uranus conjunct rising and my third house in aqua so we connect intellectually really well.

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posted January 30, 2012 04:16 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
my sun and saturn are in the twelfth house conjunct each other,and yea sounds like me and him have alot in common,i live in tn where people are equally closeminded ,most women find me weird,i have yet to meet a woman who could understand me ,i just want someone who i could discuss anything with and not be considered strange XD

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that is exactly how he feels..and the sucky thing is that his job usually requires him to live in states that are boring, Colorado is the first state he has actually liked and is doing everything he can to get back here...he had nature here which made him feel good and a better shot at meeting like minded people than other states..

posted January 30, 2012 08:16 PM            

One thing I know about Aquarius individuals is when things get personal, unless something is countering this trait in their chart, they tend to bolt. It's like a swift breeze, whoosh off they go. I'm not the relationship type I'm more into highly evolved friendships with intensely deep connections, but knowing this about myself I understand that people who tend to be more grounded look for commitment and stability in friendships and relationships. Being an Air sign, especially an Aquarius makes it difficult for people to connect with you and understand you and it might be hard for you to connect with them and understand them especially if you don't fully understand yourself.

Don't give more effort than is necessary trying to understand "women." Trust me it's not worth it. All you really need to be concerned about is yourself and the kinds of things you want and need. If your sure of who you are as a person, attracting the right kind of woman won't be a problem. Women are not as difficult to figure out as conventional logic wants you to believe. We're all human regardless of what kinds of sexist ideas gender biases perpetuate.

posted January 30, 2012 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am a double aquarius man (sun and ascendant) with a taurus moon, and an aquarius venus and gemini mars, and i have always had trouble getting along with women. I always feel uncomfortable and awkward around them and just feel that we are not on the same page at all,emotionally or mentally,i am 21 years old and single and dont even have a casual female friend,which bothers me greatly because i would like to have a good relationship with a woman,but i always feel misunderstood,my sense of humor especially is not popular with them. Is there any other aquarius guys out there who have strained relationships with women,or are there any women who have had experience with one of us aqua guys,tell me what your experiences have been.I would also like advice on how to get along better with women because frankly i am clueless

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You might be living in your head a lot. Haven't read other comments, so I'm going off your post and my own intuition/thoughts.

Your Taurus moon should enable you in relationships to women. Very soft and sweet if you play it right.

I know a Leo with moon in Aquarius and Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries. He's very social in general (obviously) BUT the very first time I sat next to him in class my vibe from him was that he's very shy. I wonder if Air sign men typically are shy around women because they tend to "think" they're feelings rather than feel them thus it might be harder for them to connect on a warm, personable level.

Note, for eeeeverybody out there who's going to say "Oh, well my so and so is an Aquarius and he's not like that, he's like this. The complete opposite of what you said." I get it. I'm sure the OP and other users understand my word isn't God and shouldn't be taken as such.

I actually love Aquarius'. The ones I know try very hard to act like manly men, and are very enthusiastic in their speech. The does wonders for my Gemini and Aries placements. In general though just say what's on your mind. Start it off with "Hi" and then talk to them like you've known them for years. Let your personality shine and don't be self-conscious about it.

posted January 31, 2012 05:16 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
that is exactly how he feels..and the sucky thing is that his job usually requires him to live in states that are boring, Colorado is the first state he has actually liked and is doing everything he can to get back here...he had nature here which made him feel good and a better shot at meeting like minded people than other states..

if you can transfer to a school in a state that you think you will meet more like minded people that would help a lot I feel..you need some excitement so follow your heart!! something needs to change in your life so go for it.....After living for 16 years in Miami I just needed to get the hell out of there and needed adventure something completely new and different and Colorado did it for me.

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posted January 31, 2012 08:12 AM            

I think I'm the only one quoting him here. Hmm.

Well, I'll pitch in from that perspective. According to Goldschneider's system, you (aquaguy) are an Aquarius I. Most the people born at the end of January find it extremely hard to commit to just one person. They might long for the stability of having someone to come home to, but really they have a wandering eye and tend to be cheaters. Not saying they always are...there is just that tendency! Please don't be offended if it seems I am calling anyone names.

This might make the women you get to know feel skittish, if they get the impression that you are like that. If it seems you don't have much to offer security-wise, that can put a damper on relationships with girls.

An educated guess...but still a guess.

Edit/afterthought: Like my best friend's dad, born January 26th, who cheated on my friend's mom for 30 years and yet self-destructed after they divorced. All he ever wanted was to get her back.

I'm wondering, even when you had your first love, were you also flirtatious with other girls? Was your phone relationship great because it gave you freedom away from the phone?

posted January 31, 2012 10:22 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
@nativelyjoan,the funny thing is that i used to bolt when feelings became involved,and girls responded to that and were more interested,i was especially bad in highschool,once girls started wanting me to go to dances with them and try to make plans and tie me down i would bolt,and i had girls chasing me,but once i got over all that stuff and became interested in deeper relationships now all of a sudden girls have lost interest,it appears women have the hots for emotionally unavailable men

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posted January 31, 2012 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
@nativelyjoan,the funny thing is that i used to bolt when feelings became involved,and girls responded to that and were more interested,i was especially bad in highschool,once girls started wanting me to go to dances with them and try to make plans and tie me down i would bolt,and i had girls chasing me,but once i got over all that stuff and became interested in deeper relationships now all of a sudden girls have lost interest,it appears women have the hots for emotionally unavailable men

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It would appear so, however appearances are deceiving. It honestly could be the kinds of women you're attracting. The universe gives back what you give. You might want to pay attention to your Venus and Mars planet and house placements in your chart, and what planets they aspect.

Trust me, I've been in your boat as far as attracting people who were emotionally unavailable being an Airy individual myself. However when intensity came they'd be off to the woods, out of sight in a flash. Which was awful because I'm a very intense person beneath the surface, again appearances can be deceiving and so is all that Air in my chart. It doesn't initially make apparent to others the heat and intensity under the surface. I've reached a point in my life where I don't settle for anything less than what's truly meant for me. I assumed the blame and responsibility for my shortcomings in friendships and relationships, and I was able to find peace in contemplation. The journey really does start within, taking a break from pointing a finger at the world and looking at yourself.

I have Venus in Leo in the 7th conjunct my Descendent in Leo and growing up I always attracted very ostentatious men who were outgoing, and passionate, but emotionally immature and not that smart. Which is a problem for someone like myself who uplifts intelligence and a strong mind above all other traits including appearance. However after having a few very weird relationships I did some self analyzing and realized I was projecting these traits onto others, instead of connecting with them in myself. And now I attract individuals who are bit more balanced like myself, which is awesomeness. And I'm able to recognize balance or scattered energy within people because as a person I've experienced both.

posted January 31, 2012 05:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Anyone else follow Gary Goldschneider's popular "coffee table" type astrology books? Like The Secret Language of Relationships?

I think I'm the only one quoting him here. Hmm.

Well, I'll pitch in from that perspective. According to Goldschneider's system, you (aquaguy) are an Aquarius I. Most the people born at the end of January find it extremely hard to commit to just one person. They might long for the stability of having someone to come home to, but really they have a wandering eye and tend to be cheaters. Not saying they always are...there is just that tendency! Please don't be offended if it seems I am calling anyone names.

This might make the women you get to know feel skittish, if they get the impression that you are like that. If it seems you don't have much to offer security-wise, that can put a damper on relationships with girls.

An educated guess...but still a guess.

Edit/afterthought: Like my best friend's dad, born January 26th, who cheated on my friend's mom for 30 years and yet self-destructed after they divorced. All he ever wanted was to get her back.

I'm wondering, even when you had your first love, were you also flirtatious with other girls? Was your phone relationship great because it gave you freedom away from the phone?

Sorry if these questions are intrusive and off-base, it's all based on my limited understanding of astrology.

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posted February 21, 2013 06:30 AM            

i think its partly due to what i project due to bad experiences but also partly its just how i am- i am quite independant and dont need approval from other women so its for me to try and work on how i see women but at the same time accept that there are times when women just wont like me and its not my fault just a personality clash- the most important thing is that i remain respectful towards them at least- even if you dont like someone you should try and behave nicely towards them, where possible.

for you i sense you want to get on better with women (well obviously otherwise you would not have started this post!) so i think using your intuition to read women would be good- some men are just really intuitive abot how and when to approach women- like ive found some guys, even cute guys, will come up to me when im in a bad mood and am walking in a hurry and of course i wont be so friendly but then other days i am walking slowly, smiling and a guy comes up to me and we have a conversation- i probably wont give him my number still but at least we both left it feeling happy and like it was a nice little moment in the day.

its not about sucking up and not presenting yourself as you truly are but you can kind of pick up on how a girl approaches things-like some girls prefer lots of small talk to get to know a guy other girls think that is shallow and want to jump straight in- so altering your conversation style to suit the mood is good- aquarians are known to be intuitive so use it!

also yes you need to change your attitude- everyone has good and bad but if you only see the bad you will bring OUT the bad- like make a girl who is generally nice will be meaner and wont even realise why herself.