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posted January 12, 2012 06:25 AM            

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I am a double aquarius man (sun and ascendant) with a taurus moon, and an aquarius venus and gemini mars, and i have always had trouble getting along with women. I always feel uncomfortable and awkward around them and just feel that we are not on the same page at all,emotionally or mentally,i am 21 years old and single and dont even have a casual female friend,which bothers me greatly because i would like to have a good relationship with a woman,but i always feel misunderstood,my sense of humor especially is not popular with them. Is there any other aquarius guys out there who have strained relationships with women,or are there any women who have had experience with one of us aqua guys,tell me what your experiences have been.I would also like advice on how to get along better with women because frankly i am clueless

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posted January 12, 2012 06:51 AM            

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I'm an Aquarius Venus guy. I'll try to help. Can you provide specifics, please? I would like to understand where you are coming from.

I have the reverse problem and I can't get along with men at all. I have no issue with women, have women friends and have no true male friends.

My blessing is also my curse.

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posted January 12, 2012 07:12 AM            

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It would help a lot if you brought your chart up here as this is an astrology forum. It may not be your planet placements as much as some difficult aspects they are making in your natal chart. So, please post your natal chart. See directions on the top of this page for how to do it.

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posted January 12, 2012 07:21 AM            

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it wouldnt let me post my chart because i am posting via phone,but i can give you my birth info: january 24th 1991 in athens,tn at 8:40 am eastern time. in my natal chart my venus is badly afflicted which i know plays into my issues with women,but i feel my issue lies mainly in having so much aquarian energy ,i have seen so many posts complaining about us haha

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posted January 12, 2012 07:22 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am a double aquarius man (sun and ascendant) with a taurus moon, and an aquarius venus and gemini mars, and i have always had trouble getting along with women. I always feel uncomfortable and awkward around them and just feel that we are not on the same page at all,emotionally or mentally,i am 21 years old and single and dont even have a casual female friend,which bothers me greatly because i would like to have a good relationship with a woman,but i always feel misunderstood,my sense of humor especially is not popular with them. Is there any other aquarius guys out there who have strained relationships with women,or are there any women who have had experience with one of us aqua guys,tell me what your experiences have been.I would also like advice on how to get along better with women because frankly i am clueless

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hi aquaguy!

pleased to meet you,although i am 11 years older than you,what does it matter in love matters ?my first big loves were all aqua men!!!i am kind of expert on them )))my moon is aqua,my south node is aqua and i have sun septile uranus,quite an aquarian type!...it seems aquas are very much into their own stuff,i know this to be true by observing my own emotions.we hang on to our own rationalisations,and we know that we are right...but how come you dont get along well with the females?...hm,maybe you are quite insecure about certain things?just a guess...i must say my first aqua big loves of my life,lol their birthdays are only two days apart,were amazing for me!very kind very sweet men,but i had to make the first move,they were to much on a distance,i found they are not easy with making their love visible in the beginning...i had to start showing my love before they were opening up!once they opened up,everything was totally perfect,they always tried to do their best to be my lover.because both lovers didnt stay with me for a long time,i concluded that its best to give up on them,although they both have a special place in my heart and so it will always be!i was too young to start a serious relationship,didnt feel ripe enough to marry them at that time,thats why i stopped both...maybe if i was more mature at that time i would have married one of the aquas,they are truely amazing men!the best from all the 12 zodiacsigns,for me they are.stay patient,one woman will come along and it will be great...you are still very young,dont be desperate!there are women who love you to the max!!!

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posted January 12, 2012 07:37 AM            

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thanks alot lucy i'm not desperate for a relationship,what really bothers me is not having any female friends, i just never seem to be able to get close to them,its like they speak a different language,even with the aqua ladies

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posted January 12, 2012 08:12 AM            

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this is your birthchart:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_w2gw_38_aquaguy_aquarius_hp.46886.25612.gif&res=63&va=&cid=lj8filemKj564-u1194874308

venus is right on your ASC,near my moon which is 27 aqua...a freedomloving type you are...hm i am sun-saturn type at cusp virgo-libra,you are sun-saturn type at the cusp cap-aquarius,thats not easy.we both have sun-satund in the 12th house,which is the closed house!!!...we flow with everything looking for ourselves in every piece of occurence.i see your jupiter in leo is opp your sun saturn,thats not easy either!chiron+jupiter in the 6th house...hm so i gues you expect alot from yourself before you can grow!6th house means there is alot of effort to be done,while your identity is at peace with the way things are.a huge contradiction on itself!the other thing that is uneasy is your uranus square venus!and uranus being near your MCin sag means you tend to aim high and by doing so your venus gets activated...so it doesnt come easy...you are a wise spirit,saturnians are to become masters,it can take some time though before you get there i speak from my own experience as an saturnian.your moon in taurus means that you like tangible emotions,no fluffy bunny stuff,but the real emotions!...i bet you are good looking with venus on your ASC

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posted January 12, 2012 08:18 AM            

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cant edit my post...i was confusing pluto with uranus,so its pluto up at your MC not URANUS,thats quite a difference,pluto is the revelator,the truthfinder,the transformator,it is him in its homesign scorpio that is challenging your venus,its not uranus!uranus is in cap next to your mercury,so your world of thought is uranian as well,in the 11th house,again aqua!you are earth+air personality

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posted January 12, 2012 08:21 AM            

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goodlooking? i wouldnt necesarily say that,but i know i dont look bad by a long shot,but i never get complimented for being handsome,i dont know maybe its my twelfth house sun that prevents me from being noticed

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posted January 12, 2012 08:25 AM            

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Well, I'm a venus in aquarius girl and I find aquarius man facinating.

You have a unusual charm, and mediocre people may find you weird. Don't listen to them, they are more dumb than you! "You are weird" should be taken as a compliment.

And yes, Aquarius are akward by nature. But don't worry, too much (maybe it's the most important key)

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posted January 12, 2012 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am a double aquarius man (sun and ascendant) with a taurus moon, and an aquarius venus and gemini mars, and i have always had trouble getting along with women. I always feel uncomfortable and awkward around them and just feel that we are not on the same page at all,emotionally or mentally,i am 21 years old and single and dont even have a casual female friend,which bothers me greatly because i would like to have a good relationship with a woman,but i always feel misunderstood,my sense of humor especially is not popular with them. Is there any other aquarius guys out there who have strained relationships with women,or are there any women who have had experience with one of us aqua guys,tell me what your experiences have been.I would also like advice on how to get along better with women because frankly i am clueless

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My first love is an Aquarius Sun with Aquarius moon. Yes, he's shy, awkward and has a strange sense of humor but this only makes him all the more interesting. Also, he is sincere and a great friend to all his friends. He has this tendency to hide his emotions.. which can be easily misintepretated as not sensitive.

Nevertheless, he set the standards for all my future bfs.. he is the first guy I ever thought of marrying

Your young; dun worry.. I'm sure you'll catch up soon.

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posted January 12, 2012 08:28 AM            

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and lucie i bet you are pretty,virgo and libra girls make me weak in the knees

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posted January 12, 2012 08:50 AM            

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and lucie i bet you are pretty,virgo and libra girls make me weak in the knees

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LOL yes libra and aqua go well together...although i am not a real libra i do have my ASC at libra,often times people think i must be a libra,although i am last degree virgo,but i bet due to my mercury-lilith-plotu stellium in my librarian first house,i make a good libra at first sight ...well they say libra asc is good looking (just like venus on ASC is ),i think i am just plane normal,but i know i draw much attention from men...which is not always a good feel.since i have dreadlocks i get only attention from the wild type of men,which is nice and refreshing...keeping all others on a distance...

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posted January 12, 2012 08:53 AM            

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I'm trying to understand. What is considered to be "weird" or "awkward"?"

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posted January 12, 2012 09:05 AM            

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haha wow i like you already,im pulled to anything libra or venusian it doesnt matter,the last girl i was interested in was a cancer sun and virgo ascendant and leo moon,and venus was doing nothing of note in her natal chart,but then i pulled up her draconic chart and she had tons of libra,haha i can sense libran energy from a mile away,and dreads? that isinteresting i would kind of like to see that

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posted January 12, 2012 09:11 AM            

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i have bf already for 9 years,no offense though,i would love to go flirty with you if would fit your age and i would be single

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posted January 12, 2012 09:24 AM            

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haha no problem ,and i dont know a whole lot about draconic charts,all i know is its supposed to show the way you were in lives before this one,i was a a double aries with a cancer moon which sounds like a volatile combination to me haha

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haha no problem ,and i dont know a whole lot about draconic charts,all i know is its supposed to show the way you were in lives before this one,i was a a double aries with a cancer moon which sounds like a volatile combination to me haha

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this is exactly what i am looking for!my past lifes...for some reason i am good at astrology,meditation or figuring out everything spiritual,yet my past lifes is still a big questionmark,would love to learn more,TY indeed aries+cancer,very weird combo

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posted January 12, 2012 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by lu_pirate:
Well, I'm a venus in aquarius girl and I find aquarius man facinating.

You have a unusual charm, and mediocre people may find you weird. Don't listen to them, they are more dumb than you! "You are weird" should be taken as a compliment.

And yes, Aquarius are akward by nature. But don't worry, too much (maybe it's the most important key)

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2nd this!

I'm aqua sun and venus, w/a gem moon. There's an awkward "out there" air about aquas... I love how Linda describes it as us "his address is tomorrow" - it's true. Sometimes I really do feel like my mind is on another planet.

Don't worry, you're so young, you'll grow into the awkwardness... hopefully even embrace it! Aquas need to be "different", try to stop seeing the aqua uniqueness as a flaw - use it to your advantage with women.

My advice to you, as I've struggled with Aqua venus... work on tearing down that wall that makes you fear vulnerability/emotions. Is your sense of humor at all self deprecating or defensive or sarcastic? Try not to let you're humor become a barrier to your personality/emotions.

Irregardless of signs/aspects, women like confidence and they appreciate hints and signals that let them know you like them. You don't have to come out and say it, but little comments can mean alot! A wise person on this forum once told me "If you can't open yourself and show love, then don't expect any love in return" - it's true!

Good luck to you

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posted January 12, 2012 11:03 AM            

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they say squares can bring the best or the worst...so after all the venus-pluto square is a big one for you aquaguy.or love doesnt work at all,or it is too good to be true and fixed signs-aqua+scorpio make you hold on to stuff,that maybe is outdated

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posted January 12, 2012 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm trying to understand. What is considered to be "weird" or "awkward"?"

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In my point of view:

weird = the one who is different from the rest.

awkward = thoose situations (or people) that are so impresendible and unique that you don't know what to do about it.

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posted January 12, 2012 08:07 PM            

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yes the venus square pluto definitely rings true for me,i definitely have trouble letting go of feelings and the taurus moon certainly doesnt help that haha,i tend to meet and get involved with women who play mindgames and are manipulative,venus square pluto is both a blessing and a curse at the same time,i like how it makes one look at relationships and love more seriously then others,but i hate the mindgames,manipulation,and pain that comes with it.

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