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Topic: Have you ever loved somebody sooo MUCH and didn't know why?
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 07:54 PM
  
Somebody please call the doctor and cure me from this!  lolIt's crazy.... no matter who I date I'm always in love with him!! I finally get over him and successfully stop thinking about him for years and then all of a sudden I start thinking of him and become obsessed with thoughts of him! Why??? What about you guys? Has this ever happened to you before? And what did you do to cure yourself from this? Edit*
This is the synastry of me and the guy in question!
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amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 07:55 PM
Yeah my husband........I freaking cared a lot about him strongly from the beginning and him for me! Didn't really like that though LOL.
Resulting in me getting involved with a guy living in an office with mom issues. It has been quite the ride.
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amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
Somebody please call the doctor and cure me from this! lolIt's crazy.... no matter who I date I'm always in love with him!! I finally get over him and successfully stop thinking about him for years and then all of a sudden I start thinking of him and become obsessed with thoughts of him! Why??? What about you guys? Has this ever happened to you before? And what did you do to cure yourself from this?
Oh pluto on the works I bet........it took me a long time to get over ex bc of this and him get over me bc of this. We still love eachother but I am with someone now and I feel like he is my past and present is far from past and so much has happened and is just not going to happen again in this life for us.......but we will always be friends  .
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Capriquarius
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posted January 12, 2012 07:58 PM
Didn't you say you've been single for the past 8 years?I've never felt that way, no. Whenever someone new came along, I would lose feelings for the last one. I have Venus (love) conjunct Uranus (sudden change). IP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted January 12, 2012 08:17 PM
Yep. I blame my Venus-Pluto. When I fall for someone, I fall quick and hard. Doesn't matter if we go our separate ways on good terms. I want him to think of me just as much as I think of him (speaking from a recent experience). I've read that if a person has an aspect between Venus and Pluto in their natal chart then they will find their soul mate. This is true when you think that everyone who catches your eye and makes your heart flutter is your soul mate.  And Venus-Neptune doesn't help either! God help me if Katy Perry's song "the one that got away" comes on. There might be a long trail of dead teddy bears...IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 12, 2012 08:24 PM
*breeeathes in* what! Delilah don't scare me! Who says that people with a natal venus pluto aspect will find their soulmateIP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted January 12, 2012 08:31 PM
Lol. We all have more than one soul mate. It doesn't mean that you're meant to be, but are attracted because of the familiarity. Personally, I want my twin flame. Anything less is a waste of time for me. He has to be able to deal with all of this crazy that is me and not run for the hills.Give me a little time to find the article/interpretation to link it. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 08:36 PM
My mom and dad both have venus opposite pluto in their natals and have been married for over 30 years. My mom is controlling, perfectionist, scattered, high achiever, workaholic, anxious, a bit neurotic and my dad did not run for the hills and maybe they are twin souls.I have venus sextile pluto and have found three romantic soulmates so far and one of them might be my twinsoul...husband has not run for the hills with me...LOL and neither have I inspite of the urge to LOL. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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posted January 12, 2012 08:39 PM
Yes! Dark Dreamer, aka DD explained it best I think. Look to house ruler synastry when you can't explain or dont understand why you care for that person.------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 09:33 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
Yeah my husband........I freaking cared a lot about him strongly from the beginning and him for me! Didn't really like that though LOL.
Resulting in me getting involved with a guy living in an office with mom issues. It has been quite the ride.
LOL but at least you two got married! That is such a beautiful thing!!! But wait!......
Is your husband the guy "living in the office with mom issues" Or did you have an affair.... ?
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 09:37 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
Oh pluto on the works I bet........it took me a long time to get over ex bc of this and him get over me bc of this. We still love eachother but I am with someone now and I feel like he is my past and present is far from past and so much has happened and is just not going to happen again in this life for us.......but we will always be friends .
Aww that is so sad and sweet at the same time!!!!
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 09:43 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Didn't you say you've been single for the past 8 years?I've never felt that way, no. Whenever someone new came along, I would lose feelings for the last one. I have Venus (love) conjunct Uranus (sudden change).
Please don't add more years lol I've been single for the past 6 years.... going on 7  Whenever someone new comes along, that does help me get over my ex!! But as soon as the person I was with and I part ways I start thinking about my old ex again.... not the new ex... the old ex.... Why????
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amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 09:50 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
LOL but at least you two got married! That is such a beautiful thing!!! But wait!......
Is your husband the guy "living in the office with mom issues" Or did you have an affair.... ?
LMAO!!!!!! Husband is the guy who lived in an office with mom issues. Now we live in a house but the mom issues are still there.. But yeah atleast we got married and are trying to make it work and have good times too and love eachother.
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by Delilah:
Yep. I blame my Venus-Pluto. When I fall for someone, I fall quick and hard. Doesn't matter if we go our separate ways on good terms. I want him to think of me just as much as I think of him (speaking from a recent experience). I've read that if a person has an aspect between Venus and Pluto in their natal chart then they will find their soul mate. This is true when you think that everyone who catches your eye and makes your heart flutter is your soul mate. And Venus-Neptune doesn't help either! God help me if Katy Perry's song "the one that got away" comes on. There might be a long trail of dead teddy bears...
lol about the Katie Perry song! You know what? Come to think of it.... you might be onto something here! My 7 degree Venus is opposed my 0 degree Pluto His 16 degree Venus is tightly trined his 18 degree Pluto I italicized the similarities of what I'm going though in your post above!
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 09:57 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
*breeeathes in* what! Delilah don't scare me! Who says that people with a natal venus pluto aspect will find their soulmate
lol... what's to be afraid of?
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by Delilah:
Lol. We all have more than one soul mate. It doesn't mean that you're meant to be, but are attracted because of the familiarity. Personally, I want my twin flame. Anything less is a waste of time for me. He has to be able to deal with all of this crazy that is me and not run for the hills.Give me a little time to find the article/interpretation to link it.
Okay, and yes I believe you about that we all do have more than 1 soulmate.... I have had 3 in my life so far... my other boyfriends were not soulmates. The crazy thing is... I've gotten over my other soulmates okay.... it's the Cancer ex of mine that I can't stop thinking about!!! This drives me nuts!!! I wonder if he thinks of me too! IP: Logged |
Chironrising
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posted January 12, 2012 10:03 PM
sudden crushes are an effect of uranus...IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
My mom and dad both have venus opposite pluto in their natals and have been married for over 30 years. My mom is controlling, perfectionist, scattered, high achiever, workaholic, anxious, a bit neurotic and my dad did not run for the hills and maybe they are twin souls.I have venus sextile pluto and have found three romantic soulmates so far and one of them might be my twinsoul...husband has not run for the hills with me...LOL and neither have I inspite of the urge to LOL.
lol about "running for the hills" And I have that aspect that your mom and dad have... venus opposed pluto
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 10:11 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Yes! Dark Dreamer, aka DD explained it best I think. Look to house ruler synastry when you can't explain or dont understand why you care for that person.
"House ruler synastry" How do I find out the ruler of the synastry? Our composite Asc is in Leo, so that means our chart is ruled by the sun Our sun is in Gemini.... Gemini is in our 11th house. So does that mean we love each other because we are friends.... and to be honest WE ARE still friends! IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[b]Didn't you say you've been single for the past 8 years?I've never felt that way, no. Whenever someone new came along, I would lose feelings for the last one. I have Venus (love) conjunct Uranus (sudden change).
Please don't add more years lol I've been single for the past 6 years.... going on 7 Whenever someone new comes along, that does help me get over my ex!! But as soon as the person I was with and I part ways I start thinking about my old ex again.... not the new ex... the old ex.... Why???? [/B][/QUOTE] ASTRAEA: Blocked closure; staying to “the end” (the sometimes bitter end  believing that “it ain't over 'til it's over”—even if it already is; an inability to read beginnings and endings or to “let go” of things, people or events; the witnessing of events. Asteroid Astraea is asteroid number 5. ATROPOS: Endings, completion, conditions at the finish, what is needed to conclude. Asteroid Atropos is number 273. Personally very tight composite pluto aspects with my ex is what made it so hard to let go of him for years but if you don't have strong pluto composite aspects with your ex maybe is one of these asteroids playing out in synastry or composite. With my ex in composite we have atropos conjunct venus I dont know what it means but I am sure that is clue to the puzzle of purpose of our relationship. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 10:19 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
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Please don't add more years lol I've been single for the past 6 years.... going on 7 Whenever someone new comes along, that does help me get over my ex!! But as soon as the person I was with and I part ways I start thinking about my old ex again.... not the new ex... the old ex.... Why????
ASTRAEA: Blocked closure; staying to “the end” (the sometimes bitter end believing that “it ain't over 'til it's over”—even if it already is; an inability to read beginnings and endings or to “let go” of things, people or events; the witnessing of events. Asteroid Astraea is asteroid number 5. ATROPOS: Endings, completion, conditions at the finish, what is needed to conclude. Asteroid Atropos is number 273. Personally very tight composite pluto aspects with my ex is what made it so hard to let go of him for years but if you don't have strong pluto composite aspects with your ex maybe is one of these asteroids playing out in synastry or composite. With my HUSBAND in composite we have atropos conjunct venus, I dont know what it means but I am sure that is clue to the puzzle of purpose of our relationship which is perhaps pay our karmic debts to each other and find closure to this union in this lifetime. Astraea is specifically an asteroid that deals with having difficulty with endings so perhaps you have a significant aspect natally or a significant aspect in the synastry or composite with this guy you are talking about involving astraea. With EX atropos squares uranus in composite and our break up was out of the blue. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by Chironrising:
sudden crushes are an effect of uranus...
By transits.... or natal and to what other planet... venus? IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted January 12, 2012 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
ASTRAEA: Blocked closure; staying to “the end” (the sometimes bitter end believing that “it ain't over 'til it's over”—even if it already is; an inability to read beginnings and endings or to “let go” of things, people or events; the witnessing of events.Asteroid Astraea is asteroid number 5. ATROPOS: Endings, completion, conditions at the finish, what is needed to conclude. Asteroid Atropos is number 273. Personally very tight composite pluto aspects with my ex is what made it so hard to let go of him for years but if you don't have strong pluto composite aspects with your ex maybe is one of these asteroids playing out in synastry or composite. With my ex in composite we have atropos conjunct venus I dont know what it means but I am sure that is clue to the puzzle of purpose of our relationship which is perhaps pay our karmic debts to eachother and find closure to this union in this lifetime. Astraea is specifically an asteroid that deals with having difficulty with endings so perhaps you have a significant aspect natally or a significant aspect in the synastry or composite with this guy you are talking about.
You are sooo sweet. You are soo kind....and I loooove your screen name, I love reading it! Is a positive affirmation for yourself and everyone that reads it. Good choice IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 10:43 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
ASTRAEA: Blocked closure; staying to “the end” (the sometimes bitter end believing that “it ain't over 'til it's over”—even if it already is; an inability to read beginnings and endings or to “let go” of things, people or events; the witnessing of events.Asteroid Astraea is asteroid number 5. ATROPOS: Endings, completion, conditions at the finish, what is needed to conclude. Asteroid Atropos is number 273. Personally very tight composite pluto aspects with my ex is what made it so hard to let go of him for years but if you don't have strong pluto composite aspects with your ex maybe is one of these asteroids playing out in synastry or composite. With my HUSBAND in composite we have atropos conjunct venus, I dont know what it means but I am sure that is clue to the puzzle of purpose of our relationship which is perhaps pay our karmic debts to each other and find closure to this union in this lifetime. Astraea is specifically an asteroid that deals with having difficulty with endings so perhaps you have a significant aspect natally or a significant aspect in the synastry or composite with this guy you are talking about involving astraea. With EX atropos squares uranus in composite and our break up was out of the blue.
Thanks for the asteroid info... This is our composite with the asteroids you mentioned....
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IamLoved
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posted January 12, 2012 10:47 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
You are sooo sweet. You are soo kind....and I loooove your screen name, I love reading it! Is a positive affirmation for yourself and everyone that reads it. Good choice
Who me?.... Why thank you! You are sweet and kind as well! IP: Logged |
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