posted January 19, 2012 12:00 AM            

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his Venus and Mars in Aries be enough?

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Some of my closest friends have Venus *and* Mars in Aries. I really like this combination in both men and women. I think they have good relationship values and they are strong people.

However the men I know who have JUST Aries Venus (with no Mars around)... are the biggest jerks. I can't stand them.

The ones who have JUST Aries Mars... are OK as friends.. but I'm not particularly drawn to dating one because I find them a bit childish.

But for whatever reason the combination of Ven/Mars conj in Aries is very loveable to me. I find them extra trustworthy as well.

posted January 19, 2012 05:54 AM            

COMPANION SOUL MATE

A companion soul mate relationship can be a relationship that is romantic in nature. It involves your wife/husband or someone you are intimate with. Oftentimes, these soul mates are not destined to be with us forever but, like Karmic soul mates, are brought into our lives for a purpose.

It is possible to spend a lifetime with your companion soul mate if you haven’t met your twin soul. However, when the twin soul is found, the companion soul mate relationship could suffer. When this happens, the companion soul mate relationship is generally short-lived or, if it continues, a non-satisfying one. However, this is no reason to jump ship when it happens. Remember, there is a reason your companion soul mate is in your life (for example, so you can raise children together).

When your twin soul comes into your life and you are in a companion soul mate relationship, it is important that you take things slowly. It may be that the companion soul mate relationship will come to an end—or it may not. One thing you must keep in mind is that ending an existing relationship solely because one feels one has found one's twin soul is never a good idea, because over time you will realize that both associations are meant to be and both have an important role in your life.

An interesting aspect of the companion soul mate relationship is that we put more of our energies into it. The karmic soul mate relationship tends to go at an easy pace, without much effort from either partner, as it does with twin souls. The companion soul mate bond requires more work on our parts to sustain a healthy, loving atmosphere.

An interesting aspect of the companion soul mate relationship is that we put more of our energies into it. The karmic soul mate relationship tends to go at an easy pace, without much effort from either partner, as it does with twin souls. The companion soul mate bond requires more work on our parts to sustain a healthy, loving atmosphere.
http://goddessflight.com/articles/Demystifying-the-Soul-Mate-Relationship.html

posted January 19, 2012 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Some of my closest friends have Venus *and* Mars in Aries. I really like this combination in both men and women. I think they have good relationship values and they are strong people.

However the men I know who have JUST Aries Venus (with no Mars around)... are the biggest jerks. I can't stand them.

The ones who have JUST Aries Mars... are OK as friends.. but I'm not particularly drawn to dating one because I find them a bit childish.

But for whatever reason the combination of Ven/Mars conj in Aries is very loveable to me. I find them extra trustworthy as well.

Actually - In general, I like most people who have a positive Venus/Mars aspect, including the conjunction (I have the trine). I'd be more worried about people with Venus sq Mars - cheating, because they often don't seem happy with what they have, like no one is good enough for them. Moon square Mars can also be similar.

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Yeah, my husband has a tight Venus/Mars conj in Aries, and has a history of being the most loyal person I've ever met. From what family and friends have said, even before me he's jumped through hoops to keep a serious relationship going - and he doesn't even have a stereotypically stable Sun and Moon (Gem and Saggi), though he does have a Taurus Asc and Merc and a ton of Saturn aspects.

Re: sq Mars/Venus: I have a Taurus Venus and Leo Mars (sq by sign - 7* and 29*, respectively) and've never been inclined (even w/ a Pisces Sun), though I do have an Aqua Moon and Scorp Asc.

posted January 19, 2012 07:36 AM            

I think he's got hurt badly when he was younger so now he acts like this out of insecurity. Maybe if he'd meet an girl who could "heal" him, he'll stay with her ...

posted January 19, 2012 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Some of my closest friends have Venus *and* Mars in Aries. I really like this combination in both men and women. I think they have good relationship values and they are strong people.

However the men I know who have JUST Aries Venus (with no Mars around)... are the biggest jerks. I can't stand them.

The ones who have JUST Aries Mars... are OK as friends.. but I'm not particularly drawn to dating one because I find them a bit childish.

But for whatever reason the combination of Ven/Mars conj in Aries is very loveable to me. I find them extra trustworthy as well.

Actually - In general, I like most people who have a positive Venus/Mars aspect, including the conjunction (I have the trine). I'd be more worried about people with Venus sq Mars - cheating, because they often don't seem happy with what they have, like no one is good enough for them. Moon square Mars can also be similar.

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Moon square Mars would make a man want to find someone as good as their mother or better, wouldn't it? It just screams mother issues to me.

I can see Venus square Mars being a cheater, but also someone who needs validation of their sexuality/sexual prowess. Big insecurity problems.

Aries kind of confuses me. Some say that it's a classically romantic sign and others swear it's selfish in love. My Moon is in Aries and I'm not overly emotional and less romantic than the stereotypical woman, but have a temper that will flare up out of no where and is quickly gone afterwards. I also know when others have personal planets in Aries because we all have a bit of the Corialanus complex: I-I-I, me-me-me, my-my-my. Lol.