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Topic: Relationship with 12th house planet people
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incognito Newflake Posts: 24 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 06:12 PM
12th house people live outside mainstream society. They are very gentle. They like having night shifts and living on boat under a bridge where it is quiet, or in the middle of nowhere. Aimless drifters make you want to rescue them. Person was 12 house sun mercury venus all conjunct in gemini. Too chaotic for me and I felt like I was in an alternate universe all the time while I was with them. The places they would take me would be out of this world. I'd never known those places existed-never saw-things like what I saw not even on tv-so much beauty and tranquility. Super dream like and random- monkeys in backyards in the northern hemisphere. a hundred st bernards in a field randomly. Many more weird happenings. I have a 12th house moon so I somewhat identify but it was too much. I was scared. I felt like I was drifting. I felt like I was nothing and everything. It's a scary feeling. My cappy moon needs structure and form. That's why I left. Also he was horrible with money and I was always footing the bill. Maybe it was the price for what he showed me. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6466 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2013 06:20 PM
Yep. That's true. A twelfth house person can create their own little world, for better or worse. IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 602 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 06:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Tofu addict: You need to have your psychic antennes out, they won't tell you things straight, you have to know what they want and feel. They need privacy and complete acceptance, once trust is broken they are gone. If they are secretive it doesn't mean that they are deceiving, they just need more time to trust you. Move slowly, woe them with kindness, gentleness, softness. They are in touch with the shadow side of life, don't be put off by that, delve into the weirdness of their ideas, who turn out mostly to be not that weird at all, just not that convential. When they wake you up in the night because they need to tell you about their astral travels they just returned from, listen to them, don't laugh or shrub it off, they have really been there. And ABOVE all, always make them feel that you are there for them, they do need to feel that, because it is a lonely universe for them
This is amazing! Yes Yes Yes! I feel like I should write this on a piece of paper and tape it to my forehead (12th house moon and venus.). Sun 4 degrees from 12th house cusp. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 361 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 06:31 PM
I have Jupiter in mine, it feels like I carry the world at times or the world has too many possibilities I don't know what path to go down, I'm too busy being a self indulgent dreamer to be able to focus on the mundane. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6466 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2013 07:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: This is amazing! Yes Yes Yes! I feel like I should write this on a piece of paper and tape it to my forehead (12th house moon and venus.). Sun 4 degrees from 12th house cusp.
I agree. TofuAddict's paragraph resonated well with me.
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12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1216 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 07:31 PM
Hmm Perhaps planets of other elements/signs manifest differently. My stellium is in Capricorn and I'm always straightforward, at least with romantic partners. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6466 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2013 07:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: Hmm Perhaps planets of other elements/signs manifest differently. My stellium is in Capricorn and I'm always straightforward, at least with romantic partners.
What about issues like trust? I completely understand needing total trust or I am not there. That's the part I understand perfectly. I also appreciate subtlety. My Libra planets hate it when people are really blunt about certain things. I prefer subtlety sometimes, straightforwardness others. I am in flux about it so I appear to contradict myself a lot. I will make a big deal about being straightforward only to ***** someone out a moment later for telling me something I don't want to hear. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1216 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 07:56 PM
True about that trust part. I want it n I think a lot of people want it, especially with earth signs. So I am not sure whether it is an influence from the 12th house. Hmm I guess I feel that there is a place and time for everything. Sometimes I like straightforwardness, sometimes I like subtlety. But in a romantic relationship, most of the time I prefer straightforwardness. When I'm mad or displeased about something, I say it loud and clear. And I want my partner to do the same. No social niceties needed. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 577 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 07:57 PM
I have three 12th house planets in my natal chart. (Mars/Merc/Venus) Since really digging in deep into Astrology last August. I have become quite comfortable with those placements. I have had friends who have planets that fall there. (My best friends Sun) There's a significant ex-gf who's Venus was there. For me, there's only really one difficulty created by having any 12th at all. I like to have my alone time. I love to escape to my own little world and not talk. Quite a bit actually. That has caused issues. Otherwise, there really seems to be quite a connection really. It adds a little something special - a connection of a different kind - a different level. Heck, I'm getting to where I might even prefer it. As far as others with natal 12th planets or my planets in their 12th. I'd have to go check. Overall, it hasn't been bad at all. Now Aspects and such... that's different. lol IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6466 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2013 08:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: True about that trust part. I want it n I think a lot of people want it, especially with earth signs. So I am not sure whether it is an influence from the 12th house. Hmm I guess I feel that there is a place and time for everything. Sometimes I like straightforwardness, sometimes I like subtlety. But in a romantic relationship, most of the time I prefer straightforwardness. When I'm mad or displeased about something, I say it loud and clear. And I want my partner to do the same. No social niceties needed.
The way I see it is, everyone makes mistakes, it's part of life. What I don't like is when people act like one mistake is the biggest disaster in the world when it isn't. I have known people who do that and it drives me crazy, lol. It's like, chill out. So it can get on my nerves. I change my mind all the time. I am just very moody. A lot of the time, I just don't want to hear it and my attitude is, if you don't like it, oh well, if it's something petty. If it's major, I can understand, like, if someone did something really hurtful and someone complains, yes, entirely understandable and I do the same. Sometimes, I feel like people say stuff for the sole purpose of giving me a nervous breakdown, lol. It's like they are just purposefully finding little, nit picking things to make into mountains when they are just molehills. I do have Virgo on the cusp of twelve, so the Virgo traits would annoy me. I have a complex relationship with the idea of straightforwardness. I don't like it when people cross the line and start being unnecessarily rude for the sake of it and say they are just being honest. No, they are just being pricks, only they want to disguise it as honesty. Why not just call it what it is? That's me being blunt and honest. As far as trust goes, I require more than most to feel secure. I need to totally trust someone. Most people require less than I. If I don't trust someone entirely, I do not like getting that close. They are fine as distant friends, but I don't feel like giving it my all. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 577 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 08:27 PM
SSS "People who are brutally honest get more satisfaction from the brutality than from the honesty" I love that quote. You just reminded me of it. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6466 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2013 08:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: SSS "People who are brutally honest get more satisfaction from the brutality than from the honesty" I love that quote. You just reminded me of it.
That's a good one, DeepFreeze. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1216 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 22, 2013 08:57 PM
Hmm I get what you’re saying. With me, the idea of straightforwardness is too complex, to the point that I just take it easy and don’t think much about it. In a romantic relationship, I trust that my partner has my best interest at heart. It leaves little to no room for doubt that he may say blunt things just to be mean. LOl well at least when he’s not tired anyway. People tend to snap more when they’re stressed, tired, hungry ..etc.. With the rest of the world, well if I think someone’s being pricks I’ll serve them the same courtesy. And after that I’ll just laugh, either way the sun still shines. I guess with you being libra dom and all, you’ll be especially annoyed with the pricks. Not giving your all when you don’t trust s.o entirely is a smart thing to do. I think so anyway. There are only 3 people I trust entirely and will give my all. With other people, it’s 50-50, sometimes I take a little risk, it’s like betting on racing horses lol.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6466 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 22, 2013 09:14 PM
People with Libra rising like niceness from others, especially if Virgo is on the cusp of twelve. Ones who have Libra covering both cusps could feel more ambivalent about it. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 1143 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 22, 2013 11:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Tofu addict: You need to have your psychic antennas out, they won't tell you things straight, you have to know what they want and feel. They need privacy and complete acceptance, once trust is broken they are gone. If they are secretive it doesn't mean that they are deceiving, they just need more time to trust you. Move slowly, woe them with kindness, gentleness, softness. They are in touch with the shadow side of life, don't be put off by that, delve into the weirdness of their ideas, who turn out mostly to be not that weird at all, just not that conventional. When they wake you up in the night because they need to tell you about their astral travels they just returned from, listen to them, don't laugh or shrub it off, they have really been there. And ABOVE all, always make them feel that you are there for them, they do need to feel that, because it is a lonely universe for them
tell me about it. sun and mercury (mercury is in retrograde) in aquarius in 12th - i'm a freak and i'd to stay that way. IP: Logged | |