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Topic: Your Sun Sign and Relationship with Your Father
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bluegreyeyes
Knowflake Posts: 153
From: NC
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 10, 2012 05:50 PM
  
Aquarius sun here... my Pops is a Leo (omg, SUCH A LEO!)... I have a great relationship with him, definitely a "Daddy's girl"... We've had some heated arguments tho, if we get into a real conflict, watch outttttttt! ------------------
Aqua Sun
Gem Moon
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Chironrising
Knowflake Posts: 590
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 10, 2012 05:59 PM
It is important to realize when reading this post, that when I say "Bow me" i'm asking life to blow me for unkind fate.So, let's go Sun conjunct neptune
(father was a healer)
Sun in the seventh house
(father was a partner more than a father, i.e. get straight a's and you get straight gun rays) Sun sextile pluto in scorpio in the fifth/sith
Intense fun wtih father, also, body like a hercules - although i'm not ripped like a model, I have been likened to hercules since I stand 6'1" weigh 210lbs and have crazy adrenaline rushes - i am the headlock king Sun sextile mars in pisces - my dad likes oldies and he likes when i play guitar and i like it too...... Sun semisquare saturn in sixth - gambling took care of my inheritance DESTINY: BLOW ME! Sun semisquare venus in the tenth = I wanted to be something uranian or aquarius in nature...I felt pressured to do accounting - sun in capricorn although it was mimaginariy DESTNIY: BLOW ME!
Sun opposite ascednant - destiny blow me
sun parallel neptune/uranus/jupiter.... DEstiny: BLOW ME! IP: Logged |
L0veLess
Knowflake Posts: 1293
From: Midgard
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted February 10, 2012 06:04 PM
wow lot's of fire fathers so far.
Im a cap 4th house and my dad is an aries. I like talking to him bout like books and stuff that i learned or music anything educationally interesting. With my mom its more about social things. I mean most girls prolly do that with mothers. Anyway. Me and my dad allllways argue or get on each others nerves. (I love him though! When we get along we get along really well  ) I might start it, or he might, by giving a little jab but he ALWAYS continues on and on and im like im over it already gawd. Its not bad i mean i like arguing its fun haha. We get along pretty okay but when it comes to school/job/life issues not so much. Our problem is both of us wants to run the show and be right!His sun is conjunct my descendant... i think thatd be better for some romance right lol
And his moon is somewhat conjunct my mars. Thats another romantic aspect! bleh thats weee-urd! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 3377
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 10, 2012 08:51 PM
My sun is Aries in the 11th house. My dad has all of his personal planets in Aquarius other than Mercury in Cap conj my Moon. I like my dad in a very detached way. He has never really been there for me - mostly absent. We live on different continents and communicate mostly via email. He wants us to have a closer relationship and he really tries... but I feel like it's a bit late for that. I feel almost nothing towards my dad. I don't love him nor do I hate him or dislike him nor do I blame him for anything. I like the way he thinks so I can easily talk to him about any issue under the sun as long as it is not personal. He is very intelligent and I find his advice helpful but only in career-related situations. I guess you could say I like him in the way that one would like an acquaintance. Whereas with my mum - We're best friends (Moon in Cappy 7th house).IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
Knowflake Posts: 667
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 10, 2012 09:17 PM
aqua sun in 12th, virgo moon
my dad is scorpio sun, sag moon.we're super close, but we bicker ALL the time. we argue about stupid things, and fight in the exact same ways, both give each other the silent treatment.....and both get over our fights fairly soon. Except a few times....oh man one day we went two and half days of giving each other the silent treatment and it only broke because i HAD to ask him something for school. We're also both equally stubborn so that just adds to our blow-ups. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
Moderator Posts: 1655
From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 10, 2012 09:57 PM
I'm a Libra, sextile jupiter and trine uranus... ? in the 5th, something like that.
He's a leo sun in the 2nd.
We got a long very well... but his temper annoys me sometimes.
We see eachother, hes in my life. Nothing out of the ordinary.IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
Knowflake Posts: 261
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 10, 2012 11:06 PM
My father and I were very close...I went to him instead of my mother. He was very maternal towards me. He was Taurus Sun and Aquarius moon...I am Sag Sun and Aquarius moon. So we were very much alike, even though Taurus Sun and Sag Sun aren't supposed to get along.My dad did give me a lot of freedom when I was young, telling me I could do anything I wanted and put my mind to. He was my biggest supporter and will never forget that.
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violet7887
Knowflake Posts: 1047
From: maya
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 10, 2012 11:43 PM
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I have Sun in Cancer conjunct my 10th house cusp. My father was not absent and he was always in my life. He was the one I went to as opposed to going to my mother. My dad is very spiritual even though he doesn't consciously accept it and I was given plenty of love by him. To this day we are very close and I can literally tell my father anything.
My dad is very similar to this as well. He some how ALWAYS knows whats right and wrong with me. I can discuss anything with him and we have a close-knit realationship. lol I love my mommy too but my dad is more of a friend to me so hes more fun to be around. He has always been my guide in all my learnings, especially spiritually.A lot of who I am today is because of my dad. I always feel lucky to have a Father like him  He is a Leo Sun, Pisces Rising, Pisces Moon and he has his Sun,Pluto,Merc,Saturn all in my 10th House and His Moon/Asc in my 5th House. We actually have karmic synastry cause He also has Mars, Venus, Neptune, Chiron, Jupiter all in my 12th House! I'm a Gemini Sun, 8th House. IP: Logged |
Lotis White
Knowflake Posts: 712
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 11, 2012 12:20 AM
Funny thing.... my Sun is in Capricorn in the 1st house...My Dad is an Aries with Sun in the 10th house.. I had one friend who was a Taurus with Sun in the 12th house.... and her dad is Pisces.. she also had Moon in the 5th house and her mom was a Leo... NikiG mentioned that her Dad was a Virgo and that her Sun was in Scorpio in the 6th house... I'm thinking that the house of the Sun has a lot to say about the father, and conversely that the house of the Moon has a lot to say about mom... IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 339
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 01:49 AM
my sun is in Virgo, my dad's a Leo we never get along..i don't really love him..i find it hard to think that he is actually my father because there really is no emotional bond between me in him. He acts as my father and i act as his daughter but aside from that, no emotional connection or whatsoever...it maybe be because of the fact that he was never there while I was growing up (i'm in my late teens now) since he have to go abroad and work, the longest time i've been with him is approx 4 yrs..i've never had that experience where whenever i have a problem, i can just ask for his or my mum's shoulder and cry, no...but that was my "dream family"...we're not a broken family but i see it as 'broken'...what i realized was missing? Love, Understanding and Companionship. I once thought as a young child, i'd rather be in a poor family as long as they can provide me those three..i'd be contented already, true storyIP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4448
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2012 02:04 AM
i am an aquarius sun in the twelfth house,and i havent had the best relationship with my dad,he has been absent most of my life,he was a druggie and my mom divorced him,he is now in prison and clean from drugs,but dont get to see him much as he is far away,but when we do visit it feels like we are more friends then your typical father and son.IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 476
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 11, 2012 07:15 AM
I don't have a relationship with my dad.I have Sun in Sag in 8th
My Dad has his Sun in Cancer(no time of birth available).If the Sun describes your father than I can say that the Su being in 8th house describes the way I see my dad; hard to understand, difficult to get close to, secretive and suspicious personality. I think our moons in opposition is also a contributing factor. He has his moon conjuct his Saturn (in Cap). He is a very closed person emotionaly and is not close to anyone. Oddly enough, as I grow older , I am finding that my personality is starting to be much like his. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 2368
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 08:37 AM
So sorry to hear these stories about missing, mean, and dead fathers.  My heart goes out to all of you. I'm a Cap sun, fifth or sixth house, depending what kind of chart it is...I fit both descriptions. My dad was a Libra. I was extremely fortunate to have him, I adored him. We had some serious problems but it doesn't matter because I loved him so much. He and I were both born in the Year of the Hare, and I think that's how we clicked. quote:
i think anyone with very strong scorpio or 8th house placements will have death themed strongly in their lives
I've got an 8th house Pisces moon trine Scorpio Uranus, Scorpio north node, and I seem to be the girl with all the funeral stories. Lost all grandparents by age 13, lost both my parents and both parents-in-law by age 30, lost a lot of people. 'Hoping to see them again on the other side. IP: Logged |
hippichick
Moderator Posts: 1844
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Registered: May 2009
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posted February 11, 2012 10:34 AM
Here is a twist that I just realized myself...Are we talking paternal fathers or could father-figures count? I, a Pisces sun in the 4th never had a relationship with my father, my mother divorced him when I was 4, my brother 3, I remember having 1 conversation with him on the phone when I was 7, then he died of throat cancer when I was 25, an alcoholic to the end. Now, my grandpa a Cancer sun has always been my father figure, raised largely by my grandparents in my early childhood, I think my Pisces sun reflects more my Cancer grandpa! Here is another twist, he is not my paternal grandpa, he is really my step grandpa, but he was around long before I arrived so he has always been my grandpa. My granny was a Scorpio and within that trio of water, I was a very happy little girl, as long as I was with my grandparents.. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4060
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 11:47 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
He and I were both born in the Year of the Hare, and I think that's how we clicked.
Faith, Totally off topic, but I'm a Capricorn Water Rabbit (with Strong Yin Wood) myself. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 584
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 01:10 PM
my dad is mean and he's a jerk.no close connection to him at all. Sun in 6th in Cancer
Opposing Neptune)aquarius) and ASC(late capricorn)
Square Saturn
Trine Jupiter and Midheaven My dad is an Aquarius! IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 3735
From:
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 12, 2012 06:55 PM
I'm a Scorpio w/ Pisces moon and my dad is a Pisces w/ Scorpio moon.Ironically we did not get along. He was an acoholic that emotionally abused my mother and I.
Ever since he moved out our relationship has been "better" -.- lol IP: Logged |
Alma Sun
Moderator Posts: 1977
From: The East Coast
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 12, 2012 07:39 PM
Sun trine Moon
Sun conj Merc
Sun sextile Jupiter
Sun conj Saturn
Sun conj Uranus
Sun sextile AC
My dad is the greatest person I know. :') He is the silent, strong type. Was abandoned when he was young and raised himself, so he knew more than anything what it takes to be a good parent.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4448
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 12, 2012 08:10 PM
i have an aquarius sun in the twelfth, my taurus dad was loving when he was around ,but could tell he didnt quiet know what to think of his weird son,he feels more like a good friend then a dad,he always calls me buddy, he has been absent alot in the sense that he was an alcoholic and then switched to drugs,him and mom split when i was 8 and didnt see him alot after that,until he got arrested and sent to rehab and got clean ,even though he is in prison we have a good relationship now.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 5371
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 12, 2012 08:14 PM
Sun in Leo...in House 6
Fathers sign unknown
I never met him. I did find him when I was 25 we talked on the phone a few times. But never met... I dont know his birthday. Sun aspects I have
Sun conjunct moon
Sun conjunct mercury
Sun sextile Saturn
Sun sextile uranus
I think the absence of my father shows in my chart as GEM Saturn conjunct the IC
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Nine
Moderator Posts: 1262
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 12, 2012 08:39 PM
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I have Sun in Cancer conjunct my 10th house cusp
I have this as well. Gemini Sun conjunct MC / Trine Pluto. I also have an opposition to Neptune and Moon. My dad was missing from my life growing up. Every other summer or so I'd go visit him and have a blast. He's my favorite parent. Our relationship is nebulous - there is no emotional connection. Like a sentence with no syntax, feels like something is missing. He likes getting drunk on weekends, but hasn't allowed alcohol to take over his life. I don't consider him an alcoholic. Intense moon in Scorpio needs an outlet. Oddly, I feel/felt he can't be trusted with the things that are really important to me. As though he tries to sabotage me - weird as all the major good in my life can be attributed to him. Still I can't shake the feeling he's untrustworthy. Could be brainwashing, all I heard growing up was, 'he's a scam artist'. Interestingly enough. I have Moon conjunct Neptune - my dad says my mom tried to sabotage my future and hold me back. I also have Sun oppose Neptune - and think he's the one who tries to hold me back. Objectively, he's right. I'm Gemini w/ Sagittarius Moon. My dad is Leo w/ Scorpio moon. I first attempted to live with him at age 13 and we collided. It was a life & death struggle, and a rebirthal. Someone tried committing suicide and failed - I don't wanna get into it. At about 16 or 17, with my pMoon in Leo conjunct his nSun in Leo, a second attempt to cohabitate was made. It is from this period that I have all the positive things to say about him. IP: Logged |
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