posted February 14, 2012 10:45 PM            

We also have two jars. One is called the "A$ sh0 le Jar" (that is how its labeled) and the other one is the "B 1t ch Jar." An insult costs $20. Foul language costs $100. Raising your voice costs $10. Violence costs $1,000.

The worst is doing "stupid stuff," which leads to demerit all-day punishments, such as cleaning all the bathrooms, bathing the dog and picking up the dog crap in the backyard, cleaning the basement, doing school homework duty for a week, etc. "Stupid stuff" can include talking smack about your wife or husband.

posted February 14, 2012 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
In my house, we abide by rules and conventions. Never hurl insults. Never use foul language at each other. Limit raising voices. There's no rule about not using physical force, but no rules are needed on that front.

We also have two jars. One is called the "A$ sh0 le Jar" (that is how its labeled) and the other one is the "B 1t ch Jar." An insult costs $20. Foul language costs
$100. Raising your voice costs $10. Violence costs $1,000.

The worst is doing "stupid stuff," which leads to demerit
all-day punishments, such as cleaning all the bathrooms, bathing the dog and picking up the dog crap in the backyard, cleaning the basement, doing school homework duty for a week, etc. "Stupid stuff" can include talking smack about your wife or husband.

The message gets delivered very effectively. Its terribly expensive to be an A$ $h 0 le or a B 1t ch .

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What do u guys do with the money? lol

posted February 15, 2012 12:16 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
The depth and specialness of the love goes out the door the moment an insult is hurled, or even worse, a hand is swung. Love means nothing when physical action is factored in.

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posted February 15, 2012 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
What do u guys do with the money? lol

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posted February 15, 2012 12:36 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Spend it on what we want, of course. Regardless, guess which sucker funds that money anyway? lol

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posted February 15, 2012 11:42 AM            

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If you are in a relationship, and you start having problems, how would you handle it? I mean that when things start getting too comfortable and the couple start to have fights which start to turn physical, what would you do if you really loved the person?
I know that all relationships deal with issues. I am going through this right now and I can't believe the stuff that has been happening between us. He doesn't hurt me hurt me, but it's still being done.

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Learn the art of negotiation, barter.I call it the 3 C's communications,compromise and capitulation..

In a man's business world, if they have to make a sale, they barter, negotiate. No emotions, just business, logical,detached and if your livelyhood depended on the 3 c's you would have to make it work.

Problem is of course,you can only take a horse to water. My last husband was borderline alcoholic and his idea of a 'night in' was to buy 2x bottle 13proof red wine and down it like water. Thankfully, he never got violent, just got childish and tired. I haven't had to learn this Lesson of violence....

But you must have respect and trust and you have to work at these things. In olden days, like when my parents were younger 'divorce' was very rare and housing benefit was just a dream. Woman had to stay together for financial security as they had no where else to go......I'm sure this made lots of women resentful and beligerent..

Now it seems to have gone the other extreme, it's too easy to give up and walk away from commitments. Wedding vows mean very little and are easily broken. What I do think is a major problem in relationships is the TV.

I will explain what I mean. People come home from work, have a meal, sit in front of the TV, go to bed and hardly communicate. It's sooo easy to get bored and stuck in a rut, just co habit, stop talking even. They look for bit of excitement, some within the relationship, some outside of it.

Problem is being *in love* doesn't last very long 2years max, then it changes, transmutes to deep friendship and companionship and people wonder where those feelings went

posted February 15, 2012 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
Learn the art of negotiation, barter.I call it the 3 C's communications,compromise and capitulation..

In a man's business world, if they have to make a sale, they barter, negotiate. No emotions, just business, logical,detached and if your livelyhood depended on the 3 c's you would have to make it work.

Problem is of course,you can only take a horse to
water. My last husband was borderline alcoholic and his idea of a 'night in' was to buy 2x bottle 13proof red wine and down it like water. Thankfully, he never got violent, just got childish and tired. I haven't had to learn this Lesson of violence....

But you must have respect and trust and you have to work at these things. In olden days, like when my
parents were younger 'divorce' was very rare and housing benefit was just a dream. Woman had to stay together for financial security as they had no where else to go......I'm sure this made lots of women resentful and beligerent..

Now it seems to have gone the other extreme, it's too
easy to give up and walk away from commitments. Wedding vows mean very little and are easily broken. What I do think is a major problem in relationships is the TV.

I will explain what I mean. People come home from
work, have a meal, sit in front of the TV, go to bed and hardly communicate. It's sooo easy to get bored and stuck in a rut, just co habit, stop talking even. They look for bit of excitement, some within the relationship, some outside of it.

Problem is being *in love* doesn't last very long 2years max, then it changes, transmutes to deep friendship and companionship and people wonder where those feelings went

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posted February 15, 2012 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
anongirl, actually i don't feel so bad now that pluto is on my moon. actually i feel an intense level of peace and i can see exactly what is transforming in my life. it's amazing actually. beautiful story to be told.

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posted February 16, 2012 10:56 AM            

My mind frame right now is more on a positive note. There are two ways of looking at it, 1 it's the end of the world or 2 it's the end of the world of human discord. I'm sorta looking at it in the latter point of view. I want to use my energy to bring positivity into the world and I don't think that consists of consuming alcoholic beverages everyday.

Mercuranian,

Twin Flames are what physical manifestation creates out of the divine mother and father and the 3rd component is the christ consciousness which is always hand in hand in a twin flame connection because it signifies the three fold flame or holy trinity. I just realized this truth yesterday when I was thinking about it. We are spiritual perfection because we literally complete each other in every plane of existence.

posted February 16, 2012 11:53 AM            

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sounds more karmic than twin flame

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I haven't read the other posts but I agree with this. I believe the hard relationships we have in this lifetime are karmic ones. Some relationships are meant to reward us and others are meant to teach.

As for this: His Sun, Mercury, Saturn, and Uranus are all SQUARE my Mars very very close in orb.

Sun square Mars would definitely equal some hot attraction but just as much friction for arguing. Saturn square Mars would definitely cause friction because it's like the grumpy old man trying to tell the young playboy how to live his life. What he should do, what he shouldn't, and the feeling he can never "do" right. At least this is what I think that aspect would create - still working on figuring out how planets work so bare with me.

As for how do I deal with differences in relationships? Not very well, I'll admit. When I sense a differences in my romantic relationships I see it as abandonment. Then I start getting anxiety and I'm unsure how long I need to be quiet and let it pass, or should I bring it up? And then I get stressed out and figure a relationship should be happy, not stressful and I leave. So one would probably say I "run away" when I sense differences but I don't see it as being a coward but allowing the inevitable to happen sooner rather than later.

posted February 16, 2012 01:39 PM            

If this was someone's birth chart they would be smoking hot! lol..

posted February 16, 2012 02:46 PM            

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Also, don't you believe that none of this matters because the world is ending soon?[/B]

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WOW, that's very cheery of you!

I would prefer to see syn bi wheel, than composite. also transits work around composites.

posted February 16, 2012 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
[B]Just look at our progressed composite chart. We are approaching a full moon in Libra opposite Aphrodite exact.

If this was someone's birth chart they would be smoking hot! lol..

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Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for syn bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….Composite should be 85% orbs

when you get this chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages –at a glance planet to planet. Scroll down to last page and *aspect grid* (ONLY for syn bi wheel)

problem is uploading to photobucket you have to change this from abode format into a picture. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid/bit in front of you,on screen then( if bit big press ctrl and - to reduce image). the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart press IMG and past link into thread.... done

posted February 18, 2012 06:56 AM            

You can tell I'm fed up with love cliches.

Athene, how is it going?
Any improvement/update?
Do you have a plan B if things continue in a direction you wouldn't have liked?

posted February 19, 2012 09:53 AM            

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It's okay I was just trying to show what he and I are experiencing in our relationship right now by using the progressed composite. No need for me to post our synastry.

A progressed full moon in the composite is highly important.

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Problem with that composite was Saturn conj Asc. So in a natal chart this would suggests a serious lack of confidence. So in a compposite THE relationship whilst together in public may be seen as serious austere and nothing like Saggi Asc