posted February 17, 2012 01:06 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I just wanted to add that I don't have a personal beef with you, mintgirl.

I'm just sick of this particular thing being blamed on people with my placements - specifically one - because hardly anyone has actual experience to back it up.

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posted February 17, 2012 02:14 AM            

Either guys become commitphobes and players, or they become really distrusting and closed off. Kinda sad really, how one person can screw somebody up so much they totally change afterwards.

posted February 17, 2012 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think venus in sags are quite loyal actually =). I'd trust them more than venus in gem and pisces.

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posted February 17, 2012 02:19 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Darn that must suck. It's strange cos the libras I know aren't like that, esp one with a sag venus, she has alot of air and fire (not leo fire so it's not fixed) and she's been with her bf for like 5 and half years. And considering I'm in my early 20's, that's really impressive.
She DOES have a taurus moon though (love em).
Yeah cheating is cheating, doesn't need to be physical. Emotional is imo worse.

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posted February 17, 2012 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Yeah alot of players are the way they are cos somebody they really cared about hurt them.

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I dated a lot after being hurt, but I didn't go around hurting others. If dating a lot was being a "player," then I did that. However, it never stopped me from being committed in any relationship, if I agreed to enter into a relationship.

My first true girlfriend became preggo with the baby of my best male friend. How's that for a concurrent double whammy? He was a childhood friend too; went to kindergarten with me. And then wanted me, as an 18 year old, to marry her and accept the new baby girl into my life.

posted March 02, 2012 09:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
The Taurus man I'm talking about above had:

[b]Venus Opposing Saturn
Venus Opposing Uranus

So happens Saturn + Uranus, along with Neptune, are all in his 5th house.

He also has uranus trining AC and moon

Duno if any of that is related though

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posted March 02, 2012 10:04 AM            

I stayed super loyal for 8 years. Then when my natal Moon-Venus-Uranus got triggered by tNep around the time of my Saturn return, I wanted out. He wouldn't let me go. Broke away for a few months, he wormed his way back in, made me miserable. When rx tNep was once again activating my nMoon-Venus-Uranus square, I cheated. I stopped having sex with him altogether after that, and he kicked me out.

Haven't been committed since, just find myself getting drawn to or attracting guys who are unavailable in some way.

posted March 02, 2012 11:43 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
No.

Some people will say that Venus in Gemini is the worst, and as one who possesses that Venus sign, I say that is total crap.

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My Cancer niece has Venus in Gemini cheats on every boyfriend lol

Jennifer Lopez has Venus in Gemini

posted March 03, 2012 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Gemini simply needs a strong mental connection and a partner who is psychologically interesting.
Venus in Gemini does not make someone prone to cheating. It makes them prone to having a high degree of nervous energy when it comes to love and relationships.. a kind of restlessness.. so if they are not with the right person - if they are with a particularly boring or uncommunicative person - they will move on.

But we all have thresholds and we can all end a relationship for different reasons.

Gemini leaves when the mental connection dies.

Also, air signs - including Gemini are the least physical. Air sign Venus and Mars can go years without sex... so I'm not sure why people would mention 'physical' cheating in connection to this sign anyway.
The physicality of sex is not very important to them. They often 'research' sex and love... They don't have to engage. They only engage rarely.

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posted March 05, 2012 05:40 PM            

- Hard Venus-Uranus aspects
- Hard Venus-Neptune aspects

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- Moon in Aries (as well, Sag, Aquarius, Gemini) + Venus / Mars in Pisces, Aries, Gemini, Aquarius
- Aries rising

There are always exceptions; you have to look at the over-all chart, but Venus Uranus is killer. Almost all cheaters I know have them.

Some examples:
I know an incredibly attractive guy with no moral qualms about sleeping with several different people at once. He's a Scorp with Libra rising, so you would think he'd be relationship & fidelity-oriented, but he has Aquarius Moon conjunct Pisces Venus > square Uranus. Uck!

Another friend is a Sag Sun with a Venus in Scorpio. Definitely not a tell-tale sign of a cheater. But she has an Aries Moon, Sun-conjunct-Neptune (giving it a Piscean flavor) and Venus conjunct Uranus. Right now she's in a long term relationship with an uber Leo, and even though there's love, she is utterly miserable without her freedom. She wonders whether she is made for relationships. I never know what to tell her!

Other cases include:
A Cancer Sun, Sag Moon, Leo Venus. Definitely doesn't seem like a cheater, but with Aries Rising, Moon-conjunct-Neptune quincunx Venus, Mars sextile Uranus, and Venus square Pluto... ugh, he was a crazy mess. He was actually an evil, horrible genius villain.

An almost everything Aquarius except for Sag Moon and Mars. But with a big 12th house Aquarius stellium (Sun, Merc, Venus, Jupiter) + tight Venus sextile Uranus and semisquare Neptune... he is a lovely non-monogamous man.

posted March 05, 2012 05:44 PM            

I'm an aries rising, and uranus exact conjunct MC so I get bored easily but I don't two time.

I had an ex with venus in Sag conjunct uranus tight and he was really committed. He also had an aries moon! Lol

posted March 05, 2012 05:51 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ still depends on person

I'm an aries rising, and uranus exact conjunct MC so I get bored easily but I don't two time.

I had an ex with venus in Sag conjunct uranus tight and he was really committed. He also had an aries moon! Lol
What does that say? Cheating is a choice. There's no excuses for it actually. I just think if sb's not happy they should get out of the relationship before making a fool of the other person.

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True true

posted March 05, 2012 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Yeah alot of players are the way they are cos somebody they really cared about hurt them.

Either guys become commitphobes and players, or they become really distrusting and closed off. Kinda sad really, how one person can screw somebody up so much they totally change afterwards.

And Teasel, all good =). It's good to know there are some good apples amongst the bad ones! At end of day, some placements give more potential to do wrong things, but doesn't force the person to do it. It's all about choices =).

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posted March 05, 2012 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Yeah my heart's kinda numb these days. Kinda apathetic and can't really 'like' anyone the way I used to.

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posted March 05, 2012 06:44 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Yeah my heart's kinda numb these days. Kinda apathetic and can't really 'like' anyone the way I used to.

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