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posted February 16, 2012 03:52 PM            

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Is there any tendencies for cheating indicated by moon/Venus/mars signs? Without getting too technical when it comes to someone's full chart with the bla bla in the 4th house etc : )

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posted February 16, 2012 04:00 PM            

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No.

Some people will say that Venus in Gemini is the worst, and as one who possesses that Venus sign, I say that is total crap.

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posted February 16, 2012 04:13 PM            

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I know a guy who is a Taurus Sun, Moon in Aries, with Venus + Mercury in Gemini, Mars in Aqua.

The guy can juggle 4 different girlfriends all at once.

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posted February 16, 2012 04:14 PM            

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People will probably tell you that there is no aspect that makes someone cheat. It's a choice, and it has little to do with astrology.

However, some elements may "predispose" someone to cheat.
I'd think mutable signs (especially Gemini and Pisces), Uranus aspects, and maybe hard Moon/Venus and Venus/Mars aspects can play a part in it. Maybe afflicted planets in the 5th as well.

Keep in mind that nothing is set in stone though.

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posted February 16, 2012 04:21 PM            

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The Taurus man I'm talking about above had:

Venus Opposing Saturn
Venus Opposing Uranus

So happens Saturn + Uranus, along with Neptune, are all in his 5th house.

He also has uranus trining AC and moon

Duno if any of that is related though

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posted February 16, 2012 04:24 PM            

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^ Plus he has an Aries Moon (impulsive, impatient) and a mutable Venus and Mercury (need for variety and change).

Looks like it is related, indeed.

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posted February 16, 2012 04:29 PM            

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Yes I know everyone has free will but I was just wondering if some people might be more likely to cheat than others based on their chart.

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posted February 16, 2012 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ Plus he has an Aries Moon (impulsive, impatient) and a mutable Venus and Mercury (need for variety and change).

Looks like it is related, indeed.

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I know a couple fire moons and mutable venus/mercs who are loyal. Just so happens this guy isn't. I'm thinking maybe also related to the aspects the planet makes in his chart?

Close friend is Moon in Aries with Venus in Sag. She's 100% devoted (Ya probably needs some excitement once in a while due to their need for change and variety but they know their boundaries)

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posted February 16, 2012 04:50 PM            

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His Venus is afflicted, and he's got a loaded 5th house, including Neptune and Uranus (do I really need to explain this?).

But yeah, free will is key here.

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posted February 16, 2012 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
I know a couple fire moons and mutable venus/mercs who are loyal. Just so happens this guy isn't. I'm thinking maybe also related to the aspects the planet makes in his chart?

Close friend is Moon in Aries with Venus in Sag. She's 100% devoted (Ya probably needs some excitement once in a while due to their need for change and variety but they know their boundaries)

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I think venus in sags are quite loyal actually =). I'd trust them more than venus in gem and pisces.

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posted February 16, 2012 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
No.

Some people will say that Venus in Gemini is the worst, and as one who possesses that Venus sign, I say that is total crap.

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Not total crap if it's the general consensus. People don't have stereotypes for nothing, there is a reason why people perceive a certain placement a certain way.

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posted February 16, 2012 06:24 PM            

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Gender can be relevant as well... Men are slightly more likely to cheat.

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Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship.

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http://www.authorsden.com/categories/article_top.asp?catid=57&id=28879

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posted February 16, 2012 06:25 PM            

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People here in LA cheat like there is no tomorrow. Doesn't matter if you are married, it matters where you live too.

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posted February 16, 2012 07:04 PM            

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I've come to find that women cheat just as much as men. It makes me really uneasy... I mean when you get married, you're hoping for your spouse to be totally faithful no? =/

50-60% is a statistic that scares me. =(

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posted February 16, 2012 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I've come to find that women cheat just as much as men. It makes me really uneasy... I mean when you get married, you're hoping for your spouse to be totally faithful no? =/

50-60% is a statistic that scares me. =(

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i am glad someone agrees with me XD, and i have found that libras cheat but not in the typical sense,they dont out right cheat,they may be talking to someone else behind your back,because they are always looking for someone better who matches the ideal,and once they do they drop you like a bad habit.

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posted February 16, 2012 07:34 PM            

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^ That's more like Gem. Gem have that perpetual grass is always greener mentality (aka gigs)

Libras CAN commit. All the libra influenced peeps I know aren't cheaters.

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posted February 16, 2012 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ That's more like Gem. Gem have that perpetual grass is always greener mentality (aka gigs)

Libras CAN commit. All the libra influenced peeps I know aren't cheaters.

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i didnt mean they cheat in the typical sense as in sleeping around behind my back,but i have caught several of my libra girlfriends talking behind my back to other guys and flirting ,and when i asked them about it they would just say oh honey he is just a friend,i am with you not him,then next thing i know they have dumped me and are dating the supposed friend,now i know better XD. But thats just been my experience,maybe i have just met the bad libras

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posted February 16, 2012 08:11 PM            

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W-T-F 45% to 60% LOL and they're talking about actual extramartial sex. How about internet secret relationships and hot chat and dating sites ROFL WTF

That is just sad!!!

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posted February 16, 2012 08:16 PM            

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Darn that must suck. It's strange cos the libras I know aren't like that, esp one with a sag venus, she has alot of air and fire (not leo fire so it's not fixed) and she's been with her bf for like 5 and half years. And considering I'm in my early 20's, that's really impressive.
She DOES have a taurus moon though (love em).
Yeah cheating is cheating, doesn't need to be physical. Emotional is imo worse.

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posted February 16, 2012 08:27 PM            

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Darn that must suck. It's strange cos the libras I know aren't like that, esp one with a sag venus, she has alot of air and fire (not leo fire so it's not fixed) and she's been with her bf for like 5 and half years. And considering I'm in my early 20's, that's really impressive.
She DOES have a taurus moon though (love em).
Yeah cheating is cheating, doesn't need to be physical. Emotional is imo worse.

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yea a taurus moon makes a big difference i think, atleat in my case,i am an aqua sun,ascendant and venus,and several planets in the eleventh house to boot,you dont read too many good things about aquarius men relationship wise,we are distant,not romantic,and unaffectionate,and you would think i would be the epitome of those stereotypes,but i am affectionate and romantic and take commitments seriously,the taurus moon is great

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posted February 16, 2012 08:28 PM            

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Hey Aquaguy,

You've got to be a bit more secure about it. Women flirt. My wife flirts, many times in front of me. So what? I shoot the BS with women in front of her too. As long as its nothing more than BS, don't sweat it. Just treat your women properly and there wouldn't be any problems.

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posted February 16, 2012 08:28 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Darn that must suck. It's strange cos the libras I know aren't like that, esp one with a sag venus, she has alot of air and fire (not leo fire so it's not fixed) and she's been with her bf for like 5 and half years. And considering I'm in my early 20's, that's really impressive.
She DOES have a taurus moon though (love em).
Yeah cheating is cheating, doesn't need to be physical. Emotional is imo worse.

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posted February 16, 2012 08:38 PM            

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Hey Aquaguy,

You've got to be a bit more secure about it. Women flirt. My wife flirts, many times in front of me. So what? I shoot the BS with women in front of her too. As long as its nothing more than BS, don't sweat it. Just treat your women properly and there wouldn't be any problems.

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yea i know what you mean,i know its human nature to look at other people and maybe flirt a little,but when someone lies about it and talks to other people while acting like they are commited to you,i think thats when it crosses the line,and in the cases above my suspicions turned out to be right

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posted February 16, 2012 08:40 PM            

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Cheating is imo anything you wouldn't do with you s/o next to you, anything you feel the need to hide. I mean why hide if you're not doing anything dodgy right? So frankly imo a tiny bit of playful banter is FINE, but full on flirting is not. And I will not tolerate it in my relationships.

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posted February 16, 2012 08:41 PM            

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And I agree fully with you!! I didn't know it involved lying!

Well, certain signs are a bit more sociable and "friendly" with the opposite sex. I can't control the crowd of men around my Leo wife at times: and mostly her fault too. But then I'm being a prude.

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