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Topic: Shyness?
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted March 01, 2012 03:59 PM
  
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
How tight is the orb between your Sun & Saturn?
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
A lot of people seem to equate shyness to being reserved or quiet.According to this book (or at least one with a similar title I read years ago): http://www.amazon.com/Shyness-What-Do-About/dp/0201550180/ref=sr_1_4 ?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1330632576&sr=1-4 Shyness is basically a fear of people. Breaking that down into astrological terms, the Moon (emotions, inner self), Saturn (fear), the 11th House, and detrimental placements should result in shyness. And one could be shy within one type of situation but bold in another. So if someone has Saturn aspects to their Moon, the shyness would prolly manifest in the houses where Moon & Saturn reside in or rule.
Hm interesting.
I have Moon (5th) opposite Saturn (11th). I am not sure I fear people.
I do have a hard time with relationships and friendships but other than that I can be social, as long as people don't get too close/invasive.
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sand
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posted March 01, 2012 04:01 PM
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
aquarius sun in the twelfth house conjunct saturn here and i can be really shy,dont even ask me to speak in front of a crowd, i might have a heart attack
I get really nervous when I have to speak in front of a crowd, I can totally relate!
But no 12th placements here. IP: Logged |
pandacake
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Registered: May 2011
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posted March 01, 2012 04:03 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
aquarius sun in the twelfth house conjunct saturn here and i can be really shy,dont even ask me to speak in front of a crowd, i might have a heart attack
Whoa I have the same thing, can't stop blushing when I have to talk to strangers!
Sun in 12th house here as well. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 04:04 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
shy and nervous is very cute anyway on women.. im sure some dudes can make that work in their favor as well..
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted March 01, 2012 04:06 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
shy and nervous is very cute anyway on women.. im sure some dudes can make that work in their favor as well..
yea i think its a bit trickier being a guy and being shy IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 04:07 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
shy and nervous is very cute anyway on women.. im sure some dudes can make that work in their favor as well..
Lol sand. Usually when I'm shy I come across as high-strung and nervous, and when that happens I sart talking a lot (damn you mutable ASC!), and I'm sure it's annoying and pathetic  But hey, it doesn't happen that often, I'm not such a disaster. IP: Logged |
pandacake
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posted March 01, 2012 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Lol sand.Usually when I'm shy I come across as high-strung and nervous, and when that happens I sart talking a lot (damn you mutable ASC!), and I'm sure it's annoying and pathetic But hey, it doesn't happen that often, I'm not such a disaster.
Lol I'm sure it's more pleasant than awkward silences. 
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Oliviaaa
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posted March 01, 2012 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
A lot of people seem to equate shyness to being reserved or quiet.According to this book (or at least one with a similar title I read years ago): http://www.amazon.com/Shyness-What-Do-About/dp/0201550180/ref=sr_1_4 ?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1330632576&sr=1-4 Shyness is basically a fear of people. Breaking that down into astrological terms, the Moon (emotions, inner self), Saturn (fear), the 11th House, and detrimental placements should result in shyness. And one could be shy within one type of situation but bold in another. So if someone has Saturn aspects to their Moon, the shyness would prolly manifest in the houses where Moon & Saturn reside in or rule.
Do not have any Moon-Saturn aspects, but I admit I fear overtly aggressive as well as 'crazy' people, yes. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted March 01, 2012 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
1 degree, felt very strongly
Interesting "This is a rather sober aspect. Those born under a Sun conjunct Saturn aspect, in their youth, are humbled in some way such that they do not feel free to express their will in an outgoing and direct manner. As children, their expressions of their ego were thwarted, which led to some self-consciousness regarding self-expression. They were painfully aware that what they wanted, they didn't always get. As adults, they do not feel comfortable as the center of attention. For whatever reason, people with this aspect in their natal charts feel the need to control their impulses. It is easy for them to assume responsibility for more than most." In my eyes this is a pretty good aspect then again I'm scorpio-pluto dominated. IP: Logged |
Oliviaaa
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posted March 01, 2012 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
shy and nervous is very cute anyway on women.. im sure some dudes can make that work in their favor as well..
Haha, do whatttt? How old are you? Don't get insulted if you're not, but I'm thinkin' you gotta be older!  I was born late 1990, and guys around my age have always faulted me for bein' the shy/nervous type! Just do not like my type, the more reserved and yes, I admit.. "good girl" kind, AT ALL! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3862
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yea i think its a bit trickier being a guy and being shy
Good girls know the shy guy isn't a player IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted March 01, 2012 04:16 PM
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Originally posted by Oliviaaa:
Haha, do whatttt? How old are you? Don't get insulted if you're not, but I'm thinkin' you gotta be older! I was born late 1990, and guys around my age have always faulted me for bein' the shy/nervous type! Just do not like my type, the more reserved and yes, I admit.. "good girl" kind, AT ALL!
The good girl shy girl is looked at different, they seem boring and square to some guys. IP: Logged |
Oliviaaa
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posted March 01, 2012 04:20 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
The good girl shy girl is looked at different, they seem boring and square to some guys.
Yeah.. I suppose. But once you get to know me, I'm very outgoing! I mean, hey.. I DO have a Sag Moon, after all.  But, I just have to know and get comfortable with the person first.. I'm not the least bit borin' after that. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Good girls know the shy guy isn't a player
That is hardly a rule. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Moderator Posts: 3862
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by Oliviaaa:
Yeah.. I suppose. But once you get to know me, I'm very outgoing! I mean, hey.. I DO have a Sag Moon, after all. But, I just have to know and get comfortable with the person first.. I'm not the least bit borin' after that.
Sag moon is alot of fun Olivia... Bring that out and you'll do great plus you'll be yourself so it's all a bonus! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 04:23 PM
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Originally posted by pandacake:
Lol I'm sure it's more pleasant than awkward silences.
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by Oliviaaa:
But once you get to know me, I'm very outgoing! I mean, hey.. I DO have a Sag Moon, after all.
Lucky you!
Fire Moons are always fun. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Interesting"This is a rather sober aspect. Those born under a Sun conjunct Saturn aspect, in their youth, are humbled in some way such that they do not feel free to express their will in an outgoing and direct manner. As children, their expressions of their ego were thwarted, which led to some self-consciousness regarding self-expression. They were painfully aware that what they wanted, they didn't always get. As adults, they do not feel comfortable as the center of attention. For whatever reason, people with this aspect in their natal charts feel the need to control their impulses. It is easy for them to assume responsibility for more than most." In my eyes this is a pretty good aspect then again I'm scorpio-pluto dominated.
it is in some ways,such as taking responsibility,but most interpretations are much worse,the opening line of this on astro.com is you often feel bad about yourself without knowing why ,it can bring about major self doubt,and being in twelfth house it makes it hidden. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 01, 2012 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
it is in some ways,such as taking responsibility,but most interpretations are much worse,the opening line of this on astro.com is you often feel bad about yourself without knowing why ,it can bring about major self doubt,and being in twelfth house it makes it hidden.
It could be worse, some people out there have the square or opposition, hey! IP: Logged |
Oliviaaa
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posted March 01, 2012 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Sag moon is alot of fun Olivia... Bring that out and you'll do great plus you'll be yourself so it's all a bonus!
I try. IP: Logged |
Oliviaaa
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posted March 01, 2012 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Lucky you!
Fire Moons are always fun.
Aw.  But I am lucky 'cause it also trines Jupiter! So, it does help alot. Can I ask what sign your Moon is in? IP: Logged |
butterflyxoxxo
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From: seattle
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 04:29 PM
I have Saturn in the first house and can be quiet, not so much shy. But I like solitude despite all of the planets in the eleventhIP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted March 01, 2012 04:30 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It could be worse, some people out there have the square or opposition, hey!
i agree IP: Logged |
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