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Topic: Romanticlly pursue someone with a chart heavy in aqua?
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mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 08:06 PM
  
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
^^I'm not the one worked up. Now that you've stepped up the game, illustrate how I put words into your mouth. Did you not mention being laid back in your post above?
Oh but you are. Just go read your post. You sounded alittle hissy lol. You put words in my mouth bc you implied I scoffed at sentimentality and was sb who can't 'have serious discussions.' When all I meant was don't be all gushy at the start of a 'courtship' cos girls don't like that. Come on. I'm a virgo and libra placement chick. I like sentimental moments. But at the appropriate time, and it has to the appropriate amount. Otherwise it's a big turn off. Nothing turns me off faster (besides conceit and ignorance) than when sb pulls the whole 'you're so special to me' card when we haven't given it time to develop that emotional attachment. It's scary. My usual response to that is ... 'um ok.'
*interest level wanes*
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mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i agree with you man, i wish there were more women of my generation who are mature enough for something deep, its all games, if you so much as imply feelings to a girl my age they run for the hills,they prefer the mysterious guy,but then begin to complain when he isn't forthcoming with his feelings. haha
There's a difference btwn expressing emotion and opening a dam full of it right at the get go. Oh about YTA comment about her being a 'treasure' and about sharing happy moments... It's better to SHOW than to tell. Show her you can be fun. And show her what she'll gain by having you in her life.
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aquaguy91
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posted March 09, 2012 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
There's a difference btwn expressing emotion and opening a dam full of it right at the get go.
i know that, i'm an aqua sun,ascendant,and venus with alot of uranus stuff,so i'm not the clingy type at all, my experience with dating and courtship is that the girls complain about my not showing enough interest and feeling and get frustrated but yet blow my phone up,and when they reach my taurus moon side they run away,but yet they had been complaining about the lack of romance but reject it when they get it,and thats what i meant IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 08:21 PM
Think that's cos you met girls who don't know what they want.
Alot of girls go through that when they're young. =)
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ail221
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posted March 09, 2012 08:23 PM
I swear Aquarius is like the pink elephant of the zodiacIP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted March 09, 2012 08:24 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i know that, i'm an aqua sun,ascendant,and venus with alot of uranus stuff,so i'm not the clingy type at all, my experience with dating and courtship is that the girls complain about my not showing enough interest and feeling and get frustrated but yet blow my phone up,and when they reach my taurus moon side they run away,but yet they had been complaining about the lack of romance but reject it when they get it,and thats what i meant
It sounds like your Aqua side caused them to put up their guards and detach by the time you're ready to show your Taurus Moon side. Bad timing. (I'm the opposite, having Venus-Uranus in Scorp...if they don't show as much deep passion in the beginning, I write them off as a bad investment lol)IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 08:26 PM
^ really? I usually start thinking they have possible possessive, clingy, obsessive and codependent tendencies if they're like that at the start.That's my experiences at least. It's always a big red flag if sb is in your face right at the start. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted March 09, 2012 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ really? I usually start thinking they have possible possessive, clingy, obsessive and codependent tendencies if they're like that at the start.That's my experiences at least. It's always a big red flag if sb is in your face right at the start.
And I am indeed all of those things in the first year or two lol. Venus is about the courting stage, the testing. After the two years (standard length of the average love affair), I switch over to Moon/Juno/Vesta/Ceres in Aquarius and it's like anything goes~ My ex wondered if I had a pulse.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 08:32 PM
^ haha yeah I can't handle that aye. I start feel boxed in and will need to get away.I don't have venus and moon square uranus by aspect, but they do square by sign. Would there still be some sort of effect on my personality then? IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted March 09, 2012 08:37 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ haha yeah I can't handle that aye. I start feel boxed in and will need to get away.I don't have venus and moon square uranus by aspect, but they do square by sign. Would there still be some sort of effect on my personality then?
Yes of course...what you've been socially programmed to want is at odds with what your basic nature needs. You may sacrifice your wants to make someone else happy, and come off looking like you don't know what you want due to that internal conflict. Plus you have that Venus-Chiron square.....but at least it's a T-square and not a grand cross, eh? There's an outlet for the dissatisfactions in there.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 09, 2012 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Think that's cos you met girls who don't know what they want.
Alot of girls go through that when they're young. =)
tell me about it... my mom is in her 50s and has no idea what she wants in a man IP: Logged |
carl
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From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
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posted March 09, 2012 08:48 PM
well, anyone care t chat more in depth via a chat program like aim, etc.?IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted March 09, 2012 08:51 PM
People still use aim? LolIP: Logged |
carl
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posted March 09, 2012 08:59 PM
yeesh skype/g-talk, haha (I don't).IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted March 09, 2012 09:35 PM
Hmmmm... the first thing that struck my mind when i see the title is, this girl must be someone who needs someone who is interesting and different, perhaphs intellectually.  IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted March 09, 2012 09:46 PM
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Hmmmm... the first thing that struck my mind when i see the title is, this girl must be someone who needs someone who is interesting and different, perhaphs intellectually.
The first thing that struck my mind when I read your post was that you're a guy pretending to be a girl. j/k haha. But seriously......as a girl, shouldn't you know that all girls want this in a guy, along with 67896789 other qualities? But of course guys are all interested in getting to the sex part as fast as possible, and not interested in what goes on in a girl's mind at all unless it's to help him get access into her panties. Which makes all STRAIGHT guys BORING in a girl's presence! And these days it's like most of them are obsessed with being players and think girls can't totally see through them and pity them for being sooooo desperate to prove their masculinity through using girls and lying to them. Anyway, I had one such experience (Sag with Moon afflicted by Uranus...eesh never again) and it was the only lesson I needed. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted March 09, 2012 10:09 PM
capriquarius, i like your style. your posts never cease to amuse me  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 09, 2012 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lilithpluto:
[b]Hmmmm... the first thing that struck my mind when i see the title is, this girl must be someone who needs someone who is interesting and different, perhaphs intellectually.
The first thing that struck my mind when I read your post was that you're a guy pretending to be a girl. j/k haha. But seriously......as a girl, shouldn't you know that all girls want this in a guy, along with 67896789 other qualities? But of course guys are all interested in getting to the sex part as fast as possible, and not interested in what goes on in a girl's mind at all unless it's to help him get access into her panties. Which makes all STRAIGHT guys BORING in a girl's presence! And these days it's like most of them are obsessed with being players and think girls can't totally see through them and pity them for being sooooo desperate to prove their masculinity through using girls and lying to them. Anyway, I had one such experience (Sag with Moon afflicted by Uranus...eesh never again) and it was the only lesson I needed. [/B][/QUOTE]i think its great that you know a player when you see one, i wish more women were able to do that, because there are some really great guys out there,just got to sort through the pretenders. IP: Logged |
ghanima81
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posted March 09, 2012 10:59 PM
Carl,
Triple Aqua here. Keep it fun, whirlwindy, fascinating, and passionate. We heavily Aquarian women are quite capable of great love, but put us firmly in the friend zone first. We need to trust and feel we can be our kooky selves without rejection. Make your presence known though, and keep it in her head that YES my lady, I am interested and I can dance this cha cha with you..IP: Logged |
carl
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posted March 09, 2012 11:03 PM
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Originally posted by ghanima81:
Carl,
Triple Aqua here. Keep it fun, whirlwindy, fascinating, and passionate. We heavily Aquarian women are quite capable of great love, but put us firmly in the friend zone first. We need to trust and feel we can be our kooky selves without rejection. Make your presence known though, and keep it in her head that YES my lady, I am interested and I can dance this cha cha with you..
so a lover who is a best friend too? IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted March 09, 2012 11:09 PM
^^ yes, pretty much. best friend and lover. the whole package.IP: Logged |
carl
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From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
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posted March 09, 2012 11:11 PM
so what is a catchy one liner I can say to said object of desire?we've shared some neat exp. so far but my one flaw is admiting I am searching..straight up..for a gf.. IP: Logged |
ghanima81
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posted March 09, 2012 11:13 PM
Yes. That is the ideal. Its like "wow we do everything together and get along splendidly, maybe a kiss? Oh my! Well this is beautiful, let's see what happens here!"IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 09, 2012 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
The first thing that struck my mind when I read your post was that you're a guy pretending to be a girl. j/k haha. But seriously......as a girl, shouldn't you know that all girls want this in a guy, along with 67896789 other qualities? But of course guys are all interested in getting to the sex part as fast as possible, and not interested in what goes on in a girl's mind at all unless it's to help him get access into her panties. Which makes all STRAIGHT guys BORING in a girl's presence! And these days it's like most of them are obsessed with being players and think girls can't totally see through them and pity them for being sooooo desperate to prove their masculinity through using girls and lying to them. Anyway, I had one such experience (Sag with Moon afflicted by Uranus...eesh never again) and it was the only lesson I needed.
Lol... okie, my fault. I took the sex/lust factor out of the equation. I thought that is self-understood, not?  Its my moon in Aquarius, my observation is that I only fall in love after some investigation... then shocked when I get too deep and too late to back out. Cornered. Hmmmmm... whether one can see through a player or not really depends on experiences and raw gut feelings. My strategy before : hang out with as many players as possible; disect their mind and actions and sooner one will recorgnize they they are all the same, boring bunch. Then, that's when you start to recognise someone who acts different to the beat. Hopes it helps, dear Capriquarius. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted March 09, 2012 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i think its great that you know a player when you see one, i wish more women were able to do that, because there are some really great guys out there,just got to sort through the pretenders.
To understand a goose, one has to hang out with goose. To recognize a pig, one has to hang out with pigs. lol Okie, breakfast time. chat later. IP: Logged |
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