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Topic: Romanticlly pursue someone with a chart heavy in aqua?
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carl
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posted March 09, 2012 01:11 PM
  
Without specific birth time it tells part of the story but one thing is clear. Regardless of birth time she has a lot of aqua.Order of the day = aloof/detached and not openly expressive? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted March 09, 2012 01:24 PM
I saw your message Carl. I have been thinking on it. How does your moon aspect hers? ------------------
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Fondue Knight
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posted March 09, 2012 01:35 PM
Not necessarily. It depends on the rising. I know someone with that same Aqua stellium (Sun, Merc, Venus and Jupiter) with a Saggie Moon, Mars, Saturn and Cancer ASC and she is very openly expressive. She's also a complete narcissist.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 09, 2012 01:42 PM
i think all the stuff in astrology books about aquas being scared of relationships is a little too dramatic, i'm an aquarius male and i love the idea of a woman pursuing me and i like being in relationships,and i can be expressive, i just need room to breathe and to be able to do my own thing or hang with friends from time to time, but doesnt everyone need that to some degree?IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted March 09, 2012 01:44 PM
Just be really into humanitarian stuff. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted March 09, 2012 01:46 PM
Psh. That matters only somewhat, the real telling thing is how her Moon and Venus are aspected and how your chart interacts with hers. Like if you have a lot of Uranus aspects, there is going to be a lot of space needed, it doesn't really matter if she's an Aqua or not.IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
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posted March 09, 2012 02:34 PM
I keep saying this on LL, but I'll say it again. Aquarian women can be absolutely lovely. I know three such lovely women. One is my 60-something year old aunt, with a Cancer moon. The other is my good friend, with a Libra moon. The last, I don't even know her moon sign. All very compassionate, warm women who help people in need and make loyal, sweet friends.What would be the harm in taking a whirl with an Aquarius sun woman? You can probably tell in about five dates whether she's too distant, etc. But, Lordy, give her a chance if she strikes your fancy. Nobody's putting a gun to your head to get married! IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
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posted March 09, 2012 03:25 PM
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 03:27 PM
Regardless of all that, do you like her and are you compatible? The rest is pretty much secondary.IP: Logged |
carl
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posted March 09, 2012 03:49 PM
I should have said "how"? at the start of that subject line (How to romantically pursue...) It is not a question of if I want, but how do I...So, yes, I am interested. I know someone with a chart heavy in aqua needs their space. As someone with a chart heavy in sag myself I think/hope I can offer this naturally. But while still dropping little hints that I def. wanna move forward!I mean, we are "dating" but...I prefer an actual relationship. Ugh!! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 03:58 PM
Big guy. Summon the courage. Go somewhere quiet to talk. Not while you guys are eating because talking is awkward when you have your mouths full. Gradually move in. I don't know if you are at the stage where you can hold her hand. Talk to her frankly and honestly about how you feel, and that you would be so delighted to be in a relationship with her. Careful about talking about "the future" because so many women are commitment phobic these days. Make sure she understands that whatever space is need is solely for her benefit, and not that the man is stereotypically looking to sow his seeds (as men are commonly accused of doing). If she's the appreciative type, some nice flowers work. Not from the neighborhood deli or supermarket. I've bought just two roses from a flower shop once when I was broke, but they were presented beautifully in a box. Be romantic about it, but most of all, be sincere, honest and be yourself. If it works, take it from there. If not, you tried. Move on. IP: Logged |
Doreen
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posted March 09, 2012 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Regardless of all that, do you like her and are you compatible? The rest is pretty much secondary.
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carl
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posted March 09, 2012 04:24 PM
Well that is the issue with relationships. People advance so rapidly through everything except emotions. Emotionally and I guess with title, things are too slow.Flowers are a good idea! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 04:25 PM
Try not to over-do the material stuff at this stage. Pouring out your sincere thoughts and intentions are far more impressive right now. Make sure she understands how happy she makes you feel and how much you like being with her. Everything that a man would feel (genuinely!! not fake), short of talking about "the future."Definitely not: "Yo baby, you look so hot" hahahaha  No corny lines like "You're the most beautiful girl in the world." hahaha More like: "You are special to me. You are a treasure. I would be so delighted to have you as a special part of my life in a relationship so we can enjoy lots of happy times together." Dress nicely and groom yourself to the nines prior to that. Look for your finger nails, nose hairs, food stuck between your teeth lol j/k Be at your best manners. The rest just comes naturally. Women are suckers for men just as much as men are suckers for women. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 04:43 PM
^omg *gag* Im quite uranian so i'd suggest go easy on the gushy emotion and compliments. Be fun, expressive n laid back. Have a blast with them n laugh. Aquarius want the friendship factor. Not a puppy dog. Don't go all intense or full on. Ease into thngs. Take her rollerblading, ice skating, paint ball. The flowers can come later. But seeing that she has a Leo moon, she might like that. Just don't be trite in ur actions. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 04:56 PM
^^. Whatever. I only know what works for me. And I have a record of success with the women *I* like. All very pretty, intelligent and ultra successful women who had their choice of dates. As always, Your Mileage Will Vary. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 05:44 PM
Cool. I don't particularly care for your success with girls. At end of the day I'm speaking from a female's perspective. Any gushiness is a big turn off. Aquas behave alittle like a sag, in that being fun n entertaining will get you further than speeches about how 'special' they are to you. The sentiment can be present, but not too full on at the start please. Also if she has any of those planets conjuncting, her personality def will still point towards what I've posted.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 09, 2012 05:55 PM
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Definitely not: "Yo baby, you look so hot" hahahaha No corny lines like "You're the most beautiful girl in the world." hahaha More like: "You are special to me.
I agree. I hate compliments directed at my appearance.. and I try not to give too many compliments directed at others' appearance. Because I want to make people feel good primarily FOR who they are.
So when I like them - I just want them to know I actually like their personality!
But I would not mention a relationship yet - because she is Aquarian... after all So Carl - Maybe just keep it friendly at first.. All Aquarians like the idea of being with a person who is also a really good friend! It's important that you have a good mental connection and that you keep things interesting in conversation. Always tell her things that she might not know about - even astrology-relate stuff.. I think she would be interested! mintgirl - quote:
but not too full on at the start please.
I agree that he shouldn't go *overboard* with it. But I think what YTA meant to say was --- Don't do anything stupid like play hard to get.. And secondly let her know you VALUE her ---
I think this is good advice for anyone of any sign (unless they have an Aries Venus... because those peeps *sigh*... I don't know... I won't even go there). IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted March 09, 2012 06:24 PM
just be friends - as much as you might want to have more just start out with friendly vibes and let it progress naturally. you'll need a ton of patience because aqua men and women need a very solid friendship foundation before they'll even consider you as a potential anything. friendship is the only way to her heart.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 06:28 PM
Cool. And honestly I don't quite care about your perspective either because I said that what I said works for the women I like. My Leo wife didn't like me for being "laid back."In the end do what you have to do cos it don't mean sh1t to me. I'm not in anyone's shoes and none of you are in mine. I don't like women who can't have serious discussions, especially with regard to emotions. I personally dislike superficiality. I'm an Aquarius Venus and Saturn and water ASC Emotions are supremely important to me. And anyone who doesn't like emotional talk gets ditched. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted March 09, 2012 07:00 PM
^ Don't put words in my mouth and no need to get so worked up. Sentimental talk is fine when the occasion calls for it, but it's NOT appropriate for the early stages. ESP with an aqua heavy chick. Your wife is a Leo and has diff placements to this girl so you can't use the same approach bc everyone's different. And most people know it's actually a red flag when sb gets really full on at the start. People are weary of that, and it IS a turn off. OP, like the others have said. Build a strong foundation of friendship with her. She'd like that.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 07:18 PM
^^I'm not the one worked up. Now that you've stepped up the game, illustrate how I put words into your mouth. Did you not mention being laid back in your post above?
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 09, 2012 07:22 PM
Carl,When I have a question about playing the piano, I seek advice from a piano player. I suggest that you listen to those who've had success in relationships, like happily married women. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 09, 2012 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Cool. And honestly I don't quite care about your perspective either because I said that what I said works for the women I like. My Leo wife didn't like me for being "laid back."In the end do what you have to do cos it don't mean sh1t to me. I'm not in anyone's shoes and none of you are in mine. I don't like women who can't have serious discussions, especially with regard to emotions. I personally dislike superficiality. I'm an Aquarius Venus and Saturn and water ASC Emotions are supremely important to me. And anyone who doesn't like emotional talk gets ditched.
i agree with you man, i wish there were more women of my generation who are mature enough for something deep, its all games, if you so much as imply feelings to a girl my age they run for the hills,they prefer the mysterious guy,but then begin to complain when he isn't forthcoming with his feelings. haha IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted March 09, 2012 07:58 PM
i dont think you just need to listen to the advice of "happily married women"
uranian women are likely to be unmarried, it takes them longer than most to settle down. (speaking as a highly uranian taurus).
and definetely, no gushy, puppy doggie sentiments. eww. this approach dont work with uranian people. just be yourself, and if its meant to be it will be...IP: Logged |
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