posted March 10, 2012 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl:
"A Pluto relationship could last a long time just on pure passion as there is pure, animal passion. However, even the greatest passion eventually passes"

My experiences tells me that the Pluto type of passion never fades... at least not during a lifetime. They say that mutual Pluto-Venus is the aspect of eternal love, and it did feel like that to me. Pluto is all or nothing. There is just too much depth and intensity. Pluto is the endless longing, it never goes away...

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Aw How interesting! I hear you.

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posted March 10, 2012 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl:
"A Pluto relationship could last a long time just on pure passion as there is pure, animal passion. However, even the greatest passion eventually passes"

My experiences tells me that the Pluto type of passion never fades... at least not during a lifetime. They say that mutual Pluto-Venus is the aspect of eternal love, and it did feel like that to me. Pluto is all or nothing. There is just too much depth and intensity. Pluto is the endless longing, it never goes away...

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posted March 10, 2012 10:48 PM            

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My response would be I don't need a friend and it's wasting my time. If I want a friend, I'll look to my dog, and she's far more loyal as a friend than any girl.

Au revoir mon ami!

Same attitude with the "take it slow" and I "can't commit" strategies.

I don't like men and I don't like platonic relationships. Do I suppose I'm a truly one-woman man.

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I agree with this. My guy friends are not guys who got caught in the "friend zone" after trying to date, I just naturally made friends with them with no sexual feelings/tension on either side (definitely not on my side at least). I don't do the "let's be friends" thing after a break-up because being a "guy's gal", and knowing their secrets, I know what that means...you aren't good enough to date but when I am feeling desperate, since you obviously like me, we can hook up... I'm not into the ____ buddies thing at all, sex without a relationship doesn't entice me in the least bit (5th, 8th & 11th ruler in the 7th I guess). I like real relationships or nothing.

posted March 11, 2012 06:07 AM            

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Originally posted by BrightStar23:
Awesome Post Ami!

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Thanks Bright Star!

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posted March 11, 2012 06:09 AM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
This is interesting Ami. I have noticed that most of my guy friends, and guys that I have dated but it didn't work out with, have had a luminary or their rising sign in Scorpio, which is conjunct my Uranus, which is my chart ruler...

I agree with this. My guy friends are not guys who got caught in the "friend zone" after trying to date, I just naturally made friends with them with no sexual feelings/tension on either side (definitely not on my side at least). I don't do the "let's be friends" thing after a break-up because being a "guy's gal", and knowing their secrets, I know what that means...you aren't good enough to date but when I am feeling desperate, since you obviously like me, we can hook up... I'm not into the ____ buddies thing at all, sex without a relationship doesn't entice me in the least bit (5th, 8th & 11th ruler in the 7th I guess). I like real relationships or nothing.

I don't like platonic friendships with women either. I am not mean or cold with them but I don't like to get any closer than just acquaintance. I am a bit of a loner and I'm good with that.

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Yes, my platonic male friends were always that. I did not mean to infer that a romance can go to platonic and actually work. "Lets just be friends" is usually a blow off line

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posted March 11, 2012 06:12 AM            

However, when there are exact Chiron aspects in synastry, that wild card thing seems to come in 80% of the time. Did you read what I wrote about that?

Chiron is like a Mobius strip. It looks like it is going in one direction and then it changes all of a sudden and you lose the person Then, you never seem to get them back. You get close really fast too.
This is the hallmark of it. You get close and open up really fast and it is very comfortable. You feel as if they are a best friend. Then, some misunderstanding happens and blows it apart when the misunderstanding should have been able to be resolved. That is my experience with Chiron in synastry in any relationship.

posted March 11, 2012 07:04 AM            

I like the vibe of Mercury / Uranus, but Uranus is my 3rd house ruler, so that could be why.
And my Aqua Moon likes Uranus anyway.

"n relationships which are about lifting each other up and encouraging, there will be a strong Jupiter connection."
Yes. Jupiter expands what it touches.
And is very encouraging.
Just imagine having a guy`s Jupiter conjunct your Venus; it would literally mean that he encourages the way your perceive and show your feminity.

I am still wondering what it means if my Jupiter trines his Venus, and his Jupiter trines my Mars though. Pondering...
But generally Jupiter brings a very encouraging, supportive, joyful, expansive aspect to what it touches.

Maybe we underestimate him in karmic relations as well.
We know Saturn as the lord of Karma, the one who teaches us lessons, and who is quite strict in doing so.
Jupiter feels like Saturn`s counterpart in that way, like a most encouraging teacher. They are neither personal planets nor outer planets, and personally I relate them to the "social circle".

"What Ceri said about Yin planets squaring and making attraction dimmed fits too---VERY well. Brilliant idea Ceri--as usual!"
Thanks.

posted March 11, 2012 07:11 AM            

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I learned about Jupiter in synastry by Doux Reve who has Jupiter conj her Venus. Her Venus becomes almost illuminated. Jupiter infuses a glow of warmth and uplifting to what it touches.It is like a warm fire that makes you feel better if you are cold.

For you--If his Jupiter trines your Mars, I think your drive would be encouraged like "You can do it" lol

If your Jupiter trines his Venus, he would feel beautiful.
What do you think Ceri?

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posted March 11, 2012 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
This is interesting Ami. I have noticed that most of my guy friends, and guys that I have dated but it didn't work out with, have had a luminary or their rising sign in Scorpio, which is conjunct my Uranus, which is my chart ruler...

I agree with this. My guy friends are not guys who got caught in the "friend zone" after trying to date, I just naturally made friends with them with no sexual feelings/tension on either side (definitely not on my side at least). I don't do the "let's be friends" thing after a break-up because being a "guy's gal", and knowing their secrets, I know what that means...you aren't good enough to date but when I am feeling desperate, since you obviously like me, we can hook up... I'm not into the ____ buddies thing at all, sex without a relationship doesn't entice me in the least bit (5th, 8th & 11th ruler in the 7th I guess). I like real relationships or nothing.

I don't like platonic friendships with women either. I am not mean or cold with them but I don't like to get any closer than just acquaintance. I am a bit of a loner and I'm good with that.

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I find it amazing how people 'speak' their charts, with Scorpio rising and pluto in first and few aspects again like I responded to your other thread, suggests a 'loner'

posted March 11, 2012 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
I find it amazing how people 'speak' their charts, with Scorpio rising and pluto in first and few aspects again like I responded to your other thread, suggests a 'loner'

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I have Aquarius rising and Pluto in the 8th or 9th depending on the house system used, I think you have me confused with someone else.