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Topic: Can I heal his compulsive smoking? Sun-Chiron-Gemini
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Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 02:58 AM
  
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Why do people who Smoke Marijuana never develop any issues with their health or lungs?
If they all had a Pisces South Node... and Saturn conjunct their North Node in Virgo -- then they probably would  IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
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posted March 26, 2012 02:59 AM
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.Maybe you can heal it with some care... You are just expressing your love for him...good luck
Thank you violet!  IP: Logged |
s4nd
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posted March 26, 2012 03:03 AM
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MataMoros
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From: Mexico
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:12 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
MataMoros - Do you have any of the following aspects in your chart?1. Venus square Mars 2. Aries Venus 3. Moon square Mars 4. Aries Moon 5. Mars opposite Pluto What you said here.. reminds me of two people I've known. It sounds like something they would say.
I am just curious if you have any of the above aspects in common with them. From my perspective - love is not a power play and it's not about control. I'm very laid back.
You littered that with traps didn't you? Who are these two people that I sound like? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 26, 2012 03:37 AM
LOLL No!
They're not traps  The first is my ex/first love... He just thought everyone - but mainly women - were always trying to control him.
It didn't even matter what I said to him.. he would always want to do the exact opposite because he was obsessed with the thought that I'm trying to control him. Even if I said something like: "Lets go to the beach today!"
He would be thinking... "Omg She's trying to control where I GO today... What is she up to? Why does she want me to go to the beach?"  The second is a person I'm working with, but I know him pretty well and have known him for some years now. I was never involved with him but I've seen the way he behaves with other girls.. and he is also obsessed that they are trying to control him.. He tries to make sure he is the one in control at all times. This is strange to me - because love is not about control in my book. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 03:40 AM
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u could get him a pipe and a cane and tell him it is next level schitt.
hahhahaha That really cracked me up! I'm picturing him with a pipe lol quote:
like every bond has always smoked a cigarette in a scene or two except for daniel craig's.
That's hilarious because sometimes he actually reminds me of actors in old movies..He has that look.. It's too funny. I'll tell him he needs to get with the times! IP: Logged |
violet7887
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From: maya
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 03:49 AM
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Originally posted by MataMoros:
Or......if the woman knows that she can get him to stop an addiction for her, then he will become addicted to her. She basically owns him if she can get him to stop an addiction. Maybe she is doing it for his health though.....you might be right...
Too much of anything is not good. So a addiction of any sort is a unhealthy balance. The base of all things stem from love, imo, so caring for the health of a person you love is a part of how you are true to yourself and the love you share. IP: Logged |
MataMoros
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From: Mexico
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:54 AM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
Too much of anything is not good. So a addiction of any sort is a unhealthy balance. The base of all things stem from love, imo, so caring for the health of a person you love is a part of how you are true to yourself and the love you share.
Yeah, I know that. It's not like you want the person you love to die. .....unless you are a celebrity widow who was........nevermind. IP: Logged |
MataMoros
Knowflake Posts: 146
From: Mexico
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:57 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
LOLL No!
They're not traps The first is my ex/first love... He just thought everyone - but mainly women - were always trying to control him.
It didn't even matter what I said to him.. he would always want to do the exact opposite because he was obsessed with the thought that I'm trying to control him. Even if I said something like: "Lets go to the beach today!"
He would be thinking... "Omg She's trying to control where I GO today... What is she up to? Why does she want me to go to the beach?" The second is a person I'm working with, but I know him pretty well and have known him for some years now. I was never involved with him but I've seen the way he behaves with other girls.. and he is also obsessed that they are trying to control him.. He tries to make sure he is the one in control at all times. This is strange to me - because love is not about control in my book.
Well I mean, if you make the statement, "Lets go to the beach today" and he agrees then you basically controlled where he went that day ohhhh but not him. Got you! What a waste of Eggs. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 05:11 AM
uh huh  Controlling where he goes - would be handcuffing him to my car seat and taking him to the beach without his consent! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 1074
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 05:20 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
uh huh Controlling where he goes - would be handcuffing him to my car seat and taking him to the beach without his consent!
that has happened to me before -_- haha IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 3109
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 05:34 AM
For real? O_OWas she a Scorpio? haha
jk
-- disclaimer: no scorpios try stingin' me now! twas a joke!!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 1074
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 05:38 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
For real? O_OWas she a Scorpio? haha
jk
-- disclaimer: no scorpios try stingin' me now! twas a joke!!
no j/k ,but a scorp girl did put handcuffs on me but we didnt go to the beach,but im sure you dont want to hear about that IP: Logged |
Panda26
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From: castro valley ca usa
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 05:43 AM
Betty Boop ,
Hello !!!
I only know a little bit of astrology . So I don't know whether chiron (yours) could help heal your Gems addiction ? I believe Love can work wonders ! I have been on both sides of this coin and it is , or can be challenging .If you really think he should quit , tell him maybe he will tell he has thought about , or he really want's to but... or he'll blame the other twin lol!!
Imo , he has to be ready to do it for himself . Will you still be happy with him , being with him if he can't/won't quit ? I am not expecting an answer , to personal just something to mull over .------------------
However, I do not ask -nor do
I even expect-any of you to
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truth, unless they should
happen to agree with your
own personal enlightenment
and private convictions.
~Linda Goodman~ IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 3109
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 06:09 AM
Hi Panda! Thank you for your reply. You seem like such a nice person I think that is a very good question. I mean I would be there for him no matter what as a friend... but I don't know about having a serious relationship.. I'd be wary of having kids with a person who smokes so much.
It is not so serious between us yet... But my gut feeling is that it can easily become serious... so I really don't know... I will probably have to talk to him about this anyway.. eventually sigh IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 06:10 AM
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im sure you dont want to hear about that
loll that sounds like a sweet peas topic IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 1074
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 06:11 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
loll that sounds like a sweet peas topic
haha its far to risque for sweetpeas IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 3109
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 06:28 AM
hahahah You just read an aries interpretation didn't you? Let me guess... "It is difficult to peak the Aries woman's interest.. as truth be told she is very self-centered. But if you ever want to get her attention - let her know you are sexually adventurous and up for anything!" IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 1074
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 06:30 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
hahahah You just read an aries interpretation didn't you? Let me guess... "It is difficult to peak the Aries woman's interest.. as truth be told she is very self-centered. But if you ever want to get her attention - let her know you are sexually adventurous and up for anything!"
nope im just being myself, and im not making that up IP: Logged |
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