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posted March 24, 2012 03:17 PM            

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I just entered the birth info for myself and all of the ex-boyfriends whose DOB's I could remember into Cafeastrology's compatibility comparison and I found the oddest thing: I've never had a sexual relationship with someone that didn't involve a Venus-Pluto contact (conjunction or trine). This was more consistent than Venus-Mars.

Is Pluto the ultimate say in sexual attraction? This goes against what I've always believed about sexual synastry.

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posted March 24, 2012 10:37 PM            

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Venus-pluto is definitely the ultimate in sexual attraction. Second strongest, i would say is sun-pluto

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posted March 25, 2012 03:02 PM            

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yea pluto and sun are meao rooooooooar

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posted March 25, 2012 03:03 PM            

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Venus Pluto is my fave too

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posted March 25, 2012 03:08 PM            

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Yeah I have Pluto Conjunct Venus. I also have Jupiter Conjunct Pluto, Mars Trine Pluto and Mercury Trine Pluto.

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posted March 25, 2012 05:14 PM            

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Venus pluto is my absolute fave, 2nd is mars pluto(oh god the sex!), 3rd is sun pluto. I feel the two first combos I mentioned beat out venus mars any day of the week baby!

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posted March 25, 2012 06:23 PM            

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Hahaha. I have Venus Mars too.

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posted March 25, 2012 06:54 PM            

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Ill throw venus-mars outta the freakin bed for venus-pluto baby! And venus-pluto-mars??? Oh baby marry me...and I did once!

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posted March 25, 2012 07:04 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Hahaha. I have Venus Mars too.

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No wonder you and your wife are so in love :]

@scrappydog
lmao

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posted March 25, 2012 07:05 PM            

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His Pluto is hitting all of my inner planets plus Asc in synastry.

Oh yes Mars/Venus, Venus/Venus, Mars/Mars, and Mars/moon in synastry.

In composite we have Sun/Venus with Pluto

Can't tell if I can feel every aspect distinctly, but I def feel Pluto, even when we're apart.

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posted March 25, 2012 07:08 PM            

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I concur.

Venus and mars make contact to Pluto between me and my current. Both contacts form a grand trine, I think it Deffinately adds emotional and physical feelings into the relationship.

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posted March 25, 2012 07:12 PM            

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Still didn't cover the Pluto to Saturn both directions and Pluto to ASC.

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posted March 25, 2012 07:13 PM            

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With pluto contacts u just can't stop thinking about them and wanting them All the time, so intense. If u r plutonian natally u will love it. If u have a lot of dominant aqua/sag or are very mercurial/uranian it might 'disturb' u and not in a good way, u might want to run, it can just feel to 'heavy' for u.

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posted March 25, 2012 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Scrappydog
With pluto contacts u just can't stop thinking about them and wanting them All the time, so intense. If u r plutonian natally u will love it.

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I completely relate to this w/ a strong Pluto in my own chart.

Question: Do both feel the same intensity?

And does a chart w/ a lot of water (Cancer, Pisces) and fire (Leo) also feel comfortable w/ the Pluto energy?

Thanks

I know earth does 'cause I have a lot of earth.

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posted March 25, 2012 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
With pluto contacts u just can't stop thinking about them and wanting them All the time, so intense. If u r plutonian natally u will love it. If u have a lot of dominant aqua/sag or are very mercurial/uranian it might 'disturb' u and not in a good way, u might want to run, it can just feel to 'heavy' for u.

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you hit the nail on the head! i am aqua dominant and i hate venus pluto,i hate not being in control of my emotions ,ugh! it drives me crazy.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:03 PM            

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No wonder you and your wife are so in love :]

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There are many other practical considerations why I love her so much, but I don't want to derail this thread.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:08 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
There are many other practical considerations why I love her so much, but I don't want to derail this thread.

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of course.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:12 PM            

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But I'll state them all anyway. . Once I get home to a computer.

You got me into a sentimental mood now lol.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:17 PM            

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Linda, earth and water do yes, Im a cappy moon, taurus rising, with venus in virgo, my sun pluto 1* conj is in 6th h. My man is heavy cappy, cancer, his pluto is strong, but not as strong as mine, But he seems to feel it even a bit stronger than me. Maybe because its his venus is on my pluto. Sometimes venus can be the more obsessed one with this combo.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:19 PM            

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I have only experienced the venus/pluto square in synastry. and yuck.

pluto and venus is not pleasant.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:22 PM            

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Linda, earth and water do yes, Im a cappy moon, taurus rising, with venus in virgo, my sun pluto 1* conj is in 6th h. My man is heavy cappy, cancer, his pluto is strong, but not as strong as mine, But he seems to feel it even a bit stronger than me. Maybe because its his venus is on my pluto. Sometimes venus can be the more obsessed one with this combo.

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i beg to differ lol

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posted March 25, 2012 09:23 PM            

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Yes Aqua guy, I feel u, u need more of a lighthearted/friendly/mental conncetions. Heavy pluto synastry to u might make u feel like u just couldnt "breath" with this person and u would find it very uncomfortable and confining even...?

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posted March 25, 2012 09:30 PM            

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I'm getting to know someone & we have

-Venus conj Venus
-Venus conj Moon
-Venus trine Mars
-Mars trine Moon
-Sun conj Moon
-Venus sq Pluto
-Venus sq Uranus
-Sun conj Sun

and it's all in my favor (his moon conj my sun, his venus conj my moon).
Yessssssss

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posted March 25, 2012 09:30 PM            

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Yes Aqua guy, I feel u, u need more of a lighthearted/friendly/mental conncetions. Heavy pluto synastry to u might make u feel like u just couldnt "breath" with this person and u would find it very uncomfortable and confining even...?

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well i actually like the intensity,i'm just weary because im usually on the wrong end of venus pluto, im always the one being played for a fool,and i dont like it,i have venus square pluto natally.

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posted March 25, 2012 09:35 PM            

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^ I have the sq too. You have to stop playing victim & start to take control of your destiny in relationships. You prob have to own up to the fact that you make poor choices in partners & change that.

Just read some news blip earlier in the wk where Jennifer Lopez was commenting to someone about attracting obsessive men & right away thought Venus/Pluto. Sure enough she has the SQUARE.

Britney Spears is another. Can't think of anyone else off the top.
Lana del Rey since someone just posted her chart.

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