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Topic: Insecurity
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5846 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 05:32 AM
hahaha @ "the irony is hilarious" I just dont see anything with the way she types. Maybe she has her own unique style of typing
like her username laurenbabieee or whatever it was haha. Some people type like that, they think they're cute. She's probably young. Doesnt mean she's an idiot. True, my libra rising hates disharmony lol :/ thanks joo for puttin meh on teh spots, yo. Blushing over here. But yeah, can't we all just get along? and NOT runaroundscreaming calling each other idiots and retards?
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posted April 11, 2012 05:34 AM
STFU, I don't want to be the mature one okkkkkkkIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5846 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 05:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: STFU, I don't want to be the mature one okkkkkkk
so does this mean u just admitted...heh. what i think u did?
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 11, 2012 05:47 AM
^ hahaha she's being sarcastic totally. And mocking Lauren too. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5846 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 05:54 AM
Anyway getting BACK ON TOPIC... lolololUmmm..i actually think both lauren and capri's points of view are right. In true libra rising fashion i can see how both came to those two very different conclusions  The point is i think everyone is insecure in some way, except some express it in different ways than others. For example, aries and cap may be insecure, but then gain security once they DO get first place. That's why it's so important for them to get there. Then, cancer and libra, and virgo, and the other water signs or whoever haha, are insecure and that manifests as indecision rather than a relentless drive to win first place at everything. I guess aries and cap and whchever other signs who are overly ambitious such as maybe sag and leo i think, try to cover up their insecurity by always having to be the best or the one who is right. So they use that to buffer against their feelings of insecurity and successfully hide them. If we're honest, we'd admit that libra virgo and cancer seem insecure, for example, whereas leos and aries, for example seem pretty confident. But it's just because they hide it under other defense mechanisms. Like someone mentioned, everyone is insecure  I do think that wallowing in indecision like virgo, cancer, and libra, or whoever else might do does lead to more insecurity though. Aries and cap constantly proving to themselves that they CAN do something, for example, does make for more confidence over time 
Whereas wallowing in indecision...doesn't. and only makes one more insecure most of the time bc you're not gaining experience which is really what creates confidence in the long run, and ur also not proving to urself ur own abilities <3 IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5846 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 05:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: ^ hahaha she's being sarcastic totally. And mocking Lauren too.
lol at first i was gonna reply just "lololololol" cuz that's what I thought at first, that she was just making fun of the whole situation. But then i wasn't sure. Lol. I dont know her well enough :/ and didnt want to risk coming off as "too nice" again. haaa IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5846 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 05:57 AM
lol! that's too funny tho. clever. okkkkkkk=totally mocking lauren haha
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mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 695 From: uranus Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2012 06:57 AM
being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITYIP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 695 From: uranus Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2012 06:59 AM
just sayin'IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 22277 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2012 08:10 AM
Stop making fun of other people.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 11, 2012 08:41 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 22277 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2012 08:52 AM
Well, laurenbabiiee7, if you don't want to be part of the "clan," I can certainly oblige you. Consider this a warning. Play nice.
------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 09:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY
That is my assessment, too. For some reason people think that being open about your fears makes you insecure. But it is often the other way around- IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4363 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 09:47 AM
Virgos aim for perfection - how can insecurity be part of this type of personality? IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 11, 2012 11:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY
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Sashar Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Alternate timeline future Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 11, 2012 01:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Virgos aim for perfection - how can insecurity be part of this type of personality?
I'm an insecure Virgo. The ability to see every flaw in oneself, love it anyway, but the inability to believe that other people would also love those flaws. Makes for a good mixture of insecurity. Virgos aim for perfection, but if you have to aim for it then you still haven't reached it. Virgos are acutely aware of that fact. ------------------ Astrology Activism: The constant strive to not just learn the intricate details of Astrology but the desire to constantly find new ways to prove that it exists in a scientific manner. Failure to incorporate the later into your work is akin to learning how to cure cancer but not sharing it with anyone. IP: Logged |
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posted April 11, 2012 01:11 PM
Insecurity....one of the seven deadly sins. Fo sho. quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY
Yep, these symptoms sound like the Cardinal signs IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 01:12 PM
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2634 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 11, 2012 01:14 PM
I've actually found Geminis to be the most insecure in my experience. The ones I've met rarely do their own thing or what they want instead following the trend of everyone else, which is a shame because they're quite creative underneath the mental hoopla. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 01:16 PM
argh, no! my post! XDIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 37635 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 11, 2012 01:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I've actually found Geminis to be the most insecure in my experience. The ones I've met rarely do their own thing or what they want instead following the trend of everyone else, which is a shame because they're quite creative underneath the mental hoopla.
I am a Gem Sun, Merc and Venus. I don't think Gem makes for insecurity. I am not saying I am that secure but I don't think it is the Gemini. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 1769 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 11, 2012 01:40 PM
Insecurity has nothing to do with the quality or modality of the signs. Its has to do with the aspects in the natal chart. Squares between Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars and Saturn gives insecurity. Oppositions are also playing a big part. I know a person with the chart full of squares and oppositions. He is the most insecure person in the world. He makes himself believe that has self confidence but its obvious he isnt. I won't say a person having only trines and sextiles has no insecurities but this kind of people have the power to master their weakness and overcome it. Another thing I've noticed in the charts I've studied: insecure people have debilitated planets especially Mercury and Moon. IP: Logged |
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posted April 11, 2012 01:44 PM
quote: He makes himself believe that has self confidence but its obvious he isnt
Huh? Mind clarifying or giving an example of how he exhibits this? Also, what's his sun sign?IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 1769 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 11, 2012 01:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE] He makes himself believe that has self confidence but its obvious he isnt
Huh? Mind clarifying or giving an example of how he exhibits this? Also, what's his sun sign?[/QUOTE]His behaviour is abnormal in my opinion. He is doing things a confident person would never do. He doesnt like to talk much about him or his surroundings, he is pretty paranoid and he is very ashamed with his past. In my opinion, this kind of behaviour shows a very insecure person. A confident person would never act like that. He is Pisces Sun, Mercury and Venus in hard aspect with Saturn. Also his Moon in Virgo. Not to mention that he wants desperately to be liked by everyone especially by women. He always smiles even he doesnt have a reason and he seeks others approval in everything is he doing. He is an attention seeker. Insecure people are like that. IP: Logged |
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posted April 11, 2012 01:56 PM
Attention-seeking AND paranoid? That doesn't make sense.IP: Logged |