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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 11, 2012 05:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahaha @ "the irony is hilarious"


I just dont see anything with the way she types. Maybe she has her own unique style of typing

like her username laurenbabieee or whatever it was haha. Some people type like that, they think they're cute. She's probably young. Doesnt mean she's an idiot.

True, my libra rising hates disharmony lol :/
thanks joo for puttin meh on teh spots, yo. Blushing over here. But yeah, can't we all just get along?


and NOT runaroundscreaming calling each other idiots and retards?

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posted April 11, 2012 05:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
STFU, I don't want to be the mature one okkkkkkk

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posted April 11, 2012 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
STFU, I don't want to be the mature one okkkkkkk


so does this mean u just admitted...heh. what i think u did?

i think it does.

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posted April 11, 2012 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ hahaha she's being sarcastic totally. And mocking Lauren too.

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posted April 11, 2012 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyway getting BACK ON TOPIC... lololol

Ummm..i actually think both lauren and capri's points of view are right. In true libra rising fashion i can see how both came to those two very different conclusions

The point is i think everyone is insecure in some way, except some express it in different ways than others. For example, aries and cap may be insecure, but then gain security once they DO get first place. That's why it's so important for them to get there. Then, cancer and libra, and virgo, and the other water signs or whoever haha, are insecure and that manifests as indecision rather than a relentless drive to win first place at everything. I guess aries and cap and whchever other signs who are overly ambitious such as maybe sag and leo i think, try to cover up their insecurity by always having to be the best or the one who is right. So they use that to buffer against their feelings of insecurity and successfully hide them. If we're honest, we'd admit that libra virgo and cancer seem insecure, for example, whereas leos and aries, for example seem pretty confident. But it's just because they hide it under other defense mechanisms.

Like someone mentioned, everyone is insecure


I do think that wallowing in indecision like virgo, cancer, and libra, or whoever else might do does lead to more insecurity though. Aries and cap constantly proving to themselves that they CAN do something, for example, does make for more confidence over time

Whereas wallowing in indecision...doesn't. and only makes one more insecure most of the time bc you're not gaining experience which is really what creates confidence in the long run, and ur also not proving to urself ur own abilities <3

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posted April 11, 2012 05:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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^ hahaha she's being sarcastic totally. And mocking Lauren too.

lol at first i was gonna reply just "lololololol" cuz that's what I thought at first, that she was just making fun of the whole situation. But then i wasn't sure. Lol. I dont know her well enough :/ and didnt want to risk coming off as "too nice" again. haaa

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posted April 11, 2012 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol! that's too funny tho. clever.


okkkkkkk=totally mocking lauren haha

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posted April 11, 2012 06:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuranian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY

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posted April 11, 2012 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuranian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just sayin'

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posted April 11, 2012 08:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stop making fun of other people.

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posted April 11, 2012 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 11, 2012 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, laurenbabiiee7, if you don't want to be part of the "clan," I can certainly oblige you. Consider this a warning. Play nice.

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posted April 11, 2012 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SmilingHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mercuranian:
being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY

That is my assessment, too.
For some reason people think that being open about your fears makes you insecure. But it is often the other way around-

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posted April 11, 2012 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgos aim for perfection - how can insecurity be part of this type of personality?

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posted April 11, 2012 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY

So true

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posted April 11, 2012 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sashar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Virgos aim for perfection - how can insecurity be part of this type of personality?

I'm an insecure Virgo.
The ability to see every flaw in oneself, love it anyway, but the inability to believe that other people would also love those flaws. Makes for a good mixture of insecurity.

Virgos aim for perfection, but if you have to aim for it then you still haven't reached it. Virgos are acutely aware of that fact.

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posted April 11, 2012 01:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Insecurity....one of the seven deadly sins. Fo sho.

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Originally posted by mercuranian:
being super defensive, touchy, and boasting about yourself in any way = INSECURITY

Yep, these symptoms sound like the Cardinal signs

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posted April 11, 2012 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SmilingHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 11, 2012 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've actually found Geminis to be the most insecure in my experience. The ones I've met rarely do their own thing or what they want instead following the trend of everyone else, which is a shame because they're quite creative underneath the mental hoopla.

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posted April 11, 2012 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SmilingHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
argh, no! my post! XD

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posted April 11, 2012 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I've actually found Geminis to be the most insecure in my experience. The ones I've met rarely do their own thing or what they want instead following the trend of everyone else, which is a shame because they're quite creative underneath the mental hoopla.

I am a Gem Sun, Merc and Venus. I don't think Gem makes for insecurity. I am not saying I am that secure but I don't think it is the Gemini.

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posted April 11, 2012 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Insecurity has nothing to do with the quality or modality of the signs. Its has to do with the aspects in the natal chart. Squares between Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars and Saturn gives insecurity. Oppositions are also playing a big part. I know a person with the chart full of squares and oppositions. He is the most insecure person in the world. He makes himself believe that has self confidence but its obvious he isnt. I won't say a person having only trines and sextiles has no insecurities but this kind of people have the power to master their weakness and overcome it. Another thing I've noticed in the charts I've studied: insecure people have debilitated planets especially Mercury and Moon.

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posted April 11, 2012 01:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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He makes himself believe that has self confidence but its obvious he isnt

Huh? Mind clarifying or giving an example of how he exhibits this? Also, what's his sun sign?

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posted April 11, 2012 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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[QUOTE] He makes himself believe that has self confidence but its obvious he isnt

Huh? Mind clarifying or giving an example of how he exhibits this? Also, what's his sun sign?
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His behaviour is abnormal in my opinion. He is doing things a confident person would never do. He doesnt like to talk much about him or his surroundings, he is pretty paranoid and he is very ashamed with his past. In my opinion, this kind of behaviour shows a very insecure person. A confident person would never act like that. He is Pisces Sun, Mercury and Venus in hard aspect with Saturn. Also his Moon in Virgo.

Not to mention that he wants desperately to be liked by everyone especially by women. He always smiles even he doesnt have a reason and he seeks others approval in everything is he doing. He is an attention seeker. Insecure people are like that.

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posted April 11, 2012 01:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Attention-seeking AND paranoid? That doesn't make sense.

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