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Topic: About Leo women
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lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 08:13 PM
  
I have a question to the leos out there, and even more to lionesses.
I know that you love the attention, the admiration and the worship. But when you get this treatment by someone, do you find yourself to lose interest, do you take them for granted?
I like a leo woman but for some reason I'm afraid to show her how much she captivates me..should I do it, express it or am I in danger? lolIP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted April 16, 2012 08:52 PM
Good question! BUMP.  -------------------------
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Capriquarius
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posted April 16, 2012 08:55 PM
Ask YoursTrulyAlways.From what I know about Leos, they will take the adulation as normal. And will not even notice you otherwise. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 08:55 PM
Ok.. I will try to help and explain the way it works for me.. Keep in mind we may not all be the same..(of course I love the topic ) I do need a lot of attention and affection, but at the same time its a bit tricky.
Only genuine compliments would work.... Which means when you really feel it, and with your heart.. So over doing them, would not seem "genuine"
Saying o you look nice today. Is great, but thats not really going to make me fall for someone...
The compliments that really really get my attention, is stuff that says how I make you feel good...
Example
My fishy told me
I smile everyday because of you.. That just sent me in swirl! hehehehe.
He was so sincere when he said it.. It really meant a lot to me.. I will never forget that..
As for the attention.. Well Ill be honest. You gotta kinda make me work for it..
Give me a little attention, then lightly pull away.. I want to know what happen, why would he pull away????
Keeps the guy in my head.
Dont pull away and ignore, because then that would back fire.. So lightly pull away.. Keep me some what wondering... But at the same let me know that you like me...
LOL.... Lost yet???????
This is a bad way to put it, but oh well.. I (figure of speech) need to be tamed. When I do something right give me a treat (attention, compliments) Tell me you like when I did ------...
Of course when I say tamed I dont mean controlled... It really has to be subtle.. Maybe that helps.. If you like this girl.. Ask her out.. If you go out, find out what she likes and plan the date out, around what she likes.. Where she can shine IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted April 16, 2012 08:56 PM
Be honest, be a stand up guy, be respectful but na do not express that stuff yet. At some point its okay but If youre asking this question... not yet. Leo sun and mercury IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 09:06 PM
oh.. Ill tell you the best way a guy asked me out. He was a Scoprio. I wasnt really interested in him.. He would hint at asking me for my number. I would act like I didnt hear and walk away.. Then when I couldnt I would act like I took it as a joke, like he was kidding.. I really avoided him...
Anyways one day he got me alone,and backed me in the corner..
He said look Im really attracted to you,and I want to take you out.. So if your attracted to me lets stop dancing in circles and go out..
I really like that, it was straight to the point.. He flattered me, and he left it up to me. All in one shot... Fabulous!!
I said ok and gave him my number.. IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 09:19 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Ask YoursTrulyAlways.From what I know about Leos, they will take the adulation as normal. And will not even notice you otherwise.
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LuckyLeo
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posted April 16, 2012 09:21 PM
Hi lunatic,I'm a Leo female, so I'll try and help you out. (although obviously it's different for each Leo) I'd say it depends on how thick you are laying it on. If you really go overboard, it may seem like you're desperate. No one likes that, not even a Leo. But I do not know any Leo who wouldn't like a guy to show her how much he likes her. Basically, put her on a pedestal for sure...just don't put yourself down on the ground kissing her feet. Raise her up, but don't lower yourself. If that makes sense. As a leo, I love to get presents, especially flowers. A guy I dated once said that he specifically didn't send me flowers in the beginning because he didn't want to scare me away. I was thinking "are you crazy??" You could never send me too many flowers, nor could you send them too soon. Flowers, little gifts (nothing too expensive unless you are really dating officially) I would say you could never go wrong. And no I don't think I would take it for granted. And I sure wouldn't lose interest, I would be more interested. Compliments (genuine) are great too. I wouldn't go into full "worship" mode until you are sure feelings are reciprocated. But I think you can definitely let her know you think she's something special! Remember though, this is just me...so do what your heart tells you! Good luck! IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 09:36 PM
Thank you lioness for your answer and your attention haha
Well, I am honestly fascinated by her and the sexual attraction is over the top.
Anyway, I tried to avoid her and I have been very cold and I was pretending to ignore her 
I know, childish behaviour but I didn't want her to know my thoughts. At first she was kind with me and she seemed to like me, friendly at least, even if the tention was obvious between us.
Then she got mad at me I think. She was ignoring me when we were with common friends talking and she gave me the cold shoulder once, it was so obvious. I guess she got mad because I didn't talk to her like I did to other coworkers.
I know that she is a social butterfly and she really likes the attention. I am more of an introvert.I am afraid if I show her what I think of her she will like my attention and she will "play" me like a toy.
I need to tell her that she makes me feel warm.. does that sound creepy 
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lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 09:39 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Be honest, be a stand up guy, be respectful but na do not express that stuff yet. At some point its okay but If youre asking this question... not yet. Leo sun and mercury
ok I won't
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peachbeigeblue
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posted April 16, 2012 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by lunatic:
ok I won't
I think you should still act interested but don't give her more affection than she gives you. Just from my personal experience - I like to work for it. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 09:49 PM
Ok I see what happen. When you ignored her, she fiqured you didnt like her, she went and ignored you back.. So start talking to her again.. If she asks why all of a sudden are you speaking to me. Say something like I felt shy around you, for "some reason"... But Im confident enough to talk to you now.... At some point during your conversation say something like your really easy to talk to, or I am enjoying talking to you.. I wouldnt say you make me feel warm... At least not yet .. Baby steps... Baby steps..
Talk to her, but be your self..
I love stories, sharing and hearing.. I love when people can make me laugh... IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 09:49 PM
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Originally posted by LuckyLeo:
Hi lunatic,I'm a Leo female, so I'll try and help you out. (although obviously it's different for each Leo) I'd say it depends on how thick you are laying it on. If you really go overboard, it may seem like you're desperate. No one likes that, not even a Leo. But I do not know any Leo who wouldn't like a guy to show her how much he likes her. Basically, put her on a pedestal for sure...just don't put yourself down on the ground kissing her feet. Raise her up, but don't lower yourself. If that makes sense. As a leo, I love to get presents, especially flowers. A guy I dated once said that he specifically didn't send me flowers in the beginning because he didn't want to scare me away. I was thinking "are you crazy??" You could never send me too many flowers, nor could you send them too soon. Flowers, little gifts (nothing too expensive unless you are really dating officially) I would say you could never go wrong. And no I don't think I would take it for granted. And I sure wouldn't lose interest, I would be more interested. Compliments (genuine) are great too. I wouldn't go into full "worship" mode until you are sure feelings are reciprocated. But I think you can definitely let her know you think she's something special! Remember though, this is just me...so do what your heart tells you! Good luck!
Excellent, thank you!
Unfortunately, I am afraid of her somehow and I feel very nervous around her, so I think I have never compliment her, only once I said I liked her work..
She said once I look good today and I almost got mad! I thought, don't play with me girl
I don't see her friendly,I like her more than she does and I have never expressed anything to her in 6 months. Sad IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ok I see what happen. When you ignored her, she fiqured you didnt like her, she went and ignored you back.. So start talking to her again.. If she asks why all of a sudden are you speaking to me. Say something like I felt shy around you, for "some reason"... But Im confident enough to talk to you now.... At some point during your conversation say something like your really easy to talk to, or I am enjoying talking to you.. I wouldnt say you make me feel warm... At least not yet .. Baby steps... Baby steps..
Talk to her, but be your self..
I love stories, sharing and hearing.. I love when people can make me laugh...
When I ignored her, she ignored me back. She's so proud haha
I can't make her laugh, I'm too shy around her, I barely open my mouth.
If I knew she liked me I would be more direct, I would ask her out and I would tell her I'm really attracted to her.
So, she has to tell me she likes me first I suppose 
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lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I think you should still act interested but don't give her more affection than she gives you. Just from my personal experience - I like to work for it.
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Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 10:23 PM
Hon...HON HON....
If you ignore her and dont talk to her,how will she get to know you to like you?????? She wont come and say she likes you, you wont get to know her,or let her get to know you... If you really want to peruse this lady its going to have to come from you... Go talk to her, as a friend, and just be natural and let nature take its course... Just take one day at a time. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 16, 2012 10:26 PM
Give a compliment if you wish but only if it is *sincere* - do not kiss ass. Leos are used to getting their ***** smooched all day long & it gets tiresome after a while you wonder who is trying to nab your radiance for themselves & who is genuinely respectful & appreciative. Be strong & capable & able to see the levity in situations. Catch her when she doesn't seem too preoccupied and throw in a witty observation, maybe allude to a playful nature. And always be a man. Leo women cannot respect wimpy behavior. It offends them because they want a strong personality like their own. No lying, no b.s. You do all this and she will definitely be intrigued if she is predisposed to find you physically attractive in the first place. Keep on catching her in those moments when she's not so focused on things since Leos like to give their *all* to their projects, so she wouldn't want you in the way there. Be a bit unexpected, it makes it fun. Cat & mouse.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 10:32 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Give a compliment if you wish but only if it is *sincere* - do not kiss ass. Leos are used to getting their ***** smooched all day long & it gets tiresome after a while you wonder who is trying to nab your radiance for themselves & who is genuinely respectful & appreciative. Be strong & capable & able to see the levity in situations. Catch her when she doesn't seem too preoccupied and throw in a witty observation, maybe allude to a playful nature. And always be a man. Leo women cannot respect wimpy behavior. It offends them because they want a strong personality like their own. No lying, no b.s. You do all this and she will definitely be intrigued if she is predisposed to find you physically attractive in the first place. Keep on catching her in those moments when she's not so focused on things since Leos like to give their *all* to their projects, so she wouldn't want you in the way there. Be a bit unexpected, it makes it fun. Cat & mouse.
DITTO!!!
What lonake said
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lunatic
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posted April 16, 2012 10:34 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
DITTO!!!
What lonake said
Thank you guys.
You are really helpful 
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violet7887
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posted April 16, 2012 10:57 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[b]Anyways one day he got me alone,and backed me in the corner..
He said look Im really attracted to you,and I want to take you out.. So if your attracted to me lets stop dancing in circles and go out.. I really like that, it was straight to the point.. He flattered me, and he left it up to!!
I said ok and gave him my IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted April 16, 2012 10:57 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Anyways one day he got me alone,and backed me in the corner..
He said look Im really attracted to you,and I want to take you out.. So if your attracted to me lets stop dancing in circles and go out.. I really like that, it was straight to the point.. He flattered me, and he left it up to me. All in one shot... Fabulous!!
I said ok and gave him my number..
I love this too 
When I used to approach men I would do something very straightforward like this.
Only trick is you can't 'half' like her, 'half' desire her, she has to be #1 in your mind, Leo can easily sense when she's not so the key to this approach is confidence & being sure of your aims.And the warm comment is just.....no.
If you're at a point when you're cuddling with her, sure.
But before then, just have some self respect & don't scare her away.
Maybe it would fly with an intuitive water sign woman who knew what you were thinking anyway lol. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 11:08 PM
Lol... I dated him for a while, until he annoyed me.... Too many squares with his scorpio stellium to my leo stellium. LolIP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted April 16, 2012 11:13 PM
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted April 16, 2012 11:25 PM
Actions speak louder than words. Even Leos expect you to put money where your mouth is. Don't mess with fakeness because they can sniff you out very quickly.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 16, 2012 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Actions speak louder than words. Even Leos expect you to put money where your mouth is. Don't mess with fakeness because they can sniff you out very quickly.
Not true for me.. I would rather a picnic verses a high priced restaurant..
But I have an earth void, so I'm not impressed with money...... I don't like guys that brag or show off money..... It's a total turn off for me. IP: Logged |
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