posted April 29, 2012 12:30 PM            

Lol, my experience with caps, too.

posted April 29, 2012 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
The bunch of asteroids confuses me. Who's inside, who's outside?

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posted April 29, 2012 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
This guy asked me big questions (if I want kids etc) EARLY, like first date already.

Lol, my experience with caps, too.

Except I'm a cancer and I also agree that there's no point in dating someone if you wouldnt consider marrying them. But, I wouldnt bring it up in the first date, or the second, or third....b/c i just wouldnt be thinking about that stuff i dunno lol. Kids? ugh. -___-

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posted April 29, 2012 12:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
The bunch of asteroids confuses me. Who's inside, who's outside?

Composite chart is quite clear for me. There wont be marriage. Just a romance. This is a karmic relationship.Also those planets in 12th are not a good sign. The relationship wiil look like a secret affair hidden from anyone. You will both share a nice friendship and a strong emotional bond, but not a romantic one.

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posted April 29, 2012 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Oh, post the birth data! I love doing compatibility readings

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posted April 29, 2012 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
This guy asked me big questions (if I want kids etc) EARLY, like first date already.

Lol, my experience with caps, too.

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Hahaha. Ain't got time to play. Gotta make moves every day. Dating is like American Idol with a panel of Simon Cowells.

posted April 29, 2012 12:49 PM            

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Interesting.. hm. What are the clear signs of that in the chart (besides house 12)? Also, the karmic thing - what's that about? I don't know what the point is with us two, what am I supposed to learn from this if he's not the one I'll marry? I'm tired of karmic connections by now, I've had a few and they're too much to handle.. just want a nice marriage now! haha

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You don't have to marry someone in order to share karmic lesssons. More if the point aka NN is in the 5th house of ROMANCE and FUN.

posted April 29, 2012 12:49 PM            

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Hahaha. Ain't got time to play. Gotta make moves every day. Dating is like American Idol with a panel of Simon Cowells.

Capricorns are a nightmare.

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Ooooh my God, I know! I feel like he's waiting for me to make a mistake! Actually we had some arguments quite early and I think he'll never forget it! he's saying that I'm "ALMOST perfect, but nobody's perfect" because of that blahblah nonsense

posted April 29, 2012 12:56 PM            

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You don't have to marry someone in order to share karmic lesssons. More if the point aka NN is in the 5th house of ROMANCE and FUN.

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posted April 29, 2012 12:57 PM            

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Ooooh my God, I know! I feel like he's waiting for me to make a mistake! Actually we had some arguments quite early and I think he'll never forget it! he's saying that I'm "ALMOST perfect, but nobody's perfect" because of that blahblah nonsense

He also mentioned that he and his dad is alike (also a Cap), working hard every day and have a hard time relaxing. I'm all for balance, I work hard but I think you need to relax in a jacuzzi too sometimes!
He said that if he has a LOT of time off he may wind down and does NOTHING (maybe this is when his Pisces Mars kicks in) and sort of get caught up in that slow mode - which eventually leads him to panic of course when he does nothing and then he has to start working like a maniac again.

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Typical Cappy but I bet he managed to fool you at first showing his undeveloped fiery Sadge type which is his ASC.

posted April 29, 2012 12:58 PM            

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I'll prefer to have that karmic lesson with someone who actually is romantic and fun then and not a workaholic, lol! oh well.

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posted April 29, 2012 01:10 PM            

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Typical Cappy but I bet he managed to fool you at first showing his undeveloped fiery Sadge type which is his ASC.

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posted April 29, 2012 02:47 PM            

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Ooooh my God, I know! I feel like he's waiting for me to make a mistake! Actually we had some arguments quite early and I think he'll never forget it! he's saying that I'm "ALMOST perfect, but nobody's perfect" because of that blahblah nonsense

He also mentioned that he and his dad is alike (also a Cap), working hard every day and have a hard time relaxing. I'm all for balance, I work hard but I think you need to relax in a jacuzzi too sometimes!
He said that if he has a LOT of time off he may wind down and does NOTHING (maybe this is when his Pisces Mars kicks in) and sort of get caught up in that slow mode - which eventually leads him to panic of course when he does nothing and then he has to start working like a maniac again.

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I get up at 5 am everyday and don't go to bed until midnight. In between is all work.

posted April 29, 2012 05:56 PM            

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I get up at 5 am everyday and don't go to bed until midnight. In between is all work.

My SATs were 99% and my GREs were 98%. My graduate school reports were complete "A"s

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posted April 29, 2012 08:18 PM            

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oh. wow! well done! so when do you make time for the jacuzzi? my Cap at least leaves town once in a while for short weekend trips, I think that's a healthy sign

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posted April 29, 2012 08:39 PM            

I am very very slow to commit to someone. I may commit my heart to them and be totally in love, but i have to make sure all other aspects of my life are set before i make the jump with you. Its not all about love to me, its about making sure all of my unfinished business is taken care of, my job/business is in a state where i can afford to be away from it for the time being to devote all the time needed to my partner and my life with them. I have to make sure my family back at home is taken care of etc...everything has to be as near to perfect as possible.

So it may sound cruel, but just because I am in love with someone doesnt mean i am going to let them in my life. Something about me, if i cannot devote myself/my time 100% to someone i wont do it at all.As a cap, if i am going to make the jump with you, i am going to jump with the prospect of spending my entire life and livelihood with you, and making you happy.So until i am at that point and able to do so, it can be a slow road.I also do not date someone i do not intend to marry, so yeah lol.

cap sun,leo rising,aries moon,venus scorpio,mars pisces

posted April 30, 2012 04:35 AM            

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posted April 30, 2012 04:46 AM            

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Oh I take two prolonged vacations per year, including one for 2 weeks. Part of that is because its a federal law for me to be away from the office (they want to make sure hanky panky is quickly caught), and part of it is to appease the family. We vacation far away and I'm partial to the beaches in the South Pacific and the Indian Ocean: Hawaii, Tahiti, Samoa, Fiji, Maldives, etc. I also exercise daily because I'm getting old and need to stay healthy. We're going on safari this year at Kruger in South Africa.

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posted April 30, 2012 05:24 AM            

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I have the same sun,mercury,venus and mars as your prospect, but I am a female. I do have both a fire moon and asc as well.

I am very very slow to commit to someone. I may commit my heart to them and be totally in love, but i have to make sure all other aspects of my life are set before i make the jump with you. Its not all about love to me, its about making sure all of my unfinished business is taken care of, my job/business is in a state where i can afford to be away from it for the time being to devote all the time needed to my partner and my life with them. I have to make sure my family back at home is taken care of etc...everything has to be as near to perfect as possible.

So it may sound cruel, but just because I am in love with someone doesnt mean i am going to let them in my life. Something about me, if i cannot devote myself/my time 100% to someone i wont do it at all.As a cap, if i am going to make the jump with you, i am going to jump with the prospect of spending my entire life and livelihood with you, and making you happy.So until i am at that point and able to do so, it can be a slow road.I also do not date someone i do not intend to marry, so yeah lol.

cap sun,leo rising,aries moon,venus scorpio,mars pisces

EDIT- I am also in a relationship with a very patient Pisces sun, Gemini asc.He's perfect to me :} lol

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Thanks for your reply starzy54! I find your description encouraging actually. Because this is exactly the vibe I get from him. It's sometimes hard to defend him when I describe what's happening (that is, not much) to my friends - and they all eventually fall back to the "he's just not that into you"-speech. They find him puzzling though, because he doesn't fit the description of a player. He hasn't taken advantage of me (in an intimate sense). And all those serious questions he's been asking me since date 1! When I ask him serious stuff back he gives me straight answers - quickly! He's already thought those things out. For example I asked him (in text message) when he wanted to have kids. He answered "within 5 years - before I'm 30!" right away. So he already had that one figured out. I've asked him how many kids he want, and he held up 3 fingers. How many 25-year-old guys has those answers already?!

I find him fascinating because most guys would ruuuun for the hills! lol! actually, I've never talked about such things with a guy before - 1st reason is it hasn't been likely with anyone else, 2nd reason is you don't talk about that stuff with guys since they're supposed to get scared.. well, cliché, but still. So, when THIS Cap had been mentioning kids, saying he wants to meet my parents, talking about building a house, nudging me and looking at my face for a reaction every time there's a marriage or proposal on tv/film for 5 MONTHS - I finally realized he wasn't actually joking and I started to taking his questions seriously and asking questions back. Wow, I thought he would freeze but he doesn't back off from such things. VERY interesting and.. manly! So, now he knows I'm serious and I know he's serious. We just have to find the time to get to know each other better. He said "in time there will be more time!" and "everything has its time and place!" -- which sounds like a typical Cap saying, no?

I've given him opportunity to back out, because I'd understand if he doesn't want to be serious right now - he's young and has just started a new job. But he won't let me go. About taking care of everything before being ready to commit is sooo accurate... he actually started to renovate his home right after we met - he said he should've done that a long time ago but now he just HAD to fix it before I was even allowed to visit him, lol! because "my home was so nice and perfect already" so I think he had to upgrade his a bit... so cute!

A question for you though. Now that he knows I'm serious and that I have patience - doesn't that Pisces Mars need a little bit of a push too? Do I just wait for him to take charge, or should I regularly suggest things to keep us moving forward? I'm not sure how much I'm on his mind... I hate clingyness so I tend to act the opposite way, but maybe he needs to feel I'm still on the wagon to feel the urge to make a move.

posted April 30, 2012 05:43 PM            

I had put off a vacation we had planned repeatedly.Putting my work or family affairs ahead our plan.Than one day, suddenly, he bought tickets,and airfair,hotel and rented a car, (took care of everything, which I LOVE about a man) and just picked me up and we went on vacation!. I got to thinking about how much money would be wasted if we did not go, since he paid already, and he kinda forced me into it.That happend a few times, where he had to force me. (darn you Mars in pisces!!)

And I kinda like clingyness,being a venus scorpio.I like knowing someone is mesmerized with me, or wants to be with me.I like the attention (being a Leo asc).

So, I think you have to send him a little nudge once in a while, and remind him your still game.Consistancy speaks volumes to us.

What i love about my Pisces,gem asc, is his intelligence! I find it so sexy (he has a gem moon too) I like his take charge attitude,and that i can depend on him, and rely on him to come through for me, whatever it may be.I also love that he is fast and very alert and smart lol.Another thing, i love his eyes, because they seem "real" and "alive" to me, and not sleepy or closed, so i can relate to what your interest is talking about! haha.I like the fact that my Pisces has put up with all my hoops and obstacle courses i have put him through, and his patience with me is a undenyable testament of his feelings.He has a beautiful,kind heart which i love about all Pisces folk.

I will marry him, or no one quite honestly.We are engaged. (I just need to be forced into coming up with a date and time to get married )