posted April 28, 2012 09:33 AM            

What is their sense of time? How long does it take for them to be ready to trust you, (when you fit all their criterias)?

This is my prospect
ASC: Sagittarius
Sun: Capricorn (conj Mercury/Neptune)
Moon: Sagittarius
Mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Scorpio (trine Mars)
Mars: Pisces (square Uranus)

He's got plenty of planets in 1st house, including the Sun. Girls ADORES him but he seem fed-up with girls that tries to get attention. He is VERY driven in work and other stuff too. He loves traveling and adrealin kicks. He hates drugs. He loves food but is picky.

This guy asked me big questions (if I want kids etc) EARLY, like first date already. He thinks there's no point having a relationship if you're not intending to marry that person. Plus he hasn't got time for playing either because he works a LOT.

He once told me I was the most driven and intelligent girl he has ever met. That means a lot because he is SO driven himself. He thinks I'm "the best anyone can wish for, like the 99% perfect girl". Even though everything sounds great, he's been keeping me in limbo for several months now. I'm starting to wonder when I can expect something more to happen... We kiss and cuddle when we meet, we talk on the phone and sends messages - but we (he) hasn't time to see each other very often... it's like once a month. He recently said he think we should hang out much more to get to know each other. That's what I want too, start to get to know each other and see what happens. He also said if everything goes well he definitely can see us having kids quite quickly (!). He said he hasn't any worries about that and believes I'll be the best to live with and everything.

So, yeah, sounds good, when can we start!? lol! what do you guys think?

posted April 28, 2012 11:50 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Very typical Capricorn. What is his profession? Is he a physician? What's your profession?

---

Yes! Unlike a "normal" Capricorn he didn't do well in school and says he never read books. Instead he took all his ambition into craftsmanship at a young age and is extremely good at it. He makes good money in a business where you normally don't, and is starting up his own firm too. He says he wants to make money now so he can quit working when he's 40 . He's only 25 but has already bought his own home and other stuff while his friends are still living in their parents houses pretty much. He says he's tired of partying and all that already.

I should add that he's had girlfriends but has never even lived with anyone. So, that he even speak in terms of sharing our life together must be a HUGE step for him and I don't take that lightly. I'm 7 years older than him and ready to settle down, so his age and unexperience in relationships could worry me but it doesn't. He seems so dedicated.

posted April 28, 2012 12:07 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
That's great. He's on the right path, and so are you. He may still be a tad hesitant at 25, but he's getting there. I didn't get my first house till 30 years old, but I certainly wanted one at 24. I had my ducks in a row in terms of security and career building.

I stopped partying when I got to college, just as most folks begun partying.

---

Ducks in a row, indeed! That's interesting how such stages in life gets taken care of quickly in a Capricorn life (work, home, future plans + getting into partying and being over the partying already while friends are still hungover ). But when it comes to finding the ONE it's a SLOW and thorough road to walk (for the one being investigated). I admire that and I do want it to be a carefully prepared decision, because I assume once you're there - you're not leaving. I would prefer us to meet more often though, because it's pretty much standing still at the moment, and I want to still be fertile when he's made his mind up, lol

posted April 28, 2012 04:57 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Capriquarius:
If you're at a point where you have to ask about this on an astrology forum, he's just not that into you. You need to drop him so you'll be free when someone who's worth your time comes along.

Sorry, not gonna waste astrology on dumb questions like this.

---

posted April 28, 2012 06:17 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by starmoon:
he has a mars in pisces - those men are SLOW SLOW SLOW. it's like they have all the time in the world to court you. you will need immense amounts of patience for sure. the wanting kids right away doesn't surprise me either - mars in pisces men are quite forward about wanting a family and starting it asap. i'd say don't wait on him to get this relationship going, be more forward with what you want, especially romantically. i also have a cap moon (as you do) and if anything that is an area many caps can work on - showing more outward affection. good luck!

---

posted April 28, 2012 06:37 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Rosalind:
Having a 1st house stellium gives him a great personality for sure, but it depends on what planets are sitting there. Moon in first makes him likeble by women but also unstable not only because of Sadge mutability but also because Moon is fast and changeable. Moody.
He hate drugs? Then Neptune is well placed and not afflicted. Love food but he's picky. I have that habit too. I blame the Moon in my case. Is also mutable. In his case, dunno. His attitude towards you is pretty strange. Judging by the placement of Moon in first which tends to act like an Aries in this house, I could see why he is so fast. But a Capricorn would never do that. Capricorn takes everything SLOW, is giving himself TIME. Venus in Scorpio, despite being detrimental is at least in my opinion a good placement for relationships. Fixed nature makes them faithful and intense. Also very sexual. Mars on the other hand being in the sign of Pisces tends to be wish washy and lazy. Its not a weak placement but definitely its not the best either.

What I wrote is pretty generalistic. I would need to his chart. Even and noon one.

---

Likable by everyone it seems, he's somewhat magnetic Not sure about moody but I can imagine that's correct as well. I think he might have a temper sometimes. He seems to rely on intuition more than usual (compared to other young guys) and believes in karma.

I'm posting his chart here. He doesn't have his exact time but it's not more than half an hour off. This may shift house for Venus though, but it's most likely in house 12... not an easy position. He made a joke in the beginning that his dating life never progress. I can imagine that's true because most girls would get tired of the waiting or just get ****** off and leave.

He told me a very wealthy woman (older women and moms loves him too) offered him to marry. He didn't want to and he made a point out of making his own money. He said he won't even accept the money he probably will inherit from his parents when they pass away one day. Oh Caps! I told him he could maybe give the money to his kids at least

posted April 28, 2012 06:48 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Capriquarius:
If you're at a point where you have to ask about this on an astrology forum, he's just not that into you. You need to drop him so you'll be free when someone who's worth your time comes along. If a guy actually likes you, YOU'LL KNOW IT. Because he'll be trying to take up all of your free time. If this has never happened to you, it's because you've been wasting your time on guys like this Cap with Venus and Mars in whatever.

Sorry, not gonna waste astrology on dumb questions like this.

---

posted April 28, 2012 07:02 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by LightandLove:
Bless your heart, Nyah! I finally had to register myself (I've been lurking for years) just because I felt compelled to reply to you. I'm in the same boat, and I wanted to let you know you aren't the only one with a quirky Cap. I've quite come to the conclusion it *is* an investigation - they want to know the pros and cons of their *investment* before throwing all their chips in. I was married to one for six years, and crazily enough ended up with another one seven days younger than the first. Although there are differences, the similarities are striking between my cappy ex-husband and my current, uh?. It can be completely annoying when you are in this investigative phase. I am very saturn-light in my chart. I think it's even harder to wait it out if you don't have some saturn in your chart to help you stay the course (edited to say: sorry, I missed it the first time that you have moon in capricorn.) Just my two pennies.

---

LightandLove! What a nice reply to get! yay! I feel so honored to get your FIRST post on this forum! welcome!!!

I'm all ears if you want to tell me some of your Cap stories! Any tips?? And yes, it's interesting how patterns repeat themselves.. I've had a lot of Caps in my life - many of them conjuncting my Moon, which is very nice of course. I feel so safe with them! Actually my brother is a Cap too.

As you said, it takes some Saturn to get it, and I got my fair share of that. Plus my Saturn is retrograde in house 5, I guess I'm doomed to wait for love lol! My Gemini-influenced mind is going crazy analyzing everything of course, but I know my heart will wait a LOOONG time for this guy - even if I don't want to.

posted April 28, 2012 08:40 PM            

Thanks for the warm welcome! I think your post spoke to me because I find myself asking the same questions, wondering the same things. And, I love your attitude. I too have chosen to continue on with my life - only time will tell what's really to transpire between us. However, I'd be happy to tell you what I know (which isn't much!)

Cappy ex-husband: about the time I realized he'd be a great friend and nothing more, we found out I was pregnant. Very early into the relationship, I might add. We were both 29 (Damn you, Saturn Return!) He's a Cap sun, Sadge moon, Leo rising, Venus in Scorp and Mars in Gemini RX. Because I hadn't any experience dating Caps until that point, I had no idea what sort of scrutiny he was putting me under - I only found out later after we married. Because he's got a strong fire signature (moon and rising) I think he acted a lot more impulsively than your typical Cap would - and proposed about six weeks after the pregnancy discovery. However, because it seems that Caps gravitate toward family, responsibility and being fathers/authority figures, perhaps it wasn't as hard a decision as some other signs would have found it.

Current Cap flame: I was horrified to find out he was exactly one week younger than my ex-husband (he was also my first post-divorce date). Now, I'm sure this says all kinds of telling things about me, but I do think it's pretty fascinating to those who claim there's nothing to astrology. This one is Cap sun, Pisces moon (danger!), Aqua rising (double danger!) Venus in Sadge and Mars in Gemini RX (again!) Unfortunately, that retrograde mars in Gemini they both share has definitely shown up as passive-aggressive action, and is as my dear personal astrologer coins it "a really tricky bug". Ha!

Things I've noticed both Caps share:

They don't shy away from responsibility; as a matter of fact, they embrace it.

They love their children like crazy, are very proud of them, but there's no wondering who's in charge. They are both very loving but authoritarian.

Quality is king; I've seen both of them be very persnickity about having top of the line, expensive, well-made things *that last*. Especially with my ex, it was always the best he could afford, with nary an exception. My current Cap is not as bad, but he's got that Pisces moon and Aqua rising that make him a little less status-conscious. Regarding our relationship: he was also quick to find out on our first date if I would consider having more children - we had quite the discussion about it. Our first month of going out, everything went swimmingly. We hit an awful snag, though, about one month into our relationship - and it's been hell to repair ever since. He put the brakes on the fast track, and now we're stuck in the investigative mode I mentioned to you earlier. I've tried to give him up; I've tried to forget him. We've got a ridiculous amount of saturn in synastry and composite so every time I think we are done forEVER, I'll be damned if we don't end up together again. He's very tricky for me, with that Pisces moon. I've got a moon in Scopio, but I'm also a Virgo and have always found Pisces anything to be very elusive/slippery for me in relationships. And Aqua rising with venus in Sadge...hoo boy talk about someone with a push me, pull you "I'm gonna be free!" mindset. Yeah, no one ever said I wasn't completely crackers!

***Edited to add: I do not in any way claim to be an authority on Caps, or astrology in general. This is my truth only, but I hope it helps.

I am a:

posted April 28, 2012 10:11 PM            

quote:

---

This one is Cap sun, Pisces moon (danger!), Aqua rising (double danger!) Venus in Sadge and Mars in Gemini RX (again!) Unfortunately, that retrograde mars in Gemini they both share has definitely shown up as passive-aggressive action, and is as my dear personal astrologer coins it "a really tricky bug". Ha!

---

Same, except I'm Leo rising, Aqua Mercury. I plead guilty to it all.

Edit: Oh you're a Virgo! So nice to see a Virgo really interested in a Cap, since it seems to me that it's always the other way around.

posted April 28, 2012 10:32 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Faith:

Edit: Oh you're a Virgo! So nice to see a Virgo really interested in a Cap, since it seems to me that it's always the other way around.

---

posted April 28, 2012 11:13 PM            

I haven't figured out how to reply separately, so I'm lumping it all in here together:

Faith - just so you know, I find myself agreeing with a lot of the things you say (I've been a lurker for a looong time, and you're one of the ones I'm like - "yeah, that's right!" So, there must be something about you and Cap #2 that really resonates with me. Maybe you can give me some insight!

Nine - I got divorced from Cap #1 at the beginning of August, and met Cap #2 right before Halloween...so I was newly-divorced, to be sure. Luckily, my ex and I are great friends, and our divorce was amicable. Cap #2 and I have been together/apart? for about six months or so.

Capriquarius - apparently, you're comprised of two things I can't get away from right now - Capricorn and Aquarius. I think I'm learning responsibility from Caps and how to detach/love all mankind (and not just one!)from Aqua.

Nyah, I apologize for hijacking your thread. Sorry!

posted April 28, 2012 11:47 PM            

Thanks, Lightandlove!

I'm going to be away 'til Monday...will check in again then, see if there's anything I can try and shed some light on.

posted April 29, 2012 11:46 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Rosalind:
First thing I noticed: Lilith and Chiron in an empty 7th house. He has problems with women and don't worry. He has no desire in marry. Empty houses are karma burned houses.
Second thing: Venus in 12th. Venus here is jailed. Very bad position. NN in 4th house. His current destiny is related to his family and roots, the one where he was born. With Mars, the ruler of this house in 3rd, he has a karma lesson to learn and burn regarding his siblings, if he got any. Empty 2nd house and 8th house. 2nd house is good to be without planets but 8th house, financial speaking gives no support regarding money from others. Like inheritances for example. If he wants money, he will have to work for that. Jupiter in 3rd house makes him a chatty. Am I right? He likes to talk a lot and I bet he got some talent in oral speech and writing. Jupiter in Pisces gives fertile imagination. He could be a great poet, journalist, writer etc.
Now... It is great that he has those many planets in 1st but Saturn and Neptune here are HARD to deal with. Maybe Sun, Mercury, Moon can make him likeable but Saturn and Neptune are bad. Saturn limits him into express his personality at his fullest, forcing him to repress his feelings, making him feel insecure despite all the compliments he might get. With Neptune here also in Capricorn, add more limitation and frustration. Neptune in 1st house is probably worse that Saturn. While Saturn is trying to keep him grounded into the reality, Neptune wants to abduct him in its fantasy world. When these too are in conflict, especially if they form a square, can make him wanting to escape. How? Through addictions of any kind.

Juno in 2nd house indicates he will end up with a Taurean partner but since is in Capricorn like him, that person must be a bussiness oriented and VERY wealthy.

---

Thanks for your reply Rosalind! Since the birth time isn't 100%, the houses might shift, it also differs if I use equal instead (Sun and Neptune will be in house 2, NN in 5H, Jupiter in 4H and so on). Besides that, yes I think he has to work for his own money, and he does. He has siblings and they are quite different from him (he thinks his older brother should be more ambitious and do something with his life). I think he wants to marry - it all fits the package of raising kids and building his own house (one of his dreams), having a dog and all that. He actually asked me if I would change my last name if we got married (he said he wouldn't want to change his).
He is very chatty, yes! And good at expressing himself verbally. I do believe he is insecure in some ways, even though he get lots of attention from girls. Not sure about the addiction thing - he has actually never even tried smoking. He is addicted to his work I guess.

I'm posting our synastry with equal houses, maybe there are some obvious things I haven't seen yet? interesting how my NN conjuncts his Psyche and his NN conjuncts my Amor.. and his Chiron on my ASC. And the ASC-DSC in opposite signs. Hmmm...

posted April 29, 2012 11:56 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Nyah:
Thanks for your reply Rosalind! Since the birth time isn't 100%, the houses might shift, it also differs if I use equal instead (Sun and Neptune will be in house 2, NN in 5H, Jupiter in 4H and so on). Besides that, yes I think he has to work for his own money, and he does. He has siblings and they are quite different from him (he thinks his older brother should be more ambitious and do something with his life). I think he wants to marry - it all fits the package of raising kids and building his own house (one of his dreams), having a dog and all that. He actually asked me if I would change my last name if we got married (he said he wouldn't want to change his).
He is very chatty, yes! And good at expressing himself verbally. I do believe he is insecure in some ways, even though he get lots of attention from girls. Not sure about the addiction thing - he has actually never even tried smoking. He is addicted to his work I guess.

I'm posting our synastry with equal houses, maybe there are some obvious things I haven't seen yet? interesting how my NN conjuncts his Psyche and his NN conjuncts my Amor.. and his Chiron on my ASC. And the ASC-DSC in opposite signs. Hmmm...

---