posted May 01, 2012 05:18 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by starzy54:
Well in my case, as the female, my guy usually has to push me a little. He often makes fun of my sense of time.He asks "when can we do such and such?" and I say "soon", and than he will say, well to you, "soon" is many many months from now lol , my soon, and his soon is two different things.He has a mars in Scorpio.

I had put off a vacation we had planned repeatedly.Putting my work or family affairs ahead our plan.Than one day, suddenly, he bought tickets,and airfair,hotel and rented a car, (took care of everything, which I LOVE about a man) and just picked me up and we went on vacation!. I got to thinking about how much money would be wasted if we did not go, since he paid already, and he kinda forced me into it.That happend a few times, where he had to force me. (darn you Mars in pisces!!)

And I kinda like clingyness,being a venus scorpio.I like knowing someone is mesmerized with me, or wants to be with me.I like the attention (being a Leo asc).

So, I think you have to send him a little nudge once in a while, and remind him your still game.Consistancy speaks volumes to us.

What i love about my Pisces,gem asc, is his intelligence! I find it so sexy (he has a gem moon too) I like his take charge attitude,and that i can depend on him, and rely on him to come through for me, whatever it may be.I also love that he is fast and very alert and smart lol.Another thing, i love his eyes, because they seem "real" and "alive" to me, and not sleepy or closed, so i can relate to what your interest is talking about! haha.I like the fact that my Pisces has put up with all my hoops and obstacle courses i have put him through, and his patience with me is a undenyable testament of his feelings.He has a beautiful,kind heart which i love about all Pisces folk.

I will marry him, or no one quite honestly.We are engaged. (I just need to be forced into coming up with a date and time to get married )

Mars in Pisces is a tough deal for a guy, I feel for you being the lady in the equation, and not wanting to over step your boundaries by intervening too much, but i don't think it would hurt.I think you would impress him by taking the initiative here and there.

---

posted May 01, 2012 10:16 PM            

I am a Cap sun with Scorpio Venus and Pisces Mars...Sag moon/mercury and Scorp ASC.

I'm the total opposite of him. I'm a freak-a-leak and don't believe in marriage and my sense of timing is urgent lol...

posted May 02, 2012 02:51 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by frankie2912:
Nyah -

I am a Cap sun with Scorpio Venus and Pisces Mars...Sag moon/mercury and Scorp ASC.

I'm the total opposite of him. I'm a freak-a-leak and don't believe in marriage and my sense of timing is urgent lol...

in other words, don't listen to me

---

posted May 21, 2012 01:46 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
.

---

posted May 21, 2012 02:43 PM            

With that kind of a chart, how young he is (comparatively) and with particular placements, my short answer will be: 'years'.

Seven years later, (granted, he's an almost-Cap, (28* Sag) conj. Nep, and Sag Moon, with Ven-Mar in Aqu - you're dealing with some similar energies here) and perseverance is what's honestly paid off more than anything. He just can't believe I stuck around. (Not like I could help myself). But I just ... I dunno. Stuck around is the best way to put it. And he's extremely grateful, and a little bit stunned, given how used he is to abandonment, since he's NOT the easiest guy to get to know, despite his jovial, outgoing, witty personality.

So. Revisit things in a few years, and see where you are then. I can already tell you that you'll probably be in limbo for a lot longer than several months. They just have trouble trusting. Something about the Saturn influence, early Scorp Pluto, the lunar Sag, and Cap Nep.

Hang in there. If he's worth it, keep living your life, be patient, and just ... stick around. He doesn't want you to leave, nor will he commit to anything - and Cap needs to commit for it to be a 'relationship'. So they themselves are left in a kind of limbo - and we are, too.