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Topic: How different is Venus Sq Pluto i different signs
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ariesdragon
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posted May 11, 2012 12:50 PM
  
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Originally posted by kama:
I have venus in taurus/11th square pluto in leo/2nd. to be frank I fall for pluto, for plutonic men and intense sexual experiences. It has been a drama in my life to try to forge relationships based on intense sexual experiences. Later in my life I had relationships based on friendship (11th) to protect myself against the selfdestructive character of my partnering, because the men I am deeply attracted to usually do not satisfy my intellectual or emotional needs. Pluto rules my 5th and
in transit it is approaching its opposition to my sun, uranus (ruler of 7th + 8th) and mars (ruler mc), so I know that all those issues are now coming back. it will be interesting for me how I will cope with it in the future, now with all my experience and the wisdom of astrology....
kama
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Lioness
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posted May 11, 2012 12:52 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
 To make it worse Venus is a singleton for me (Only planet in earth).
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ariesdragon
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posted May 11, 2012 12:52 PM
 I experience it with plutonic women ooh so dark & mysterious but dangerous  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 11, 2012 12:57 PM
I appear to have Venus (hers in 3rd) Conjunct Pluto (mine in 7th) both in Virgo in Synastry, and Venus (Scorpio in 7th) Sextile Pluto ( Virgo in 5th) in Composite. For whatever its worth.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted May 11, 2012 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I appear to have Venus (hers in 3rd) Conjunct Pluto (mine in 7th) both in Virgo in Synastry, and Venus (Scorpio in 7th) Sextile Pluto ( Virgo in 5th) in Composite. For whatever its worth.
I haven't experienced the easy aspects yet... I've had squares which is crazy Lucky u yta IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 11, 2012 01:08 PM
What's so easy? All the same, still have to work hard on it to accomplish success. IP: Logged |
Sorcha
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posted May 11, 2012 02:05 PM
I have Venus (conjunct Sun) in Cancer square Pluto in Libra. I can definitely relate to a lot of what people have said on this thread. I rarely meet a man I'm really attracted to, but when I do - BAM! And every time, this man will have either Venus (in Libra) conjunct Pluto or Venus (in Aries) opposite Pluto. All of my intimate relationships exude the hard aspects of Venus/Pluto and there is always a double whammy effect so I don't really know what it's like to have a nice, soft, regular relationship. My relationships are always super intense and I like that aspect of them. I just don't like the power struggles that eventually evolve and I think that this is one of the things that the hard aspects ask us to look at - both in our relationships and in ourselves.The thing is, I also have my Karma asteroid exactly conjunct my Pluto and I've always been aware that my relationships are highly karmic in nature from the moment of meeting - there's this weird thing that happens every time I meet someone with whom I have karma to work out. The thing about the square is that it's considered a challenge. I agree with alaz in that it certainly feels dysfunctional (and maybe it is) but it still requires us to take note of its energies, like any other square, and deal with the challenge. Every aspect has a different level, energetically, that we are capable of manifesting - we can express the lower energies of this aspect or the more evolved ones. And that's the challenge with any square, especially with a malefic. I'm definitely always the one who has a hard time letting go. Maybe because my Sun (ego) is involved, or maybe because I have a Taurus Moon. I will give the appearance of moving on but inside I'll feel like a stage-5 clinger I think that's because I invest so much in my relationships that when they are over it takes me a while to process my karmic lesson and move forward again.
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ariesdragon
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posted May 11, 2012 02:07 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
What's so easy? All the same, still have to work hard on it to accomplish success.
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Ceridwen
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posted May 11, 2012 02:49 PM
Lioness,interesting that it`s also singleton in both our charts.
I feel my Venus has to carry the whole weight of "earthyness". She`s kinda standing out like a sore thumb. lol It`s also strange, I am quite open and pretty tolerant and communicative usually (all these Sag planets in 1st house, Sun conjunct Mercury, Moon in Aquarius), but wait until I fall in love or even just experience an attraction.
That is so different all at once. I am no Femme Fatale, actually I am exercising the Saturnian control to a point where it is not healthy anymore. Well, not only Venus is in Capricorn, but the dispositor of Pluto in Libra is of course also in Capricorn (as it is Venus, Pluto squares his own dispositor. lol). I have very intense deep complicated feelings, that I don`t even understand myself most of the time, but I have a very hard time letting my guard down. Which is probably why Pluto comes now and then in the form of people and force me to do exactly that. I actually have started loving Pluto-transits as strange as that sounds.
It was such a fantastic ride!
(Tr Pluto started with a square to my Moon, when I was 15, and then gave me a breather until he started being conjunct my Mars - ASC - Neptune - NN, another breather, conjunct Mercury and Sun and now he is conjunct my Venus and my pr ASC - I think I will REALLY miss him, once he moved on.  ).
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MessyLilLeo
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posted May 11, 2012 02:50 PM
What a great thread!
I also have Venus in Cancer (7th) square Pluto in Libra (10th). And, I have Sun in Leo and I also don't like taking care of someone else all of the time. You want me to cook and clean for you?? What are you going to do for me?? Yeah, I do like to be met halfway.
My "old man" has Venus in Capricorn (1st?), square Pluto in Libra (10th?). He also just had transitting Pluto conjunct his Venus last year - I've just recently gotten into astrology and by the time I really started taking an interest in transits, it was over. But it explained a lot!
I wouldn't classify myself as a highly manipulative person, my Leo Sun is far too noble for that; but my Sag asc. would say that everyone has subconcsious manipulative drives, and mine manifest emotionally. I tend to withdraw/withhold to elicit reactions from a partner. Sometimes I can catch myself doing it and muster the strength to snap out of it, instead of wallowing pointlessly (because realistically, it makes people care less what I'm off boo-hooing about, I think).
My boyfriend on the other hand, has an ugly (strong words, but I'll leave it ) tendency to "manipulate with emotional overreactions". That's some of my book-lurnin' talkin'!
He's changed slowly over the 5 yrs we've been together, but I think he will ALWAYS have it in him somewhere, waiting to rear it's ugly head. Basically, we'll be doing something together, or having a conversation, or whatever; but it comes down to whether it's going to be my way or his way, so to make sure it's his way he'll waaaaaaaaaayyyyy overreact to something. An example: By default I've become the primary "homemaker", because he pretty much refuses to clean, pick up, etc. Sometimes I get fed up and tell him (OK, nag you may say) that he needs to do his part as well, that I refuse to enter into this kind of relationship, YOU AND I ARE EQUALS AND I DO NOT WANT TO BE A MAID!! OK, so he feels the heat of my passion on the matter, and one ups me, maybe overturning the coffee table; now there's an even bigger mess, plus an even angrier man looming over it. Thereby forcing me to back down; now it's his way.
It was getting completely out of control, I would want to talk/argue things out, and he would always take it to the physical, throwing a fit and breaking something or making a huge mess (ie, throwing the full trash can across the kitchen!). I told my cousin who's currently getting her PhD in psychology at Ole Miss (she so smart!! me so proud!!), and she loaned me a book called "Why Does He Do That?" - what an apt title.
Anyway, I read parts of it, and what I really took away was that he was behaving that way because it was a means of controlling me. So I learned that if he is going into one of his rage fits, all I have to do is laugh in his face. 7 times out of 10, it works; otherwise - watch out!
I also have a lot of fixed planets in my chart (Sun in Leo, Moon in Taurus, Mars and Jupiter in Scorpio), and I think that may be why I seem to refuse to walk away from this madness. I'm not saying that all people with lots of fixity take abuse, I'm just saying that I'm trying to figure out why I do.
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MessyLilLeo
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posted May 11, 2012 02:50 PM
edit, posted twice, woops
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Nyah
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posted May 11, 2012 05:51 PM
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Originally posted by alaz7200:
... This is the essence of Venus/Pluto: one can be so laid-back and lasseiz-faire in any other area of life, but when it comes to the things and people they love, and their desire to be loved, they find themselves overwhelmed by compulsion to those very things- an inner drive to satiate a desire that will never truly be satisfied- this is Pluto tickling Venus. With the squares, especially, I would imagine this would be more difficult than the conjunction or opposition, because at least there, the native has the hope of merging both energies. The square just seems so dysfunctional. Squares, in my opinion, are very immature in their energy, and just want what they want, when they want, though it's usually in the most detrimental way. (As someone with many squares, I speak from experience.)... I would think Venus in Capricorn square Pluto would want to maintain a dignified, solemn nature as long as they could, only to succumb to Pluto hardcore after years of trying to suppress their need for intensity. Remember that Pluto represents the inner demon who just wants more, more, more. You can try to ignore it, but it'll just screw you that much harder in the end.
I totally agree with this. I have Cap Venus/Moon square Pluto in Libra and that description feels bang on target. Plus I have Uranus (stationary) in Scorpio square Mars. Even the Britney-story does ring a bell... :s I'm looking for an intense connection, something real and deep that will keep me interested for the rest of my life. My favorite sex/love-scene is the one in "Mr and Mrs Smith" where they almost kill each other first... When I date someone and feel a lack of intensity or connection - I fantasize about us being in a car accident or some other shocking experience that will force us to show our "raw" naked selves and be truly connected. That's just weird!?!! Most couples succumb to the shallow and materialistic aspects of life and tend to talk about which gadgets to buy next or how to decorate their homes. I know I can't live with someone like that even if I love them. It has to be a true connection, something real. Soulful! That stuff you had in the beginning of the relationship when you were really SEEING each other. I want that to last! talk about impossible. But I know I won't stay for long if that fades. I will start to feel alone, I will sit and stare out of the window while they're watching tv. And then I'll just leave. ------------------
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Lonake
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posted May 11, 2012 05:56 PM
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
I rarely meet a man I'm really attracted to, but when I do - BAM! And every time, this man will have either Venus (in Libra) conjunct Pluto or Venus (in Aries) opposite Pluto.
Ahh me too! Majority have either Venus/Pluto or Venus H8. And omg they are dead sexy.
Hmm but I don't have a hard time letting go, so can't relate to that.
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Lonake
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posted May 11, 2012 06:01 PM
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Originally posted by MessyLilLeo:
He also just had transitting Pluto conjunct his Venus last year - I've just recently gotten into astrology and by the time I really started taking an interest in transits, it was over. But it explained a lot!
Can you summarize t.Pluto to Venus for us Ve/Pl folks, from what you noticed? THE CONJUNCTION lol. Who cares about the rest haha. I'll prob be dead by the time mine kicks around but stillllll.................IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 11, 2012 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by Nyah:
My favorite sex/love-scene is the one in "Mr and Mrs Smith" where they almost kill each other first... When I date someone and feel a lack of intensity or connection - I fantasize about us being in a car accident or some other shocking experience that will force us to show our "raw" naked selves and be truly connected. That's just weird!?!!
Woah. I think that's more the Mars/Uranus in Scorp talkin. Hmm but I see shades of Ve/Pl there too..
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Desiring Shadows
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posted May 11, 2012 06:12 PM
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It's funny you should bring this up. I was tempted to post about this very topic earlier today, but thought to myself, "who would really care?"What prompted my interest was a documentary I watched earlier today entitled "Britney Spears: Fall From Grace". It was one that aired a few years back, amidst her psychological breakdown, but it prompted me to look up her chart to see what was going on. "Lack of self-love", "compulsive self-destruction", and "sexually inexhaustible" seemed to be running themes throughout the documentary; they all sounded hard Venus/Pluto to me. Low and behold, Britney has an exact square between Venus at 25' Capricorn and Pluto at 25' Libra. I'm not saying I attribute all of her shortcomings to her Venus/Pluto square, but I'd say this is where a majority of her self-destruction stems from. As a Libra AC, Venus in her ruling planet, so it makes Venus' condition that much more pertinent. Venus/Pluto is very telling of her supposed infidelity while still with Justin Timberlake, her compulsion to marry Kevin Federline despite THE WORLD being against their union, and then of course the wretched 3 years that followed these pairings. This is the essence of Venus/Pluto: one can be so laid-back and lasseiz-faire in any other area of life, but when it comes to the things and people they love, and their desire to be loved, they find themselves overwhelmed by compulsion to those very things- an inner drive to satiate a desire that will never truly be satisfied- this is Pluto tickling Venus. With the squares, especially, I would imagine this would be more difficult than the conjunction or opposition, because at least there, the native has the hope of merging both energies. The square just seems so dysfunctional. Squares, in my opinion, are very immature in their energy, and just want what they want, when they want, though it's usually in the most detrimental way. (As someone with many squares, I speak from experience.) I have a Venus/Pluto conjunction in Scorpio. I don't think it gets more Scorpionic than that. I am a Libra AC myself, so like Britney, Venus is my ruling planet. I am always very wary of those with Venus/Pluto hard aspects; this is a potentially highly manipulative/charismatic combo that yields powerful reactions from others. I would say Venus in Scorpio by itself is a very passionate placement, but with Pluto in tow is where you find the obsession and compulsion. Thus, I would think the obsession and compulsion would apply to any Venus/Pluto contact, especially to water Venuses, as you mentioned, like in Cancer. I would think Venus in Capricorn square Pluto would want to maintain a dignified, solemn nature as long as they could, only to succumb to Pluto hardcore after years of trying to suppress their need for intensity. Remember that Pluto represents the inner demon who just wants more, more, more. You can try to ignore it, but it'll just screw you that much harder in the end. How do you think the dynamic plays out in your life? Please share
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Lioness
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posted May 11, 2012 08:33 PM
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Lioness,interesting that it`s also singleton in both our charts.
I feel my Venus has to carry the whole weight of "earthyness". She`s kinda standing out like a sore thumb. lol It`s also strange, I am quite open and pretty tolerant and communicative usually (all these Sag planets in 1st house, Sun conjunct Mercury, Moon in Aquarius), but wait until I fall in love or even just experience an attraction.
That is so different all at once. I am no Femme Fatale, actually I am exercising the Saturnian control to a point where it is not healthy anymore. Well, not only Venus is in Capricorn, but the dispositor of Pluto in Libra is of course also in Capricorn (as it is Venus, Pluto squares his own dispositor. lol). I have very intense deep complicated feelings, that I don`t even understand myself most of the time, but I have a very hard time letting my guard down. Which is probably why Pluto comes now and then in the form of people and force me to do exactly that. I actually have started loving Pluto-transits as strange as that sounds.
It was such a fantastic ride!
(Tr Pluto started with a square to my Moon, when I was 15, and then gave me a breather until he started being conjunct my Mars - ASC - Neptune - NN, another breather, conjunct Mercury and Sun and now he is conjunct my Venus and my pr ASC - I think I will REALLY miss him, once he moved on. ).
We also both have Sun conjunct Mercury and opposite moons. Mine makes me feel more... I always have these deep feelings for people.. I either dont like them at all.. Or I REALLY like them.. Really no in the middle for me...
I refuse to be around people I dont like. I dont see the point..
I dont get along well with too many females My Venus is in H4 pluto in H7.
I feel a need to control the balance with identity and my relationships..
When Im with a person, Im totally with that person.. But when I am away Im just Mee..
I need to be those 2 different persona's I have an earth void, but I make up for it with a Stellium in H6 and some nice Saturn aspects.. Im actually more "earthy" then fiery (unless mad, then Ill roar) hehe The way I feel is this shy little emotional girl (venus) surrounded by a circle of fire, that has to play by the rules and protect the little girl.
Before any one can get to venus, first they have to by pass the rules, then put out the fire, then pass through the steam and then bam their is little innocent venus waiting for her knight and shinning Armour. I also have moon parallel pluto which is on my sun/moon midpoint... Which is also my venus/pluto midpoint... Im more pluto, then meets the eyes... Its hidden but its there.. All of my relationships are pluto... I dont think I will ever not have a pluto relationship..
But I learned early on how to spot the bad side of pluto and I havent gotten my self into situations like that again...
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posted May 12, 2012 02:58 AM
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ALAZ---- Do you have an email I can contact you on?
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posted May 12, 2012 03:56 AM
Lonake, My Sun and Venus are in H2 so I guess being in a fixed house (plus having a Taurus Moon) is a large part of it. And maybe my Cancerian claws are extra sharp? IP: Logged |
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posted May 13, 2012 03:29 AM
I have Venus in cancer square Pluto. I usually get remarks like there's something attractive about me that's more than just the physical. But I also have Pluto aspecting my sun, moon & rising. I am not manipulative but I do see relationships as all or nothing. I've been married for about ten years now and I still want to spend every moment with him. From the moment I saw him I was instantly attracted to him like no one I've ever meet and he has the Venus/Pluto square as well.
I have my Venus in cancer but sun in Virgo and I love taking care of him. Its a big stress reliever for me to cook & clean.IP: Logged |
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posted May 13, 2012 04:22 AM
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Yes! My address is allyoop89@gmail.com. Looking forward to your e-mail.
Mkay, I sent it. Ahoy matey! 
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kama
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posted May 13, 2012 07:21 AM
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Mine to ooooo.. Only planet in water.
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MessyLilLeo
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posted May 13, 2012 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by MessyLilLeo:
[b]He also just had transitting Pluto conjunct his Venus last year - I've just recently gotten into astrology and by the time I really started taking an interest in transits, it was over. But it explained a lot!
Can you summarize t.Pluto to Venus for us Ve/Pl folks, from what you noticed? THE CONJUNCTION lol. Who cares about the rest haha. I'll prob be dead by the time mine kicks around but stillllll.................[/B][/QUOTE]Sorry, the weather's been soooo beautiful here I haven't been on here the last day or so.
Transiting Pluto on his (Cap) Venus was pretty icky for him.
I'm an independent type of female, like my Mom, I don't like being supported by a man because that's just another way for him to control me, the way I see it (I know there are LOTS of great men out there who don't act this way, but as my Gramma's father told her before she moved to my current location "all the men there are either married, or culls" - wiser words were never spoken!!). Anyway, so I thought this was understood between us (my boyfriend and I), we met at work, and crews/staff were made up of 95% males. I have always had male friends. Basically I spent time around men more than women, and obviously I could handle myself, I wasn't out there throwing myself at any guy that came along! At first it was fine, but gradually, I guess as Pluto crept up on his Venus, he started getting more and more irritated.
He started accusing me, after 2 or so years of being together, of being with other men. Totally unprecedented, I had never ever ever given any indication of ever messing around. We both have our freedoms, we like to be entertained separately, mainly because when he is being "entertained" he gets so hammered he can't see straight and he does and says a lot of stupid things that he doesn't remember and I do. I've never had a problem with him going out and getting $%^+-faced with male and female company, while I stay home - by all means, have fun! I'm a more peace-loving individual anyway (Venus-Cancer, Moon-Taurus), my idea of a good time is at odds with his.
One night, as was common, the company he was keeping found him too rowdy and dropped him off at home, and when he came in he became extremely beligerant, convinced that there was another man in the house (do I really have to say that there wasn't). I DO NOT like to have my integrity questioned, because I consider myself a very loyal and trustworthy individual, so this created a HUGE wound in our relationship, I don't know that it will ever heal.
Next day he apologized, blah blah, won't happen again, it did. A few months later I took a business trip for work across the US to the east coast for 4 days. Time zones were off, he was working, I was working 16 hr days, and just couldn't get ahold of him, no biggie. But, when I got back, again I was accused of fooling around. ERGH!!
Then it kind of culminated after I lost my job and was going to school. The guys in my class (bless 'em, they're some of the best people I've ever met!) invited me to go play in the snow and hang out. I invited the old man, and he gave me some crud about how he "didn't want to meet them on their turf. Why don't you invite everyone over here so I can meet them on mine?" Whatever, I went, he stayed. No cell phone reception. We stayed later than planned because we helped some guys get their truck out of the snow and it literally took hours.
I get home (at 9 pm for Chrissakes!) and I can hear music in the garage, and when I peep my head around the door, a full beer can whizzes by 2 inches in front of my face, exploding as it hits the wall, covering me in frothy brew. Simultaneously he shrieks "GET OUT!!!!!!!" I should have just left, but instead I got in bed and tried to get some sleep. Then he came in and again started accusing me, and when I finally spoke in my defense, he flipped. He started clearing shelves, picking up whatever he could and throwing it against the walls, tried to overturn the bed and frame with me in it, just a holy terror of a fit that went from one end of the house to the other, like a tornado!
When he was done, he realized how ridiculous it was, and he wanted to end the relationship then and there, and he was SUCH a pitiful sight I did my best comforting HIM! Ridiculous!!
Now I can hang out with my friends as I please, he's over it, he trusts me, but for a while he was like a man possessed! SO IF YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE READING ALL OF THAT CRAP I POSTED ABOVE, AND YOU'RE THINKING "I JUST ASKED FOR A SUMMARY, NOT YOUR LIFE STORY LADY, SHEESH!" HERE IT IS FOR ME IN A NUTSHELL:
If you have unresolved issues with jealousy, especially involving the infidelity of a lover, try to really examine this matter and dredge it from your subconcsious before tr. Pluto conjuncts your Venus, because otherwise it may take over and possibly destroy any amorous / domestic living situation you may have.
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MessyLilLeo
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posted May 13, 2012 01:02 PM
oh my gosh, I keep hitting quote when I mean
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Lonake
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posted May 13, 2012 05:18 PM
Ooh. Sorry OK so he had insecurity creeping up big time. Maybe past hurts from other relationships influencing yours?
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2 inches in front of my face (...) Then he came in and again started accusing me, and when I finally spoke in my defense, he flipped. He started clearing shelves, picking up whatever he could and throwing it against the walls, tried to overturn the bed and frame with me in it, just a holy terror of a fit that went from one end of the house to the other, like a tornado!
When he was done, he realized how ridiculous it was, and he wanted to end the relationship then and there, and he was SUCH a pitiful sight I did my best comforting HIM! Ridiculous!!
Now I can hang out with my friends as I please, he's over it, he trusts me, but for a while he was like a man possessed!!
O crap that is scary! Maybe it is potentially a transit of bringing on the crazy.
Do you know of Adam Mayes, in the news recently? He had solar arc Pluto conj progressed Venus exact to the minute at the time of the abduction on 4/27. And his wife is claiming that he killed the mom and her daughter.  Both were at 15*15' Scorpio from April 24th - April 28th (!)
OK So if I live to see that day lol it might be my last.
Sorry that you went through that but thank you for sharing. I'm OK with long posts
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If you have unresolved issues with jealousy, especially involving the infidelity of a lover, try to really examine this matter and dredge it from your subconcsious before tr. Pluto conjuncts your Venus, because otherwise it may take over and possibly destroy any amorous / domestic living situation you may have.
Well I'll tell you what, I'm not the jealous type in romantic relationships but I do attract men that are, sometimes. So I'm gonna be wary of who I'm with at the time. FOR SURE. But who knows. Something could be riled up in me by the sound of it. You know what really creeps me out, as a Ve/Pl person, are those stories about men killing women after they file for divorce, or attacking them for rejecting them. The obsession over the loss of the relationship and the desire to avenge that hurt. That sounds v. Ve/Pl to me. I haven't been assaulted but it's always in the back of my mind, when is that point where I have to leave because I see something evil creeping up in them. The last 2 I left, was for that reason exactly. Cos I saw something building in them and it creeped me out, so I left before they did anything rash. But it wasn't anger they had, it was something obsessive and twisted. Maybe it's a sign of things to come. If I start feeling crazy tho I'll do my best to stay away from people. Maybe be a hermit for a while. Thanks for the heads up.IP: Logged | |
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