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Topic: what would win a pisces moon in love?
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Planet Queen
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posted May 13, 2012 11:33 PM
  
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Originally posted by intriguingineveryway:
would a pisces moon move on quickly after a heartbreak?
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violet7887
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posted May 13, 2012 11:37 PM
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What would win a pisces moon in love?
A Cancer Moon.  IP: Logged |
intriguingineveryway
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posted May 14, 2012 12:06 AM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
A Cancer Moon.
how so
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LightandLove
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posted May 14, 2012 12:25 AM
I just broke up with a Pisces moon male. It was one of the most difficult and intense relationships I've ever experienced. (I'm a Scorpio moon.) I read once that Pisces moon males can be damn near impossible to figure out because (as another poster mentioned above) they've learned to shut down all those strong emotions they experienced as children...told that "boys don't feel that way" etc. Unfortunately, I ended up with one of those. Deep down, I could *feel* that he felt so much, but he was so unconnected to it. I don't even think he could access it. To top it all off, he'd been in the military several years (as was the other Pisces moon I loved a long time ago) and they were eerily similar...like they were trying to "prove" how manly they were. So sad - there is so much beauty there, but the two I've had serious relationships with are just so - damaged. They're heartbreaking. Maybe some day, when the human race has evolved more, they'll be safe to be who they are without shutting it all down and hiding it. But this human just couldn't take the evasive, fishy-washy behavior anymore. Sigh. It's too bad - but I've pretty much sworn off this moon placement in a male romantic attachment. It's left me nothing but badly burned...IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 14, 2012 02:27 AM
lol i had a thing going on with an aries monkey with moon, venus and mars all in pisces. Not sure what to make of all this. He seemed very typical aries to me. energetic and not quiet at all, but very philosophical that's true.IP: Logged |
Ariehnox
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posted May 14, 2012 03:26 AM
Trying to win them over?... DON'T. They'll get scared away. Just be true to yourself, they're very empathetic and can relate to people easily. They will forgive you for your faults as they know too well that no one is perfect... Unless it's poorly aspected, because that's a totally different story! (They'll expect people to be perfect at all times, and become too self-righteous that they think they can never do wrong... Define double standards.)Just open yourself up to them... let them see your own vulnerability (but vulnerability =/= drama), and they will naturally gravitate towards you. They will never be the first ones to put their feelings out in the open, since they're very sensitive and fragile inside... they must know that you are of kindred spirit first. They normally know this upon first meeting since they have an uncanny sense of perception, but they won't really act upon it to protect themselves. So if you find yourself surrounded by them, it's because they do sense some familiarity in you! Never rush a Piscean moon, they're always busy dreaming... so plenty of alone times are necessary for them. Give them space... allow them to dream of you if you really want to make him yours.  They like to take things slow... just learn to drift along with them in order to really feel the best qualities this placement has to offer. A word of caution though, never forget your own individuality so you wouldn't get too hurt in the end. Remember that Piscean types can get you illusioned and trapped in a 'sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare', depending on how s/he projects his energy... IP: Logged |
Ariehnox
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posted May 14, 2012 03:33 AM
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Faith
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posted May 14, 2012 07:41 AM
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Odette
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posted May 14, 2012 08:19 AM
LightandLove - quote:
they were eerily similar...like they were trying to "prove" how manly they were. So sad - there is so much beauty there, but the two I've had serious relationships with are just so - damaged.
This sounds very familiar. I'm sorry to hear that even having a Scorpio Moon - you were not able to get through to these guys.
-sigh- Ariehnox - quote:
They normally know this upon first meeting since they have an uncanny sense of perception,
Pisces Moon can also be delusional - mistaking friends for enemies and enemies for friends.
I am just mentioning the flip side here since I've seen this happen right in front of me.
I've had a bunch of Pisces Moon men react very badly to me on first impressions and distrust me - simply because they found me attractive. So their intuition immediately said that I was a bit*ch.
This is a very crappy intuition to have and it's based on very superficial reasons.
They also do the opposite with people who are unattractive.. They imagine these people to be really nice and sweet. It just scares me how badly burnt they could get - due to being such poor judges of character. The other problem is - they are way too susceptible to media messages as well as messages they get from people they respect who are in authority - like their parents (if they have a good relationship with them) - the priest at their church and so on... They are so susceptible that it is difficult to know sometimes whether I am talking to them or to someone else. They can also be very different. One Pisces Moon might think you are a prostitute-in-the-making because you wear too much makeup, when God intended us to be 'au naturel'.. Another Pisces Moon might think you are sloppy and unkempt if you don't wear enough makeup.
It depends on what they were taught. They don't question anything. If mommy said it's black - then it must be black.
If someone said: "all women are just biding their time until they get married" - in a 'sex and the city' episode.... that clearly means that all the women of the world want to get married asap.
These guys are the least analytical people I know. They just don't analyse information. They take it in, they believe it and they run with it. It only gets worse when they start likening you to actual characters in movies or sit-coms.
If you remind them of a character - they associate you with them 100%. My ex thought on first impressions that I reminded him of The Nanny (Fran Dresher).. and he projected so many qualities onto me that I do not have - purely because he saw me as similar to this character, for whatever reason.
They are bonafide - delusional at times.. with a capital D. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted May 14, 2012 09:00 AM
nice read this thread! Dated one Pisces Moon. Fits all that is writen here. It was such a heartbreaking relationship, made me swore off Scorpio Sun, Pisces moon. As Odette mentioned, he didn't like being in a relationship, doesn't understand what it takes to be in a relationship.. never communicate much but bottoms everything within.. he has issues opening himself to vulnerability.. He just doesn't fit in this lioness' life of truth, honesty and open communication. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 14, 2012 09:35 AM
My experience with having a Pisces moon... well, it's difficult to extricate it from the other aspects of my chart (for instance it makes contact with Pluto and is in the 8th house), but be prepared for emotional issues stemming from a difficult childhood, an irrationally close attachment to his/her mother, and also you're not going to get the person's interest unless you have a spiritual connection with music. My boyfriends were largely Piscean (because they appreciate music on the same emotional level that I do), and my current boyfriend might be a Sag, but he also has a Sun-Neptune conjunction. For me personally, the way my Pisces moon manifests is that I need someone who "escapes" in the same way I do... into a world of music.I also agree with the posters here who said that emotions are contained and directed within, open and honest communication is difficult because it makes us feel vulnerable. Also not sure how much of that is the moon and how much is other placements. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted May 14, 2012 09:40 AM
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intriguingineveryway
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posted May 14, 2012 09:52 AM
pisces moon seems to be accepting of everyone. wouldn't it be hard to tell where you are in their life since they're so accepting and loves everyone? where are you in their life if they start watching you or following you around? IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 14, 2012 09:58 AM
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Originally posted by Ariehnox:
Just open yourself up to them... let them see your own vulnerability (but vulnerability =/= drama), and they will naturally gravitate towards you.
This is spot-on. You really know your Pisces moons! As a Pisces mooner myself, I am attracted to people whose vulnerability is obvious to me, it makes them seem more... human, I guess you could say? My boyfriend's brashness (Sag-ness) was not evident upon first meeting, he was VERY unsure of himself, and I couldn't figure out why since he was so intimidating, so attractive, surrounded by a throng of edgy friends. Just that sense of openhearted vulnerability was very attractive to me. I don't like men who seem very sure of themselves, who come on strong, with pretenses (with pickup lines). I actually always attributed this to my moon, but then it could be my Mars as well... it's in Sagittarius and that sign is supposed to hate pretense.
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Aquacheeka
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posted May 14, 2012 10:02 AM
I recently read that people with Uranus in House 5 (I have this placement) usually have their moon in a universal sign (Aquarius or Pisces) because their karmic lesson (left over from either childhood or past life) is to learn free personal expression, it's a correction from "overdoing" universal consciousness/the collective. The problem is that this all sounds so heady, it's not really put in down-to-earth, pragmatic terms. I wish I could make sense of it. What is the actual manifestation of "collective consciousness"? Does this mean someone who was not allowed to develop an individual identity? I just don't understand astrological descriptions sometimes  IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 14, 2012 10:08 AM
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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
I'd imagine Moon in Pisces is open to just about anyone romantically. Pisces is the least judgmental and the least likely to have a particular type they go for. But, they'll feel more comfortable around Water Suns, Water Moons, or those with a strong Water emphasis. They respond very well to plenty of kindness, sweetness, and sensitivity, especially since they're used to their feelings often being hurt by less perceptive or nurturing types of personalities.
Why doesn't this describe me? In terms of friends, those closest mostly have Virgo influence (sun or moon), Aquarius influence also but it's odd to me how my closest Aqua friend also has a Virgo moon... Virgo is a nurturing sign as well, right?
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Faith
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posted May 14, 2012 10:10 AM
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Aquacheeka
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posted May 14, 2012 10:14 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I think we'd have to see the other aspects. For example, Elvis was a Pisces moon and he definitely stalked Priscilla and her new boyfriend after she left him. But I think that was his Cap stellium and NN.His Pisces moon is what made him still be kind to her, and invite her decorate his plane, and kiss her sincerely, after she pushed for as much alimony and child support as she could possibly get, so he was forced to work himself to death (basically) making the payments.
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LightandLove
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posted May 14, 2012 08:34 PM
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Originally posted by Ariehnox:
I'm currently in love with one who also has it in the 12th house.  I just realized that men with lots of masculine energy watered down with a Pisces moon is my weakest spot. You know, not too feminine on the outside, but aren't afraid to get in touch with their feminine energy when they feel... Makes me want to nurture them (my Venus in Cancer) at all times. Trying to win them over?... DON'T. They'll get scared away. Just be true to yourself, they're very empathetic and can relate to people easily. They will forgive you for your faults as they know too well that no one is perfect... Unless it's poorly aspected, because that's a totally different story! (They'll expect people to be perfect at all times, and become too self-righteous that they think they can never do wrong... Define double standards.) Just open yourself up to them... let them see your own vulnerability (but vulnerability =/= drama), and they will naturally gravitate towards you. They will never be the first ones to put their feelings out in the open, since they're very sensitive and fragile inside... they must know that you are of kindred spirit first. They normally know this upon first meeting since they have an uncanny sense of perception, but they won't really act upon it to protect themselves. So if you find yourself surrounded by them, it's because they do sense some familiarity in you! Never rush a Piscean moon, they're always busy dreaming... so plenty of alone times are necessary for them. Give them space... allow them to dream of you if you really want to make him yours. They like to take things slow... just learn to drift along with them in order to really feel the best qualities this placement has to offer. A word of caution though, never forget your own individuality so you wouldn't get too hurt in the end. Remember that Piscean types can get you illusioned and trapped in a 'sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare', depending on how s/he projects his energy...
A word of caution though, never forget your own individuality so you wouldn't get too hurt in the end. Remember that Piscean types can get you illusioned and trapped in a 'sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare', depending on how s/he projects his energy... This right here! Truer words never spoken, Ariehnox. I should have this engraved on my heart, the next time a Pisces moon comes a callin'! IP: Logged |
the89freespirit
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posted May 14, 2012 10:13 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Why doesn't this describe me? In terms of friends, those closest mostly have Virgo influence (sun or moon), Aquarius influence also but it's odd to me how my closest Aqua friend also has a Virgo moon... Virgo is a nurturing sign as well, right?
Well, Virgo is the opposite sign of your Moon and many people tend to be very attracted to those with a strong influence of their opposite sign in their chart. Virgo isn't exactly 'nurturing'. They can be very sympathetic, but in a somewhat detached and level-headed manner. ------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted May 14, 2012 10:25 PM
Ok,listen very very carefully and i cant stress this enough,get them alcohol ,lots and lots of alcohol! Gin,bourbon,vodka or beer,it really doesnt matter much.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted May 14, 2012 10:32 PM
Don't smother! If they go off and do a disappearing act for a while, let them, they'll appreciate it and come back. And don't try to analyse or understand, just accept their weird behaviour. Think of a wild animal, if you chase it and try to hunt it down, it will run away, but if you stand still, it will become curious and seeing that you are not out to hurt it, it will come to you.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 14, 2012 10:34 PM
LOL @ wild animals  IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted May 14, 2012 10:35 PM
Ok think of fishing! IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted May 14, 2012 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Don't smother! If they go off and do a disappearing act for a while, let them, they'll appreciate it and come back. And don't try to analyse or understand, just accept their weird behaviour. Think of a wild animal, if you chase it and try to hunt it down, it will run away, but if you stand still, it will become curious and seeing that you are not out to hurt it, it will come to you.
100% yes 1st house Pisces moon here.
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