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Topic: what would win a pisces moon in love?
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Odette
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posted May 18, 2012 07:41 AM
  
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i need that security if I would give my heart.
What I meant was..... if a Pisces falls out of love - they will do any number of annoying things to have you pulling your hair out and ultimately breaking up with *them*. But they won't usually be the ones to utter the words: "It is over." IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 18, 2012 07:45 AM
I actually agree about Pisces moons being more about universal than personal love. My dad is a Taurus sun/Pisces moon. 8 years ago he split with my mom and became a minister (he's now ordained). Here he is with his daughters from his first marriage and their spouses and his grandchildren: 
and here he is with the Massai tribe in Africa; he went to Kenya to feed orphaned children and the Massai made him an honourary member of their tribe, complete with tribal shirt with his name sewn on, so now if he goes back he is entitled to 2 goats, a cow and some land:
 In light of this, I am inclined to believe the universality becomes more evident/important over time, kind of like a north node. IP: Logged |
Ariehnox
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posted May 18, 2012 08:47 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
LightandLove - Pisces Moon can also be delusional - mistaking friends for enemies and enemies for friends.
Very true, that indeed is another manifestation of the Piscean energy... I'm glad I haven't met any of the kind (yet? ...hopefully never.) -- They also seem to not get the idea of detaching their selves even in a very unhealthy situation/relationship that they end up as door mats. Sure, each person has good in them no matter how horrible they are, or there is some history why a person ended up being such a douche, etc... but that doesn't excuse the commitment of such acts. They forgive, forgive, forgive... but not (almost never?) their own self. It would take an extremely long time on their own... The constant struggle between the twin fishes almost always cause them to stay in that very same spot they've put their selves in.
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
This is spot-on. You really know your Pisces moons! As a Pisces mooner myself, I am attracted to people whose vulnerability is obvious to me, it makes them seem more... human, I guess you could say? My boyfriend's brashness (Sag-ness) was not evident upon first meeting, he was VERY unsure of himself, and I couldn't figure out why since he was so intimidating, so attractive, surrounded by a throng of edgy friends. Just that sense of openhearted vulnerability was very attractive to me. I don't like men who seem very sure of themselves, who come on strong, with pretenses (with pickup lines). I actually always attributed this to my moon, but then it could be my Mars as well... it's in Sagittarius and that sign is supposed to hate pretense.
Haha I think I know Piscean moons better than my own (Aqua)... too radical even for my own self. lol I'm actually the same as you, I also don't like men who comes on too strong. I love strength and conviction in personality, yes... but when I see a hint of their vulnerability and the depth of their personality, it intoxicates me (in a good way of course).  Maybe it's because of my Pluto aspects too that allows me to see through some people. I wasn't in astrology then, but the two people I've loved so deeply both have moon in Pisces with strong masculine signs that balances it out. (so they're not really sissies.. :P I like wearing pants, but it would be good to be able to wear skirts in a relationship too you know lol) quote:
Originally posted by LightandLove:
This right here! Truer words never spoken, Ariehnox. I should have this engraved on my heart, the next time a Pisces moon comes a callin'!
Likewise! Swimming along the tides with them for quite a certain time may leave you thinking you're one of them scaled, underwater-breathing creatures. @_@ Ironically, once you're trapped in that realm, you will find your fish swimming away from you... or rather, you won't be able to keep up since it's an entirely different world than your own and you'll end up lost. Share their world, but remember to keep your feet... they need someone who will ground them back to reality. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 18, 2012 08:54 AM
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Aquacheeka
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posted May 18, 2012 08:54 AM
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Originally posted by Ariehnox:
They also seem to not get the idea of detaching their selves even in a very unhealthy situation/relationship that they end up as door mats. Sure, each person has good in them no matter how horrible they are, or there is some history why a person ended up being such a douche, etc... but that doesn't excuse the commitment of such acts. They forgive, forgive, forgive... but not (almost never?) their own self. It would take an extremely long time on their own... The constant struggle between the twin fishes almost always cause them to stay in that very same spot they've put their selves in.
I agree with this, my dad and I (both Pisces moons) were martyrs for my mom, who for all intents and purposes, cannot live with other people as she is bat$hit crazy, for far too long. One time she almost ran him over with her car. Too many years wasted putting up with it. I know it's our moons that made us overly forgiving. You're also right that the last person he forgives for past mistakes is HIMSELF. I don't get this.
I've had a Leo friend tell me she doesn't understand how I can talk to my mom today after everything she put me through when we lived together, and I just shrugged. How do you explain that you have a Pisces moon and thus need your mom? lol. IP: Logged |
Ariehnox
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posted May 18, 2012 09:21 AM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I agree with this, my dad and I (both Pisces moons) were martyrs for my mom, who for all intents and purposes, cannot live with other people as she is bat$hit crazy, for far too long. One time she almost ran him over with her car. Too many years wasted putting up with it. I know it's our moons that made us overly forgiving. You're also right that the last person he forgives for past mistakes is HIMSELF. I don't get this.I've had a Leo friend tell me she doesn't understand how I can talk to my mom today after everything she put me through when we lived together, and I just shrugged. How do you explain that you have a Pisces moon and thus need your mom? lol.
It might be because Piscean types, deep inside, longs to save and be saved... The savior and the victim scenario. If channeled right, they are capable of giving unconditional love to the people who need it. If not, they will grovel in their own misery, waiting for someone to put them right back on track... great if they actually let them do it, some are so broken (or so they like to think) that they would rather get stuck in that cold desolate place. I think your father's story greatly sums it up. His capability of loving in a universal sense came up when he finally learned to forgive his own self and move away from the terrible experiences he had with your mom. I believe that also applies to you. IP: Logged |
intriguingineveryway
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posted May 18, 2012 10:30 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by intriguingineveryway:
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there's a taurus moon but she has a gemini venus. I have this taurus moon and pisces moon and are both in my life and both are equally important.
1) Your fish is a Pisces w.Venus in Gemini?
2) You have 2 moons?[/B][/QUOTE]there's two people. one is cancer sun with a taurus moon, but she has a gemini venus. worries me. though she has other great qualities. the other person has a scorpio sun with a pisces moon. the pisces moon is more serious. it is what attracts me. stability usually. i want a long term.
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intriguingineveryway
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posted May 18, 2012 10:50 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
What I meant was..... if a Pisces falls out of love - they will do any number of annoying things to have you pulling your hair out and ultimately breaking up with *them*.But they won't usually be the ones to utter the words: "It is over."
This Pisces moon is always sad, quiet, and gives a rare smile. I seem to be the only one to make her smile at work. Are Pisces moon usually like that? Should I look into it more or is this Pisces moon just being in her own world?
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beenylove
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posted July 07, 2012 06:35 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
what's your sun sign, though?
Sorrryyy!!  Just saw this. I am a Taurus sun!
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MePisces
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posted July 07, 2012 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by intriguingineveryway:
This Pisces moon is always sad, quiet, and gives a rare smile. I seem to be the only one to make her smile at work. Are Pisces moon usually like that? Should I look into it more or is this Pisces moon just being in her own world?
I have a Pisces moon. On the outside I am very happy and fun. I can also be chatty and social and I'm constantly laughing and smiling and can find humor in anything. On the inside I struggle with sadness and despair. Furtunately I overcame my demons with depression over ten years ago. I love to be alone, I cherish solitude and quiet. I'm constatly locked in my head and its comforting. I dont like talking and I abhor small talk. On the inside, I only find humor in irony. I've never been in love. I dont covet deep companionship. Sometimes the lonliness is crushing. IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
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posted August 30, 2016 10:20 PM
WOW! I'm a Pisces Mooner and from what I'm reading in these post. . . alot of it is true. I do separate love & sex when really the two are connected. I am a bit disconnected from my deeper emotions only because of dealings from a dysfunctional family. I'm really trying to open up more and not be afraid of intimacy and delving deeper into emotions with others. In general, I find that I'm attracted to sensitive and emotional types who have a certain degree of emotional control. I have to trust you and I have to be comfortable around you. We have to have a mental and emotional rapport because I would love for that to flow between us so that when conflicts do arise, it won't do much damage and it will quickly be resolved. That's what I want. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted August 31, 2016 12:09 AM
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hypatia238
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posted August 31, 2016 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by intriguingineveryway:
are they attracted to emotional people? sensitivity?
I need someone with a good heart that I can look into their eyes and know they have a good heart, that is what I care about the most. My type is emotionally intense with a heart of gold who wants to merge with me in bed and transcend this world via that vehicle with me. I have moon in Pisces and Neptune rules my 5th and is my strongest planet probably bc it squares my luminaries forming a t-square with neptune at the apex none the less.
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hypatia238
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posted August 31, 2016 12:36 AM
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Originally posted by intriguingineveryway:
would a pisces moon move on quickly after a heartbreak? quicker than a cancer moons? i'm basing it to cancer moons because i noticed some cancer moons takes a long time to move on and they dwell? i wonder if other water moons are the same?
I don't move on quickly at all on an emotional level.. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 31, 2016 12:57 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
In friends - they are attracted to people who are sensitive, artistic.. people who understand emotion and go with the flow in life. They like being able to have heart2hearts with their friends.. They want to know they are 'safe' with you emotionally and you will not hurt them when they open up.
They do not like loud-mouths.. They need peace and quiet because they are easily upset. They are also very secretive so they want to know that the other person can keep a secret. But romantically and sexually - they like *nothing*. They would prefer not to go there at all. Sometimes they are celibate. You would have to post the chart though - because the Mars placement can tell you more about his sexuality.
If his Mars is in a feminine sign - then it's quite likely that - celibacy appeals to him.
Ummmmmmm both my ex and I have moon in Pisces and we both love companionship and been in a relationship and we both have a healthy sex drive. However neither of us want to have a lot of friends and we value our alone time to recharge. We are both capable of falling very deeply in love and once in love never stop caring for that person. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted August 31, 2016 01:06 AM
This could take a while, lol...Another natal Pisces moon here, and I'm definitely experiencing its full effects lately - mostly due to the fact that P. Moon completed its cycle and return to natal Pisces. I have natal Pisces Moon in the 3rd house square Jupiter (my chart ruler, Sag ASC). All I can say is it makes me very wishy washy in love. I go from rose colored glasses with someone to absolute repulsion, depending on the circumstances. And I tend to always second guess myself - having Pisces moon and Gemini Venus are such a fickle and flighty combo. But, lately, I've also been something of a heartbreaker. When someone doesn't fit my illusion (yes, that is correct) I loose interest and move on quite fast or at least I think I do and then almost a year later I'll experience this absolute longing for my ex and feel like I regretted my decision to break up with him. But to win a lunar Pisces, you have to read her poetry, go on a late night walk with some sparkling wine in hand and sweep her off her feet with some Oscar Wild. My point is no matter what sun sign you have - as a women, Pisces moon is magical and beautiful influence and any man who doesn't see your effervescent sparkle can hit the curb. IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire
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posted August 31, 2016 01:48 AM
is the thinki with the mother only from the sons side or also from her side?IP: Logged |
Hemilla
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posted August 31, 2016 04:28 AM
its really hard for me to say because all my other planets are not in the most emotional signs,my venus and sun are in gemini and my mars is in virgo....also i have a square between mercury and moon so there is battle between mind and heart... am i attracted to very emotional men...hhhhh...noooot really,but in the end person is more than one characteristic.IP: Logged |
ScorpLady9
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posted September 22, 2016 11:33 AM
What about a pisces moon with lots of earth (virgo sun, venus, mars, etc) - I feel like it would make them more stable just more able to understand emotions and easier compatibility (perhaps even more drawn to) with water suns (like myself - a scorp). I'm having a situation with one right now... IP: Logged |
areesquivel
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posted September 22, 2016 12:47 PM
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Originally posted by intriguingineveryway:
would a pisces moon move on quickly after a heartbreak? quicker than a cancer moons? i'm basing it to cancer moons because i noticed some cancer moons takes a long time to move on and they dwell? i wonder if other water moons are the same?
I'm Pisces moon and I don't move quickly after a breakup or separation, I don't deal with those feelings well, if anything I always have this abandon sentiment, but then again that could be my water combo of Cancer Sun, Pisces Moon, Scorpio ASC. IP: Logged |
Hemilla
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posted September 22, 2016 01:23 PM
more to add - i dont know if its my aqua dsc or this moon,but i like men who fight for others,you know those who protect underdogs,those who will not lie about someone and if they are around people who spread lie,he would say "stop,thats not true" IP: Logged |
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