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ueharaa
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posted May 25, 2012 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by violet7887:
Indigo Dirae,

For me, the need for sexual intimacy is VERY much there,actually stonger towards this person than anyone else before. It almost feels like a need what I have never actually expereiced, if that makes any sense. I feels like even intimatley, we belong together.


I'm glad you mentioned this. I was actually going to ask because this was very disturbing to me too. And honestly if I hadn't had this feeling of belonging with him in a deeper way than a simply physical one I would just have considered the attraction to be mere lust. The point is with him it was more like wanting to merge with the other. And, I don't know how to explain it correctly or if it makes sense, but I felt like I already what it was like sharing intimacy with him and it wouldn't have felt awkward doing it. Now maybe that is just how it is supposed to feel with someone you have chemistry with but I had never experienced it before.

The more I think about it though, the more I believe that the nodes are more to blame for the effect this meeting had on us.

Saturn conjunct neptune to me speaks more of a past life scenario where one has done the other wrong: most likely the neptune person might not have been able to honor a promise he made or might have deceived the saturn person and the saturn person is torn between the past feeling of love and somehow deep inside knowing that he/she has already been heartbroken by the same person or situation. which makes him or her act in a restricted way, having doubts and even run by fear to protect oneself.
Or a scenario where the relationship was somehow prevented by circumstances that went beyond their wills,(or is it actually a testimony of nothing happening despite both people feeling strongly about the other because of fate in this present life ?)
I have also thought about these two people having a secret affair in a past life, and because of the consequences of it they might "repay" the universe by not being able together, and it might just be a test again, to see how far you'd go to be with the person.

But I do believe the nodes are the one responsible for this sort for this sort f fated feeling, the "i know you from before" "I've missed you and it feels so great meeting you again" I find the nodes to be very fascinating in synastry. Their importance is usually always noted but it is very difficult to grasp the meaning of such connection.
violet and Belage you both share a node opposite node connection. There isn't a lot written on this but I believe this is very important. to me, it means that you've where he has to go and he's been where you have to go. I can't remember who talked about the nodes as in "the point of formed consciousness for the south node and forming consciousness for the north node" but in such case it appears very likely that it produced an irresistible need to be with the person to learn from each other.

I believe nodes contact, especially conjonction and square are the most potent in explaining why you yearn and crave someone at a soul level.

But now, and this is what confuses the most, my question is "how am I supposed to learn from someone I have never lived anything with ?". the same goes with karma, how am I supposed to clear bad karma if there's any with someone I don't have anything with.

I find it great that most of you have been able to gain spiritual awareness from it. As for me I'd rather try and forget about it, that's the only I've been able to cope with it.


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posted May 25, 2012 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Violet, your draconic chart is very interesting. Because of your node opposite node, a lot of your tropical synastry aspects are repeated in the draconic chart only the conjunction becomes an opposition.

You have a Saturn opposite neptune in the draconic. So I guess with nodes opposite nodes and saturn neptune cojonction, it means that you've had this sort of circumstances happen to you before already ?
Have you tried comparing it with the tropical chart natal chart. There are a lot of old thread on this forum that talks about draconic and I have found them to be particularly significant with important people. I once read that draconic planet falling on your tropical planets might describe past life scenario that are brought into this life.

I don't know about the kite formation in the composite though. But yes, sun pluto was very much felt I guess. I once read an interpretation of it saying it gives one the urge to control the relationship and there's a lot of power play.

I also find it interesting that in synastry you saturn neptune conjunction squares his venus. Saturn venus aspects are often defined as a heartbreak aspect.
Also you mentioned chiron I did notice that in both our synastry the staurn neptune conjunction is opposite our chiron ! ( you have a saturn opposite chiron natally right?) Chiron being linked to wound and healing, I'm pretty sure this has some significance too.

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posted May 26, 2012 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting thread, I will have to go back and read it all when I have more time. I just skimmed it and read some great posts.

My husband's Saturn in Sag is exactly conjunct my Venus and conjunct my Neptune (6* orb.) Transiting Pluto was conjunct our Saturn-Venus conjunction when we got together.

He was an older bachelor resigned to never getting married, so it's extraordinary that we got engaged after one date. I was thinking about this the other day. What was so special about me and my effect on him, that he jumped into marriage with me...when he never even considered it for former girlfriends?

I think my Neptune played a role, definitely. If it were just my Venus conjunct his Saturn, we still would have had something, but would it have been enough to lure him out of his confirmed bachelorhood?

Maybe Neptune is what made things magical, incredible (insensible ) enough to bring this marriage about.

We've been married 13 years. I think we are finally getting to the point where he is okay with the fact that he doesn't understand me and therefore cannot entirely trust me because he has no idea where I am coming from. I sense that he's learning to just put doubts aside and enjoy the moment.

I have not dissolved his structures entirely, but I convinced him to sell his real estate, to quit being a landlord, and he has alternately thanked me and expressed deep regret about that.

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posted May 26, 2012 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else experienced the trine?

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posted May 27, 2012 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no one?

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posted June 09, 2012 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow, Faith this is a wonderful story!
I had been thinking about this aspect and wondering if it could be a sort of "not meant to be" indicator but after reading what your wrote, it definitely is not.

As Neptune, how did you first feel towards him, if you don't mind me asking?

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posted June 09, 2012 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
IndigoDirae, reading your story with this man was an intense experience. I related to bits and pieces.

Overall, a few things have stood out to me from all those who have shared their experience of Neptune Conjunct Saturn synastry:

The people involve may never have been in a official relationship, yet the desire to be together was excruciatingly strong so was the pain of not being together.

The relationship never degenerates into a hate relationship as we so often see with Plutonian, Uranian or Saturnian aspects...
In a Neptune/Saturn conjunction, whether one is the Saturn or the Neptune person doesn't seem to matter, even when one has let go (as I have), the feeling of love NEVER goes away...


That's a very, very good point. You're right. It never degenerates to hatred. It somehow remains 'evolved'. The love is always there, and yes, even years later, it can be a peculiar draw. I've noticed that with my Saturn-Neptune square MUCH more so than the Saturn-Neptune conjunction, curiously enough. It's as if with the Conjunction, we both understood that we were necessary to help each other switch courses; catalysts, in a sense. But with the Square ... that yearning just seems to increase with time.

Might even be because it's stronger - by orb - than the conjunction. 1* orb. I'm not sure. But it's only strengthened as we've gotten older, been through more, and continue to hang onto each other, despite how unlikely circumstances get. Coincidentally now, very much the embodiment of our respective characters; their peculiar relationship now matches our own.

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posted June 09, 2012 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by violet7887:
The relationships can be all sorts I am guessing especially after reading your post. For me, the need for sexual intimacy is VERY much there, actually stonger towards this person than anyone else before. It almost feels like a need what I have never actually expereiced, if that makes any sense. I feels like even intimatley, we belong together.

This MAY be something different. I'm not sure. Have you checked the composite? Personally, I relate to that SO strongly, SO powerfully, at times it's actually driven me to tears - which is JUST so strange for me. He does feel it, too, however. Almost inexplicably, since the moment we met, there was this ridiculous palpable sexual chemistry that couldn't HELP but present itself.

It's strange, but during certain times, when our inhibitions are a bit lowered due to tiredness or his having a bit to drink, or what have you, when we're talking over the phone, our voices will gain this ... edge, which is both somehow soft, and also a little bit raspy. More raw. Our whole tone will change. He always starts it, mine ALWAYS follows within seconds. We may be talking about how to structure the second act of the screenplay we're writing, but there's this WHOLE other conversation going on UNDERNEATH what words we're using - if THAT makes sense. Like, if we could, we'd claw our way through the line to actually GET to each other. There's SUCH a powerful need for intimate contact in those moments, it's staggering. I've NEVER experienced that before with anyone but him.

So, I can relate to this - very deeply. It is a unique experience for me, too. I've never had SUCH an inexplicable, overwhelming, (and enduring! Seven years!) attraction to someone. Ever. Doesn't age a day, either. It's ALWAYS just as potent as when we met - and bantered like there was no tomorrow.

You've put it very well. It's a strange sense of 'belonging' with someone - on an intimate level. That that's JUST the way it IS. THIS is HOW you want to express yourselves to each other - regardless of whatever other bonds you have. THAT one is a foregone conclusion.

Something curious that he and I have is an exact conjunction of Karma-Destinn in Scorpio, with both of our Karmas and Destinns there natally. His Venus-Eros squares my Destinn, and his Destinn-Valentine is conjunct my Eros-Lilith. We also have a very tight double-whammy parallel of each others' Moon to Eros and vice-versa. With my Neptune thrown into the mix (another parallel) AND his Lilith (likewise).

I'm not saying THAT's it, but it's most definitely interesting.

-A.

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posted June 09, 2012 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ueharaa:
wow, Faith this is a wonderful story!
I had been thinking about this aspect and wondering if it could be a sort of "not meant to be" indicator but after reading what your wrote, it definitely is not.

As Neptune, how did you first feel towards him, if you don't mind me asking?


And I married (again, also suddenly, unexpectedly, where we both 'belong together' and alternately go, 'WTF?') a man whose Saturn is smack opposite my Neptune.

And, no, ladies, it has NOT been a picnic. I yearn for the true soul bond and his is content to be earth-bound and unwilling to accept anything beyond what he sees at face-value. AUGH. Damned Saturn-Sun.

But it is a lesson, and the REAL karma exists with his daughter. She's the one who really brought us together. And for that, I alternately sigh and thank my lucky stars - depending on how much I'm willing to accept my responsibilities that day. I love them both dearly, and without question. He's 'home' to me. But I have to accept that he'll never fulfill so much of what I need to truly, finally, completely DO what I'm HERE to DO - and ascend, to wherever, and for whatever reason.

It seems I have to rely upon my best friend (the Saturn-Neptune Square) for that one. Complicated, difficult, unrelenting and yet obstacle-strewn as it may be.

Whatever we did ... however innocent it was, or blinded by our passions or ambitions ... we're most definitely 'cursed' and 'paying for it'. Alas, it all happens for a reason. I try not to push the river and learn to accept ... within reason. And my 'reason' is namely that I will not, under any circumstances, 'let him go'. No matter how much I love that person, or understand their logic, it's an unthinkable thing. Just one of those things about me.

Oddly, he's become 'one of those things about me'. And is no stranger to the jealousy of men in my life. Fortunately, my husband (Gemini/Sag) is understanding. He's not possessive, and doesn't wish to send me into spiralling depression by restricting me and all that I am. Thank God. THAT much we've learnt - and so taking this journey together (marriage) is quite an interesting endeavour. Learning to truly love each other without condition - that's a challenge, but a worthwhile one.

And some things, after awhile, you just have to accept.

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posted June 11, 2012 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ueharaa

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You have a Saturn opposite neptune in the draconic. So I guess with nodes opposite nodes and saturn neptune cojonction, it means that you've had this sort of circumstances happen to you before already ?
Have you tried comparing it with the tropical chart natal chart. There are a lot of old thread on this forum that talks about draconic and I have found them to be particularly significant with important people. I once read that draconic planet falling on your tropical planets might describe past life scenario that are brought into this life.

His draco Jupiter conjuncts our natal Saturn-Neptune.
My draco IC conjunct his natal Juno.
His draco Chiron conjunct my natal Ascendant.
His draco Juno conjunct my natal Moon.
His draco Neptune conjuncts my natal Sun(although off by 3 degrees)

These are only some of the conjuncts ive noted quickly, it seems there are other aspects as well , which I will look into. So these draco to natal conjuncts are past life doings we have brought into this life with us? The Juno conjunctions might mean marriage in a past life no? I mean both ways Juno in linked to -home(IC and Moon). My natal Juno even conjuncts his natal Sun. Idk, that is interesting. With the Saturn-Neptune conjunction being opposite in the draco and conjuct in our natals, Im going to guess circumstances this time around are meant to be opposite of what ever they were before maybe... Thank you for the draco info though uehara.


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I also find it interesting that in synastry you saturn neptune conjunction squares his venus. Saturn venus aspects are often defined as a heartbreak aspect.
Also you mentioned chiron I did notice that in both our synastry the staurn neptune conjunction is opposite our chiron ! ( you have a saturn opposite chiron natally right?) Chiron being linked to wound and healing, I'm pretty sure this has some significance too.

iQ mentioned that Saturn- Neptune contacts mean restriction of spiritual freedoms in a past life. Since it it is to his Venus means restrictions regarding love were there somehow with him. Yes, the Chiron opposing our Saturn-Neptune conjunctions really does speak of hurt and healing. I wonder if it is hurt or healing which is taking place though. Also yes, I do have Saturn opposite Chiron natally and his Chiron falls in my 7th house as well. To speak honestly though, I feel a very healing vibe from him. That’s how it always felt for me right from the beginning. Btw when we met, the transiting Chiron-Neptune conjunction was exactly opposite his natal Saturn. The transiting Chrion-Neptune was in my 4th house while Saturn was in my 12th, and Venus in my 1st. Also currently, transiting Chiron is conjunct his Natal Sun exact and I just noticed transiting Sun is conjunct my natal Chiron exact today too, oh wow. Your guy also has his natal Chiron opposite your Moon no? I am actually going to read more into Chiron to get deeper insight. I wonder if Chiron usually hurts or heals relationships…

I also wonder what Chiron opposite Saturn means for the both of us natally...its strange but it almost seems like we were meant to be born with this opposition so that is could some how relate us to these relationships...

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posted June 12, 2012 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
These draconic to natal aspects must certainly be significative of some past life scenario you too had and that gets enlightened in this life.

However as much as I love draco to draco and drac to natal synastry, I must admit I am sort of confused as to what they indicate precisely. With the NN at 0° Aries and the SN at 0°libra, the draconic chart can be sort of a picture of our past lives while at the same time it can indicate us where to go, what our destiny is.

I see it a the draconic synastry is a sort of soul contracts that is ongoing over many lifetimes and when someone's draco placements touch your tropical you can certainly feel that he bond is sort of brought into this life. To me the draco to natal placement highlight which part of the souls bond / contract is going to be brought ahead in this life.

His draco Jupiter conjunct your natal saturn-nepune conjunct might be the reason why you feel this has spiritually awaken you.
The draco Juno Ic and Moon aspects are very interesting though, and you're right the IC can be very potent especially in synastry, since it relates to your core self and to a home feeling.
And chiron, again! I definitely have to learn more about chiron. I've always sort of dismissed it but it seems to play a huge role. See the guy I was talking about his chiron conjunct my ascendant in the tropical synastry!

As for the saturn chiron opposition in our natal I found this interpretation on grupovenus.com
" Chiron forms a challenging aspect with Saturn. The desire to engage in healing, therapeutic, or mentoring endeavors may conflict with responsibilities such as the need to be a breadwinner or to succeed in a career. Duty, obligation, pressure to excel, or stern authority figures may deter you. Or perhaps insecurity or lack of discipline prevents you from achieving these things. Involvement in healing activities, especially those of a holistic nature, may lead you into conflict with "the authorities." There may be wounds inflicted by harsh disciplinarian or judgmental authority figures that give rise to rigid and fearful defenses, workaholism, repressive and conservative views, and critical or judgmental attitudes towards oneself and others. Failure, hardship, lack of opportunity, or the lack of a positive disciplining or father figure during the formative years could have damaged your belief in your ability to face life's onslaughts or hindered the maturing of your sense of responsibility. Both the need to heal old wounds and the need for achievement and self-discipline exist within you. This means that you're going to have to find ways to meet them both, otherwise the chances are that you will keep encountering these types of conflicts."
I don't know though if you can relate to this and how this opposition get played out when saturn conjunct neptune in synastry.

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iQ mentioned that Saturn- Neptune contacts mean restriction of spiritual freedoms in a past life. Since it it is to his Venus means restrictions regarding love were there somehow with him. Yes, the Chiron opposing our Saturn-Neptune conjunctions really does speak of hurt and healing. I wonder if it is hurt or healing which is taking place though. Also yes, I do have Saturn opposite Chiron natally and his Chiron falls in my 7th house as well. To speak honestly though, I feel a very healing vibe from him.

The "restriction of spiritual freedom in a past life" is very interesting.

Have you tried looking at some love, karma asteroids such as: valentine, amor, karma, destinn and some mythological pairing ?


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posted June 12, 2012 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Whatever we did ... however innocent it was, or blinded by our passions or ambitions ... we're most definitely 'cursed' and 'paying for it'. Alas, it all happens for a reason. I try not to push the river and learn to accept ... within reason. And my 'reason' is namely that I will not, under any circumstances, 'let him go'. No matter how much I love that person, or understand their logic, it's an unthinkable thing. Just one of those things about me.

Oddly, he's become 'one of those things about me'. And is no stranger to the jealousy of men in my life. Fortunately, my husband (Gemini/Sag) is understanding. He's not possessive, and doesn't wish to send me into spiralling depression by restricting me and all that I am. Thank God. THAT much we've learnt - and so taking this journey together (marriage) is quite an interesting endeavour. Learning to truly love each other without condition - that's a challenge, but a worthwhile one.

And some things, after awhile, you just have to accept.


Yes I guess, acceptance, in this sort of situation really is THE KEY. And I don't think it's an easy one actually, it can be hard to just have to accept.

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Bumpity bump this awesome thread!
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Actually, you need to do a search on this - though, it'll likely lead you here.
http://www.throughnightsfire.com/SaturnNeptuneconnections.html

Good site. Very thorough.

In short, YES, you have karma. NO, it's not about 'this time it didn't work out.' It's about THAT TIME, it didn't work out.

Major difference there.

Anyhow, check out the link. It's very detailed, informative, and quite specific.

I, personally have the opposition with my husband, and boy, can I tell you it's felt. With my best friend, we have a tight square. Oddly enough, the only Neptune-Saturn conjunction I've experienced are with my parents. Both of them.

We're a very karmic family, VERY aware that we're here to settle some important things that went very wrong then. Truthfully, that's not what the Neptune-Saturn conjunction is pointing to, as, of all the aspects, it's not the most karmic or damaging. Much like the trine or sextile. Odd, I know, and yet ....

-A.


Indigo, that link was REALLY helpful. I share this aspect, me as the Uranus with this other person as the Neptune (with my Saturn conjunct it too, oi!).

The first time I saw his face, his eyes particularly, I was actually stumped. I never get 'stumped' or just lost in this thought I had in my mind of 'your eyes, I know your eyes'.

He's an amazing man, alas, I live in another country (I was visiting his homeland when I met him) and he has a career that makes him travel a lot. The times when we met were fleeting; small chats where a friend introduced us, pretty much RUNNING into him at a cafe.

It was funny how in the article it talked about personal growth and evolution because he actually has inspired me to pursue one of my life-long dreams... crazy that a guy I don't even know that well and is thousands of miles away from me now has had such a profound effect on me. If one of my friends told me this was their situation I would have given them the eye, shook my head and told them in the nicest way to wake up- because I'm that kind of person! It's just strange that someone makes me feel this way.

I feel that if we met in a past life, it was fleeting as well, but one of us fought to try to get back to the other.

Wow I waffled :P

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i am the neptune (exact conjunct sun) and she is the saturn (in scorpio).

other thick synastry, including her north node on my saturn (7th house).

her neptune/lilith conjunct my mercury/venus (in libra).

my nn/lilith conjunct her moon/pluto.

my mars squares her moon/pluto.

(we're both moon conjunct pluto.)

her sun (pisces) trine my mars (scorpio).

et cetera.

we've worked together for a long time. she married a couple years after we met, during which time she was with her (future husband).

hard to explain beyond what's been stated here. except that i've had these almost serial-like dreams over the years - maybe five or six - in which i am privy to very personal information about the sexual aspect of the marriage, presented in almost clinical fashion, the theme of which has been "dysfunction," a kind of "not fitting." i am at an utter loss as to the WHY i have these dreams.

she's in the midst of her second saturn return now, having got past pluto and uranus aspecting her venus aries. i observed from a distance, wondering how that dynamic was playing out.

i don't know. it's thick and weird glue, whatever it is. and it goes deep, past my conscious grasp. but it certainly has ALWAYS felt like a way-back (or merely unwieldy and strangely powerful) connection.

glad to have found this post and to see that i'm (probably) not crazy to have experienced this relationship - a friendship, for sure - as i have.

the last dream, btw, was a departure from the norm. in this dream we were climbing a mountain together, scaling the sheer side of a cliff. she reached down and gave me a pull up, so that i was above her. i then returned the favor, pulling her up to a position above me; and thus did we climb together.

i just don't know. i value our friendship, suspect anything beyond would (in theory, as she is married) be tricky, challenging, but tremendously rewarding, where digging for hidden treasure is concerned. we would certainly be catalysts for change for each other.

or so i imagine. after all, sun conjunct neptune.

so we "merely" swim together in a rather deepish sea.

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Hello Everyone,

This is my first post on this site. I found it looking for information on the Saturn Conjunct Neptune aspect I have with someone. Sorry I'm late ;-D. I just met them the other day and obviously it's significant enough for me to want to glg search it. I AM THE NEPTUNE PERSON by the way. My Neptune in on my descendant so I've learned to always question every relationship I'm in from acquaintances to lovers.

She contacted me through FB. She had just got out of a relationship with one of my former business associates (a sociopath) who had been telling her lies about me. He's a freeloader that got bold enough to spit in her face. Apparently during their relationship he talked about me so much that she couldn't help but wonder what was true and what was false.

It was bizarre having her contact me in that way but nevertheless we ended up talking for hours at a time all day long and then again the next day. I KNOW THIS PERSON!! We talk like we've known each other forever and to be totally honest I have to remind myself that I just met her.

It's only been a few days but so far I can tell you that it's the Saturn (restriction) person that pushes away first. We are both women. She's straight and I'm bi. So I can see where the intensity would be cause to pause for her. She lives in the Hawaiian islands and I live in the Southwest of the U.S. Despite her hesitation to let things just flow she still felt comfortable enough to invite me to come stay with her on the island already. Maybe after the fall semester? ;-D or will it fall through?

We do have other aspects but nothing I see as more significant that I know of. These are all conjunctions. Sun-Jupiter double whammy. My Combust Venus on her Jupiter. Her Venus my Mercury. Her Mercury on my Ascendant. [I guess that explains the extensive conversation part but not the feelings.]We do have my Sun and her Moon both in Pisces but too far apart for a conjunction. She is a Gemini rising and I am a Taurus rising. As I said this Saturn-Neptune conjunction is on my Descendant in Scorpio and it's deep.

I will keep you posted on how things unfold. What are your thoughts?

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I dont know why Neptune gets so bad reputation as being just an illusionist or fogging your brain etc.

Neptune is the ruler of Pisces and Venus is exalted in Pisces because it gives the romance and the unconditional love that a relationship needs.

I was Neptune in a 6 year relationship.
He told me once, in a very intimate moment, that he doesn't know why, but he feels like he has known me since forever. That was after 3 months since we met.

I guess I was feeling forgiving about him and I kinda prefered him over anything else. Me and my family moved to another country and I came back to be with him. I don't know if this relates to the Neptune-Saturn conjunction.

Neptune is needed in a relationship. That's where to unconditional love is, where you forgive him/her, or when you see the best in them. Of course, it could go wrong. Anything that is too much it goes wrong.

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Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.

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