posted May 20, 2012 12:32 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
I was a meanie when I was younger. I have no air.

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posted May 20, 2012 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I'm an Air Sun, Sun peregrine, and my Sun is also my singleton planet... no other air. 12th house Pluto. I think someone here said H12 planet people are more prone to being bullied?

I can attest to being bullied my entire life, despite being kind and calm. And not shy at all. I was not even the type to be picked on. I seemed to just attract side-long bullying, really mean group bullying from snobbish girls. I was also bullied for my appearance since I stuck out as being more finely dressed than other people, and then I was accused of being the snob. Too ironic.... right Alanis? LOL.

Bullying sucks. I've managed to channel my 12th house Pluto through my Mars nowadays, and I'm pretty tough. I'm very assertive and love kickboxing and martial arts, and I have a pronounced 'don't mess with me vibe'. Wish I had that before and wasn't such a Libran door mat. :/

Also, I really don't think I was bullied by Air signs. I was bullied by a bitter Taurus girl - she was the worst of them all.

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Man, I have a Taurus moon and there's a Libra sun at work who just LOVES poking at me! I think Taurus and Libra end up being competitors because they're both ruled by Venus. Sure, Venus is the planet of love but I intuitively sense both Taurus and Libra are greedy and want Venus for themselves. This Libra girl also picks on me about my appearance, and I'm noticed in general at work because of my dress sense (positively, but I think my Sag manager and that Libra girl are threatened by me. Like you, I have a very pronounced "Try me" vibe when I go places.)

posted May 20, 2012 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
sweet-scorpion, sorry to hear that =(

You dont have to have an ill kick ur ass aura about you, though. Dont let people harden you into something you're not, you know?

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It's all right. Thanks though. The worst part is I still see her now and then at my school. But I don't care about it at all anymore.

posted May 20, 2012 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Man, I have a Taurus moon and there's a Libra sun at work who just LOVES poking at me! I think Taurus and Libra end up being competitors because they're both ruled by Venus. Sure, Venus is the planet of love but I intuitively sense both Taurus and Libra are greedy and want Venus for themselves. This Libra girl also picks on me about my appearance, and I'm noticed in general at work because of my dress sense (positively, but I think my Sag manager and that Libra girl are threatened by me. Like you, I have a very pronounced "Try me" vibe when I go places.)

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That's an excellent theory... makes so much sense! I often don't get along very well with other Taurus people either which is weird, since you'd figure two signs ruled by Venus would get along like peas in a pod but no way. And LOL I'd totally do that to get back at the Taurus girl... snidely think or say to trusted friends who weren't gossips that she was very unattractive - which she actually was - and was so vain, thinking she was gorgeous and dressing slutty at a young age. We became very superficially mean around one another. Literally like two bitchy Aphrodites facing off. 8'D Hahaha.

posted May 20, 2012 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:

And that's not like me at all either, which is why it's hilarious. Something about this girl just turns on a really bitchy, mean part of myself too, even just looking at her... and not in a profound way, but in a way where just looking at what's Venusian about her, from the way she dresses to her cheap extensions makes me want to scream!!!!

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posted May 20, 2012 01:16 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
It's all right. Thanks though. The worst part is I still see her now and then at my school. But I don't care about it at all anymore.

I don't have an openly aggressive vibe like you said. But I can be really intense, I'm just naturally like that and I have been since growing up. Not only bullying but just life in general sort of hardened me into being a more intense and guarded person. But miraculously I have managed to still maintain a great degree of empathy and compassion, and I would never want to hurt anyone physically unless they hurt me first. I just love strength training and appearing tough and strong. At one point I was much weaker emotionally and physically, and it just feels so good not to be like that anymore.

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posted May 20, 2012 01:30 AM            

I've also seen some really arrogant Libras that come off as bullies as well.

As per Gemini, same problem with the other mutable signs depends on how they are raised or influenced by a fixed or cardinal sign.

Which air sign is giving you problems?

posted May 20, 2012 01:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I guess something about her reminds you of yourself, or apart of yourself you try to ignore or deny. Don't get me wrong, bitchy people don't necessarily deserve kindness or hearts and flowers, but still.

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posted May 20, 2012 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
No...you could be onto something actually. I often feel guilty for worry too much about my appearance. I'm not worrisome in a narcissistic way, but in an insecure way. I try NOT to be in all my power, vain and overtly Venusian, because I want to be better and above that. Maybe that's why she annoys me so much, since she reminds me that ugly sense of needing to look like a perfect girl all the time?

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Well since she looks cheap and "slutty" as you say, that's obviously a sign of insecurity - which you despise in yourself.

...And you thought you could get away sharing a planet wiht your enemy without being handed a mirror. Silly you!

posted May 20, 2012 01:41 AM            

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Originally posted by SpooL:
Aquarians can appear as bullies if they are to fixed on an idea and are relentless about it, regardless if there right or wrong.

I've also seen some really arrogant Libras that come off as bullies as well.

As per Gemini, same problem with the other mutable signs depends on how they are raised or influenced by a fixed or cardinal sign.

Which air sign is giving you problems?

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As a Libra, I have definitely had issues with arrogance... up that x10 due to a peregrine Sun. I think my accidental arrogance is what lead me to be bullied now and again, since people hated that about me. Un-aspected Sun made my Libra expression obnoxious at times due to my young age and lack of experience dealing with it... so I had a real tendency to be snobbish about art and fashion matters, intellectual matters *especially* - I often corrected people's speech, their hand writing and writing style - and all things Air.

I have, of course, gotten along just fabulously with most every Air person I've ever met.

posted May 20, 2012 01:43 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Well since she looks cheap and "slutty" as you say, that's obviously a sign of insecurity - which you despise in yourself.

...And you thought you could get away sharing a planet wiht your enemy without being handed a mirror. Silly you!

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posted May 20, 2012 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I KNOW. She is pretty much the anti-me! I'm glad we've cracked this long torturous mystery through astrology though. It is literally creepy how much I just realized how she really IS the anti-me... everything I hate about myself/being a girl, and all I try to avoid being in life...

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posted May 20, 2012 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
As a Libra, I have definitely had issues with arrogance...

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I've never really had any problems with air sign females, just the males.

I've had a lot of arrogant Libras bosses, although they were always nice to me and like the work I do, I could see right thought them.

I never fully finished about describing Gemini.

It also depends on the mood I will admit on Thursday I can be so grumpy and appear as a jerk/bully, once the weekend is over I will probably be nicest guy the world after finally getting some rest.

posted May 20, 2012 04:47 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
But do you have aspects that would give you "air" qualities?

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posted May 20, 2012 04:50 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
That's an excellent theory... makes so much sense! I often don't get along very well with other Taurus people either which is weird, since you'd figure two signs ruled by Venus would get along like peas in a pod but no way. And LOL I'd totally do that to get back at the Taurus girl... snidely think or say to trusted friends who weren't gossips that she was very unattractive - which she actually was - and was so vain, thinking she was gorgeous and dressing slutty at a young age. We became very superficially mean around one another. Literally like two bitchy Aphrodites facing off. 8'D Hahaha.

And that's not like me at all either, which is why it's hilarious. Something about this girl just turns on a really bitchy, mean part of myself too, even just looking at her... and not in a profound way, but in a way where just looking at what's Venusian about her, from the way she dresses to her cheap extensions makes me want to scream!!!!

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posted May 20, 2012 04:56 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
You...can't see taurus being rude?
O_o

Taurus is not traditionally known as a tactful sign in astrology

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Who ras?

I dun have Taurus merc but the things those bull minds and mouths say is Hillary, dats y I always post random kanye LOL! I think I'm the only 1 laughing at those posts tho but I really have a ball!
http://www.astrocrack.com/2009/01/when-taurus-mercury-delights/

Tina Fey Taurus with Taurus Mercury
“If you ever start to feel too good about yourself, they have this thing called the Internet. You can find a lot of people there who don’t like you. I’d like to address some of them now. BabsonLacrosse, you can suck it. DianeFan, you can suck it. Cougar Letter, you can really suck it ’cause you’ve been after me all year.”

Colin Ferell Gemini with Taurus Mercury (after sniffing on stage)
“I still have a cold…it’s not the other thing it used to be!”

Sally Hawkins Taurus with Taurus Mercury
“I’ll be celebrating by having a couple of pints of champagne!”

Megan Fox Taurus with Taurus Mercury
“I’m a tranny. I’m a man…I’m so painfully insecure, I’m about to vomit. I’m so horrified that I’m here right now and embarrassed.”

posted May 20, 2012 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
What kinda aspects are those? I have planets in h3 and h7.

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